Ten Years After Leaving My Jerk Ex and Marrying Again

"Ten years after staying away from the scumbag and getting married" Afterword This article started at 311 and ended at 610. It took three months to write steadily. Readers say that I have rejuvenated, but I actually feel that I am in good shape too. Writing is actually not difficult for me, and I have always been very proud of this. I'm very happy that after many years of writing, I still have some room for improvement. I have collected and written this article. There are not so many misunderstandings and bloodshed, and there is not so much heartbreaking pain. I always think that life is already so bitter, but I still need to get a little sweetness from writing. I like the character Gu Fangyuan very much. He is kind and decisive, dares to love and hate, and is sophisticated but still naive. I love his tenacity and strength, sinking and sobriety in his first relationship. He knew very well that they were no longer suitable to be together, but because of love, he was still willing to treat him well. ——I actually don't want to call this behavior a love brain. He is just kind and affectionate, which is beyond the kindness and affection of ordinary people. I also love his relaxation and restraint, dependence and independence in his second relationship. He did not trap himself in a shell, but felt everything around him with his heart, and loved the people who were worthy of his love and who loved him deeply. I really like the scene where he walks up the steps with his shoes and hugs his lover on the last step. They trust each other, they love each other, and the relationship between them is mature and long, hot and warm. I like the character Ren Wenzheng very much, and his "bird" story the most. His love for Gu Fangyuan outweighs some of the dark sides in his heart. He is smart and steady, crazy and calm. Even when he does bad things, I can't help but excuse and defend him. My feelings for Tan Shen are very complicated, so complicated that I sometimes feel that as a paper person, Tan Shen will most likely hate me. Tan Shen had a complicated childhood, childhood sweethearts, and a smart mind. If it hadn't been for a series of changes that made him stumble, he would have been able to be with Gu Fangyuan. However, in a series of changes, he failed to handle them correctly. He made the wrong choice, which also broke Gu Fangyuan's heart. Sometimes feelings may be like this, as long as you miss a step, you will make a mistake every step of the way. Sometimes when I write about his plot, I can't help but think, you will regret it, you will regret it, and sure enough, he regretted it in the end, but it didn't help. This time I tried to write about Ren Xuangu, a dark and clever kid brother. He was smart, but not dark enough. The main reason was that Gu Fangyuan gave him too much love, and Brother Zi was not too dark. I have tried my best in this article, and I am grateful to the readers who have accompanied me all the way. I hope you all enjoy reading it. See you in the next article! We should see you soon, hehe.

It has been more than half a year since I updated this article. I suddenly thought of something when I was taking a nap a few days ago, and I decided at that time that I must leave a comment. I met a person like Tan Shen. They don't know how to deal with friendship and they don't know how to love. Maybe they will suddenly wake up one day in the future, and it seems that they have done something wrong at the time, but this awakening is based on having hurt others. We have had wonderful memories, but what I want to think of again is pain. I just want to escape, but nothing can go as I wish. This novel written by my wife is very beautiful. A kind-hearted person like Yuan Yuan finally meets Da Ren and lives in a fairy tale like a little prince. But I have to say that this kind of thing is difficult to happen in reality. When we encounter a situation like Yuanyuan, we cannot hope that another person will appear and protect us forever. On the contrary, the only thing we can rely on is ourselves. Only by making ourselves strong enough can we not be affected by such people. May we all be our own Ren Wenzheng and make our hearts strong enough to protect the kindness and bravery that belongs to Gu Fangyuan in our bodies.

