Men Are All Children

Before reading this book, I actually rarely read this type of book. In my opinion, I have too little experience to read this type of book. I also feel that this type of book is somewhat boring, and I am afraid that I will not be able to read it. By coincidence, I found out that He Dahui had released a new book from Huiqidian. I read the title and the introduction, huh? Men are all children, can they truly mature after they are over 40? It looked interesting, so I clicked on it. I read five or six chapters at first, but I read a little too quickly. I didn't understand much, so I stopped reading. Later, people in the group said that He Da's book became more and more interesting as I read it. I thought maybe I was too impetuous, and I had to take a good look at it. In this way, I read this book word for word, and was slowly attracted. While reading, I took notes and prepared to write a book review. This time I read the first six chapters for half an hour, and I really got into it. After seeing the latest updated chapter, I started writing this long review. A thousand readers will have a thousand Hamlets. The following only represents my own feelings. Fang Shanmu's marital differences with his wife triggered a series of domino effects. After being suspended from work, he followed the advice of his friend Gu Hao and went to a "paradise" to recuperate, but ended up getting lost in the barren mountains. After three days and three nights of survival in the wilderness, he found a car leaving here. He thought he was lucky enough to survive, but unexpectedly, fate played a series of tricks on him. The wife asked for a divorce, but his friends did not call the police to save him for his disappearance. The company thought he was absconding and called the police. When he went to the police station, he was misunderstood as a car thief. A normal person would collapse when encountering this series of unlucky things, but Fang Shanmu did not. Looking at Fang Shanmu's series of misfortunes in the early stage, I felt that this person was a bit miserable, but when I saw him starting to start a business later, I felt that this spirit of not admitting defeat and not being afraid of setbacks was really reflected in him. Many people of their time had this kind of energy in them. During the process of starting a business, Fang Shanmu met several friends of different ages, and each of these people has their own different personality traits, which are all very distinctive and impressive. Let's talk about the protagonist Fang Shanmu first. During the reading process, I wrote down a lot of labels for him. He is capable at work, macho, but a bit stupid. Seeing, assessing the situation, rational, but too soft-eared, straight man. As for Gu Hao, the person who deceived the protagonist from the beginning, I really hate this person at first. He is shrewd, cruel, snobbish and lustful. Seeing Gu Hao's sixty-eighth height, what comes to mind is that everything is concentrated (Pichi is very happy). Later, he also started a business with the protagonist, and he felt like, hey, this guy is quite nice, and he actually couldn't dislike him anymore. (I have to admire He Da here, I can't write such a character.) Cheng Pengpeng, a second-generation demolition who looks very lively and has his own personality. The word "" itself means vitality, vitality, bravery and aggressiveness. I quite like Cheng Pengpeng, the way she talks and her attitude. Hu Pan's character is very straightforward, but because of his age, he is inevitably a bit naive and does not see the problem comprehensively. His personality is occasionally a bit fiery and not as rational as Peng Peng. But the two of them, it can also be said that young people of this age, know what they want. The two wives in the book, Sheng Chen and Bian Jiang, also represent two different people. Sheng Chen has been a housewife since she gave birth to her child. She is out of touch with society, and her vision may no longer keep up with the development of society. But her husband Fang Shanmu was very good, so she began to feel insecure and distrustful of her husband, and we all know that trust is the foundation, which slowly led to the breakdown of the marriage. Bian Jiang, on the other hand, is a womanist. She wants to control everything about Gu Hao. Being controlled like this all the time, a man would feel aggrieved. As for the marriage issue, I don't think it's the fault of any one of them, it's definitely the fault of both parties. Fang Shanmu and his wife each thought they were doing it for the family, but in fact they just had different perspectives and both believed they were not wrong. Marriage is actually a joint-stock partnership, and what is required is mutual trust between the partners. If the basis of trust is lost, one party will always doubt the other party, and there will be no way to continue operating. (A passage from the book) Xu Wenqu, who appears later in the book, is currently my favorite female character. She is rational, calm, and liberal. In my opinion, she has already seen through some things. He Da's writing style is naturally beyond praise. He Da's control of the plot is also very clever. The plot is full of ups and downs. Readers can't guess what will happen in the future and can only read it bit by bit. Well, I don't know what to say. The more I read this book, the more I like it. The book reflects many problems and many things are also portrayals of our real life. Let's see how Fang Shanmu continues. I can't guess it anyway.

