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101 天 Secret Decoding Xuanyuan DomineeringUrban919k WordsCompleted 1Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Constant standards for outstanding men: Use inner expansion to solve life problems. To judge whether a man is outstanding, it is never about how wide his house is or how expensive his car is - these materials are like sandcastles in the tide, which will fluctuate and fade with the times; the real ruler is hidden in the "soft power" in his heart: it is the depth of cognitive pattern, the temperature of inner cultivation, and the tenacity to transform inner strength into action. When this inner wealth expands to a certain extent, the problems in life will be solved like dominoes with a gentle push, because he has already used his inner determination to build a solid foundation for dealing with everything. 1. Cognitive pattern: overthrowing the "first domino" of the problem. The core soft power of an outstanding man is the cognitive sobriety that can escape from the "material puzzle" - he never defines himself by houses and cars, because he knows that these are "tools of life" and not "the answer to life". This understanding is the starting point for overturning all problems. His cognitive structure is hidden in three dimensions: - Not kidnapped by appearances: Facing "industry downturn" and "income fluctuations", he will not fall into self-denial of "I have no ability", nor will he follow the trend and criticize "the unfairness of the times". Instead, he can dissect the essence of gains and losses - for example, he understands that "temporary income decline ≠ lack of ability, it is just a phased adjustment of the industry cycle", stabilize his mentality first, and then find a way to break the situation. - Able to calculate "long-term accounts": He will not sacrifice his health for short-term interests, nor will he overdraw his savings for the sake of face, because he can clearly see that "materials will depreciate, but abilities, connections, and reputation will increase in value." Just like when someone is busy buying a luxury car to support his appearance, he will spend his money on learning new skills and expanding his cognitive boundaries - these "invisible investments" will eventually become the basis for solving problems in the future. - Capable of grasping the "core conflict": when quarreling over trivial matters at home or getting stuck on a work project, he never dwells on "who is right and who is wrong", but first thinks about "what needs to be solved". For example, if your partner complains that "you don't care about your family," he won't retort with "I'm tired from work." Instead, he can grasp the core of "the other person needs company." Even if you spend 20 minutes a day chatting, you can resolve conflicts. This kind of clarity of "not being biased by emotions, focusing only on the essence of the problem" makes many seemingly complicated things simple. 2. Connotative cultivation: the invisible track that allows the dominoes to "pass smoothly" If cognition is the "hand that pushes the dominoes", then connotative cultivation is the track that "keeps the dominoes from going astray" - it is not a deliberate "gentleman personality", but empathy and stability engraved in the bones, which can make the problem-solving process smoother and can also invisibly resolve many potential conflicts. His inner qualities are hidden in the most daily details: - Emotional stability is the background: even if he fails at work or loses money on investments, he will not lose his temper at home, but will tell his family, "It's okay, let's find a solution together." This kind of stability is not about "having no temper", but understanding that "bad emotions cannot solve the problem, and will also hurt the people closest to him" - the peace of mind of his family will become his most solid backing. - Empathy is warmth: To his parents, he can detect the cowardice behind "reporting good news but not bad news", and will take the initiative to say, "If you don't have enough money, just tell me, don't bear it."; To his partner, he can understand that "being tired of raising a child" is not "hypocritical", and will share housework; to his subordinates, he can understand that "newcomers make mistakes" as a necessary part of growth, and will not criticize them at the beginning - this understanding makes people around him willing to work side by side with him, and the problems will naturally be reduced by half. - Humility is confidence: Even if he has achieved a small amount of success in his career, he will not "put on airs", such as saying "thank you" to the waiter or "hard work" to the courier, and will listen carefully to "young people's ideas" when communicating with juniors. Because he understands that "everyone has his own shining point, arrogance will only block his own way" - this non-arrogant attitude allows him to hear more suggestions and avoid many detours. 3. Action tenacity: the ultimate power that makes the dominoes "fall to the ground with sound" No matter how deep your knowledge is and how good your cultivation is, if it doesn't land on the ground, it's just "talking on paper". The soft power of an outstanding man will eventually turn into "actions that can solve problems" - he never says "I can do it", but uses the tenacity of "doing it step by step" to truly "fall" all problems. His tenacity in action is reflected in three levels: - "Start small": If he wants to improve his capabilities, he will not shout "I want a million yuan a year", but will spend one hour a day learning programming and reading industry reports; if he wants to improve family relationships, he will not say "I will spend more time with you in the future", but start with "reading picture books with my children tonight" and "walking to the park with my parents on weekends". These "small actions" may seem inconspicuous, but over time they will become the power of change. - Not afraid of "trying and making mistakes again": When his business fails, he will not just lie down and say "I can't do it", but review "what went wrong", even if he starts over from setting up a street vendor or doing freelance work; when he hits a wall in learning new skills, he will not give up and say "it's too difficult", but break it down into "learning 1 small knowledge point every day" and slowly chew on it - this kind of tenacity of "not afraid of losing, but afraid of not taking action" has finally turned many "seemingly unsolvable" things. - Able to shoulder "responsibility": When his parents are sick, he will not say "I don't have time", but will take leave to accompany the doctor and stay up late to take care of him; when his partner is unemployed, he will not complain "Why are you so useless", but will say "It doesn't matter, I will support you, and you can slowly find a job you like"; children cannot keep up with their studies. , He would not scold him "why are you so stupid", but would patiently accompany him to analyze the wrong questions - this responsibility of "not evading or shirk" is not "being forced to shoulder the blame", but "understanding that he is the support of his family". This belief allows him to withstand pressure and solve problems one by one. Conclusion: Real excellence is to live as your own "Dinghaishenzhen". In the end, you will find that the standard for a consistently outstanding man is never "how much material you have", but "how many things you can hold in your heart and how many difficulties you can withstand." When his cognition is deep enough, his cultivation is warm enough, and his actions are tough enough, his inner soft power will grow bigger and bigger like a snowball. At this time, the problems in life are no longer "a hurdle that cannot be overcome", but "things that can be solved naturally", just like dominoes, all of them can be resolved with just a gentle push. Such a man may not have a dazzling external label, but he can use his inner determination to live a stable and powerful life - he can support his own life and the happiness of those around him. This is the most praiseworthy "excellence": taking the inner core as the core, letting all problems solve themselves, and making life smoother and smoother.

