A Tale of Joy

Many people think that Xia Wen is better than Chu Yu, but the author did not write about Xia Wen's inner perspective. Changqing has been married to him for so many years, why doesn't he convince his parents and relatives by himself? You can say that he has a gentle nature, but in the final analysis, he is not loving enough. He just doesn't want to be the evil person himself. He enjoys the benefits and refuses to take responsibility. Why didn't he confess to Chang Qing when he was plotted and drugged? Who knows if he also wants to make mistakes and enjoy the blessings of others? Changqing wanted to reconcile, so he committed suicide. What he was thinking in his mind was to force Changqing to admit the affair, or he dared to hit the child with a bowl of medicine and fall out with his parents and suppress his parents from then on. I respect him as a man, and think he is better than Chu Yu. He is like this. Firstly, he does not really love Changqing, and secondly, he has no determination, courage, and ability. Compared with him, Chu Yu at least dares to think and do, and has the ability to accomplish things.

Some people say that this is a history of female growth. I think it is definitely the story before Chu Yu comes back from the dead. But after that, I felt sick all the way until the extra chapter Chu Yu reached its peak. Haha, grow up, do you treat girls as toys? Drugging, have you put yourself in the girl's shoes and thought about how painful it is? You can do this kind of thing with just a word of "cherishing". This kind of cherishing is really insensitive! Xia Wen is not worthy, but at least he truly loves Changqing. What is Chu Yu? Condescending, self-centered, and treating Chang Qing like a fool! Nausea!

If you are happy, remember not being happy. Many of the sufferings in life are caused by others. Watch that man's building collapse, watch that man's water rise. This is a free and easy mother, who is she busy with for half her life? Don't be left to others, feel free to be happy.

What can I say, a bunch of bitches.

When I saw the ending, I was disgusted. To be honest, I feel like the ending was forcibly rounded off. What about an undercover agent who kicked his former boss for several years and was appointed as the leader of a powerful department? If you write it, I will believe it. As for him, he watched Chang Qing and Xia Wen sleep with each other for so many years and make love, secretly drugging them to cause the couple's relationship to break up, and finally robbed them by force. You wrote it and I read it. Chu Yu: I didn't force you to marry me, I just made it impossible for you to marry and survive in this feudal era~ For Changqing and Xia Wen, Changqing was forced to marry, but we also believe that at this time, she was really ready to say goodbye to the past and start a new life. For Xia Wen and his family, everything has been foreshadowed for a long time. None of them were people with a vision beyond the times. Their initial appreciation for Changqing was entirely because to the Xia family at that time, a daughter-in-law with such personal qualities was a piece of pie falling from the sky. Apart from tears of gratitude, they really had no other qualifications to be picky. When the class is restored, everything in the past is returned to the hands, new needs arise, and the persistence of immortality becomes outdated and needs to be abandoned. Changqing has always been on guard against the Xia family, always ready to distance himself from the relationship. The shadow caused by his previous life is understandable. But in Chinese-style marriage, the small family is dependent on the big family, and there is no independent living space for individuals. Changqing believes that Xia Wen should solve all this. No matter what era, when you encounter problems, you should tell your husband that you can solve your family's problems yourself. If you can't solve it, divorce. Is this a solution to the problem? No matter what the quality of the Xia family is, they will never face your attitude and still think that you are of the same mind as them and support you from beginning to end, right? That's fiction, not life. You have always regarded others as partners and have not shown any affection. Do you still blame others for kicking you out when something goes wrong? I don't think that with Changqing's character, she can live with a person for more than ten years without any feelings, let alone this man who has understood and tolerated her for decades. In such an era, in the face of the general environment, I think that because I have a little more money than other women, I can live my life as I want, live as much as I can, and leave if I can't, simplifying everything, regardless of my heart, regardless of human feelings, which may be very satisfying to watch, but this is not the Chang Qing I know. At the same time, the changes in Xia Wen's emotional attitude have been completely weakened. It feels like they are using the fastest speed to get Chang Qing back single and welcome the return of the male protagonist. As for Chu Yu, he disgusts me the most. This disgust is not because he did something wrong. On the contrary, everything he did was to satisfy his own needs. From this point of view, he at least lived a real life. But his approach also reflects the oppressive nature of male dominance in the feudal era. Without a strong family to support her, what can a woman do no matter how much money she earns? What's the use of being born with supernatural power? If you can't give birth to a child, as long as Xia Wen can't give birth, there's no need to mention the option of adoption. As for whether having a child will dilute your interests, it doesn't matter to us; the husband doesn't want to be divorced and make a miserable person. Plan, the direction of public opinion reverses instantly, the right to speak? Women can only use men to speak out. Without a man, you have nothing. What if your childhood sweetheart wants to get back together and is in a high position, but drugs you and causes you to divorce? You can't marry anyone else as long as I'm here. A woman's independent living space? Hehe

It turns out to be the joy of "one farewell to two, each will be happy". It turns out to be the joy of many women who meet the wrong marriage and end their bad relationship.

This is a history of female growth. It tells girls how to choose their own lives. My favorite character in this article is Mr. Su. She has cultivated the best sons and students. She has avenged her own murder. She loves without hesitation and never hesitates to leave. She is talented and strategic, can endure hardships and endure hardships. She knows how to advance and retreat, knows how to repay kindness, and has a clear distinction between grudges and grudges. Especially perfect~~

It feels like the heroine has transformed from a piece of dust in the past life into a chess piece in the male protagonist's game in this life. Looking back on the heroine's life, I feel disappointed.

Changqing, I still feel sad for you after reading it. You are really strong. I have been through many difficult times. I think it is because everyone likes Changqing, so I hope she will live a stable and smooth life, kind, affectionate, and tenacious. Such a good girl has experienced so many disappointments. Even if the ending seems to be a reunion, it is always disappointing. Even if Changqing sees it and forgives her, read A person will still despise a good friend's boyfriend like a best friend. Although Changqing is capable in this life, his choices are still limited, and he cannot make choices based entirely on his own preferences. It is a very realistic article. Changqing has achieved happiness and perfection in the worldly sense, but nine times out of ten life is unsatisfactory. Maybe only by accepting all fates that happen can he be truly open-minded. In fact, many people read novels because they understand the hardships of the world, so they pursue a fantasy and achieve inner perfection, so they feel that it is not joyful. They have reached the age where they can understand both sides [covering face and laughing]

Jumping directly to the end... I have never finished reading Shitou's novels except for the first wife, but I like all the female protagonists. They are all transparent people. I think all the male protagonists are not worthy of the female protagonists, but they are together. I can only think that they create a real and imperfect person who will be confused by love and endure the tricks of fate. In the end, Changqing's acceptance of Chu Yu can only be described as a dream. She looked away. She loved Chu Yu, even now, but her love can no longer control her life and her destiny. Only she can control her own future, so why not marry someone who loves each other!