Strictly speaking, this shouldn't be called a romance, because the process of psychological growth is the main storyline, while love should be a subplot, a catalyst. I wrote this story because I was struck by the limitations placed on people's thinking.
In terms of character, the way people receive the world is based on how well they understand themselves. Psychology has long shown that what people love or hate may appear to be other people and things, but in truth it's all part of themselves: what they can recognize is often what they already possess. That's why the world looks different to happy, kind people than it does to gloomy, angry ones. Unfortunately, the former don't have as much influence as the latter. As the saying goes, "Misery loves company," so in real life, negativity and malice are more destructive.
People also tend to use past experience to interpret the present, assuming that what happened before will happen again now and in the future. How many souls are held back from rising above themselves by these two constraints! But the meaning of life isn't to numb ourselves and live by experience. It's to live consciously and have the courage to accept the unknown. Don't dwell on the past or the future; experience the present with your whole heart.
Buddhists always talk about cause and effect: if you do good, good things will happen to you. If you do evil, bad things will happen and ruin the good fortune you once had. I see it this way: everything that happens in life has both a good and a bad side, and the way people handle it is part of how they grow. But there's one thing that matters: people must take responsibility for their intentions and actions. No matter how big or small, what you do to others will eventually come back to affect you...
These are the many thoughts that led me to write this story. Naturally, the pace is slow, and the psychological descriptions go on at length. If that's not your thing, there's no need to read it. To everyone who has read it, whether you liked it or not, I want to say thank you. Readers patient enough to read a slow story like this are rare these days. To those who enjoyed it, here's a hug. Thank you, kindred spirits. This story is dedicated to you.
This novel was planned for publication by Qianxihe Culture Company, the publisher of Ghost Blows Out the Light, and is now available. Many thanks to all of you for your support and encouragement! I hope those who buy the book are people who enjoy this story. Please pass the word along: read it online first, and buy the book if you like it.
I've started a new story under the pen name "I'll Give It a Try Too" (pretty lame, isn't it): Reborn as the Frail Daughter of a Military Family.
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Huanyu said that Yan Yan is her beacon, and I want to say that my wife's writing is like a beacon! The characters in the article warm me deeply like like-minded friends whom I have never met! What you wrote is really great! I hope you will write more articles like this! (Call)
I watched Sanzhu Marriage and Love Can't Give Up several times. Ten years, time flies really fast.
I have read Sanshu Marriage 5 times and it is still my favorite book over the years, and Yusheng is still my favorite male protagonist. It wasn't until recently that I learned that this book by the author was something I couldn't let go of. I read it in one day and still had so much to read. I really like the author's writing style, but it's a pity that it's closed.
A once-in-a-century article, read it again every time you are in a bad mood, read it again every time you are in a bad mood!
Hey, after reading some discussion threads about "intrauterine memory", I suddenly thought of you.
Someone asked the baby when he was two or three years old, what it felt like in the mother's belly, where it came from, and why he came to me.
They replied, "It's dark and warm in my belly. It comes from the clouds and the sky. There are angels and many babies on it. It's because I want you to be my mother."
Another parent asked, what do you think Puma Ma is doing from above?
The child said he was doing big homework. The parent laughed and asked what the big homework was. The child laughed but did not answer~
Then I started to think of a big article. I forgot which article it was, but it should be this one~
Big homework~hahaha~
I have read this article several times and I like it very much. I feel that words are the best expression of the author's thoughts. Shen Yan grew up in an environment lacking love. As a young man, he was talented but had extremely low self-esteem, was sensitive, delicate, and kind. With this kind of person, he was "saved" by the heroine... And the two finally got married. In fact, I really like the conversation between the heroine and her confidant Qian Yan at the beginning of the article. Haha, some Buddhist stories are also full of fun (it's the author's great ideological insights), but it also really heals the hero. They are so sweet in the back, I really like it hahaha
But in the middle part, the heroine refused to accept the interrogation, which made me heartbroken. At that time, I kind of hated the heroine, after all, she was abusive~
All in all, I really like the role of Xie Shenyan that has been created so well! ! !
