Miss Pear Learns to Live with Herself

It's quite suitable for women to watch. Women think. Young women can read more. Be less love-minded. A reflection on life. It's not about right or wrong. Especially in the few years after I came out of society, many confusing points were found in the book. Family of origin, marriage. About respect. About loving yourself. About status. Interesting. Some words hit the nail on the head. But life is more complicated. Not everyone's script is the same. So let's see if that's okay. Substitution is not necessary. Something.

Ms. Lizi used her personal experience to make me feel too much empathy. When she was asking questions, I couldn't help but ask myself, are the views we know the same as what we think and recognize? When she was experiencing pain, I seemed to feel the pain too. Being framed and restricted seemed to have no choice. When she realized and understood herself, I felt as if I also knew a little more about myself. The plot and links set by the author at the end peel off Miss Pear's external frame little by little, from social opinions, values, family expectations, etc., And finally get the pure self. It's really not easy. Some of the contents in it are worth thinking about carefully. It's a very good book.

I originally thought it was just a book about female self-improvement, but after reading it, I felt that this was a book that could be read by people who were trapped by modern civilization and moneyism and suffered from it. Compared with "Walden", which was too obscure and difficult to understand, this book has the same concept, which is primitive naturalism, but it is easier to read and has a more novel perspective. It incorporates a lot of psychology, feminist liberation and other ideas, which made me enlightened. I highly recommend everyone to read it.

It's like having a conversation with myself, and the process of finding myself is very healing. Some new concepts have broken the concepts that have been implanted in my body. I am re-recognizing myself, listening to myself, and constructing myself, which has brought a lot of comfort and strength to me who was frustrated and frustrated.

Infp Aquarius, like Miss Pear, I suffer from internal friction, self-torture, always live in fantasy, and worry about the future. I didn't remember anything after reading it, but thank you for this book that resonated with me and made me change. Happy New Year!

Although I didn't seem to remember anything in my mind after reading it. But it influenced me in a subtle way. This is the best book I have ever read, because it sharpened the paranoia in my heart and slowly let it go, making me feel relaxed and happy.

The society we live in now is almost exactly the same as the insect island where Miss Riko lives. We are all bound by the invisible chain of social rules, thinking that the goals under the public rules are our own goals. But your own heart will tell you what you really think. So we torture ourselves internally and always feel unhappy. Through the life of Miss Pear, we can understand what we are struggling with and what we really think. It's not what other people tell you over time, that's not the real you. Find your true self. Find your own freedom.

A very surprising book. When I read the title at first, I thought it was about the author's ordinary daily life, but I didn't expect it to be so fantastic and thought-provoking. The book tells many profound truths through the mouths of Yatu and Marco, and has some new angles to look at the problem. It is very speculative. Many of the contents are also applicable to today's modern life, and can give some enlightenment to people who are confused in life. The content in the book can be read frequently, and it will probably be read frequently. I also hope that after reading this book, we can find our own fish island as soon as possible.

After reading this book, I feel like I have gained a new life like Miss Riko. Like Lizi, I have always been subject to the rules of society, the expectations of my parents or the shackles I put on myself. I have locked myself deeply into the endless abyss. I have not seen the light for a long time. Internal friction is constantly eroding me. Fear surrounds me. It becomes difficult for me to even breathe. I am sorry. Every moment I live in the past and the future, but I do not live in the present. When I followed Miss Lizi throughout my life, I could actually begin to experience the happiness of the moment. My endless thoughts suddenly disappeared. I jumped out of the cognition I had set. My world finally became quiet, and my breathing began to become longer. The steps I stepped on the ground were like a deep embrace and kiss between my feet and the ground. Every step was so powerful. I started not to distinguish but just realized that I had been distinguishing for too long and I didn't want to continue to distinguish. I live for the social label and my mission. The meaning of living is the present, every moment. I don't think about the pain of the past or the future life. I just live in the present. This feeling makes my heavy soul learn to fly over the mountains. I experienced this feeling once when I was climbing Mount Tai. I didn't care about the top of the mountain because I knew it was there and never left, so I just enjoyed every step under my feet and fully felt the happiness and miracle of the moment. Slowly, a smile appeared on my face. It was an extremely enjoyable physical and mental journey. Some people thought I was crazy and exclaimed when they saw me reaching the top of the mountain easily. Because I carry nothing. I am worthy, worthy of experiencing everything I feel about life. At this moment, even the dust in the air has become lovely, and everything has its own meaning. What a lucky and happy thing it is to encounter a good book. I am grateful to the author for his writing. This is a refreshing journey and a shock to the soul.

