The Friend I Hate Most

Ms. Z hopes you can understand that these chapters of the master are not to punish you, but to leave you with an explanation for your relationship. If you had been brave enough to take on the responsibility of the relationship, and communicated with the master in a less hurtful way, you would not have ended up in this situation. I believe that your previous love was sincere, but your desires were greater than the boundaries, and the current feelings were greater than the long-term commitment. After a certain stage, a stable relationship will become: daily routine, responsibility, communication, compromise, and planning. For an immature person, there will be an illusion: the feeling of love is gone. In fact, it may not necessarily mean that love has disappeared, it may also be that after the passion subsides, you find that you have no ability to manage love; when encountering conflicts, escaping is better than frank communication. Your mentality is: I know you are in pain, but I don't want to face your pain now, because facing it means that I have to admit that I am the one who caused it. So the easiest way is: escape. Dare to do it but not take it seriously? This is your current situation. You lack responsibility and sense of responsibility. Who dares to rely on and trust such people? Even if you meet the best people, you will not be able to keep them. Ms. Z, what you should learn most in the future is not "how to find someone who loves you more", but "how to become a person worthy of others' love." Learn to be honest: admit when your feelings change. Don't let things get out of hand before ending the conversation with "I'm sorry." Learn to take responsibility for: You can change your mind or leave, but you must bear: "I am the one who chooses to leave." Instead of letting the other party ruin the relationship for you, you can then say: "I can't help it when things develop like this."; Learn to distinguish between "excitement" and "happiness": A person who makes your heart beat fast may not necessarily be suitable to live with you. A person who makes you very excited may not necessarily love you more than a person who is willing to accompany you through ordinary experiences. Love is not about always pursuing the highest intensity of feeling. The state of long-lasting love is more precious. This feeling is really beautiful, and I sincerely hope you can experience it one day. Learn to face other people's pain: you don't need to solve it right away, and it doesn't even matter if you don't know how to comfort it. But at least sit there and listen. Don't just say: "I'm sorry" when someone is crying heartbrokenly. Because "I'm sorry" sometimes is not an apology. It's just: I want to end this conversation that makes me uncomfortable. It's not that you have no empathy at all, but you put your own feelings above others at critical moments, which is really hurtful to the people who love you. Finally, and most importantly - stop treating the people who love you as your "growth tools". The things that the Lord teaches you may stay with you for a long time. But please understand in the future: others can teach you how to love, but they cannot always complete the lesson of loving for you. You must eventually grow that heart yourself. I believe that what the Lord is more willing to let you understand is not just that you are wrong, but more importantly, "I loved you so much, and I hope you can really understand what that is in the future." I hope you will really grow that heart one day. At that time, the Lord was already far away, being loved by another person. [Let me be healthy]

No matter what, I think the author has gained more. In such a short period of time, he accepted his sexual orientation, slept with the same sex, came out indirectly, and gained so much energy by posting his love story online. In such a short period of time, he has achieved brilliant achievements. No matter how bad she is, she really makes you happy. After this experience, the girls you talk to in the future will only become better and better. She will never be as free and brave as you, and she does not even have the courage to disobey her native family.

Let's turn your cold ex into warm traffic and money

From the author's writing style, as well as your writing habits including your description of memories, I can see from my own feelings that you are a child with an extremely strong core and full of spirit, who uses your spiritual power to infect others and lives in love. It just so happens that my friend has been introverted, silent and unsmiling since junior high school. It feels like she has never had much contact or lived in an environment where she can express her love. After falling in love with you, she will subconsciously draw love from you and ask for love. This abundant spirit will continue to supply her, making her feel like she can do it too. She may have the illusion of loving someone or being able to love someone, but the stolen things are ultimately fakes. The superficial love and the false and true copywriting in the circle of friends elevate her to a level that does not belong to her, making her think that she is really that good. And the author, your rich heart and endless strength are things that she will never forget in her life. In fact, looking back at this point, maybe the words I said to you at the beginning were all unfounded. I don't think it's worth using any vicious words to plant thorns in my heart to curse her. You will continue to live a good life and meet better friends. Maybe there will be a lover waiting for you in the future. Maybe not. Yes, but it doesn't matter because you are never short of love and encouragement in life, and she can only rot in the proposition of false love all her life, sadly trying desperately to absorb some of the spiritual vitality of others. It was said before that cheating is hereditary, so I am afraid she can only drown in fake lies with frivolity and inferiority. There is still a long way to go in life. Maybe many years later this will be a conversation between you and your old friends. When a voice comes from the distance again, it must be the news that your life is better [Star Eyes]

