Insensitive Force

Sudden feeling is a kind of ability. To sum up, don't be too sensitive to anything, don't be too hasty to judge, don't be too eager to get some kind of answer. The same is true whether you are interacting with people in life or work. Sometimes being too sensitive can make us suffer, or make wrong judgments or actions. Communication between people requires multiple perspectives. We cannot see things 100% from the perspective of others, so we should not use our own subjective consciousness to easily judge other people's behavior. If we slow down our reaction, the truth will not be late, and there may be better results. This book mainly talks about the benefits of the sudden sense, and increases our understanding of the sudden sense. Sensitive people should know how to use this ability. Sensitive people will understand the importance of insensitivity.

The first time I heard about this book was when Mao Xiaotong mentioned it in a variety show. This book is really well written. As I continued reading, I became distracted. He made me understand the importance of the power of pause, and I have to cultivate it well.

In fact, this is the first time I have come across the term insensitive force. The author's book revolves around the three words "insensitive power". In fact, it can be summed up in one sentence. Whether it is work or life, a relationship between lovers, parents, colleagues, and a series of interpersonal relationships, you need to have a mentality that does not care about other people's opinions, is not so sensitive, and is more tolerant and generous. Don't live so tightly, but relax a little. The author's examples also talk a lot about the physical and psychological benefits of maintaining a good mentality of "desensitization." Generally speaking, I hope that we don't care too much about other people's opinions, just live a good life for yourself, and don't have too much emotional fluctuations, otherwise it will affect your body and psychology. To live longer and resist disease, you have to listen less, talk less, and look at yourself more.

For the sensitive me, after reading this book, my dull sensitivity was stimulated, and I gradually became happy.

Sensitivity is valuable. People with sensitivity can often embrace the world with a brilliant perspective and have no regrets like moths to a flame. But because of this, they are also more vulnerable to injury and can easily have their wings broken in the turmoil. And having the power of insensitivity is like having a protective shield. You can concentrate on indulging in your own spiritual cabin and be less likely to be hit by wind and rain. The power of insensitivity has its own unique charm. When you no longer easily accept the malice of others, your heart will calm down. Xunzi said, "A gentleman's ears do not listen to obscene sounds, his eyes do not see evil colors, and his mouth does not speak evil words", while Tang Monk said, "The place where you look back every time is the Lingshan Mountain." You can ignore what other people think and go out into your own world. Being sensitive but not dull, hurt feelings are easy to pass away. Sadness only hurts, and it will eventually harm oneself. Only by learning from the lessons of our predecessors can we find the right path.

All in all, don't pay too much attention to the voices from the outside world, pay more attention to yourself, and pay less attention to other people's opinions and evaluations. After hearing the criticism, you should change it and encourage it if it is not, rather than holding a grudge. So this requires us to show our broad mind. Don't always worry about small details. Carelessness and informality are the best. The same goes for lovers, don't be too harsh on your partner. After all, you are not that perfect. On the contrary, it will be sweeter if you worry less about the little things. This book is still very good. Like it very much. It just tells us not to be too hard on ourselves. Having a good time is what matters.

Junichi Watanabe's "Insensitive Power" teaches us how to develop a better mentality and state in today's turbulent and changing era, so as to ensure our insensitive power and help us better cope with the difficulties and setbacks in life. The author uses vivid metaphors and stories in the book to make abstract psychological concepts vivid and interesting, allowing readers to easily understand the true meaning of insensitivity and better apply the mentality of insensitivity to their own lives and work.

I have a sensitive constitution. I hope I can have insensitivity in the future.

Controlling emotions is a compulsory course for everyone. This is a practical read on emotional intelligence and psychological growth. It teaches readers how to develop their own emotional stress tolerance and psychological resilience in a simple and easy-to-understand way. This book emphasizes the importance of emotions and provides practical methods and techniques to help people better cope with life's challenges and stresses. It is an inspiring read that guides readers toward emotional balance and inner growth.

