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Recognizing People and Discerning Hearts: Fables about Recognizing People Through the Ages The world is vast, the world is vast, there are thousands of people coming and going, and the human heart is even more unfathomable. Some people are as kind-hearted as snakes and scorpions, some people talk sweetly but actually have a sword in their belly, some people look mediocre but hide great talents, and some people have a dignified appearance but no real talents. Throughout the ages, those who misjudge people will at least make careless friends and suffer losses; at worst, they will miss out on good talents, ruin great undertakings, and even destroy their country and family, and leave eternal regrets. During the Spring and Autumn Period, there lived a highly respected old man in Qilu, known as Mr. Boyang. He had met countless people in his life and was well versed in knowing people. He had disciples all over the world, and many of them became pillars of the court. One day, all the disciples gathered in the school and asked their teacher for advice: "People in the world are unpredictable. How can we see a person's true face clearly and not be fooled by appearances?" Mr. Boyang stroked his beard and smiled, and said slowly: "There is a way to know people, from the outside to the inside, step by step, and then you can see the true story. Things in the world are complicated, people's hearts are unpredictable, and those who float on the surface will eventually know the wrong people and take detours; those who explore their inner core can distinguish between good and foolish, and know right from wrong. Knowing people is not about making a conclusion at a glance or listening to a word, but to study step by step, from the outside to the inside, and to clear away the fog, so that you can see the true heart." The disciples listened attentively, and the teacher went on to talk about the first level of understanding people: it is better to observe their words than to look at their faces. Words are the voice of the heart, and a good or evil thought will first reveal its deeds. When people first meet, the first thing they see is their appearance, but appearance is never the criterion for judging people. In the past, Ziyu, a disciple of Confucius, had an ugly appearance. When they first met, Confucius thought that this person had mediocre qualifications and was unlikely to become a great person, so he was quite indifferent to him. But Ziyu never cared about criticism of his appearance, was upright in his words and deeds, believed in his words, and was sincere in his reasoning. He never told lies, let alone gossiped. He was rigorous in his studies, magnanimous in his conduct, and spoke the way of a gentleman. Later, he devoted himself to his studies and had many disciples, making him famous all over the world. When Confucius learned about it, he sighed: "I judge people by their words, and I lose them. I judge people by their appearance, and I lose their sons and feathers." On the other hand, there was another person named Zaiyu, who was also a disciple of Confucius. But after getting along with him for a long time, I found that he didn't mean what he said. He said he respected teachers, but he was lazy and slack all day long, and even violated ethics. This is the simplest truth. Appearance is a natural skin that cannot be changed, and words are the expression of the heart. Whether true or false, kind or evil, there are always clues revealed in words. Those who talk sweetly and have no faith in their words must not be sincere in their hearts; only those who speak frankly and have a measured speech will have a correct character. The disciple asked again: "Can you recognize a person by listening to his words?" The teacher shook his head and said the second level of recognizing people: It is better to observe his words than to observe his actions, and to practice his will. Words are easier than actions, and actions are the ruler to measure the true heart. Words can be disguised, but actions cannot be faked. No matter how much you talk, it's better to actually do something. During the Warring States Period, Zhao Kuo, the son of the famous general Zhao She of the State of Zhao, had been familiar with military books since he was a child. He talked endlessly about the art of war and his words were sharp. Even his father could not argue with him. Everyone praised him for his talent as a general. King Zhao was also moved by his words and entrusted him with military power. But Zhao Kuo could only talk about war on paper and had never had actual combat experience. His words and deeds were inconsistent. He talked about the art of war but had no ability to act in actual combat. In the final battle of Changping, he rashly sent out troops, resulting in the Zhao State's 400,000-strong army being entraped and killed, and the Zhao State never recovered from the fall. Words of speech are as good as words, but they are not as true as actions. During the Three Kingdoms period, when Zhuge Liang was just starting out, Liu Bei visited the thatched cottage three times and listened to him talk about the general