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  1. Word Attack Techniques Chengjiecompleted Why are some people able to grab the other person's attention as soon as they open their mouths, cleverly guide the other person's psychology during the conversation, and quietly break through the other person's psychological defenses, while some people can only watch the person in front of them echo in confusion, nodding perfunctorily, their eyes are empty, and their thoughts are completely elsewhere? How can you speak directly to the other person's heart and make them listen to your suggestion —Reads8.8Score—Shelves
  2. Five Abilities of Love Zhao Jiongjiu130k Wordscompleted Love needs learning, marriage needs practice. Loving someone requires the ability to love, but it includes five specific abilities, which are - emotional management, alexithymia, empathy, permission, and influence. These five abilities are also specific manifestations of emotional intelligence. This book combines real cases to detail the five abilities of love, helping you re-recognize love, repair love, possess love, and spread love. —Reads8.5Score—Shelves
  3. Don't Let Your Friends Hurt You Written by Xie Guojicompleted There is a saying that often goes: "The people closest to you are often the most harmful to you; the people you trust the most often hurt you the most." Choosing friends is a technical job, what kind of people can you make friends with, what kind of people can't make friends with you, and what kind of people are superficially similar to you. Calling each other brothers and sisters, exchanging cups and cups, what kind of person is like a best friend with you, talks about everything, but stabs you —Reads9.1Score—Shelves
  4. Sense of Proportion Zhang Xiaohengcompleted "A sense of proportion" is a life principle highly praised by the People's Daily. It is a more advanced cultivation for a person and a required lesson for adults. The so-called high emotional intelligence is actually this kind of just right sense of proportion. The book "Sense of Proportion" can help you solve 90% of interpersonal problems. The sense of proportion is also a sign of a person's maturity. In interpersonal relationships, respecting each other's personal space and maintaining an appr —Reads9.1Score—Shelves
  5. You Have to Be Thoughtful When You Speak, and You Have to Be Smart When Doing Things. Ma Yinchuncompleted Being thoughtful in what you say and being smart in doing things are the two most critical points for success in life and career. They are also the two major capitals for building a successful life pattern. We talk every day, but it does not necessarily mean that we are good at talking. —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  6. A Complete Collection of People Who Know How to Behave, Speak and Do Things Fish in Watercompleted A person's way of life will be reflected in the process of speaking and doing things, and the details and attitude in speaking and doing things also reflect the style of life. If you can speak and do things, your personality charm will naturally be improved; if you can't speak or do things, you will naturally be troubled and annoying. To be a person is to do things, and to do things is to be a human being. When being a person and doing things are integrated with each other, skills are incorporat —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  7. Speech and Eloquence Ruo Mucompleted "Speech and Eloquence" Having good speech and eloquence is a proud capital. However, most of us are unable to speak in front of others. When we stand up to speak, we feel at a loss and cannot even speak a complete sentence. For these situations, we can actually sum up experience and gradually change through practice again and again. Based on the practical experience of successful speeches, this book restores the public speaking training classes. It uses concise language, wise words, and new conc —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  8. Be Careful When You Speak and Be Considerate When Doing Things Fei Yunfancompleted "Speak with Mind, Act with Mind, Know Mind" is based on this. It is based on the life that everyone knows, and uses easy-to-understand and unconventional language to recommend and analyze the life experience and skills of those people who are well-rounded in society and have both sides. Master them, and you will be able to speak like a fish in water in social situations. Of course, "scheming" is not something we are born with. This requires us to constantly learn and explore in our daily lives. —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  9. Be Careful When Socializing Compiled by Wen Wubin and Zhou Lixiacompleted Micro-movements can reveal the true psychology hidden beneath the physical surface. In daily communication, only 7% of the content is verbal communication, and most of it belongs to the category of non-verbal and micro-movements. This book systematically explains the subtle psychological activities hidden behind facial expressions and body movements, helping people better understand the inner activities and true thoughts of others and create good interpersonal relationships. This book includes c —Reads9.0Score—Shelves
