The Counselor Himself Enters the Game and Wins Half the Game! Books for Counselors

104 刘 Liu Ling*** ongoing —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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In order to enter the game, I died myself. Jianghu novels, group portraits, traditional martial arts, young blood, Eastern Jin Dynasty background, no time travel, no immortality, no fans, the logic is relatively sophisticated, you can read it

105 情 Intelligence System, Building a Kingdom of Gods from Pioneers Sea of ​​FogUrban1.7M Wordsongoing 389.2kReads8.9Score56.3kShelves

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The level of monster meat has reached 15 tons. Xu Fan's answer, Mu Xue's World of Warcraft materials, Zhao Tiezhu's insect chrysalis... All the items were put up for exchange to play a greater role. "This is hope." Lin An murmured to himself. The ice giants were stronger, stronger, and more frost-resistant than humans, but they fell into decline because they chose to divide. The pioneers of Daxia, although weak, chose to hold each other's hands. Don't abandon, don't give up! Not long after, Lin An saw a message asking for help. [Lin Letian] Uploaded [Jerky x1] Note: I picked up the leftover empty shell of an egg-stealing lizard and pretended to be an unborn dinosaur to steal the eggs, but was blocked by the female dragon. What should I do now? It seems to doubt me. [Lin Letian] Uploaded [Dried Pork x1] Note: Now that other dragon treasures have been born, I am still acting, and I can't continue acting. Lin An was stunned. What kind of outrageous operation was this guy doing? He quickly looked down and saw an expert's advice: "You can disguise yourself as a mutated little dinosaur. Can you imitate the tyrannosaurus's cry? Oh, oh.