People must have the power of insensitivity, neither too much nor too little. It will make people open-minded. To put it bluntly, insensitivity is like being heartless. It doesn't care about anyone. Your own happiness is the most important. I wish everyone has the power of insensitivity and lives happily.

Sometimes it may be better to be dull, as the title of the book suggests, "blindness." Don't be so sensitive to many things and don't be so anxious to make judgments. Only by being blunter and slower can you prevent yourself from being hurt too much. Modern society accepts too much and complicated information, and even a lot of the information may not be true. If you are too sensitive to this, you are likely to be misled, or even misunderstood and misunderstood, which will only increase your troubles. Therefore, you don't have to be too sensitive or concerned about what others say. If you want to understand someone, it's best to feel it yourself rather than hearsay. The full picture is unknown and no comment will be made. If you are not too sensitive, you will not be hurt too much in life, just like being wise and foolish.

I finished reading this book in just over an hour A lot of the content in it requires almost no thought. It seems to make sense, but it doesn't seem very logical. I just want to read it and finish it. If you have learned something, just say it If a person is jealous of you, it is because he is not as good as you and not as talented as you, so he is jealous of you. All you have to do is ignore the existence of these people and make yourself better and better. And some of the examples and passages written in this book are quite funny. Especially the author said that men are inherently weaker than women Just judge the strength based on the amount of bleeding. They also say that men just look strong, but in fact most of them are bones. No matter how thin a woman looks, she still has a lot of fat. It's quite speechless, but very interesting. Although it contains some fallacies, you still have to distinguish clearly which ones are right and which ones are wrong. You can't let the author lead you by the nose. I think men are stronger than women Whether it's physical or mental, or insensitivity, or the handling of interpersonal relationships Or some people will say that I am elevating men and belittling women. But in fact it is Men are much more adaptable than women There are many things that men don't care too much about. Women are too sensitive and worry about trivial matters that make them anxious and unhappy.

The power of insensitivity does not make you completely indifferent to the outside world, but also allows you to develop an indifferent mentality, learn to ignore the trivial matters in life, and focus on the things you really care about.

After reading this book, I realized that being heartless is not just an act, but an open-minded attitude towards life. I learned that today! Thanks to the author.

After reading this book, I thought about myself and suddenly realized that I am too sensitive, especially at work, and care too much about some things and other people's opinions. This is also a bad personality! I care a lot about the negative consequences that my words and deeds will have on others. Thinking too much will indeed cause some trouble to my life. I hope that after reading this book, I can change this aspect and make my life easier. Overall, this book still gave me some inspiration and insights. Still a good book!

"Not being confused by trivial matters is a manifestation of blunt sensitivity and the most important basic talent in life." This sentence is very impressive! Everyone needs the power of insensitivity, especially the type like me: extroverted and lively, lack of patience, sensitive inside, insecure... They need the power of insensitivity even more. This book allowed me to update my knowledge and re-understand many things: autonomic nervous system, sleep quality, love relationships, work, adaptation to the environment, and family. These things are closely related to oneself, and how to get along better requires insensitivity. I also collected some information to better understand and use [Insensitive Power] 1. In terms of human emotions: The power of insensitivity is a powerful weapon against negative emotions from the outside world. A person with insensitivity can better resist the influence of negative emotions. We block out unfriendly things that happen in the outside world, thereby reducing the impact of the outside world on our emotions, maintaining a comfortable mood, and shaping our own rhythm of life. 2. In terms of human sleep: There are not a few people who suffer from insomnia nowadays, and most of them are because they think too much. They close their eyes and wonder: Should I not talk like that today? Does so-and-so seem to roll his eyes at me today because he has a problem with me... If you want to sleep well, you have to think less. 3. In terms of interpersonal communication: In team activities, there may be many situations where the right thing is wrong and the wrong person is right. However, sensitive people will over-analyze and feel that others are targeting them, making them depressed and easily alienated from other members of the group. People with a certain degree of insensitivity are able to communicate better with other members of the team without sticking to trivial matters. Supplement 4. In terms of physical health: If you are too sensitive and easily agitated, your blood vessels will narrow and your blood pressure will rise. But keeping your senses dull can make you feel happy and your blood flow smooth. There was a case where someone suffered from gastric ulcer due to excessive mental stress. It is because excessive sensitivity produces greater mental stress, and people are prone to feeling restless and irritable, which can lead to narrowing of blood vessels, slowing of circulation, and ulceration of the gastric mucosa.