  10. Super Pick-Up Skills Vestcompleted "Super Pick-up Learning" teaches people the pick-up secrets to quickly become friends with strangers. "Super Pick-up Learning" focuses on the core theme of "pick-up", and provides an all-round review from rules to techniques, and from theory to practice. It is a veritable pick-up lesson and a social guide for people in various fields, including professionals, single men and women, and school students. —Reads9.0Score—Shelves
  11. High Emotional Value Written by Wu Yunancompleted Why is my relationship so bad even though I'm nice to my partner? Why am I good to my friends, but I have no close friends? Why do I treat my employees well but they still want to leave? Why is it that when I am in the company, everyone comes to me when they need help, but no one ever thinks of me for good things? This book takes "high emotional value" as its theme and tells you through a large number of real-life examples: How to convey high-value emotions and say words that people like to hear —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  12. The Logic and Skills of Speaking Li Yanhuacompleted "The Logic and Techniques of Speaking" uses a unique perspective to apply logic to the study of daily speech, and reveals the nature and rules of the speaking process in popular and smooth writing. It also provides an in-depth analysis of dialogue and speech that are commonly needed in daily speech communication from a new logical perspective, from structure to method. "The Logic and Techniques of Speaking" not only has relevant theoretical basis, but also contains rich and detailed ancient and —Reads8.2Score—Shelves
  13. Peeping into the Heart at a Glance: Seeing the Key Details of Other People's Inner Activities Shi Yuncompleted The main content of "A Glance into the Heart: Seeing Through the Key Details of Others' Inner Activities": Observing words and expressions means not only observing the other person's behavior and small movements, but also observing and analyzing the details of the other person's clothing, appearance, car, and the environment they were in at that time. Just like Sherlock Holmes can judge the other person's identity and thoughts based on the details on his body, and grasp his pulse. —Reads8.4Score—Shelves
  14. Emotional Value: a Guide to Self-Healing from Mental Inner Conflict By Muzicompleted What problems in life often affect your mood? How to manage emotions and achieve high emotional intelligence? How to rationalize thinking and get rid of emotional problems? These problems trouble many people. Everyone understands the big principles, but has difficulty controlling small emotions. Emotions may be small, but they are powerful. Regardless of work or life, we must manage our emotions well, make good use of rational thinking, and improve our emotional intelligence. Failure is not due —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  15. If Others Don't Tell You, You Must Understand the Ways of the World Written by Mo Mocompleted The characteristics of "What Others Don't Say, You Must Understand: The Ways of the World" is that it is easy to understand, practical and effective, and does not talk about empty truths. Everything is based on real life. Through the narration of vivid and interesting life examples, it conducts a detailed and profound analysis of human nature and psychology, thus expounding a practical and effective philosophy of human relations and sophistication. Human sophistication is not a scourge, but a pr —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  16. The Art of Emotionally Intelligent Conversation Li Jiecompleted In modern society, popular people are always those who speak to make people feel comfortable, are considerate of others, and know how to be measured. Such people are well-spoken, have high emotional intelligence, never offend others with their words, and can always communicate with ease. By reading a large number of practical stories in this book, you can better master and use language phrasing skills and become a master of speaking. This book combines emotional intelligence and speaking, allowi —Reads9.0Score—Shelves
  17. A Collection of Fbi's Powerful Mind-Reading Skills (Set of 5 Volumes in Total) Jin Shengrongcompleted "FBI Super Mind Reading Collection (Set of 5 Volumes)" introduces how to communicate with different objects; how to choose the most appropriate communication method in different environments; how to solve bottlenecks and difficulties encountered in the communication process; how to complete the most effective communication at the minimum cost, etc. The editor tells readers about the FBI's psychological strategies from an objective perspective, and at the same time selects many FBI cases to furth —Reads8.6Score—Shelves
