Zidu (The Attitude Towards Life Advocated by People's Daily, Sanmao, and Luo Xiang)

I came across this book by chance when I was facing a confusing road ahead. I read it slowly and took notes while reading it, because it is very practical and useful. I hope that every girl can "have the courage to leave and a reason to stay" in a marriage relationship and dance this pas de deux well. I like this sentence very much, so I write it here. A good relationship should be intimate and independent. I also like this sentence (๑¯◡¯๑) Say: "The melody in your heart should never be silenced at any time. It is the song of your soul and should always be heard." I liked many things in the book, so I took notes one by one. I don't know how the author can reconcile with himself when he is in a bad mood_(:з∠)_But after reading this book, I feel that the author is very stable and enjoys reading. Why do you say that? Because some things in the book are written very naturally and steadily. As stable as the author. The writing style is great (òωó)👍

It is short but concise. You can learn psychological knowledge from small stories. Many things that are difficult to understand in life can be answered from the author's case sharing. The theory is combined with practice. It is worth learning [Like]

It feels okay, but I just said that you should love yourself well, and you should not rely on your partner like a child in marriage. It also talked about the Jonah complex: when we encounter the arrival of our long-awaited goal but choose to retreat, sometimes we should push ourselves and try bravely. You must accept yourself in some emotions, allow yourself to be sad, and when you realize that your emotions are wrong: close your eyes and think about what I am feeling now, and then allow the output of your emotions, otherwise it will accumulate over time, and then think about how you should do things rationally. Don't always pretend to be yourself, dare to show your truest self in front of others, otherwise you will feel lonely and have no one to talk to. Don't be anxious about your appearance. Sometimes the flaws you think are not as bad as you think.

This book resonated with me very much. It teaches us how to get over ourselves when we are at a low point. I am like the courier in the book, running around the city every day and encountering various difficulties, but I will learn what the book says, adjust my mentality, and discover my potential energy. I particularly hate the people mentioned in the book who always complain. They are like some of the clients I meet at work and only spread negative energy. I think this book not only helps me cope with the pressure at work better, but also makes me love life more.

From today on, do a small thing to love yourself and take a step closer to yourself. This is self-transcendence; Self-transcendence does not mean loneliness, but that the master of your own life can only be yourself. People always put their hope of getting rid of pain on others: Expecting a partner to fill your loneliness; I hope my friends can resolve my grievances; Count on noble people to guide your life. But the help of others is temporary light, and only the strength of one's own heart is the long-lasting light. Self-love and selfishness Self-interest at the expense of others is selfish; Not aggrieved by your own sobriety is self-love; Not being accommodating and giving up your own rights and interests because of others' comments about "only caring about yourself and not caring about others" is self-love; Accepting your own imperfections and respecting your own feelings is self-love. Summary You will encounter various difficulties and pains in life, and only by learning to overcome them can you truly heal yourself; Even if you encounter major setbacks at work, be criticized by your boss, or fail in a project, you can slowly adjust and overcome your inner frustration. Self-crossing is not a straight road; But every time you feel wronged; Choose not to suppress yourself; Time consuming each time; Choose to do something small; Every time I feel like giving up; Choose to persist a little longer; These moments add up to the best love for yourself.

Everything you experience has its own traces, but follow your heart, learn to reconcile with yourself, and don't be internally consumed. What can really heal you is never time or a person, but your pattern and relief. "Everything in the world is suffering, and you can only overcome it by yourself. The one who can save you from the bottom is never others, but yourself. "Sorrows and joys can be overcome by oneself, but it is difficult for others to understand. You know whether you are warm or cold, and you can only cross it by yourself. Love your neighbor first and love yourself first. You have the power within yourself to allow anything to happen. "When I started to love myself, I no longer longed for another life and just felt that everything around me was inviting me to grow. "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Please take care of your injured self, after all, we all deserve to be loved. The mountains have their own tops, and the oceans have their own shores. Life has its ups and downs, its own twists and turns. "Life is short, you can only cross it by yourself. Make roads when encountering mountains and build bridges when encountering water. This is the true meaning of life. "If the heart is happy, the world will be painless; if the heart is light, the world will be bright everywhere.

