I Turned Around and Protected Myself

At first, I thought that having a child is a matter between two people, so Xixi should discuss it with her, in case she still wants to have a child after seeing through the essence of childbearing. She wants to have a child out of the idea of ​​doubling her love for her child to heal herself or other ideas. As I read on later, I realized that no, she didn't need healing. She has a lover who is so close to her soul. Love is enough and satisfying, and she doesn't need to get it from others. At that moment, I was really envious. I felt so happy to have such a preference and love myself so wholeheartedly. Even think about it, do you really need children? No, I would be jealous if the time between the two of us was given to a child, even if it was my own child. The birth of a child requires not only love, but also responsibility. I just figured out why I didn't want to give birth. First, the understanding of childbirth is not comprehensive enough. I only heard that it is very painful and will encounter many problems, but I have not seriously understood how painful it is, where it hurts, what problems I will encounter, and can I solve it? How can I solve it. These should be understood carefully before making decisions about fertility issues. The second is the other half who is currently starting a family. He does not meet the standards that I want as a father for my child. His behavior makes me feel that marriage is okay but not having a heart-to-heart relationship. They feel like men that no matter how much they say, they can't understand the girl's thoughts. Whether it's because they are not intelligent enough or they really don't care, they all make me feel that I should wait. When I make a final decision about whether to have children or not, I will know how to face this problem. Third, I am worried that children born from poor education, especially boys, will not know how to educate themselves so that they will not become bad. How should a girl teach her to face the world? Even at such an old age, I still don't understand how to teach children well. Xixi is so nice. She is so happy to have someone who prefers me!

It's the vas deferens, and the ligation involves tying a knot on the vas deferens, and then the hydrostatic fluid refluxes, and it can be recanalized in the future.

I really like Zhuxi proudly saying, "Who else can I like besides myself?" Narcissus is the most elegant setting in the world [Come on]

He laughed so loudly when he saw Nan Huaiyi thinking gloomily that he had no status. Brother, you are a man who hates marrying

How awesome! There are very few articles that openly admit to another person that they are the same person! It's so fun to do it with yourself knowingly!

It's beautiful, worth watching, has a meaningful point of view, and the description is realistic and vivid. A rare narcissus essay.

I really cried while reading Narcissus. I often thought, will raising myself really slowly heal the scars I have experienced? People are made up of different experiences. I traveled back in time and saved my past self. I believe that my past self will be changed. But I can't convince myself that everything that my past self has experienced will be slowly healed. Until I read this article, I believe that Huaiyi will be healed by Zhuxi. They really redeem each other T ^ T

Sprinkle flowers~ Zhuxi and Huaiyi will be happy forever

A very delicate emotion, a story about oneself loving oneself. Huaiyi is not a perfect male protagonist in the traditional sense. If Zhuxi in this life is a growing and healing character supported by positive emotions such as beauty, courage, and self-esteem, then Huaiyi has been burdened with all the great suffering and dark side of "Zhuxi" in his growth. Jealousy must be retaliated, emotionally indifferent, polite and distant, but she poured all her love into Zhuxi, like an isolated island, only keeping the light on for another self. While reading the article, I often thought about whether "he" would still be "she" if she had a different gender, living environment, and interpersonal relationship if her life were to be repeated. Nan Huai's intention was not lost, because he caught Xu Zhuxi and locked Zhuxi to him with a method that was stubborn and almost paranoid. But this is not a bondage. He takes his former self to a broader and brighter new world. In this process, as a reader, I can clearly see that timid, sensitive, and please little girl growing up in love and finding her own ideals in life, and choosing to help more women. In addition, I was very surprised to see the touching on social issues in this short article. The pain of the original family, the plight of women, and the gender dividends do not simply stay at the level of "pampering". Of course, there are some possible controversial points in this article, such as the discussion in the comment area when Nan Huaiyi had physical contact with the young Zhuxi. Based on existing practical experience and legal common sense, this behavior carries a certain sense of aggression and danger no matter what the purpose. But as readers, after incorporating the logic of the story, we know that they are actually the same person. This act of affection and intimacy is a form of self-care that transcends time and space. The author's wife successfully expressed Huai Yi's dilemma in this way - how to love the true self with the body of the "other". The conflict caused by the intimacy of the soul and the strangeness of the body makes this relationship even more profound and unique. This article is not so much a sweet pet article as it is a love letter written to those who have been hurt in their original family or in their growth. Even if the whole world doesn't give you the absolute preference you want, you have to embrace the injured self across time and space. I was lucky enough to come across a tweet about this novel in the comments of a certain post, and I am very grateful to the author for bringing such a healing story.

Then he shoots a rose from the gun and gives it to his little girlfriend (hey