  18. Don't Speak Too Honestly Fish in the Water (Edited By)completed Many times, honesty is synonymous with stupidity and ignorance; many times, saying that a person is too honest is tantamount to mocking him as a big fool. You may often feel headaches and depression about the following problems: ●Having been content with the status quo because of fear of taking risks; ●Opportunities are missed again and again due to lack of initiative; ●Because I want to do everything by myself but fall into isolation; ●Because I hope to cover everything but often get obsessed w —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  19. Jack Ma's Emotional Intelligence Course Wang Yongjuncompleted The manuscript starts from the perspective of Ma Yun's emotional intelligence, including his qualities in emotions, emotions, will, and tolerance of frustration. It mainly introduces how Ma Yun achieved earth-shattering success with his outstanding wisdom, eloquence skills, creative thinking, etc., Despite having no funds, no background, and no technology. Tell readers that success not only depends on a person's strategic intelligence, but also, to a large extent, depends on the ability to self- —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  20. The Psychology of Eloquence That Women Need to Understand Su Qincompleted There is such a type of woman in life: she is obviously unwilling, but she does not know how to reject others; she is obviously given the opportunity to be promoted, but she does not know how to express herself; she is obviously in love with the other person, but she does not know how to express it; her words are obviously reasonable, but they are not recognized by others; her suggestions are obviously pertinent, but they are not accepted by others; she obviously has good intentions, but is trea —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  21. High Emotional Intelligence Communication Qingyincompleted This is a book that teaches people how to speak and communicate with others. How to resist parents' "loving control"? How to say it so that leaders prefer to listen? How to apologize to impress people? It's obviously a compliment, why isn't it received well? How to "advanced" gracefully in the face of verbal violence? How do ordinary people have a voice as good as a broadcaster? High EQ speech skills for talking about promotions and salary increases, and six tips for improving the quality of you —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  22. An Eloquence Class Every Day Zheng Yuelingcompleted Tell me a speaking skill you don't know every day. This book connects various eloquence skills together 365 days a year, telling a topic that is helpful for improving speaking ability every day, including basic formulas and principles about expression, and the practical application of speaking skills in social entertainment, customer communication, and even marriage and love, so that readers can use their spare time to build first-class eloquence. —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  23. Especially Good at Chatting Written by Jin Wencompleted There is a brain teaser that asks: What are the things that couples do most? Correct answer: Chat. We chat every day, but no one has ever taught us how to chat—teachers don't teach, parents don't ask. The situation was awkward because we didn't know what to say, and the atmosphere was tense because we said something wrong. When watching variety shows, we are always amazed by the host's outstanding eloquence. He will never be silent or get stuck, and he will speak every word clearly and eloquentl —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  24. Expressive Humor Liu Weicompleted Humorous expression is a manifestation of wisdom and a basic requirement for communication activities. A person who can incorporate humor into his communication often exudes charming charm. "Humorous Expression" carefully selects many cases of humorous expression. With humorous content, penetrating analysis and smart and lively writing, it explains how to use humorous language to resolve problems and enhance communication effects in different occasions such as speeches, negotiations, workplaces, —Reads9.1Score—Shelves
  25. The Psychology of Microexpressions: Essential Edition Compiled by Xu Qiancompleted Each of us knows that opportunities must be earned by ourselves. If we can learn from this book the ability to read other people's micro-expressions, then our sense of opportunity will be more acute. Compared with others, we can seize opportunities relatively easily, and then naturally achieve success through our own efforts. —Reads8.3Score—Shelves
