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For the Lowbrow-Story Lovers: Memorable Power Fantasies and Sweet Reads
A treasure trove of great stories in every genre. If you're in a reading slump, come on in! (Mostly melodramatic stories. I have separate lists for strong/strong historical romance and danmei.)
Absolute Masterpieces
Carefully selected, every one a treat
Modern BL Without Fantasy Elements
As the title says, urban slice-of-life, school life, showbiz, and so on. No supernatural or fantasy elements like being reborn, transmigrating, or encountering ghosts.
Danmei to My Taste
A mixed bag, ranging from time-killers to absolute gems. My ratings are heavily influenced by personal taste and when I read them, so they're entirely subjective. Out of ten.
My Take on the Crematorium Trope [Revised]
A collection of stories about gong characters who can do anything except win back their wives. Armed with the best dowry a man can offer, their tears, they set out to win back their wives and learn that loving someone is like tending a flower, pampering them until they're glossy and happy.
Handpicked Danmei: The First Eight Years
A sporadic personal selection of danmei from 2016 through 2024. Whether there will be more depends on whether everyone survives.
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Taking It Slow
Coffee with sugar, to be savored slowly
Unread 2005-20170204
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I want to say a few words. I think this article is well written. Although it is a bit short, it would be better if it could be longer, but I feel that it ends just right. (★Personal opinion★) First of all, Gong is not a scumbag; Gong's father cheated on him since he was a child, his parents divorced, and his parents remarried, making him an "outsider". He didn't get "complete love" when he was growing up, so he longed for a complete and serious love. In his two relationships, he gave well and seriously, and he didn't break up after the breakup. He just needed time to forget, not that he could forget it all at once. Secondly, maybe everyone has adopted Shou's perspective and feels that the deep love of a ten-year crush is much deeper than the love between Gong and Shou. I don't think this is something that can be compared. Secret love is a personal matter, and you cannot ask the person you have a crush on to give you the same passionate feelings. Secret love is more about guarding the heart-beating feeling at that time and plating it with glory day after day. Secondly, I think Gong and Shou are actually very good after they get together. They can get along well in life, and doi is also very compatible. They also let each other into their circle of friends. As the older and richer, Gong is willing to respect Shou and not dictate his life and work. I think he is a good partner. Shou Nei is a person with high emotional intelligence, good at straight shots, not pretentious or pretentious. He is an ordinary person but not an ordinary person. He deserves good love. In the end, I felt that although the story was plain and restrained, I thought it was beautiful and affectionate enough. Vigorous and vigorous love can be good love, sweet and sweet expressions of affection every day and all kinds of fancy confessions can be good love, and plain and ordinary love can also be good love. There is no need to be entangled with Gong's two long-term relationships. I believe that Shou will have a longer and better time with Gong in the coming decades. Gong loves Shou, and Shou also loves Gong. Love has many forms, and this form of love is also beautiful.
After looking at it, I realized that I bought it a long time ago. I still have the same taste in reading articles after so many years. However, the trend of the times has changed. Nowadays, the articles on the rankings are really unbearable. The times have not only left behind some authors, but also readers like me.
It's too funny to say that you can't tell the difference between Gong and Shou and the previous two exes. The reasons for the breakup of the first two exes were because they wanted something else, while Gong only wanted pure love. Being attacked is a bit like growing up and discovering that something you didn't get as a child but always wanted to do is not that good, but you are still willing to accept this imperfection. It is true that the initial relationship between the two people was not equal. Shou was a very brave and loving person, and he was definitely the one who loved more in the beginning. However, in this relationship, it was often confirmed that the one being loved was Gong, and the one being chased would worry about whether he was good enough. The moment when he started to worry about gains and losses was also the moment when he started to get closer to Shou. Then, he became the one chasing love. In short, the two are actually a good match, and no one can replace them. Those who want to love meet pure love, and those who chase the moon no longer have to look far.
Thinking of the metaphor of a teapot with a hole in it, Mr. He mended Xiao Lin's teapot back then, and Xiao Lin's teapot was filled with tea named He Xian. Now Mr. He's teapot is broken, and Xiao Lin appears with a teapot full of tea. This is just right. I've said it before when I read Golden Boy. The author is really good at writing this kind of depressive and ordinary torrent. It's very delicate and tense. It's like what the two people are like when they get along. It's simple and clear in a few words. I really like it so much. Woohoo.
It's very well written, with real feelings and not clichés.
It's such a beautiful story. There are no misunderstandings, no unspoken likes, no backstabbing, no doubts and entanglements. It's just pure and warm love. It's so good.
I can't see any difference between Da Chushou and the previous two films, so I feel that the "lifetime" mentioned by Gong in the ending is not very convincing. After all, aren't the first two paragraphs of serious management gone? Shou is really very compromising with each other. Rather than saying that they are suitable, it is better to say that Shou is easier to deal with than his predecessor. If you want to say that the conditions are not good, so he should fully compromise, then there is nothing to say. In the end, no matter how you look at it, the feelings between each other are deeper. Even if they fell in love later, I still feel that way.
Gong may appear gentle and caring on the surface, but he should be strong and lonely on the inside. The failure of his parents' love probably made him long for a sincere and long-lasting relationship, so he persisted in every relationship for a long time, but he also longed for sincerity. The first boyfriend had impure thoughts because of the temptation, so he had no chance to attack here. The second boyfriend got married to someone else because he wanted to have children. Maybe the boyfriend had this idea, which means he was unfaithful. It feels like the relationship Gong looks forward to is a bit idealistic, and Shou's ten-year secret love is very precious to him. Furthermore, Shou's youthful, innocent and gentle vitality can heal Gong who has experienced protracted relationships and mental exhaustion. In other words, Shou has the love that Gong longs for, so Gong is firmly attracted by love and is gradually willing to give his sincerity to Shou. Gradually, you like this person and defend him in front of your relatives and friends. Love is a two-way street. Love promises a lifetime to someone, and love is worthy of this life. Only then can you have a perfect relationship.
The most beautiful realistic fairy tale. As a recent graduate, I really found it extremely sweet (because other "sweet articles" are really industrial saccharine and disgusting).
After reading it, I can only say that I really didn't fall in love, it felt like I was living on a blind date. Sure enough, the writing is not deceiving [eye roll][eye roll]