This may be a long review with some spoilers. Looking back, I am still a little worried about Gu Fangyuan's health. I always feel that although he has been recuperated, he is still very weak, and I am worried that he will die early. But come to think of it, Ren Wenzheng is ten years older than him? It may also make up for the age gap. And if he leaves first, at least the person who leaves first will not be so sad (maybe). There doesn't seem to be a lot of psychological description in the article, and it's more like other people's perspectives? It feels a bit more one-sided. I don't know what their psychological changes are, and what they are thinking about. It may be because of this relationship, or it may be because of the writing style (?) When watching it, I always feel that there is a lot of turmoil buried under this seemingly calm life. I always thought that there would be a terrible turning point (it was really good when it didn't), and it felt like all the predestined words were all flags. But the characters are very detailed, and many scenes made me very, very, very moved. Looking through the memo, I wrote a bunch of messy notes about my feelings about this story. In fact, it should probably be that a person like him, in other novels, would probably be redeemable if there was no Ren Zai? The good aspects are indeed good, and the bad aspects are indeed bad. Being too much towards the one you love is very bad in my opinion. "Love is always feeling indebted". I am afraid that I am not doing enough to be good to him. Even though a person may not recognize it clearly and make a mistake for a moment, (he has forgotten how he specifically wanted to remedy the situation) (in short, it is a sign of not being able to love), it is too late. If it weren't for Ren, I think the two of them might still have a sequel. If Tan's changes can be accepted by people (although I still don't like this person very much), they may be entangled for a long time, and then run into each other and get hurt... And Tan has to learn how to love. I'm so tired, and when I think about it, I feel like I might as well not love you anymore. It hurts me so much because of the tugging and tugging, which is not equivalent to owning it. (Loving you is so taxing, it hurts so much that I choose to give up) It's better to be Ren, let's talk about a comparison first, that is to say, generally in this kind of situation, there may be a possibility of getting back together. If one party is entangled and the other cannot escape and is a little soft-hearted (the same is true for many scumbags/shouwen?), However, as soon as Ren comes out, I feel that there is someone who loves you so much and knows how to love, so why else do you think about others. I was completely defeated by the PK, I just want to say that I don't have to worry about you because you have a better one (although the premise is that you are compatible with that person, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, for example, Ren's desire for control is quite strong, some aspects are actually quite scary, and it's scary to think about it) In Ren Wenzheng's words, he is the kind of "calmly crazy". He is paranoid and stubborn at heart, but very rational on the surface. The same goes for doing things, but I can't summarize them. Words like "I know you can handle it, but I don't want you to have this kind of emotion" are very doki. There are also those meticulous cares, being able to love and be romantic, and being very powerful. It has the feeling of an older person, but also a little crazy. The important thing is that he has a sense of scale and good control. Although he is good at scheming and has great ability to accomplish many things. What he wants and what he expects to develop can all be based on his ideas. Although the human heart cannot be controlled, he can still get a lot (thinking of other developments in other novels that he has read), but he, how should I say, has a bottom line? Be able to exercise restraint, do things in moderation, and know what to do and what not to do. His belief is the strongest hh in the whole article. His goal has not changed from the beginning to the end and he has been planning to achieve it. His success is what he deserves (thumb). I appreciate his bottom line. He has shortcuts but respects them and truly considers his partner's thoughts (I feel that Tan can't do that. In this way, he seems to be quite self-centered, or he will first consider what he wants and what he wants. So he really likes Ren's "respect" (it's a kind of respect, right? I've never used the right word, I can't find the exact one). Then Gu Fangyuan's words, (turning over the memo), he is sensitive and caring, gentle but firm, he is inclusive and soft-hearted. Generally speaking, he is like the emotional support of the three key characters in this article, Ren and Tan? Although the story basically revolves around him, I don't know if it's a problem with the angle, but it always feels like it's not enough. I don't see more of his sides, I can only see what's shown, like a silhouette. Maybe it's because he didn't quite describe his psychological thoughts and changes? I don't have his emotions and feelings about these things (I don't quite remember if this is the case), maybe because of this, I am always worried about whether the development of this article will be so smooth, and whether there will be any turning points, because I am not sure whether he will just live like this (just like Xiao Ren is worried about his father in Stockholm). I am worried about whether he will accept it for a while? Haven't been stirred into other ideas yet? Is there still going to be a collision between the two parties and then a break-in to create a new relationship? I didn't expect that this was actually their normal way of life. When I read the article earlier, I could see some problems, and many crazy people may have this in their possessive development. Maybe it's mainly because they can't see Gu Fangyuan's thoughts. I don't know if he likes this kind of life, or if he is looking for a way to escape. I understood it later, but I still felt a little "disharmonious". After thinking about this feeling for a long time, I finally thought, maybe it was based on myself. I felt that he was a little empty? The empty kind of emptiness (please don't call me orz if I say it wrong) is like a captive article I read a long time ago, but it's not entirely true. Even though I feel like I've lost something, I don't quite remember whether Gu Fangyuan was more lively when he was young. But now he is a bit lacking in vitality. Although he is still very fresh, he seems to be slowly withering and a little sick. He shouldn't have given up those things completely voluntarily, entering this circle and never leaving, but rather seemed to have been changed a lot, lost some, and voluntarily given up some? He doesn't have a lot of diplomacy, his circle is relatively narrow, there's nothing special in his life, and the people he contacts are always the same, so he doesn't have much energy. But maybe it's the relationship between reading and writing style? In the article, their real relationship should be much more dynamic than it seems. And his love for Ren Wenzheng, what he likes very much is the feeling of "satisfying your little quirks, satisfying your possessiveness, and satisfying your desire to control, because I don't really care about these, you will be very happy, and we will get along" hh, he poked me like crazy. After flipping through the memo, I just arrived at the site, so let's end it like this. I read this article 7 months ago. I liked it very much, but I rarely commented on it. I wanted to write down my feelings but felt it was unorganized. I just happened to find it on the way today and wanted to sort it out. I don't quite remember a lot of the plot, and the description may be problematic, but what I like about it is that I can immediately tell why I like it. Thank you so much for writing this article. In the end, I remembered that Tan's appearance was like a desensitization test for Gu Fangyuan, letting him say goodbye to the past bit by bit.

Like it very much Attack and control means complete It's really great to firmly reject your ex. I also love the crematorium hahahaha

I've found that it's easier to get emotional when following a serial. Now that it's over, I feel much calmer when I watch it. But I still really hate Tan Shen [rolls eyes]

It's beautiful. Even the exaggerated setting is not exaggerated. It's rare to see it this year.

Ren Wen was right. If time hadn't been so tight, Fangyuan would have fallen in love with him.

It's fun to watch! ! [Star Eyes][Star Eyes] I love you so much, Ritian, I must write for the rest of my life. I have finished reading the Brothers series in the past two days. It has been so enjoyable for a long time. I love you so much [Kiss]

It's very beautiful, the writing is delicate, and the protagonist's image is also great. I am already my second fan, I really recommend everyone to watch it

I really love this kind of story about losing a scumbag (ex) and finding a more suitable partner [Qingxin]