  26. Instant Killing Technique: the Skill of Accurately and Quickly Understanding People's Hearts Compiled by Song Tiantiancompleted This book covers ten aspects, including the art of conquering the mind without fighting, the art of hiding the mind in the confusing, and the art of understanding people's faces and attacking the mind. Based on the combination of cases, it uses easy-to-understand and easy-to-understand language to analyze the human heart for you, so that you can deal with the relationships between people with ease, and achieve your own intelligent life. —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  27. Chinese Style Wine Bureau Entertainment Zheng Demingcompleted "Chinese Style Wine Game Entertainment" edited by Zheng Deming has complete examples, vivid language, and keeps pace with the times. It comprehensively demonstrates that the wine game not only has a social function, but also can connect emotions and express wishes. It also teaches readers how to socialize at the wine table - cleverly displaying social relationships, interpersonal rules, good wishes, family and friendship in wine. "Chinese Style Wine Bureau Entertainment" has concise expressions, —Reads8.7Score—Shelves
  28. The So-Called High Emotional Intelligence Means Being Able to Speak Written by Keiichi Sasaki and Translated by Cheng Liangcompleted Japan's most popular interpersonal communication course, designated training materials for employees of world-renowned companies. The author was originally not good at communication and expression, but he happened to be engaged in a job that required him to demonstrate his speaking ability. After going through the painful time of being anxious, overeating, and seeing work as a daunting task, one day he discovered that there are hidden rules to follow in language that touches people's hearts. Fro —Reads9.0Score—Shelves
  29. Be Able to Speak, Act, and Be a Good Person Wu Xuegangcompleted "Can Talk: Can Work: Can Be a Human" uses vivid and real examples and various stories to show you the most direct, convenient and effective speaking and doing skills in social life in a simple and easy-to-understand way, and teaches you how to use the most ingenious language to speak to the other person's heart. Dale Carnegie, the master of interpersonal relationships, once said: "15% of a person's success depends on professional knowledge and 85% on the art of eloquence." If you can speak, do t —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  30. Good Eloquence Makes a Woman's Life Prosperouscompleted A woman with good eloquence will definitely be able to display her wisdom, elegance, erudition, and ability in front of everyone through her eloquence, thereby making herself loved by those around her. This book starts from all aspects of social life that women are involved in, and deeply explains how women can improve their language expression ability according to the situation, thereby helping female friends win a happy and successful life. —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  31. Three Years to Learn to Speak, a Lifetime to Learn to Shut Up Zhang Yancompleted Many times you can eat food randomly, but you can't talk nonsense. Some of the things we say are wrong may cause us to lose face in a small way, or make us suffer a lot of blood and regrets in a big way. In a sense, learning to speak is the beginning of our growth, and learning to shut up is the beginning of our maturity. There are various precepts in words that we must not be careless in our daily lives. "Learn to Speak in Three Years, Learn to Shut Up in a Lifetime" focuses on the skills of sh —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  32. The Psychology of Microexpressions Xing Sicuncompleted Life is like a masquerade, everyone uses a mask to hide their true expression. Does he (she) standing in front of you mean what he or she means, or is he or she saying what he or she means? Take off their masks and see through their hearts, and all the secrets will be revealed. Family, friends, colleagues, leaders, customers, do you think you know them well? No, that's just your illusion! If you want to truly understand them, you have to start by understanding their micro-expressions. —Reads8.9Score—Shelves
  33. Art of Communication Written by Gao Wenfeicompleted Many people have a misunderstanding about social interaction, thinking that "being able to speak" means being able to communicate. In fact, the strength of communication skills does not depend on how well you can speak, but on whether you can say it just right, in a way that makes people admire and feel comfortable, and in a way that makes people accept it convincingly. If you can talk, you can't close it when you open it, and you can talk endlessly, which is not necessarily useful. People who r —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  34. High Emotional Intelligence, Perfect Emotional Control It's Sunnycompleted The higher a woman's emotional intelligence, the more she can live a carefree life. This is a high emotional intelligence and emotional cultivation manual specially created for women who are in a period of emotional and marital confusion. This book conducts in-depth analysis and