"Even if we don't have Buddha Island or Fish Island in real life, we can't let the place we are in turn into an insect island and crush us. Cherish the moment and live well, and everything will get better." This is an unpredictable book, and the more you read, the more you become immersed in it. Lizi, who is crushed by the social environment, has been bound by the so-called life goals of the Insect Islanders since he was a child because he is an Insect Islander. People on this island work hard every day, working day and night, pursuing their so-called personal success. But do these things really count as "life"? So what is life? Is it because we work hard, pursue success, and are so busy that we ignore our physical and mental health? I don't think so. But on Insect Island, this kind of life has become the norm. Rich people will get better and better, but what about people in the middle and lower classes? They work hard, but in the end they often end up being plotted, slandered, and deceived, and they never make a name for themselves. The relationship between people is just a bond of interests, and there is no so-called real feelings at all. People will do whatever it takes to achieve their own interests, while people in the middle and lower classes can only grit their teeth and endure silently. This has been Lizi's situation since she was a child: she must study hard, find a good job, find a partner, get married and have children. These things seem to be tasks on a life list that must be completed one by one. Apart from this, it seems that you cannot have other interests and hobbies, otherwise it will be considered as "not doing your job properly". However, can such a lifestyle really make people happy? Lizi's dilemma lasted until her grandmother left. Grandma is the person closest to Li Zi, even closer than her mother. The death of her grandmother was a huge blow to Lizi. She felt even more lonely and was about to lose even the house she had lived in since she was a child. This series of changes made her completely collapsed and unable to cheer up, until she met "Mark" - a soft, smart cat who can also talk! From then on, Li Zi began her journey to Buddha Island. On Buddha Island, she was full of praise for the beautiful scenery, mountains and flowing water. Although she couldn't stay on Buddha Island for long, every time she went there, her troubles and confusion seemed to be "charged" and healed. After chatting with Mr. Fo and Mark, Lizi was able to slowly unravel the obstacles that she couldn't figure out or overcome. There is also a good friend "Raki" in Lizi's life who she has known since childhood. Lucky is a well-off woman, pursued by men and successful in her career, and her life seems to be full of glory. But is she really happy? I don't know. Sadly, Lucky ends up betraying Riko and hurting her feelings. What's worse is that this friendship makes Riko understand that the so-called mutual support and mutual reliance between friends and sisters are actually nothing but falsehood. In the face of interests, Lucky chose to use Lizi instead of cherishing this relationship. Riko, who was betrayed by her friend, fell into distress again and was completely disappointed in this friendship. She went to Buddha Island again and discussed many issues with Mr. Buddha. Buddha Island is not a place that just anyone can adapt to, but Li Zi is particularly suitable to live there. Therefore, the people on the island gave her a letter of invitation, allowing her to stay and be herself. However, there is still a place she longs for in her heart - Fish Island. It was the beautiful island her surfing instructor had mentioned. Between Fish Island and Buddha Island, Li Zi needs to make a choice. Finally, she decided to witness for herself whether the fish island described by the coach was really as beautiful as he said. She went to Fish Island and lived a free life, doing many things she wanted to do, enjoying the present, and no longer being bound by the anxiety of the future. She also met Mark again on Fish Island. This ending is so heartwarming and beautiful. There is also an Easter egg in the book: Pear is not the biological child of his parents. She discovered this secret from her grandmother's diary when she was cleaning up her room. At the same time, she also learned from the diary the various hardships her grandmother had experienced during her lifetime. Grandma's experience is heartbreaking. If Lizi had not left the insect island, perhaps her fate would have been as rough as her grandmother's.