The Rest of My Life Is Still Ahead

I haven't read the entire article yet, so I'll make a comment based on the chapters I've seen. First of all, for the heroine, her character is not weak from the beginning. The persecution of her parents and the social rules after graduation made her feel that saying sorry can calm things down. She did not refuse or resist, but just wanted to be quiet. A few words made her physically and mentally exhausted, so she agreed to everything. In the process, she was very painful. She had read a book, liberated her mind, and knew what she should do. However, after being rejected again and again, she did not dare to dare, but was tired, so she gave it up. The existence of the male protagonist is like the external image of her brave, decisive and strong heart. When she was sexually assaulted, the people closest to her asked her to give up filing a case, and the male protagonist asked her to file a case. It was like her inner struggle. Her weak character was worn out and told her that she could live a stable life if she did not file a case. However, if she did not file a case, the scum would not get a trial, and she would not get fairness and justice, so she finally chose to file a case. Paragraph comments will lament her indisputable character. After the heroine was sexually assaulted, she made negative comments about the heroine, such as her character was her choice and the theory of victim guilt. I think we can only encourage and support women who have been sexually harmed. Stop talking about her personality, how she handles things, and don't say anything negative about her. She has been harmed with the greatest malice. Don't let her know these judgmental words. She was the most sensitive at that time, and these will also hurt her. Next is the younger brother, who has vested interests and enjoys family resources, but as a man from a traditional family, it is a common phenomenon in this society to be pampered and valued. He does suck the blood of his sister, but he doesn't know about the loan. He has just graduated and is working hard. I went to the police station to guard the case. When I saw the gynecology department, I thought about the QJ case. I thought I could help you. He also has a righteous side. But when his sister was hurt, he said it would be better not to call the police. Those words were not spoken by a lawyer. It was what he had learned and seen that told him how hurtful and torturing the victim was in such cases and what the victim would experience. Therefore, he thought that if his sister did not call the police, there would be no gossip from the neighbors and moral criticism from the Internet society, which would deepen the victim's pain. People are not perfect, flaws are part of us, so stop thinking about the victim's guilt, and don't point the slightest bit of negative remarks, criticism, and contradictions at the victim. What the victim needs is encouragement, support, companionship, and understanding. It is the perpetrator who really needs to be bullied, judged, and harshly spoken by the Internet. Crimes must be punished. Why should the perpetrator be calm and the victim has countless introspections?

Save yourself I regret not reading this masterpiece earlier. I thought about a lot of things while I was reading it, but I don't know what to say when I type it. Let's start with the story. Ye Sibei, a heroine who is stubborn and has dreams but is bound by old ideas, is experiencing sexual assault when her life is difficult and her husband is getting divorced. She immediately chooses to call the police, but her mother comes and advises her not to be an outlier. Her brother, mother, and the world all say it is her fault. At this time, she witnessed it with her own eyes when she was a child. Qin Nan, the cruel male protagonist who broke the world, told her that we should go to the police. This gave Ye Sibei courage and allowed her to move towards the future. In fact, there are also those victims who were violated. They are not wrong. It is not that they are not brave, but the world puts too much pressure on them. As long as someone can tell them that you are not wrong, they can come out and live well. I like the heroine's full growth path very much. Her subsequent resistance and bravery can be traced, because she was so brilliant when she was young. The hero said that even without me, you will definitely stand up and resist. I agree. Even with a word or a look, she will stand up. From the pictures I took, you can see that in the first few pictures she is numbly escaping, while in the latter pictures she is shouting bravely. None of the women in the article are really bad people. Just like the heroine said, everyone has good and bad, and everyone has a conscience. The important thing is to be able to correct mistakes after they are recognized. Therefore, this is the meaning of the country's establishment of laws. It uses punishment to bring justice to society and also gives bad people a chance to correct their mistakes once they are recognized. Give Zhao Chuchu, Ye Nianwen and other temporarily cowardly people a chance. I also like every female character in the book. It's the world's fault, not your fault. Finally, I borrowed the words from the book: There is no suffering that cannot be overcome, and the best is always in the future.

The novel that secretly made me cry while I was hiding in bed in high school has been remade. Four or five years have passed. I hope Qin Nan and Ye Sibei will be fine in another world????

The writing is very good. I feel like I can really understand Ye Sibei's difficult journey. I especially like the part where Zhao Chuchu and Ye Sibei are fighting like crickets in a cage. I can clearly feel the pain and collapse of the two people. The culprit is also beautiful and invisible. It seems that the viewers are also the spectators who force them to bite each other. I watched the original work specially after watching the TV series. Some parts are very tear-jerking.

I was so moved when I saw the series of the same name aired. It seemed like yesterday that everyone was reading about it together.

In fact, I always feel that this is a BE article. If you lose the first instance, it will be over.

I still remember the time I cried when I saw him

I read it all night and cried several times. When I saw the relevant content, a half-hearted law student couldn't help but comment hhh. I read this 200,000-year-old book for six or seven hours. I hope that every Ye Sibei can be happy, safe and healthy ~ I hope Qin Nan will always create more beautiful memories with Ye Sibei ~ The author's wife wrote an article [Spread Flowers]

Oh my gosh, I read this article 5 years ago, and suddenly I saw the TV series on Douyin. It felt very familiar, and I found out after reading it that it was actually a remake. When I watched it a few years ago, I thought it would be too suitable for a remake, but now it is really a remake. Congratulations to my wife~

Thank you to the author for writing this book [crying]