interpretation of many cases, carefully condenses the emotional skills of high emotional intelligence, and teaches you step by step to solve a series of emotional problems such as cold violence, emotional preservation, l —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  35. Answer the Call Well (Japan) Written by Takuro Yamaguchi, Translated by Lin Liyingcompleted "Answer Calls Well" is a treasure trove of universal answer tips that can help you effectively resolve embarrassment. It can help you effectively eliminate nervousness when speaking, learn the unique skills of answering calls, and make a big difference in your life! You can learn the "Talk Answering Formula" even if you are shy or clumsy. You can easily create topics and make people think you are a "good chatter". Starting from daily life, respond positively to other people's speeches or things. —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  36. Learn to Ask Questions (11Th Edition of the Original Book) (U. S.) Neil Browne; (U. S.) Stuart Keeleycompleted Many people don't know how to ask judgmental questions effectively and hope that we can provide more detailed guidance. In view of this, we have specially written this book to meet everyone's needs. The latest edition of this book remains dedicated to developing students a set of questioning skills that can be applied to a wide range of fields. The training of these skills is carried out in relaxed and natural discussions. This book is particularly suitable for application in the following areas —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  37. Women Just Have to Be Sweet-Tongued 杳杳completed Only women with sweet words can make people willing to serve them; while women with ugly words have to rely on their own hard work to survive in this society! This book "Women Must Have a Sweet Mouth" edited by Yao Yao starts from every little thing and detail in life, and analyzes step by step why women have a sweet mouth and how to have a sweet mouth. If you want to become a "sweet girl", then start reading from this book - it is reading, but also training and learning. —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  38. Social Guide - the Wisdom of Speaking Compiled by Liu Jingcompleted This book teaches you how to always have the upper hand in your daily life and work practice, how to persuade the other party, and how to outsmart your opponent's speaking styles, methods, techniques and artistic rules. —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  39. Interpersonal Psychology: Becoming a Master Communicator Written by Jiang Fengcompleted Everyone hopes to be a high-profile communicator in life, but some people suffer from not knowing how to communicate with others and worry about how to have a better social circle. In fact, interpersonal communication is not complicated. This book provides a new interpretation of it from a psychological perspective, combines practical cases and classic stories in daily life, tells the principles of interpersonal communication, and puts forward many practical skills so that you can easily learn t —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  40. Inside and Outside the Words Huang Zhijiancompleted "What's Behind the Words" helps readers take the initiative in social communication by analyzing the code words in interpersonal communication and deciphering the undertones in various situations. When we communicate with others, what matters is not what we hear, but what we understand. Modern psychological research shows that 93% of people's communication information is transmitted non-verbally. Those unsaid words are the key to success or failure! This is the code word for communication. When —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  41. Nonviolent Communication Jin Shengrongcompleted Accusations, ridicules, denials, preaching, arbitrary interruptions, refusal to respond, and random remarks bring us emotional and mental trauma, which is even more painful than physical harm. These unintentional or intentional verbal violence make people indifferent, alienated, and hostile to each other. "Nonviolent Communication" can help people solve these problems. Healing the secret pain deep in the heart; transcending personal mental and emotional limitations; breaking through the thinking —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  42. You Are Just Too Thin-Skinned: Speak Boldly and Practice Deliberately Written by Wang Guohong; Written by Duan Chengjingcompleted In modern society, interpersonal communication has been elevated to unprecedented heights. Those thin-skinned people often dare not speak out for various reasons, which even affects their work and life. Everyone's growth requires a long process. Even a person who is naturally shy and thin-skinned can improve if he seizes various opportunities in life and practices more, so that his face gradually becomes "thick". "You Are Too Thin-Skinned: Speak Boldly and Practice Deliberately" is based on psyc —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  43. Be a Woman with Good Eloquence and High Emotional Intelligence Compiled by Yu Qiucompleted Women do not necessarily have to have extraordinary IQ, but they must have extraordinary emotional intelligence. A woman with high emotional intelligence will convey love, faith and beauty to others, while gaining a sense of leisure and freedom herself. "Be an Eloquent Woman with High Emotional Intelligence" comprehensively discusses women's unique personality traits, emotional patterns, and ways of thinking. It also tells women how to explore their emotional potential from the workplace, social —Reads9.5Score—Shelves