I need psychological counseling! ! I had a mental breakdown some time ago, and I have been trying to adjust, but the results were not good. I went to see a psychological counselor, and I got a lot better. After that, I started thinking about reading psychological books, self-regulation, and helping friends. But it is written at the beginning of the book: What the heart is like is like a vast maze, thousands of miles away, in which there is no boat that can ferry people. Except for self-transfer, there is nothing others can do to help. Oh well. After reading this book, I thought ... People are very complicated, and even when facing themselves, they often have different opinions. In my diary, I sometimes deceive myself, such as editing the ending of things that have already happened. This phenomenon has stopped happening since high school. It is meaningless to deceive myself. There are not so many what-ifs. It is more interesting to break out of the setting and rewrite the script of life. The most shocking aspect of this book is childhood. Don't lose yourself in childhood. In the three years of junior high school, "she was just a person, walking a difficult road one after another." I read this book very deeply on January 3rd, and I saw myself in childhood. I followed the author's method and told her seriously, "I will not leave you in childhood, thank you for being me." Confucius said, I was determined to learn when I was fifteen, and I stood up when I was thirty... At the age of 20, even when I was confused, Confucius did not say what the topic was at the age of 20. Today I also saw a video saying that I was confused at the age of 20. When I am 30, many things will be determined. I have things I want to do, and I have ideas in my heart, but I can't express them. Even if the regret behind you cannot be changed, the light ahead is still worth pursuing. "If you deal with me, I'd rather be me."

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It is a very good book. The content in the book is very relevant to the various problems that everyone has in real life. It also provides how to solve various problems that everyone has. After reading less than half of it, I fell in love with it. I also realized that the corresponding chapters correspond to many of my own problems. After reading it, I will slowly change myself. Come on.

The author uses the most plain and simple language to write about the spiritual confusion deep in the hearts of many people! After reading this book, I gained a lot, and my psychological understanding of myself has also improved. The idea that struck me the most was that anger is a normal emotion that humans should have. Feeling uncomfortable and expressing dissatisfaction is both reasonable and kind to yourself! It turns out that the ability to express emotions is not innate, but can be learned through practice! I hope to practice loving myself through this book, complete self-acceptance and redemption, and truly love myself from the heart! Thank you to the author for bringing such a powerful work! It really helped me a lot!

I just came across page 8, and I'm still thinking about the "healthy selfishness" part of loving yourself. "Respect" impressed me deeply. Since I am a very timid person with no self-confidence, many of my behaviors are to cater to others, and "doing it for yourself" means forcing myself to respect others and not respect myself. A few days ago, I gave a speech for the first time on stage, and it was also my first time to speak in English. Due to nervousness, I read very fast, so the teacher did not hear most of the content clearly. She mistakenly thought that I was learning new concepts and that I was pursuing new concepts to teach and read fast. I didn't refute her because I was too nervous, nor did I explain that what I was learning was not a new concept. In addition, the first few students were very good at reading and could participate in competitions and win prizes. However, my reading was not as good as theirs, so I was not confident. I can only tell myself that this is a big improvement for me, and encourage myself that there is still a lot of room for improvement. I don't know how to get rid of the fear that this thing will bring to me in the future, and I also know that it will deepen my lack of confidence and social fear.

This book helped me learn a lot of psychological knowledge, as well as attitudes and methods on how to solve and face various difficulties in life. I saw a bit of my own shadow in the book. For a long time, I was like a sail that had lost its direction, longing for the guidance of a lighthouse. I was buried in the night, and my soul was drowned in the sea. I always feel that I am a speck of dust, a breeze that cannot lift the waves, and the most inconspicuous star among thousands of stars. Confusion and anxiety are always there, unable to accept the less than perfect self, unable to willingly live a dull life day after day, and eager for praise from others. Identity, fantasy of success and fame, superiority to others. But will this lead to the life I want? Have you become your true self? No, I still can't get rid of the outside world's opinions. After reading this book, I suddenly realized. Only by no longer seeking fame and fortune externally, no longer relying on material conditions to prove one's worth, but truly seeking inward, constantly improving one's inner self-cultivation, enriching inner needs, and getting out of the self-prison. Value is measured by the individual. There is no need to panic, and there is no need to waste emotions and time on the people you missed or the wrong things you did. Nothing can stop the sun from rising.

It's a very good book. I've only read half of it and asked me to review it, but I generally think it's really good. Every example has benefited me. Although I don't know if I will forget it in the future, but I have experienced it. I hope to learn more knowledge. Thank you to the author for writing this book🙏

This book has clear views and reflects on our own hearts, allowing us to better understand ourselves, reconcile with ourselves, and better handle our interpersonal relationships, emotions, etc. It is an excellent book for self-growth.

