Girl, You Live Too Softly!

This is a book about a correct view of love. The author does not ask you, nor does she preach to you. She uses her own personal experience and the personal experience of her friends around her, and the conclusion she draws after thinking is directly exposed in front of our readers. If you do not have enough patience to try for a long time, then I hope you will read this book carefully and then think. I hope each of us can find the meaning of our own life. The things that make us happy are not locking ourselves in a small room, regulating ourselves but never going out to watch and touch the sunshine in life.

I finished reading it in two days. It is the first time I have read such a real and down-to-earth book with such a strong sense of empathy. I am about the same age as the author. I was born in 1990, came from a small county town, and now live in Changsha. When I read a chapter, I cried uncontrollably because I used to be a pleaser. I prioritized others and ignored myself. Feeling, now that I have "awakened", I have decided to live for myself, but people around me say that I have changed, become selfish, and am no longer as sensible as before. I don't care anymore, I know what I want, and I no longer care about other people's evaluation of me. I am really happy and comfortable this way, and I finally found myself again.

It's a really good book. It's very helpful to me at the age of twenty-two. It corrected many of my misconceptions. In this book, you can feel the same way as the author. The love, friendship and family relationships written in it also made me empathize with myself. I also changed myself and opened up the pattern. I recommend everyone to watch it [Like] [Blow Kiss]

This sister's book really made me see the light through the fog. It is so similar to myself. The title of the book is also very good and attractive. It turns out that I am not the only one who is troubled by some problems. I hope that those who are troubled by the problems can read it to make themselves happy and motivated.

The author is really a photographer of life [like it], the drama is realistic and very close to life. In the beginning, he always wore shoes one size smaller, maybe just to conform to the crowd, but little did he know that it was just to cover up his toes of different lengths, to hide the unknown ridicule and the pitiful inferiority complex. Many of them list short stories in life to explain some insights. I like this narrative method [Like] Through the world in the book, I can understand the truth of life and find the answers I don't know in life. This may be one of the few ways to redeem myself at the moment! I hope that people with beautiful hearts in the world will be treated gently by time and the world, and find their own light in the gaps of time.

The three views are very correct. At the very least, it has revealed the shy feelings of many girls, and told many people that it is not so much drama in my heart. It turns out that my needs are not selfish...

I read this book in two days. I felt that I read it very quickly. It took me 1.5 Hours to read it. I usually read 100,000 words in an hour. Could it be that this book is so good that I read it a bit slowly? Really unconsciously

It is very necessary for adolescent children to see that without chicken soup, the world would be sober.

The principles of life are told through real-life stories. Sometimes fairy tale-like novels are really charming after reading them for a long time. It would be a bad thing to let go and see the reality. As a post-00s student, I really benefited a lot from reading this book. Whether it is about the love between men and women or the small things in life, it is like a bright light illuminating a big hole. The warning education inspires readers, which is really great [Love]

Very good. I can calm down and read a book recently. I like the examples given by the author! Sometimes it really suits me! I learned a lot. I also encountered some bad things in college. After reading this book, I suddenly became enlightened [Love]

It is a very real and beautiful book. The insights derived from real examples around me made me see a clear-headed and confident person. There is a lot in the book worth learning. We should also learn to love ourselves and treat various things in life rationally. Come on!

This book gave me a deep understanding, some of which I have also encountered, especially the last story, where you have to face the pitfalls of your colleagues every day. Obviously you know it is a pit, but you have to jump out, because I am not very good at expressing myself. If you fight back, everyone in the company will know that you are an "unreasonable person" within a few hours. I feel really tired every day. I really want to get rid of this feeling, but I don't know how to do it [crying] [crying]

I think this is a very refreshing and healing book. The language is simple and every sentence is reasonable. The author is really serious and sincere in communicating with readers. It can be used as an outlet when one's own negative energy is overwhelming. [Shy] Finally, I want to say that when you come to the human world once, be a bright person and don't wrong yourself, because when the body and mind are inconsistent, the soul will suffer. To have a treasured story, to see the mountains and rivers and the sunset, to make this life worthwhile. [Learned]

The author is writing his own story, but it also feels like he is writing my story. The child's malice is straightforward and dazzling, and it deeply penetrates the sensitive and fragile heart of young people. Parents' love is strong and awkward. They clearly love their children but don't know how to express it. Sometimes getting along with your lover can be overwhelming, and sometimes it can be as dull as water. You clearly understand that the other person is the person who has been with you throughout your life. You are so familiar with the person that you know what the other person is doing when he sticks out his butt. The author's writing style is very good, which resonates a lot with me and makes me feel a lot. Some things that I didn't understand will suddenly become clear to me after the author's narration. A book that has benefited a lot and is worth reading.