  44. How Introverts Can Become Master Communicators Take Advantage of Itcompleted I believe that many people have encountered such problems: they are not good at communication, their words are often misunderstood by others, they do not know how to talk to strangers, they are even afraid of communicating with strangers, and their aura is weak. This makes us more and more passive in life and work, and we miss many good opportunities. We want to change but don't know where to start. This book develops a series of communication training methods from the perspective of an introver —Reads8.7Score—Shelves
  45. People with High Emotional Intelligence Will Not Lose in Speaking. By Zhang Xiaohengcompleted The so-called high emotional intelligence means being able to speak! In life, some people often don't know how to speak. They always fail in flirting with girls, always fail to give speeches, are often excluded in the workplace, and can hardly deal with clients. They are always the "topic terminator" in the circle of friends... "People with high emotional intelligence will not lose in speaking" tells you that people who can express themselves are the dividend winners of this era! The right word —Reads9.4Score—Shelves
  46. You're Not a Sociopath, You Just Don't Know How to Chat Jin Zanzancompleted Are you on pins and needles in social situations? When you meet your boss in the elevator, you just want to be invisible? Ask a colleague to help edit WeChat for half an hour? Stop being so eager to label yourself as "socially phobic"! Most of the social awkwardness that bothers you is not due to personality flaws, but because you have not mastered the key to "comfortable chatting" - effective communication methods. Say goodbye to the rigid recitation of "high emotional intelligence words"! This —Reads9.3Score—Shelves
  47. The First Interpersonal Book for Girls Compiled by Wang Nanacompleted Secret psychological game strategies, refined and unique art of interpersonal communication. This book is a classic inspirational book that has changed the lives of millions of women! Happiness is not given by others. Every woman's happiness is in her own hands. As a woman, if you don't know how to socialize, even if you have outstanding looks and are smart and capable, you may not be recognized by society. If you have a perfect and mature social image, smooth and accessible social skills, a cal —Reads8.4Score—Shelves
  48. Critical Conversations Wang Ziweicompleted A person who is good at expressing himself can express his opinions smoothly and explain the truth clearly and beautifully, so that the other party is willing to accept it. Smart you, don't lose because you can't express yourself. This book comprehensively explains many elements of language expression, and gives you some good suggestions on daily language expression through in-depth analysis and life-like cases, so that you can effectively improve your self-charisma and win career success with y —Reads9.1Score—Shelves
  49. Mind Reading: Must-Know Psychological Strategies for Interpersonal Communication Zhang Lihuicompleted Every move a person makes is "leaking secrets." Unconsciousness, subconsciousness, and subconsciousness all reveal the true meaning of the heart. In a relationship, how can you instantly see through people's hearts? How can you look at people without mistaking them? "Mind Reading: Must-Know Psychological Strategies for Interpersonal Interactions" applies psychological knowledge to daily work and life, teaching you to flexibly use psychological methods in the process of interacting with people, t —Reads9.2Score—Shelves
  50. See Through "The Villain" and Understand the Scheming Tuoming (Five Dynasties) Written by Feng Dao, Translated by Liu Dal'ercompleted [Traditional classic + Machiavellian strategy + Accurate literal translation + In-depth analysis] If you understand villains, you will always be a gentleman; if you understand darkness, your heart will be open to the light. Read it, understand it, but don't be it! The full text of "The Little Man's Classic" is divided into ten volumes: Yuantong, Hearing and Daping, Resolving Disasters, Interpreting, Chastity, Clarity, Slander, Showing Falsehood, Decreasing Heart, and Guessing. In highly condense —Reads9.4Score—Shelves