Strike an iron while it's hot. Rather than being inspired by Huanyu or Zhenyan alone, I guessed the author's attitude and point of view from the words, and I always felt that they were in tune. Interesting. The relationship between Huanyu and Shenyan makes me happy. The understanding of destiny and smoothness and the understanding of the relationship between lovers expressed in the article are all reassuring. But there is a but, the author's happy words are too mediocre and too crazy. There seems to be some areas in the writing that are not smooth. For example, the transition before and after the review is a bit confusing. At the beginning, there is still a search for direction, and then the person is haggard and thin, and the person is thinner than a yellow flower. (Just my humble opinion) Regarding destiny, my destiny is in my hands. Now that I have it in my hands, I have what I believe I feel. I went to Jinjiang to read romance novels, which shows that I have a lot of free time.
After reading the beginning, I felt that there was a lot of nonsense and I couldn't stand it anymore.
I see there is an update, come and take a look
I've read it N times, but I've never left a comment to give it a rating. I'm so sorry. Although there are many online articles, it's hard to find good ones! I liked Never Give Up and Three Rescues of Marriage, and I've read them many times. Sometimes I look for books on Jinjiang, but I can't find anything suitable. I would like to read these good novels that I have read before. I would like to recommend a few ancient novels that I like. Zui Linglong, the heroine is a time travel novel, and Test the World and The Ballad of the Desert are not time travel novels. I have read them several times. I hope some people like them too.
Huanyu said that Yan Yan is her beacon, and I want to say that my wife's writing is like a beacon! The characters in the article warm me deeply like like-minded friends whom I have never met! What you wrote is really great! I hope you will write more articles like this! (Call)
I watched Sanzhu Marriage and Love Can't Give Up several times. Ten years, time flies really fast.
I have read Sanshu Marriage 5 times and it is still my favorite book over the years, and Yusheng is still my favorite male protagonist. It wasn't until recently that I learned that this book by the author was something I couldn't let go of. I read it in one day and still had so much to read. I really like the author's writing style, but it's a pity that it's closed.
A once-in-a-century article, read it again every time you are in a bad mood, read it again every time you are in a bad mood!
Hey, after reading some discussion threads about "intrauterine memory", I suddenly thought of you. Someone asked the baby when he was two or three years old, what it felt like in the mother's belly, where it came from, and why he came to me. They replied, "It's dark and warm in my belly. It comes from the clouds and the sky. There are angels and many babies on it. It's because I want you to be my mother." Another parent asked, what do you think Puma Ma is doing from above? The child said he was doing big homework. The parent laughed and asked what the big homework was. The child laughed but did not answer~ Then I started to think of a big article. I forgot which article it was, but it should be this one~ Big homework~hahaha~
I have read this article several times and I like it very much. I feel that words are the best expression of the author's thoughts. Shen Yan grew up in an environment lacking love. As a young man, he was talented but had extremely low self-esteem, was sensitive, delicate, and kind. With this kind of person, he was "saved" by the heroine... And the two finally got married. In fact, I really like the conversation between the heroine and her confidant Qian Yan at the beginning of the article. Haha, some Buddhist stories are also full of fun (it's the author's great ideological insights), but it also really heals the hero. They are so sweet in the back, I really like it hahaha But in the middle part, the heroine refused to accept the interrogation, which made me heartbroken. At that time, I kind of hated the heroine, after all, she was abusive~ All in all, I really like the role of Xie Shenyan that has been created so well! ! !
Strike an iron while it's hot. Rather than being inspired by Huanyu or Zhenyan alone, I guessed the author's attitude and point of view from the words, and I always felt that they were in tune. Interesting. The relationship between Huanyu and Shenyan makes me happy. The understanding of destiny and smoothness and the understanding of the relationship between lovers expressed in the article are all reassuring. But there is a but, the author's happy words are too mediocre and too crazy. There seems to be some areas in the writing that are not smooth. For example, the transition before and after the review is a bit confusing. At the beginning, there is still a search for direction, and then the person is haggard and thin, and the person is thinner than a yellow flower. (Just my humble opinion) Regarding destiny, my destiny is in my hands. Now that I have it in my hands, I have what I believe I feel. I went to Jinjiang to read romance novels, which shows that I have a lot of free time.
After reading the beginning, I felt that there was a lot of nonsense and I couldn't stand it anymore.
I see there is an update, come and take a look
I've read it N times, but I've never left a comment to give it a rating. I'm so sorry. Although there are many online articles, it's hard to find good ones! I liked Never Give Up and Three Rescues of Marriage, and I've read them many times. Sometimes I look for books on Jinjiang, but I can't find anything suitable. I would like to read these good novels that I have read before. I would like to recommend a few ancient novels that I like. Zui Linglong, the heroine is a time travel novel, and Test the World and The Ballad of the Desert are not time travel novels. I have read them several times. I hope some people like them too.