Do You Have Any Books to Improve Yourself?

1 逆 Reverse Thinking Li Leicompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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Reverse thinking is a unique thinking ability. This book uses a large number of stories and famous quotes to inspire readers to break their inertial thinking, provide direction for people in trouble, and allow people to understand the truth and improve themselves while reading.

2 认 Cognitive Dividend Xie Chunlincompleted 25.6kReads9.6Score—Shelves

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Reverse thinking is a unique thinking ability. This book uses a large number of stories and famous quotes to inspire readers to break their inertial thinking, provide direction for people in trouble, and allow people to understand the truth and improve themselves while reading.

3 花 Flower Lane Feng Jicaicompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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Reverse thinking is a unique thinking ability. This book uses a large number of stories and famous quotes to inspire readers to break their inertial thinking, provide direction for people in trouble, and allow people to understand the truth and improve themselves while reading.

4 我 I'm as Timid as a Mouse Written by Yu Huacompleted 36.3kReads9.5Score—Shelves

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Reverse thinking is a unique thinking ability. This book uses a large number of stories and famous quotes to inspire readers to break their inertial thinking, provide direction for people in trouble, and allow people to understand the truth and improve themselves while reading.

5 行 Encyclopedia of Behavioral Psychology Xing Yilincompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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From understanding human nature to personal improvement, this is by no means a simple improvement in the level of knowledge, but a leap in cognitive levels❕ 🔅No one can escape the complexity of human nature and how to behave in the world. Real maturity starts from understanding human nature. In the end, you will find that you are just one person, with everything and nothing. 🔆The last book, a classic work by Junichi Watanabe, teaches you to calmly face the setbacks and pains in life and learn to be "insensitive" 🌐These are excellent works worth reading over and over again. Involving knowledge only improves test-taking ability, while introducing human nature and understanding life will benefit you for life. Come on,

6 社 Social Phobia Psychology Written by Li Ruifangcompleted —Reads9.2Score—Shelves

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From understanding human nature to personal improvement, this is by no means a simple improvement in the level of knowledge, but a leap in cognitive levels❕ 🔅No one can escape the complexity of human nature and how to behave in the world. Real maturity starts from understanding human nature. In the end, you will find that you are just one person, with everything and nothing. 🔆The last book, a classic work by Junichi Watanabe, teaches you to calmly face the setbacks and pains in life and learn to be "insensitive" 🌐These are excellent works worth reading over and over again. Involving knowledge only improves test-taking ability, while introducing human nature and understanding life will benefit you for life. Come on,

7 人 The Complete Collection of Human Weaknesses (Classic Collector's Edition) Carnegie, D.completed —Reads9.6Score—Shelves

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From understanding human nature to personal improvement, this is by no means a simple improvement in the level of knowledge, but a leap in cognitive levels❕ 🔅No one can escape the complexity of human nature and how to behave in the world. Real maturity starts from understanding human nature. In the end, you will find that you are just one person, with everything and nothing. 🔆The last book, a classic work by Junichi Watanabe, teaches you to calmly face the setbacks and pains in life and learn to be "insensitive" 🌐These are excellent works worth reading over and over again. Involving knowledge only improves test-taking ability, while introducing human nature and understanding life will benefit you for life. Come on,

8 钝 Insensitive Force Written by Junichi Watanabe; Translated by Li Yingyuecompleted —Reads7.5Score—Shelves

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From understanding human nature to personal improvement, this is by no means a simple improvement in the level of knowledge, but a leap in cognitive levels❕ 🔅No one can escape the complexity of human nature and how to behave in the world. Real maturity starts from understanding human nature. In the end, you will find that you are just one person, with everything and nothing. 🔆The last book, a classic work by Junichi Watanabe, teaches you to calmly face the setbacks and pains in life and learn to be "insensitive" 🌐These are excellent works worth reading over and over again. Involving knowledge only improves test-taking ability, while introducing human nature and understanding life will benefit you for life. Come on,

9 图 Illustrated Yoga and Pilates Yuan Yuancompleted —Reads8.9Score—Shelves

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Build a good posture, Pilates exercise, easy to learn and can be practiced at home

10 所 The So-Called High Emotional Intelligence Means Being Able to Speak Written by Keiichi Sasaki and Translated by Cheng Liangcompleted —Reads9.0Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

11 高 High Emotional Intelligence Chat Skills Zhang Chaocompleted 3kReads9.3Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