102 游 Game Invasion The Cat Isn't BaldSports3.1M WordsCompleted 1MReads9.6Score112.6kShelves

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Learn how to write. This is the only book on my bookshelf that I can barely learn anything from. The others are just empty fiction.

106 每 A Must-Know Guide to Changing Your Life Every Day Jumping Little CarpMarriage & Romance1.1M WordsCompleted 28Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Hope it helps you

107 日 Daily Entertainment Uses Love to Generate Electricity Late Night Fruit FishingUrban378k WordsOngoing —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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The span of these few years is a bit long, the energy is strong, and the thinking is not tossing, it is a bit embarrassing to be called a young person, isn't it fashionable to be critical in advance? I invite you all to start and let your thoughts shuttle in different fields. Can you control it?

108 双 Two Souls in One: Magic in the Left Hand and Taoism in the Right Hand Hidden TideEastern Fantasy1.0M WordsOngoing 997Reads5.8Score183Shelves

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Watchable, not cerebral palsy, not systematic. It's about a Taoist priest and a magician, two souls sharing one body! The fusion of Taoism and magic is causing chaos in the magical world!

109 南 Rongguang of the Southern Tang Dynasty: I, Li Yu, Am More Than Just the Emperor of Ci The Sky Outside the WindowHistorical1.5M WordsCompleted 1.5kReads7.2Score114Shelves

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History of the Old Five Dynasties

115 十 Social Arts of the Ten Gods Philosophical CatUrban130k WordsCompleted 51Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Absolutely practical book!

119 我 I Am a Fortune Teller (Original Work of "I'm Not a Master" Starring Li Xian and Li Yitong) Yi ZhiMystery547k WordsCompleted 16.1kReads9.6Score3.4kShelves

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These are two very good anti-fraud guides. The storylines in them are not boring at all. The more I read, the more I want to read. After reading it, I obviously feel that my experience has been greatly improved.

128 别 Stop Eating, My Devil! AyanamiModern Romance617k WordsOngoing 1Reads—Score—Shelves

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Just read the second volume, full of knowledge points

131 长 The Battle of Changjin Lake: the Turning Point of the Korean War Li RanHistorical52k WordsCompleted 774Reads9.4Score—Shelves

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Although the real history is not so legendary, it is more flesh and blood [punch out][punch out][punch out]

133 红 Cultivation in the Red World: the Road to Enlightenment Messy ThoughtsEastern Fantasy1.0M WordsCompleted 3.9kReads9.3Score406Shelves

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A book that can help you embark on the path of spiritual practice, no need to worry about it

139 撷 Jiejunxing Always Stay TogetherEastern Fantasy201k WordsOngoing 56Reads—Score—Shelves

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"Establish a heart for the heaven and earth, and a life for the people!" Others are talking about medical books and technology. The traditional Chinese medicine and humanistic views conveyed in the novel "Jie Jun Xing" are the most difficult to find beauty in today's society!

140 梦 Dreams Can Be so Beautiful Northern Xinjiang Ice SongSci-Fi & Apocalypse442k WordsCompleted 2Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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A classic book in the fields of education and business.

141 窗 The Road Outside the Window and the Sea in My Heart Shitou XiaoxiModern Romance207k WordsCompleted 4Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Book 1: This book is not only a touching story, but also a treasure trove of rich knowledge. Workplace and industry insights, history and humanities and social sciences, art and creative fields, emotions and life philosophy are suitable for readers with different interests to dig deeper. The second book: "Part of the business war is professional yet exciting. The author definitely has something interesting to say!"

142 池 Pond Girl Stuns the World: Diving to Conquer the World Shopkeeper Hu Who Loves to Eat Fried Loofah41k WordsCompleted 4Reads8.5Score—Shelves

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Workplace stories, inspiring wisdom

144 最 The Purest Love Happy Soy MilkUrban2.0M WordsCompleted 3Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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I learned a lot of life philosophy!

146 临 Dying Wish Sister Lei's Old Licking DogMystery322k WordsOngoing 130Reads5.8Score102Shelves

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A high-viewpoint, hard science fiction, strong logic, and humorous version of "The End of Ten Days", covering 17 subjects, rigorous in knowledge, and full of cognitive skills. It is a book written for my own mythical beasts to read when they grow up. The writing attitude is very correct.