Although there are indeed many places in this book that are worthy of criticism. The author seems to have written the article around the power of insensitivity, but I think he won when he brought up the power of insensitivity. In fact, it is still very beneficial to read it. Let's take the essence and discard the dross. I still recommend everyone to read it. I hope more people will read it and benefit from it.

Regardless of the content of the book, the author's purpose is to allow readers to relax themselves no matter in life, work or study, have appropriate insensitivity, and not be sensitive to everything or care about everything. Perhaps life will be much brighter if you accept everything calmly and calmly.

Be aware of the things in front of you, don't take everything personally, and think about the good in everything! If thinking about it won't help, it's better to have a good night's sleep! Learn how to push beyond the limits and work hard for praise. Of course, don't be stingy with your own praise. Who doesn't love nice words? !

In this book, the author states at the beginning that blunt sensitivity is a rare talent. The author describes the power of dullness in the book, which can help us stay calm in an environment full of thorns, and help us maintain the motivation to move forward under harsh setbacks. The author uses his own real cases and vivid and interesting stories to describe the meaning of insensitive power and its manifestations in various aspects. After reading this book, we will have a deeper understanding of ourselves and a deeper understanding of the power of insensitivity.

The book gives many examples of things that may happen in life. It provides a comprehensive introduction to the power of enlightenment, which helped me learn not to be so sensitive to things in life, to muddle through without worrying too much about what others say, and to handle things calmly and calmly. Be blunt, slow down, and treat life optimistically and positively. Only with blunt sensitivity, many things will be solved easily. Don't get stuck on small things, be informal, treat what happens generously, and be generous.

This book mainly uses the facial features, cancer, love, scolding, encountering jealousy, adapting to the environment, and maternal love as topics to expand on the belated sudden feeling and introduce its advantages. Compared with sensitive people, insensitive people are better in other aspects. I have always thought that women are the most sensitive. After reading "Insensitive Power", I had a clear understanding that men are more sensitive than women in other areas.

It feels good. A relaxed life will be comfortable, but some problems require more sensitivity.

What I have learned from the power of insensitivity is to teach you not to be hasty in doing things, to be calm when things happen, and to spread bad things about you when you encounter people who are jealous of you. Don't let others influence your emotions. How should you respond to others? Think calmly and do your own thing well.

The first time I heard the term "insensitive power" was from Teacher He Jiong! Then I saw that there are actually many things in real life that require the use of insensitivity to solve problems. For example, when dealing with gossip, the best way is to learn to block outside voices that have nothing to do with you, just be yourself, and there is no need to care too much about other people's opinions. The opposite word is "sensitive". In life, I feel that I fall into this category, and it is easy to fall into deep thought because of other people's words. For this reason, after reading this book, you still need to learn to apply your blunt sensitivity, at least you don't have to worry too much before making a decision, which will only increase worries. As far as relationships are concerned, I personally feel that it is still necessary to exert the role of insensitivity. Whether it is family affection, friendship or love, it needs a moderate amount of insensitivity to support it! "Slow" perception has also become a compliment in this book! [Exploration][exploration]