Overall feeling: Very understandable and touched me a lot. Because I have read it before, I have forgotten the content of the book, but this book is very good. Although my impression is vague, this book is really great. Other chicken soup books are always similar in large content. This book is more relevant to reality. I like this kind of true story very much. From the text, I can feel the author's warm "inner words" coming from women. Highly recommended. You can read this book when you have time.

After reading it, the author touched my heart in many aspects. It makes me particularly uncomfortable to watch. These are some points that I didn't understand before. I always felt that sincerity was exchanged for sincerity, but I never thought that it was your quality and not someone else's. I feel sorry for some of the author's experiences, and I'm glad that the author came out and is now doing well. There may be a lot of frustrations and happiness in life. Cherish the present moment, stay away from people who bring you more negative energy than positive energy, and love yourself.

After listening to the author's book, I have a lot of insights. I hope we can all be ourselves, accept our shortcomings, and look at ourselves and others with appreciation. Don't be tied down by the world, live the way you like.

I was deeply drawn into the story told by the author (whether it was my own or someone else's). If I could read this book at the age of 20, I would definitely be enlightened. The author came out of his ignorant youth and summed up some life insights after many hardships, which resonated strongly with me at the age of 30. She tells you like a big sister, live bravely, move forward with your head held high, neither humble nor arrogant, and use self-confidence and self-love to attract good things to happen. I hope every girl can shine, instead of attaching her value to other people or things.

This book is worth reading. I learned a lot and better healed my childhood self and my current self. I believe I will get better and better in my future life.

The book uses a large number of cases to describe what the author sees, hears and feels, and uses his own real experience to describe it. The subject matter is novel and the writing is very good. It can be mapped to your own spiritual world and experience. I also hope that readers who read this book will strive to become a person with a free soul.

I am very lucky to read this book. Thanks to the author for his detailed description. It feels like two people are having a family time. The language expression is accurate and accurate. I feel that I have found a mouthpiece and an outlet. The author's words are very healing, as if there is someone patting you on the back to comfort you: It's okay, this is not your problem. If you encounter this kind of thing in the future, just solve it according to the method I said. Girl, when facing those who are not kind to us, don't be too soft-tempered, show some momentum, and leave our kindness to those who deserve it. You deserve to be cherished and treated well by better people. I wish you all to become better and better selves

The writing is very good. I recommend all girls to read it. It's really good.

This is my second brush. I was looking for a book to divert my attention when I was anxious and internally consumed. I found this book. I can see my own shadow in every chapter. As the title of the book says, my life is too soft. I can be kind, but I have to be sharp and don't get stuck in the quagmire, but I am immersed in it. I can also find answers to the questions that once puzzled me. It is really a good book.

In fact, I didn't finish it. I endured the discomfort several times and didn't finish it. Because there were mirrors everywhere, I accidentally saw myself in the mirror who grew up confused and frightened. I thought about how great it would be to have such a mentor who was both a teacher and a friend during those years of stumbling and growing up. He was emotionally stable and gentle. But when I looked up in the mirror, there was only a middle-aged man with a tired and confused face. This book is a good book and suitable for young people to read slowly.

Yes, it took me a long time to read this book, and I have deep feelings. The most important thing is to live well in the moment. Don't think too much. Just do whatever you want to do. Don't care about other people's opinions. After all, you only live this once.

I was deeply inspired after reading this book - it combines the author's personal experiences with emotional stories (such as family, friends, love) shared by others, which have a positive impact on our daily lives. (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧I hope you can also learn some practical knowledge or lessons from this book and apply it to your study and work scenarios! 👍📚

Different from ordinary inspirational chicken soup articles, this book shares real examples of myself and those around me, telling my own state of mind and how to deal with it. It is told in a touching and touching way.

The content of this book is easy to understand, especially the first few chapters, which really touched my "weak" heart for more than ten years. In these ten years, I have always paid attention to others, but ignored that I also need to be loved and grow. In fact, a large part of the reason is the influence of my original family. Because of these, we are restricted a lot, but it cannot stop us from starting a new journey of our own.

It's a very comfortable read. Faced with all kinds of different people in life, you have to learn to balance your own relationships and decide who you want and who you don't want, otherwise it will be really tiring. Thank you bell🔔🔔🔔

It's very interesting. The stories and experiences are the same as reality. There are no exaggerations. The only shortcoming is that there is too little written. I actually finished reading it so quickly [Chigua]