12 回 Talk Back Technology Duanmu Is at Easecompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

13 关 Crucial Conversations: How to Communicate Effectively (Original Book 2Nd Edition) (Collector's Edition) [US] Written by Corey Patterson, Written by Joseph Greaney, Written by Ron Mcmillan, Written by Al Switzler, Translated by Bi Chongyicompleted —Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

14 非 Nonviolent Communication (Revised Edition) [US] Written by Marshall Luxemburg, Translated by Liu Yi, Reviewed by Li Diyajincompleted —Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

15 别 Don't Eat Alone: ​​85% of Success Comes from Effective Social Skills (U. S. A.) Written by Keith Farage, Tal Rez; Translated by Top Ten Networkcompleted —Reads9.2Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

16 非 Unfeeling*** completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

17 掌 Take Control of the Conversation Chris Voss; Tahl Raz, Translated by Zhao Kuncompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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From Social Fear to Social Awesomeness, I have read these 8 books to death. Many people should be the same as me. They have suffered a loss because they can't speak. When chatting, they were left out because they couldn't speak. During interviews, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. When working, they were rejected because they couldn't speak. A mouth that can talk is really important~~!!! Knowledge of human relations is an article, and understanding of everything is knowledge. In fact, good eloquence and emotional intelligence can be cultivated. There are 8 good books to improve emotional intelligence. Each of them is worth taking the time to read. The first book "High EQ means being able to speak" Speaking is an art, and a just right word may change a person's destiny. This book summarizes the "7 breakthroughs" and "8 skills" on how to speak, and teaches us how to cultivate our speaking ability and improve our speaking level, better master and use language phrasing skills, and become a master of speaking. Many methods in the book can be used directly, allowing us to avoid detours and master speaking skills in the shortest possible time! The second book "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence" combines rich and detailed cases to introduce eloquence knowledge closely related to work and life, allowing readers to master the art of speaking to different people on different occasions in a short time. The book introduces how to follow the golden rules of chatting, how to make good use of the other party's psychology to make chatting more effective, how to say nice words to move people's hearts more, how to reject people without leaving any trace, how to persuade others skillfully, how to say silly things that make people happy, and how to criticize without offending others. Develop good conversation skills so that we can go smoothly when chatting with others. The third book "The Technique of Replying" The technique of replying that touches people's hearts can increase a person's popularity. If you reply well, you will not be afraid of communication, and you will be able to take the initiative in the conversation. Replies are well-founded and well-reasoned. You can easily solve various problems and make beautiful replies. This book teaches us various answering skills and greatly improves our ability to answer questions. We must not only answer correctly, but also answer well. Replying is the art of communication. Being good at replying will make you popular and win opportunities. Book 4, "Crucial Conversations" After reading this book, I am no longer afraid of conversations with my boss, nor am I worried about what I should or should not say. More importantly, the behavior that was once tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it has been improved. This book teaches us various communication skills, such as promotion, salary increase, interview, going to a friend's house, and the first blind date, so that we will no longer be silent. Book 5 "Non-Violent Communication" Non-violent communication requires us to express ourselves truthfully and not to make people guess in too many roundabout ways, so that both parties will understand each other better. If you are dissatisfied, just tell the other party directly what should be done. The book introduces the 4-step method of non-violent communication: 1. State your observations 2. Express your feelings 3. State your needs 4. Express your requests correctly and directly The 6th book "Don't Eat Alone" Don't be dissuaded by the title, it is a good book worth reading. The author Farage believes that 85% of a person's success comes from social skills. In the book, he puts forward many beneficial social rules to help us gain more valuable connections. Among them, being generous to others is the point of view that I most agree with. In short, being altruistic can ultimately benefit oneself. We should not always think about asking for things, but focus on what value you have to me. It's about knowing how to give and deepen the connection by helping each other. The 7th book "Non-Emotional Communication" is a sunflower guide for workers in the workplace. After reading it, you will learn how to deal with friction at work skillfully and how to refuse without embarrassing both parties. Whether you are an ordinary employee or a worker in management, you can find the answer and help you easily resolve those embarrassing moments in the workplace. The 8th book "Controlling the Conversation" has achieved two leaps from practice to theory and then to practice. Starting from actual negotiations on the front line of production, we introduce strategies and techniques for controlling conversations, and finally implement them into real scenarios in everyone's daily life: convincing your former leader to agree to a job transfer, getting your boss to be willing to give you a salary increase, getting a good price without doing anything... Life itself is one conversation after another, and we need to go all out! Author Chris Voss creates language patterns that work at any time.