The more insensitive you are to the outside world, the easier your life will be. This book puts forward the unique concept of "blindness": bluntness is not dullness, but the endurance to face setbacks and injuries, and the strength to move forward firmly in difficult situations. The power of insensitivity allows us to maintain a good attitude under pressure and not be disturbed by negative evaluations from the outside world; The power of insensitivity allows us to better understand others in interpersonal relationships and reduce unnecessary contradictions and conflicts; The power of insensitivity allows us to be more patient when facing the twists and turns of love, so as to manage and protect a relationship; Insensitiveness allows us to withstand criticism and accusations in workplace competition and turn pressure into motivation. Having a dull sense is not a numbness to life, but a wise philosophy of life. It allows us to deal with it calmly in a complicated world, maintain inner peace and determination, and face the challenges of life with a more positive attitude. [Three core questions] 1. What is insensitivity? : Insensitivity is the ability to face setbacks and injuries calmly, without being sensitive or vulnerable. (After being criticized by the leader at work, he will not blame himself for making mistakes, nor will he fall into self-denial because of the leader's scolding) 2. What role does insensitivity play in interpersonal relationships? : It can make people more tolerant and understanding of others, reduce conflicts and contradictions, and enhance mutual feelings. (Friends sometimes speak directly to each other. If you have a blunt sense, you will not get angry easily and the friendship will last longer) 3. How to cultivate insensitivity? : Through self-awareness and mentality adjustment, don't dwell on trivial matters and don't care too much about other people's evaluations. (Don't always worry about whether your performance in social situations is perfect, try to change your mind and focus on the content of communication rather than the form) Content Sharing 1. "Once you make up your mind, you can ignore the looks and rumors of people around you and proceed resolutely. Even if you hear other people's sarcasm, you will still have a "nothing to do with me" attitude and move forward bravely. This kind of insensitivity is the driving force for people to succeed when they challenge new fields." 2. "Although insensitivity sometimes gives people the negative impression of being slow and dull, insensitivity is our means and wisdom to win a better life." 3. "For health, the most important thing is to keep the blood flowing smoothly all over the body. For this reason, the blood vessels need to be kept in a state of relaxation. The nerves that control the blood vessels are called autonomic nerves. Try to avoid stimulating the autonomic nerves and keep them in a relaxed state. This is extremely critical to promoting unimpeded blood circulation throughout the body, and insensitive force can play a big role in this aspect." 4. "Once I am criticized by someone, I feel that the other person is absolutely right and that my idea is wrong. Therefore, I always accept it sadly instead of fighting tenaciously." 5. "The ability to push your limits is very important. The more others attack you, the more you have to persevere. Only by having this kind of insensitivity and being able to move forward when you are rejected or denied can you succeed."

When I first read the book, I just blindly emphasized the importance of insensitivity and cited some cases. At most, there were only a few sentences such as "Indecision, from time to time, don't think about it, just move forward." This kind of vernacular words that we know but can't do. But when I read a few more chapters, I found that I really seemed to have a sense of insensitivity. At that time, I realized that it was these seemingly useless vernacular words in the book that invisibly changed my every move.

The author ends the book with this passage. Only with this kind of dullness, sharpness and sensitivity can we become real talents, so that we can play our due role on the road of life and calmly face the setbacks and pains in life. And what is insensitivity? The book writes about being calm in a harsh growing environment, being calm in a work environment where colleagues are not harmonious, actively facing the pain of malignant diseases, getting used to each other in a harmonious love relationship... In short, no matter what goes well or not, facing everything in life with a positive attitude is the best explanation for the power of insensitivity.

The author combined his own medical knowledge to write this book, which I think is very good so that readers can gain some medical knowledge while reading the book. Generally speaking, literary novels are dull and boring, but this book gave me some surprises from time to time, making me want to read on.

It's easy to understand. I use examples to tell the truth. I've benefited a lot. I'm a lot more open-minded. I have a helpful blunt sensitivity. It refers to having a slow and strong nerve. I won't have emotional fluctuations because of trivial things. If I don't get involved, I won't be hurt. In fact, most of the time, I am more serious with myself.