The Seven-Year Itch

Qi Yan, when he asked Cai Chuchu to give birth to a child, why didn't he just break up? I admire the scumbag who cuts everything off, but I'm disgusted by his hypocritical self-indulgence. He was kind to Yu Jing, loved him despite being wronged by his parents, and he may have felt that he loved Yu Jing the most, but his actions showed his neglect and disrespect for Yu Jing. A person who is truly in love will go out to sleep with his lover and have a baby, and then have sex with his lover again when he returns home. Doesn't he even know that he doesn't feel disgusted? No wonder Yu Jing was so disgusted by him that he vomited just thinking about him sleeping with a woman. Yu Jing always thought that he was a pure homosexual, but who knew that he was not at all. He just grasped at straws that the man was a man, so he pretended to be a homosexual, but in fact he still liked women. Just this makes me sick. Qi Yan is miserable, but misery cannot be the reason for him to hurt others. Yu Jing didn't cover his mouth, didn't tie his hands and feet, why didn't he tell him if he had grievances? If he really wants a child, please let Yu Jing go first, and just break up. Yu Jing can't keep him, and it won't become a burden to him. His so-called reasons and difficulties are actually just selfishness. He wanted Yu Jing to be devoted to him, and he wanted to live a so-called normal life with Cai Chuchu. However, when the incident happened, he got into all kinds of entanglements. He didn't think it was his fault at all, slandered Yu Jing, and had to force Yu Jing to commit suicide by jumping into the sea. Is this something that a person who loves deeply can do? What he thought was love was not normal at all.

A person can love someone wholeheartedly, and then secretly go to bed with another person to have a child, and then want to take it back and raise it with his lover. Does Qi Yan respect Yu Jing's brain circuit? Has he considered the damage his actions will do to Yu Jing? He only thought that Yu Jing would be angry and refuse. He never thought about Yu Jing's heartbreak. He had never put himself in Yu Jing's shoes. Why didn't he think about whether he could accept it if Yu Jing went out to find a woman to have a baby? So his so-called love is not normal at all. In his twisted love, only he is the most wronged and the most innocent. He dare not tell Yu Jing about his resentment towards Yu Jing's parents, and he dare not say that he doesn't want to go back to his hometown. But he has the courage to cheat and even slander Yu Jing when he returns home. He is really awesome. Qi Yan, has he ever respected others? Talking about loving Yu Jing, he wanted to sleep with a woman, slept with Cai Chuchu, and called her shameless. In his eyes, there was no equality or respect, only himself, who was above everyone else. This kind of love is worse than nothing, this kind of care is just a shackles. True love Yu Jing, after the first cheating was discovered, why didn't he apologize, repent, or correct himself? Listen to what he said. He was arrogant and arrogant, as if Yu Jing would not be wanted without him. What kind of attitude is this? He has no intention of repairing the relationship. If he was willing to sincerely correct himself, Yu Jing would probably forgive him if he loved him so much, but he still went out and slept with Cai Chuchu again and again. This is called Qi Yan's true love, yuck.

After only watching the extra, I think Qi Yan is just a person who only loves himself. What does his misfortune have to do with it?

This is really the first time I have seen such a purebred SB

I feel that my sense of morality is very weak compared to everyone in the comment area (but in fact, people who have close friendships in reality often say that my requirements for human quality are too high, so I was isolated and helpless and let others throw dirty water ()). I absolutely pity Qi Yan. His mistakes and the sinister bird of prey that pierce his bones are terrible and hateful, but he also deserves to be read with an upward mood. At least I love this character, and the author must also have love for him. It is precisely this kind of letting go and relief shown by Yu Jing in the later period that reflects Qi Yan's dark side. If Yu Jing completely forgives him or hates him and despises him, he will not be such a pitiable image (I think unilaterally). The most outstanding thing about this character line is that he gets Yu Jing's Shi Shiran's light and airy expression. The punishment was scattered (and the punisher did not aim at punishment subjectively, which is the best part), and except for Yu Jing, none of the main characters alive were qualified to punish him. Yu Jing did not want to punish him, but he was actually punished, and along with it, there was the blessing of love and the opportunity to grow. He rescued Lian Heng from the fire, went abroad to develop the company, supported his birth mother and treated her illness... It was only after these millions of moments that he was truly born.

The second male lead in this article is my favorite character, better than the protagonist. He is so flesh and blood, so despicable and real, and the character is very full. I think the description of his heart in detail is a bit undetailed, but it is perfect. Thank you to the author for allowing me to see such a character.

After reading the whole article, I actually felt that Qi Yan was the most fulfilling character, and my impressions of him were really complicated. At first, I hated him and yelled at him with my friends. I thought he was the most typical rotten person who stepped on other people's shoulders and became evil because of his improved status. He was also a typical man who went crazy when he asked for something but didn't get it. But later I realized that he was not like that. The change in his view means that he wants to raise a child with Yu Jing. In fact, if his feelings have changed, he will not be so complicated. The most sad (shocking?) Thing is that he has always loved Yu Jing, but there is too much mixed with love... I think "hateful and pitiful" may be the best evaluation of him [cheek support]

Qi Yan makes me feel more uncomfortable than those scumbags in a certain boy band. Although he is a scumbag, after he really found out who he loved, he still knew how to sincerely pursue and repent, and make up for his mistakes. What he did did not feel sincerity, it was too false, so he deserved to have no wife and become his ex-husband, haha, Yu Jing It feels so good to let go of him. I just need to let him go completely and let him wake up. The world does not revolve around him. He doesn't know how to cherish him. Those who love him most will leave. Wake up, ex-husband. No one will always tolerate you, and no one will always love you unconditionally. You have to learn to respect others, and others will respect you.

How should I describe my complicated feelings after watching Qi Yan's perspective [crying]

How could this happen? How could I like Qi Yan the most among all the people in this article? I cried, I really cried. I actually think this character is quite difficult. Compared to Lian and Yu, I really like this kind of full-bodied characters when reading books. Of course, everyone should keep their eyes open in real life.