Three Years to Learn to Speak, a Lifetime to Learn to Shut Up

At this moment, I am extremely excited. In addition to gratitude, I would like to first thank the author and his team. It is your great love and help that has allowed us to see such a ground-breaking and highly practical masterpiece. I must have spent a lot of time and organization here. This book has taught me When it comes to talking and shutting up, I really benefited a lot. It made me further understand that in addition to being able to speak, it is more important for everyone to learn to shut up at critical moments. What if you don't know how to speak in a complicated society? How can you avoid being in trouble? Don't know how to shut up when appropriate? This book covers a lot of wisdom, emotional intelligence, dealing with people, workplace, life, speaking skills and all aspects of life. Believe me, you will wake up after reading this book. Your emotional intelligence and your way of dealing with people will be improved to a new level. This book is worth reading! ! !

Good principles also require the unity of knowledge and action. Even a three-year-old child knows that an 80-year-old man may not be able to do it. When a person knows how to reflect, this book is rare for him. Overall, it is good.

Reality. I think this book on how to teach people how to behave couldn't be more real, because he made everything concrete. For example, when it comes to lovers, we should not say cruel words, words that embarrass others, or words that hurt others' self-esteem. He described them in detail. It is very practical. I have read several books on improving emotional intelligence, and the author of this book listed all the examples of low emotional intelligence, clearly. Maybe we have said similar things, but we can correct them in the future. Think twice before leaping [Love]

After reading this book, I have a lot of insights, which will be of great help to my future growth. Fortunately, I can read this book at a young age. It will wish me growth in my future growth process. Thank you to the author and the company for providing resources to our readers. I wish us a bright future and wish you a prosperous future.

It's still a good book and worth reading

This is a collection of humorous essays. The author uses his own life experience and observation, humorous style and vivid description to explore the communication issues between people. This book uses a playful and exaggerated language style to tell the author's various experiences and lessons in the process of learning how to speak and remain silent. It conveys the wisdom and skills of getting along with people in a humorous way, making readers think with laughter. This book brings readers a relaxing and enjoyable reading experience, and at the same time makes people reflect on their own words and deeds in communication. It reminds us of the importance of humility, respect and understanding in our interactions with others.

If you can't speak, talk too much but don't get to the point, or can't handle the relationship between friends, husbands and wives, or colleagues, you can take a look at it, you will benefit more, and you can solve unnecessary quarrels in life! Because I just talk a lot, never say the main point, and don't know when to shut up! After watching it, I feel that I can speak less and listen more in the future, and it is best to shut up!

After reading this book, I have benefited a lot. It has changed my style of speaking and doing things in the future. I will avoid detours in my future life, especially when dealing with people at work, when to shut up and when to speak.

This book has a very positive perspective, is worth reading, and will benefit a lot.

Personal opinion: The author's team has written quite well. They must have experienced, experienced, thought, and organized the speech. After countless sleepless nights, they have brought us readers such a "speaking" learning book that is close to life. Thank you!

"It takes three years to learn to speak, but a lifetime to learn to shut up." This is a current popular saying that resonates with many knowledgeable people. This book made me know: "Learning to speak in three years" means that a person goes from babbling at birth to being able to talk to others fluently. The whole process usually takes three years; "Learning to shut up in a lifetime" is because many people have lived a lifetime, even if they are over 60 years old, still can't control their mouths, and they don't know which words they say wrong will bring disaster to themselves. Therefore, learning to speak is the first step in a long journey of thousands of miles. It takes more time for us to learn how to shut up.

Listening to this book is very beneficial, thank you author

As the saying goes, "Misfortune comes from the mouth." We start by babbling, and after experiencing childish talk, we are taught what to say and what not to say. Whether in social situations such as family, school, or workplace, we must pay attention to what kind of words we say according to our identity. Bad words hurt people in June Cold. The author of this book explains to us from nine major aspects why we should learn to shut up and what words should not be said in various social situations. Sometimes learning to shut up at the right time can save us a lot of unnecessary trouble.

Thank you author! [Sending Hearts] It's been a long time now since I've been criticized or scolded (for what I previously considered to be unreasonable). Getting along with my colleagues is getting better and better. The writing is also very good ~ [Learned]

This book stayed with me for a week. The author's thoughts are very delicate and his explanations are very thorough. I also learned a lot. Many examples in life are given in detail. I give the author a big thumbs up. I hope to see the author's great experience sharing again in the future.

The lecture was very good, and the various cases were memorable. ｡◕‿◕｡

This book is so well written! I like. There are stories from ancient and modern times that tell us what we should do. Worth having, recommended.

This is a collection of humorous essays. The author uses his own life experience and observation, humorous style and vivid description to explore the communication issues between people. This book uses a playful and exaggerated language style to tell the author's various experiences and lessons in the process of learning how to speak and remain silent. It conveys the wisdom and skills of getting along with people in a humorous way, making readers think with laughter. This book brings readers a relaxing and enjoyable reading experience, and at the same time makes people reflect on their own words and deeds in communication. It reminds us of the importance of humility, respect and understanding in our interactions with others.

What you have learned is not only how to speak, but also how to listen. There are more stepping stones on the road to success.

Especially after becoming a mother, you need to pay more attention to your words. I used to be like what the book says, I didn't know how to shut up and suffered a lot. Now I understand that some things really shouldn't be said carelessly. This book also mentions some characters that I hate, such as those who like to gossip and gossip. I think we should all avoid being that person. In short, this book is not only practical, but also gave me a lot of insights. I recommend it to everyone!

Grateful! The author and publishing company of this book, this book is truly a book that saves all sentient beings. I love this book.

There are many cases, which are very relevant to daily life and have practical value. Please take time to listen to them again later, memorize them repeatedly, and study and digest them well!

Three years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to shut up! I remember it!

Very interesting. I like this book very much. Learning to shut up is really a skill that needs to be learned. I like this passage: Silence is a gesture of a strong self, and it is also an attitude presented to the world - rationality, restraint, and a sense of proportion. When you are in a group of people, guarding your mouth is a kind of virtue; when you are alone, guarding your heart is a practice.

This is a book worth reading and listening to again and again. It is a book that can be used as a reference and is close to the reality of life. What impressed me deeply was that the book cited many examples from ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, which can be said to be explained in a simple and easy-to-understand manner, which made me more and more interested in it. I learned about the importance of language in interpersonal communication and learned to shut up appropriately. This is also a manifestation of how to be a person with high emotional intelligence. Action is not as good as heartbeat, so put it into practice and make your words more quality and powerful!

It's clear and true, it's simple and easy to understand, every word of wisdom is good, it's so well written, I still want to listen to it dozens of times, I never tire of listening to it, it's a rare good book, I give you a thumbs up.

It has a strong guiding significance for people with impatient and outstanding personalities, and is worth learning and appreciating.

I like it very much. After listening to this book, I feel relaxed and cheerful. Thank you very much (the author's good book)

The most important lesson to learn in life is to shut up. Throughout history, how many heroes, famous generals, and talented people were executed because they didn't know how to shut up? Emotional intelligence is more important than IQ. It requires ability, as well as knowing how to speak and obey the rules. Too many elites in the workplace have been squeezed out, beaten, and put in cold storage because they said wrong things, and they may still be kept in the dark. The words that come out of his mouth are as strong and sharp as a knife, and they hurt people when he comes out, but in fact, his heart is as soft as tofu, and there is no malice. This is the so-called "knife mouth, tofu heart"

A well-written novel, the type I like. Thank you author