Dad, can you change the track, write about Lily, write about romance, don't just write about gay men, I don't read anything except gay men, I read romance lilies, and I will follow you to the death. Wow, I ordered a copy of your gay book before, but I am really incompetent and can't read it (it's inappropriate to comment, I'm old, let's politely advise it to be deleted, I can report myself, don't scold me), I really love your writing style and your humor. (It can also be regarded as my idiotic dream [crying] [crying])

It can be seen from the beginning of the families of both parties. The author is love and z is just imitation. Children from dysfunctional families can only eventually devour children from happy families and their love, understanding, tolerance, and behavior. It is really sad.

This is my first time writing a book review. I read it on xhs and after reading the ending, I felt very sad. The story of the master is so touching. Through the words, I almost fell in love with this master who is as bright as the sun. I still can't understand why Z can calmly hurt someone who loves her so much. I even feel that there is an almost pseudo-human indifference in her. I thought that people like Z should understand how precious a sincere and unreserved love is. The Lord is like a pearl that should not have fallen into her hands. She was so lucky to get it, shouldn't she treasure it for a lifetime? In reality, many people may not encounter such pure feelings throughout their lives. But just for the momentary excitement and pleasure, some disgusting physical desires, a person with distorted views, she stabbed the master with those disgusting words so horribly. How I want to become the delete button in my master's hand, and help her erase all the painful memories from more than ten years ago, and even erase the existence of Z. Many times when I read novels, I want to find people and love in the words that are difficult to find in reality. In reality, it is hard for me to believe in eternity, but in the story, I am willing to believe in the happy ending written by the author - people who love each other can stay together until old age. I have always felt that this is how a relationship should be: give it your all when you are in love, and if the day comes to break up, you can still feel no regrets. This is respecting both the other party and yourself. But in reality, there are always some people who can't even keep this bottom line and repeatedly hurt those who truly love them. But even so, I still want to tell the Lord that the pain is only temporary, and the blessing of getting rid of the cancer will come later. The Lord will definitely meet someone who treats you equally sincerely and fairly, so don't take those bad things to heart. Because the Lord will definitely be happy. She is like the sun, possessing the power to love and warm others. And Z will only be trapped in the gutter, repeating his fate. When she dreams back at midnight one day, she will wake up and realize that she has lost the chance to get out of the gutter forever and get her retribution. I wish you happiness every day and forever! [Rose]

I didn't read the previous one, but only read these two chapters, and I feel that she is really a hollow person with low moral sense. Otherwise, how could she cheat so confidently without any guilt, especially when you cry so sadly? Is she used to you tolerating her, so she is so confident? I don't want her to think about it one day and regret it after reading these words of yours, and come to you to reconcile. Thinking about it, she feels very annoying. Author, you should live a good life. A good person like you should live a good life. Keep working hard, you will be disappointed in love and proud in career. Making money is the right way.

The author is great, I don't want to "wish you flowers to bloom, nor do I need to wish you generosity, but I want to wish you a prosperous life, wish you to cut your worldly vision again and again, wish you boiling, wish you have blank space, wish you to be happy in the ocean of life, wish you please yourself and not her. I wish you always smile like a flower, you can be not a rose, you can be a small moss flower, and finally once again: I wish you are clank, I wish you are high-spirited, I wish you take root in the earth and straighten your spine."

When you fall in love with someone, you will charm them infinitely. I found this essay through Douyin in 2024. It felt like I was chatting with a friend and listening to her tell her love story. I didn't expect to read this book again just after my grandma's first birthday. I also had insomnia for a few days and wanted to find some sweet articles to relieve my emotions. I didn't expect that the original sweetness and sourness had long since rotted. I wish you a happy life and don't give unworthy people a chance to hurt you a second time like this relationship.