Born to Be a Perfect Match

I came here from the wheelchair book. In fact, I read that book a long time ago. I recently went through old articles and read them again. Then I clicked on the author's column and stayed up late to read this book. There is a lot I want to say, but when I start to write a long review, I don't know where to start. So let's briefly talk about the journey of reading the book. I actually didn't feel as deeply about the wheelchair book as I did this one, so I didn't write a long review for that book, but I found that the author in that book was very good at weighing things up, and the "not pure" complicated and entangled emotions he described in his writing were very accurate, and it's worth revisiting again and again. But I actually can't really sympathize with the characters of the two protagonists in that book. I can only say that I don't fully understand but respect them, so I won't go into details here. The main point is that this book made me feel deeply, perhaps because I can empathize with Jiang Zhixin to a certain extent (I agree that true love should be rational and restrained, and I agree with and even approve of many of Jiang Zhixin's remarks, but at certain moments I cannot understand it), and I once had a friend with the character of "Ji Mingyue", but I am not Jiang Zhixin and I don't love my friend. I can't understand the love-hate entanglement and nostalgia between her and "Lin Qiu" that I occasionally see in the circle of friends. I just wonder how she became like this? So while reading this book, I have been comparing and contrasting again and again, trying to find out why Ji Mingyue "loves" Lin Qiu (why did my friend fall in love with a person who taught her to drink, smoke and commit suicide, which made her suffer from severe mental illness?); Why he loves Jiang Zhixin but chooses Lin Qiu again and again (why is she always full of blood and tears, lust and hate when she recalls her ex, and still wants to get back together after so many years?); Why is Jiang Zhixin willing to give Ji Mingyue a chance again and again? At the end of this book, I still didn't understand my friend's mental journey, but I understood why I had this incomprehension, because I didn't love my friend. Love is such an amazing emotion. Rejection, choice, letting go, guidance, respect, contempt, understanding, misunderstanding, trust, doubt, happiness, and pain are all caused by it. I am not "Jiang Zhixin". All I have towards my friends is arrogance, and at most, sympathy derived from arrogance. Therefore, I cannot analyze the mental journey of this "Ji Mingyue" so clearly. Why is she like this? Not to mention not giving too much help and guidance, she will always be trapped in the past between her and her "Lin Qiu", and I am just a "former friend", and all this has nothing to do with me. My friend may have real love for her "Lin Qiu", so she can't forget it. But there is no real, two-way love between Ji Mingyue and Lin Qiu, only real love exists between him and Jiang Zhixin. Therefore, Jiang Zhixin could not accept that he was just a former friend, so he had to guide Ji Mingyue again and again, even though he became the unselected three times, so Ji Mingyue finally left Lin Qiu and was rescued. Love ultimately transcends and makes up for everything. The biggest feeling after reading it is that the author is really good at writing. It doesn't feel like the plot conflict is deliberately created to create the cruelty and excitement of the reunion, but it is a natural outcome. In other words, it is destined that things will develop like this.

After reading several articles by Ritian, I feel that Ritian is really fair to a certain extent... The combination of good people and good people will always lead to sweet articles in the end. The same goes for the wheelchair episode. If he doesn't feel good enough, he will be disabled for the rest of his life and unable to stand up for the rest of his life, but he is kind enough and sincere to Mengmeng, so it is still satisfactory in the end. The last article was so scolding because Gong's gentle nature was completely overwhelmed by the sudden wealth, and he turned into the kind of chaotic person who has no distinction between good and evil. A bad person only deserves to be mixed with bad people, and then the three of them die together without distinguishing each other...

I want to see an if line where childhood sweethearts get together naturally, and there is also a biological brother. The kind of if where the elder brother directly raises the eldest brother according to his own ideas (don't delete this, it's just raising him, I didn't say anything else)

Finished with flowers, read it in one go At the end, I still want to ask Ji whether he really loves Jiang. I really think his mental state is very unhealthy and he has completely become Jiang's vassal. I don't think he would have loved Jiang when he was young... Well, it's a bit weird. For such a person who longed for freedom and was self-centered, his feelings completely changed in the later period. It was obvious that he abandoned Jiang again and again, and then went back to punish himself with a shameful face, forcing Jiang to feel like hurting himself... Jiang still loves her so much that she washes her underwear with a cold face I will continue to follow the boss's next book.

Finished scattering flowers [spreading flowers][spreading flowers][spreading flowers]. Ji Mingyue and Jiang Zhixin will be happy forever and ever.

Ending of Spreading Flowers [Poor] Alas, I am very busy in my current life... I will re-read it carefully and make a long review after I am done with Yamiyami

This art is hard work. When I finish my work, I will paint it again from the beginning [poor]

All copywriting is recycled! ! Isn't this book very convenient for the author? It's quite smooth to follow.

Jiang Zhixin loves me so much

The ending feels a bit rushed [biting handkerchief] I always feel that this way of getting along is very different from the way of getting along before going abroad. Does Ji really love Jiang? It feels like the relationship between a pet and its owner.