Don't Speak Too Honestly

Honest people are not bad, but ignorant honesty will bring some unnecessary troubles. Thank you for learning this book, which can give honest people with good intentions a shortcut to avoid these troubles.

The content is very vivid and vivid. I really hope that I can talk eloquently and be able to handle any situation with ease. Develop a good reading habit from now on.

Saying that a person is honest is often a compliment, but if a person is too honest, it becomes cowardly and does not know how to adapt. When we are too honest, we are easily bullied and become a shortcoming in our character. This book tells us not to be too honest when speaking, but to face our own lives actively and bravely. If you do not always defend your principles as a human being, then in the eyes of outsiders you will be someone who is easy to talk and easy to bully. You must have your own bottom line and principles as a person. When your bottom line and principles are violated, you must bravely stop it. This is a sign of protecting yourself. You can be sincere when treating others, but you must not be too honest. You must be a smart, clever, and self-loving person.

I am a typical honest person. By reading this book, I realized many of my own shortcomings and what needs to be changed.

Honesty, a word that originally had a positive connotation in traditional culture, now has more negative connotations; I have some complaints about the author's biased definition of the word honesty; and contrasting it with intelligence seems to be overkill. But it has to be said that the author's consideration of matters that should be paid attention to when speaking and speaking restraints are very commendable in front of readers. For example, he does not listen to rumors, ignores them, and does not spread them; he knows how to choose someone to talk to in the face of troubles and sorrows. All these are worthy of reference for those who are too "honest" in interpersonal communication.

Very satisfied, very suitable

I am already 40 years old, so be honest! Just live your life well😌

We always wonder whether we should be more diplomatic or sincere when speaking. Many times, calling a person too honest is tantamount to mocking him as a big fool. We may often not know how to express ourselves quickly and accurately. In fact, speaking is a technology and an art. We can train ourselves in learning to make our expression skills and speaking methods more easily recognized by others, especially the logic behind speaking is very important.

Great, I am an honest person

It's good, it's okay, listen slowly, some of it is quite right, that's how it is sometimes in life.

After reading this book, I truly realized that silence is more beneficial to me than speaking. If you want to avoid a lot of trouble, you often start by shutting up. There is much to savor in this book. It's a very interesting book and I gained a lot from it. It took me almost 5 hours to read it today.

Yes, in today's society, honest people are at a disadvantage, and honest people who don't know how to speak are even more disadvantaged. Honest people need to be more discerning, and learn to reject situations that are not suitable for them. Find more inspirational books to read to improve your inner self, improve your language skills, and don't speak too absolutely, so as not to offend others... I wish us stupid and kind-hearted people to meet the right person.

The biggest feeling after reading this book is that you should not be too honest in your speech and behavior. We must be confident. No matter who we talk to, we must look directly into the other person's eyes, do not avoid it, and our voice must be loud. Be brave to make friends. You don't have to care so much about other people's reactions. If you feel uncomfortable, you can directly explain to the other person and learn to say no. You don't have to do things you don't want to do, and you don't have to give things you don't want to give. Be firm in your own ideas and don't be easily influenced by others

This book makes sense and moves people emotionally. It's very good.

It's so beautiful. I realized it. There is a golden house in the book.

Highly recommended, I learned a lot

This book is worth reading, but it is not profound enough after reading it once. You need to read it again to gain a deeper understanding!

This book will help us in our work and life

Listening and reading notes: There is an essential difference between praise and flattery: Praise is sincere and enthusiastic. It comes from real feelings and is never mixed with any bad intentions. It is a full affirmation of others' merits and strengths. It is to satisfy others' needs for respect and friendship and to give others spiritual encouragement and encouragement. To flatter others means that you are willing to sacrifice your own dignity to flatter others. It is out of some ulterior motive. It is to follow the crowd and to please the authority. Carnegie said: "Flattery is squeezed out from the teeth, but praise comes from the heart." When rejecting others, you must express one thought, that is: do it right, not the person. The five most important words in the language are: "I'm proud of you!" Don't say what you want to do, and don't do what you say. People will not be able to grasp and understand your depth. This is the magic weapon of the black and white roly-poly.

"Honestity", a quality that was originally an excellent quality, has become less and less popular among people. "Honestity" has almost become synonymous with cowardice, pedantry, lack of flexibility, and lack of progress. This "Don't Be Too Honest" series of books does not teach people to be cunning and cunning, but comprehensively analyzes the characteristics of honest people, analyzes the weaknesses of honest people from various aspects such as concepts, actions, and situations, and points out a way out for honest people. While retaining the excellent qualities of honest people, they can overcome their weaknesses, strengthen their will, and improve their methods to make honest people better and better. I hope that all honest people who read this book will get rid of the misunderstanding of "honesty" and remain invincible in the fiercely competitive society.

Speaking is an art, you must think clearly before speaking

6666 Sincerity is not stupidity, use your brain more and think about it before speaking.

If you want to be able to speak, you need a smart mind to know what to say and what not to say! We need to listen more and think more before we can speak. Keep working hard. It does not mean that we can learn by reading a book. We need to read many kinds of books to improve our thinking before we can speak.

After reading this book, I feel that I have many shortcomings that need to be improved.

Honesty, a word that originally had a positive connotation in traditional culture, now has more negative connotations; I have some complaints about the author's biased definition of the word honesty; and contrasting it with intelligence seems to be overkill. But it has to be said that the author's consideration of matters that should be paid attention to when speaking and speaking restraints are very commendable in front of readers. For example, he does not listen to rumors, ignores them, and does not spread them; he knows how to choose someone to talk to in the face of troubles and sorrows. All these are worthy of reference for those who are too "honest" in interpersonal communication.

Very useful. To be honest, it is very useful for some honest people.

Like it, I learned some skills, but I still need to learn more.

This book has clear ideas and clear expressions, especially the theme of not being too honest. It is recommended to read.

Very clear and objective point of view.

Very nice. Very similar to me.