The fact that so many readers are rejecting this book illustrates a problem. Among the popular novels nowadays, in addition to cool novels, they are also fairy tales with supernatural powers. This shows that the reading comprehension of most readers is at this level, just like a movie that is a hit at the box office may not necessarily win awards! Fang Shanmu's setting made everyone very unhappy, and the plot setting made readers feel unreasonable. This shows that most readers have no similar experience and may not necessarily understand it. It also reflects a problem from the side. Most readers' experience and social status are at a certain distance from the protagonist. There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people! To be honest, I have a strong sense of immersion! Of course, I can only be considered middle class. I live in a fourth-tier city with a monthly income of 20,000+. My wife is a doctor and I have a lovely child! The differences between my wife and I are very similar to the protagonist couple. My wife took care of the children at home for a period of time for the sake of the children. The conflicts between me and her gradually emerged. Although I almost gave up unnecessary entertainment, I still couldn't meet my wife's requirements! Let's talk about work, I have also encountered similar problems. In anger, I started to start a business, and the conflict between my wife and I became more intense, and her uneasiness became more intense. In the end, I sold the shares and found a new job. In the process, there was a gap with the protagonist, but if I dealt with it the way the protagonist did, I don't think I need to sell the shares. I recommended this book to my wife, and we benefited a lot from reading this book together! If I had read this book earlier, my previous responses would have been much clearer! This is my personal opinion. Because I saw so many people criticizing this book, I couldn't help but write something. It's just a story for everyone to read! Don't spray if you don't like it!

An old friend's new book, a chat about our inner feelings!

The author, I would like to suggest that you can think a little more bizarrely, which may lead to better results and be more creative!

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I didn't want to post this at first, but this time it really disgusted me. The protagonist was written exactly like a mentally retarded person, and he still has the experience of forty years old? I'm afraid he's not ten years old? I can't stand it anymore. Chapter 10 persuades me to quit. Bye bye.

I always read in silence without saying a word. When I saw the latest, I couldn't help but scribble down a few lines of text. The male and female protagonists in the book (so far) have an older background and age, but they didn't make a big impression on me. I'll just interpret them as young and middle-aged people. "There are two kinds of people worthy of admiration: women who accompany men through hard times when they are young; men who accompany women through good times when they are rich." Based on this, Fang Shanmu and Shengchen did not feel sorry for each other. The two of them shared their best years with each other. From this point of view, their love and life are worthy of recognition and envy. When I saw that the marriage of Fang and Sheng was about to end due to such reasons, this sentence came to mind, "People always have some inexplicable persistence when they are young, and they move themselves with it, but they often let the really important things slip away from their fingertips inadvertently." My personal opinion is that the two of them still love each other deeply in their hearts. After all, the original passionate love should have turned into a deep family affection after time has settled. Most of the time, family affection is taken for granted, and we never express special gratitude or touch for it. I have been working and entering the society for many years. I am 90+. I have been in love but have never been married. I don't understand the actual changes in the mentality and cognition of men and women in love and marriage. Some of the contents in the book combined with my own knowledge made me think a lot about marriage. I'm both a little yearning for this and a little scared at the same time. Thinking about a group of young people represented by my age group, why men and women break up and get together so frequently; why they long for a partner when they are single, but feel inadequate after having one; why cheating, cheating, and other behaviors are so common. In my personal opinion, what I pursue and pay for is not love at all. I say I love you, but in fact I love myself. I envy Fang Sheng's love life. Although the book currently shows the ending of divorce, based on the idea of ​​a better life and the mentality that I can't do it but hope someone can do it, I guess that the two of them may end up in the same place by different paths, right? Finally, I would like to thank the author for providing such a chewy book for me, which can make me think.

Apart from the title of this book that attracts people, does it have any content that can retain people? The content of this book is like a large fraud syndicate surrounding the protagonist, a fool. The front foot Gu Hao had just deceived the protagonist, and he understood it after a phone call. When he returned to the company, he found that he had been deceived again, and he was stepped on to get the upper hand. After a cup of coffee, he accepted it in his heart. After being deceived for a long time, his IQ can no longer occupy the high ground, right?

"Editor, I want to write a book!" "Do you have money?" "No!" "Damn! How can you write a book if you don't have money!"