114 天 Secret** completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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A Guide to Parenting for High-Dimensional People: Raising "Trouble-bearing" Children, and Raising "Warm" People High-dimensional parenting never obsesses over "raising children perfectly", but uses a long-term perspective to build children's "survivability" and "empathy" - instead of sheltering children from wind and rain, they teach them how to hold an umbrella; they do not require children to be obedient in everything, but to help them develop a "foundation in the world." The following five core dimensions hide real parenting wisdom: 1. Return the "right to life" to children: Housework is not a task, but an "enlightenment lesson for establishing the world." High-dimensional parents never say "you just need to study hard", but let the children start to "take root" in small things such as sweeping the floor, folding quilts, and washing dishes. - Sweeping the floor is not for the sake of cleanliness, but to let the children understand that "you have to take responsibility for your own space" and understand that "efforts will bring results"; - Cooking is not to fill the stomach, but to let him learn to accept imperfections and solve problems through the trial and error of "adding too much salt and overcooking the vegetables"; - Organizing school bags is not for neatness, but to help him establish a "sense of order" so that he will not be in a hurry when faced with complex affairs in the future. Just like the essence of "How can you sweep the world if you don't clean one house": If you can't even take care of your own small life, no matter how great your ideals are in the future, they will become empty talk. Real high-dimensional parenting is to make life itself a classroom, allowing children to gain confidence in "I can do it" in practice. 2. Establish "rules" instead of "control": Rules are not constraints, but "boundaries of security." High-dimensional parents set rules for their children, never "I tell you and you listen", but let the rules become their children's "self-protection shield." For example, the core rules set for young children have always been centered around "character and ability": - "It's useless to cry, speak up if you have something to say": the teaching is not "don't cry", but "emotions should be resolved through expression, not venting to put pressure"; - "Do your own thing": It's not "not to help you", but to let you know that "it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others, independence is the greatest confidence"; - "Apologize if you do something wrong": It's not "forcing you to admit your mistakes", but to make you understand that "you have to shoulder the responsibility yourself, and only by respecting others will you be respected." The essence of rules is never "restraint", but to help children establish "cognitive boundaries of the world" - knowing what to do and what to observe, so that they will not be "out of order" wherever they go in the future. 3. Teach children to "see love": Don't just let your children "be loved", let them "know how to love". The whole world is teaching parents "how to love their children", but high-dimensional parents will additionally teach their children "how to see their parents' love". - Do not say "Mom is not tired", but occasionally let the child see "Mom rubbing her waist to clean up the housework", and tell him "Mom also needs help"; - Do not shield the child from "Dad's hard work", but show him "Dad's tired look after working overtime", so that he can understand that "Dad's silence hides responsibility"; - Let the child participate in household chores, not "squeeze him", but let him understand that "the family's contribution is not taken for granted" in "passing a glass of water, sweeping the floor once". Children who are accustomed to it will only "ask", and only children who are taught will be "grateful". The core of high-dimensional parenting is to allow children to change from being "loved" to "loving others" - those who know how to care for their parents will not be selfish and indifferent in the future, and will have "warmth" wherever they go. 4. Raise your children by "speaking well": Language is not a tool, it is the "nourishment of relationships". High-dimensional parents will never use "reflective questions" or "accusations" to communicate with their children, because they know that the temperature of language determines their children's future "social ability" and "intimacy". - Instead of saying "Why can't you find your schoolbag?", Say "Last time you put your schoolbag on the sofa, do you want to go take a look?" - The former is a hidden contempt, the latter is a reminder; - Instead of saying "Why are you procrastinating again?", Say "Do you think it will be more practical to do homework first and then play?" - The former is criticism, the latter is guidance; - Instead of saying "How many times have I told you?", Say "Let's try again and pay attention to what can be improved this time?" - The former is impatience, the latter is acceptance. The closer the relationship is, the more necessary it is to "talk well". High-dimensional parenting never teaches children to be "obedient", but first gives children the "experience of being respected" - only children who are treated gently will treat the world gently in the future. 5. Accept that children are "imperfect": trial and error is not failure, but an "anti-risk asset". High-dimensional parents will never pursue "children do well every time", but will actively give their children "opportunities to try and make mistakes." - When a child washes a dish and breaks it, he will not say "Why are you so stupid", but will say "Let's see how to handle it together so that it won't slip"; - When a child fails in a test, he will not say "Why didn't you try hard", but will say "Let's analyze together what we didn't master, so we can do better next time"; - When a child quarrels with a friend, he will not say "Stop playing with him", but "What do you think the problem is? Do you want to try talking to him?". The so-called "enduring hardship" is never intended to make the child feel wronged, but to let him learn to "carry trouble" in the "imperfection". Flowers in the greenhouse cannot withstand wind and rain. Only children who are allowed to try and make mistakes can develop "resilience to resist setbacks" - this is the most reliable "survivability" when facing storms in the future. Finally: The essence of high-dimensional parenting is to "lower the desire for control and increase the right to grow." Real high-dimensional parents will never regard their children as "their own accessories", but as "individuals who are about to enter the world independently." They are not obsessed with "how many points their children get in exams and how many prizes they win", but they care about "whether their children can cook for themselves, speak well, and understand how to care for others" - because scores can only determine temporary victory or defeat, and "survivability", "empathy" and "sense of responsibility" can determine a child's lifelong happiness and stability. Raising children is not about "creating perfect works" but "cultivating people who can face the world independently". Letting go of the obsession of "I want to teach him well" and giving children more room to "grow on their own" is the highest level of parenting wisdom.

119 刘 Liu Bowen's Ups and Downs as an Official The Gurgling SpringHistorical565k Wordscompleted 184Reads—Score—Shelves

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Strategists fight for wits and enter the game with their own bodies

120 冰 Bingjian Yuan Tangxin Xie Zhiqiangcompleted —Reads9.3Score—Shelves

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Chinese Mind Learning[OK][Like][Eat Melon]

136 影 Shadow Falls on Chung Yee Building Sunset Streetcompleted —Reads—Score—Shelves

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Chapter 173 [The Miracle Doctor Visits the Twin Eagles in the Month] I am not bragging about this book. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, as long as you calm down and read this book for twenty chapters, you will be completely immersed in it and unable to extricate yourself, as if you have personally stepped into the arena of swords and swords and become a member of the martial arts world. This book features a young shadow guard as the protagonist, with a flying sword that drinks countless blood and never fails. It interweaves the swordsmanship of the rivers and lakes with the undercurrents of the court. The plot is compact and the fighting is neat. It not only contains the tense confrontation between life and death, but also the delicate and touching love between children!

137 重 Rebirth****** completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Outspoken, official-dominated, all employees' IQs are online

138 盟 Mengjin* completed —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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This book puts you in the game personally, and the storyline is very exciting.