situation of the world. His words were sincere and he had a deep understanding, and he used actions to fulfill his ambitions. When he was just starting out, he set fire to Bowangpo and the new fields, and proved his talents with real achievements. From then on, he assisted Liu Bei throughout his life, devoted himself to it, united his words and deeds, and finally became famous throughout the ages. When looking at a person, you should never just listen to what he says, but also what he does, whether he is down-to-earth or ambitious; whether he walks the talk, or just talks but does not do it. Only in his actions can we see clearly the good and evil of a person's heart. The disciple suddenly realized and asked: "After observing his behavior, how can he understand the person at a deeper level?" Mr. Boyang slowly came to the third level: observing his behavior is not as good as observing his Qi, which is like a river, hiding his mind and pattern. The ability to do things can be developed through study, but a person's magnanimity and magnanimity are the accumulation of innate and acquired cultivation, and cannot be faked or faked. When Chu and Han were fighting for hegemony, Xiang Yu and Liu Bang were the best proof. Xiang Yu's power is unparalleled, he marches and fights with unparalleled bravery, he acts vigorously and has great military exploits. However, he is narrow-minded and self-willed, and cannot tolerate the opinions of others. His demeanor is full of narrow-mindedness and impetuosity, and he will never achieve great things. Liu Bang was far inferior to Xiang Yu in terms of force and military exploits, but he was calm, broad-minded, tolerant, and receptive. He was neither arrogant nor impetuous in the face of difficulties, and dealt with criticism calmly. Han Xin was once humiliated and despised by the world, but Liu Bang ignored the past and boldly appointed him. Zhang Liang and Xiao He bluntly gave advice, but he never became angry and accepted it with an open mind. This broad-mindedness attracted talented people from all over the world to join him. A person's magnanimity hides his pattern. A person with a broad mind is calm and unhurried and can tolerate things that are difficult to tolerate in the world; a person with a narrow mind is narrow-minded and frivolous in his behavior, and ultimately cannot go far or achieve anything. "After that bearing, is there a deeper state?" The disciples became more and more curious. The teacher nodded and said the fourth level of understanding people: It is better to observe the spirit than to observe the spirit. The spirit is nourished by the heart. When the spirit is fixed, the mind is stable and the foundation is deep. The bearing is the external posture, while the energy and spirit are the inner cultivation and the foundation of a person's bones. If you don't panic when things happen, you won't be alarmed by changes, your eyes are firm, and your expression is calm, you are calm; if you are panicked when encountering trivial things, if something unexpected happens, you will frown, if you look flustered and your eyes are wandering, you are distracted. During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang staged an empty city strategy. Facing Sima Yi's 100,000-strong army, there were no soldiers or generals in the city. However, he sat on the tower, burning incense and playing the piano, with a calm expression, calm eyes, and no panic at all. This calm energy stems from his inner composure and half-life cultivation. Even in desperate situations, he still remains calm and calm, which prevents Sima Yi from rashly advancing. But those who are impetuous and have no foundation will lose their position when encountering wind and rain, look flustered, speak and act inappropriately, and are not useful at all. A person's energy and spirit hide his experience, cultivation and confidence. A person with a calm mind must have a profound inner heritage and be able to handle big things and face wind and rain. Finally, Mr. Boyang solemnly stated the highest state of understanding people: It is better to observe the mind than to observe the gods. The heart is the foundation, dominates words and deeds, and determines the universe. Regardless of appearance, words, actions, demeanor, and demeanor, they are all external appearances after all, and the heart is the foundation of a person. A kind heart will lead to righteous actions, a wrong heart will lead to crooked actions, a righteous heart will lead to righteous people, and a wrong heart will lead to erroneous people. The heart is the source of all words and deeds, and it is also the core criterion for judging a person. Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty, knew how to know and employ people throughout his life. He never judged people based on appearance, but directly explored the true heart of his ministers. Wei Zheng was outspoken and dared to remonstrate, and often contradicted him in public. His words were sharp, his demeanor seemed "unruly", and there was no flattery in his expression. However, Li Shimin saw through Wei Zheng's original intention of serving the country and having no selfish motives. Even if he was unhappy in his heart, he always valued him. It was precisely because he could discern the good and evil in people's hearts, distinguish the loyalty and treachery of his ministers, appoint the loyal and virtuous, and stay away from the treacherous and sycophant that he founded the rule of Zhenguan and achieved the prosperity of the Tang Dynasty. On the other hand, Emperor Yang Guang of the Sui Dynasty, before he came to the throne, was dignified in appearance, humble in words and deeds, calm in demeanor, and brilliant in appearance. He seemed to be a wise gentleman, but he was ambitious, cruel and selfish in his heart, and he only wanted to seize power and enjoy himself. After he ascended the throne, his true nature was revealed, he was extravagant, extravagant, and harmed the loyal, and finally ended up with the country destroyed and killed. If you only look at the appearance, Yang Guang is perfect, but you can explore his true heart, but he is a treacherous and cruel person. If you don't understand people and cannot explore their true heart, you will eventually be wrong. At this point, Mr. Boyang looked at the disciples and concluded: "There are high and low levels of understanding of people, and different people have different visions." Ordinary people have a shallow vision, only focus on skin and appearance, and judge people by their appearance. They often miss out on good talents and make friends with villains, and they lose a lot; literati, who are devoted to talents and sentiments, prefer to listen to clumsy words, only believe in the rhetoric and gorgeous literary talent of others, and are easily deceived by appearances; A wise person has a clear sense of reason and no longer sticks to appearance and words. Instead, he values the authenticity of actions and judges people by their actions. He can have a slight understanding of the other person's character, but he has not yet understood the essence; a spiritual person cultivates his moral character and goes beyond his words and deeds. He carefully appreciates the other person's demeanor and elegance, looks at his mind and pattern, and goes a step further in understanding people; Those who have attained the Tao have a clear mind, can see through their temperament, quietly observe the purity of their spirit, see their inner cultivation, and have come close to knowing the true meaning of a person; those who have achieved great things can understand the origin of the human heart, put aside all external appearances, directly explore the good and evil of the heart, and discern people with their hearts, only then can they thoroughly see through a person. In the school, the breeze blew on their faces, and all the disciples suddenly became enlightened. The teacher's final words of advice: "When you know people, don't be limited by appearances, don't be trapped by words, and don't be confused by external glitz; when you read the world, you should go straight to the core, don't be obsessed with false names, and don't be disturbed by external forms. Although the human heart is difficult to fathom, there are traces to follow, from the outside to the inside and from the words. From the conduct to the Qi, from the Qi to the spirit, from the spirit to the heart, proceed step by step, and gain insight into the heart, so that you can clearly distinguish between the loyal and the evil, the wise and the foolish. This is the eternal principle of knowing people, and it is also the true way to live in life. " In all things in the world, you need to know people first. Only by knowing people well can you make good friends, use talents, and walk on a stable path. Don't be confused by appearances, don't be deceived by words, calm down, study deeply, and see through your true heart. Only then can you stay away from evil and evil, be close to the virtuous, avoid detours, and finally find a smooth road in the ups and downs of the world.
Some emotions need to be experienced completely, and some mistakes need to be gently protected. Just like many years ago, I also hoped that someone would treat my heart like this.
There are you and me in the article. I kept searching and searching along the way. Is it a mistake of Yin and Yang in the end or is it logical? Let's wait and see!
Literary fantasy style, the spiritual world of modern people. Inception similar to One Hundred Years of Solitude? ⊙▽⊙～Dream core psychological science fiction, slow-burning and mildly scary, a serious drama, not a cool novel, no system and no time travel, some gothic suspense style, some psychological reasoning adventure flavor, some hard-core knowledge mixed with literature, art, psychology, mysticism, mathematics or theoretical physics, but at its heart it is dystopian romanticism. 💓💓The early plot focuses on modern times and the near future. It is a niche experimental work that reflects on the process of industrialized civilization based on the embodied dream of society and human nature. If you like psychology-related topics, let's read it from the beginning. If you want to understand the fantasy basis of the story first, you can read the chapters after Chapter 111.
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