Life is always full of unknowns. These unknowns give us motivation to keep moving towards this mystery, but they also give us obstacles. After reading this book, I feel that my heart is fuller and my love for myself is stronger. What hinders us is often our inner demands for ourselves. Although this demand comes from all directions, it is internalized in our hearts because it enters our hearts and puts constant pressure on ourselves. It may also be material desires, lust, other people's attention and expectations, etc., All of which put us in a bad place. In the lingering stage, even though we follow the steps step by step, we still can't truly realize that we are happy at the moment. Therefore, based on this book, I think that in the future life, we should all give ourselves a space to place our own obstacles. This obstacle will become a precious gift because of our solution. ————2025.9.18

This book starts from Chaplin's "When I Started to Love Myself" and divides self-love into five chapters: self-knowledge, self-love, self-consistency, self-healing, and self-transcendence. There is a specific explanation of the term after each chapter. The article also analyzes cases and gives methods, which is very practical. I also learned several professional terms through this book and gained a lot. It will help guide you when you are confused in the future. Reading some cases is like looking in the mirror, and it can also serve as a wake-up call for yourself.

This book tells us to handle our emotions correctly, distinguish between our own issues and other people's issues, not interfere with other people's issues, dare to speak our own ideas, meet our own needs, and if we can't satisfy them, think about what we can do, and insist on what we like.

The book "Self-crossing" is a good book and worth recommending. Normally when I think a book is good-looking, if I am too lazy, I will say "Good looking! Good-looking! Good-looking! Recommended!", But the book here is really good. Some books can be known to be good books just by looking at the name and cover without looking at the content. "Self-crossing" is this book! My favorite sentence in it "The enemy of anxiety is concrete" Also, there are some contents in it that made me feel relieved. To summarize, "No matter how bad your family of origin is, you have to be good to yourself!" There is nothing left to say, "I wish you all the best🌹"

Very detailed, the reasons for each emotion and how we solve them. Reading makes my thinking very clear. I like it, I feel very peaceful after reading it. This is a book worth reading again and again. [Adoration]

Like a good teacher and a helpful friend, like dew, it moistens things silently, like sunshine, it provides invisible warmth. The stream never knows when it will merge into the rivers, lakes and seas, but it moves forward little by little, just like a person who doesn't know when he will die, but moves forward sonorously and powerfully step by step.

The whole book analyzes many aspects and helps me a lot. I am really "self-healing". The article talks about how to use "anger", how to love yourself, how to live in the present... I understand some of the principles, but it seems a bit difficult to apply them in practice, but I will keep working hard [Like][Like][Like]

A book about self-healing. If you love yourself and look inward, you can be depressed, anxious, complaining, and even collapse. What can truly heal us is never time or a person, but the pattern and relief. All living beings are suffering, and we can only overcome it by ourselves! When you are confused or have self-doubt, you can take a look, come on, stranger!

The content is novel and easy to understand. It uses facts and examples to tell us about the difficulties and problems encountered in life, and points out methods and principles for us. It is very worth reading [Like][Like][Like]

This book is divided into several parts, from understanding one's own emotions to solving emotions, and lists the common problems that most of us will encounter in life, and gives our answers. From this book, we can learn psychological knowledge, thereby enriching our hearts and allowing ourselves to take a step forward on the road of life.

The reader's own shadow can always be captured in the various examples and characters in the book. What he encounters suddenly makes him enlightened, and what he does not encounter increases his experience. Being sure that he accepts himself is the first step to learn to live.

I have always wanted to buy this book and read it, but I saw it in Tomato Novel, so I opened it and read it. Now I have read the second chapter. This book is a psychological book. It analyzes some psychological terms through many cases. It is easy for people to accept. A good attitude leads to a better future. Book lovers who like it can read it.

Learn to love yourself and accept yourself. I feel deeply and have a microcosm of everyone, which has greatly helped me with my long-term troubles. It turns out that I only realized today that I have been living in the past, but the child deep inside has never been respected and accepted, and I have been healing myself.

There is no complicated psychological knowledge, and the plain and simple words give people warmth and time to think. This book is very suitable for many times. She tells us what problems we encounter, what should be done, and how to do it. Through every small story in life, she tells us those psychological learnings and then finds out how to make specific changes. This book is not just an e-book. It is also suitable for pillow books. If you feel tired or helpless, you can come and take a look when you encounter problems in life and don't know what to do. There are also emotional problems, which is really good.

This book uses common stories that trap people's hearts in real life, allowing readers to see and understand themselves in other people's stories, and also find some solutions to their own problems from this book. Everyone can only heal and overcome themselves, and find a self-regulation model, in order to get out of the predicament, live relaxedly, find themselves, love themselves, and focus on their own growth.

1. Every word in "Zidu" is heart-warming, and it heals the confusion. After reading it, it suddenly becomes clear that all the troubles in life can only be relieved by oneself. It is worth reading again and again. 2. A good book that soothes the soul, breaks down internal conflicts and knots, and reconciles the church with life and oneself. It is a great book to read when you are frustrated. Heart-warming greetings I wish to use this book to spend the rest of my life, let go of past obsessions, get along with life gently, have no worries, and live peacefully and smoothly every day. Need a longer version of your review?