18 肯 Affirm Yourself, Change Yourself, and Surpass Yourself Complete Collection Kinsey, Ed.completed —Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

19 人 Wisdom of Life [Germany] Written by Schopenhauer; Compiled by Zhuang Zhibeicompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

20 心 Psychology*** completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

21 穷 The Poor Have Poor Pockets, the Rich Have Rich Heads Zeng Yixiangcompleted —Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

22 好 Good Eloquence Makes a Woman's Life Prosperouscompleted —Reads9.5Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

23 幸 Three Treasures of Happiness: Able to Eat, Able to Sleep, and Able to Think Clearly Compiled by Qing Pingcompleted —Reads9.2Score—Shelves

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These books will benefit you throughout your life, especially the book on eloquence, which will help you become a successful woman and also be able to deal with villains.

27 紫 The Complete Book of Ziwei Dou Shu Chen Tuancompleted 5.8kReads9.4Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

28 麻 Mai Look Taoist in Sackclothcompleted 550Reads8.5Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

29 黄 Golden Policy Liu Jicompleted 347Reads8.5Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

32 白 Three Essentials of Yangzhai in Vernacular Written by Zhao Jiufengcompleted 4.4kReads9.4Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

33 柳 Liuzhuang Shenxiang Yuanliuzhuangcompleted 1.7kReads9.4Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

35 阳 Three Essentials of Yangzhai Zhao Jiufengcompleted 1.2kReads9.3Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

36 鬼 Guiguzi's Modern Lessons: Contemporary Social Survival Rules Guiguzicompleted —Reads8.7Score—Shelves

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The power of a classic is to stand the test of time!

37 不 It's Not That the World Is Bad, It's That You Know Too Little Compiled by Chen Fenglingcompleted —Reads8.7Score—Shelves

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The simple and easy-to-understand words allow you to understand many social rules, which is of great benefit to those who are not very good at talking. Being confused and shrewd, knowing how to advance and retreat, learning to be flexible, being able to speak, and learning to bow your head is a kind of knowledge. The complexity of human nature always reminds us to be careful when speaking.

38 赞 The Art of Praise Written by Chen Haocompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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[Like] [Like] [Like] These books are all good. Especially the first one, you can learn it and apply it immediately. Everyone longs to be praised deep in their hearts. When you truly learn the art of complimenting, work and love will go smoothly.

39 吸 The Law of Attraction: the Personal Magnetic Field Response That Makes People Suddenly Feel Excited Shayacompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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[Like] [Like] [Like] These books are all good. Especially the first one, you can learn it and apply it immediately. Everyone longs to be praised deep in their hearts. When you truly learn the art of complimenting, work and love will go smoothly.

40 爆 Explosive Growth: 14 Underlying Logics for Personal Breakthrough Written by Li Xurancompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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[Like] [Like] [Like] These books are all good. Especially the first one, you can learn it and apply it immediately. Everyone longs to be praised deep in their hearts. When you truly learn the art of complimenting, work and love will go smoothly.

41 穷 The Poor Work Hard, the Rich Borrow Their Strength: New Ideas for Getting Rich in the Internet Era Written by Cai Fuqiangcompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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[Like] [Like] [Like] These books are all good. Especially the first one, you can learn it and apply it immediately. Everyone longs to be praised deep in their hearts. When you truly learn the art of complimenting, work and love will go smoothly.

42 快 Quickly Develop the Vest Line Compiled by Fu Ziyicompleted —Reads8.5Score—Shelves

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This should count, right?

47 元 Metacognition: Changing the Brain's Stubborn Thinking (US) David Disalvocompleted —Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.

48 重 Reshape the Brain, Reshape Life (US) Written by Norman Doidge, Translated by Hong Lancompleted —Reads9.2Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.

49 重 Reshape Your Super Brain: Build Your Peak State Zhu Liyancompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.

50 大 Big Dive* completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.

51 全 The Method of Total Concentration (US) Written by Thomas M. Sterner; Translated by Zhou Lipingcompleted —Reads9.2Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.

52 我 I Have Three Heads Ziducompleted —Reads—Score—Shelves

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Improve yourself and strive to become who you are in your heart.