I'll Spend the Rest of My Life Being Someone You Don't Mess With
余生做个不好惹的人
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- 100k Words
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- 3y ago
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Distinguish between what is character and personality, what is warm-heartedness and a good person, and what is principle and bottom line? What does it mean to love yourself and know how to say no? What is hard power and soft power? How do you know how to "reject without hurting one's temper" and "directly say no"? How to reduce expectations and obstacles? Know how to express emotions healthily, communicate actively and effectively, learn to identify PUA, and learn to trouble others. Try to review, defend, and understand critical thinking and the malicious intent of the recipient. Set psychological boundaries and dare to offend people. How to express that there is a needle hidden in the skin, and that you have attitude and principles? True and beautiful.
📖There are no obscure principles in the book, but real and heart-wrenching stories are used to tell the twists and turns in interpersonal communication. In the past, I was always accustomed to compromise, for fear of offending others, but what was the result? What you get in return is not respect, but more exaggeration. As the book says: "If your kindness has no edge, then it is weakness." I used to feel that taking a step back would lead to a brighter future, but now I understand that sometimes giving in blindly will only put myself in a worse situation.
For us good old people, it is indeed like all the characteristics mentioned in the book, which have given me great help 🤭🤭
I really like this book, the writing is very real, and I was very moved after reading it. I will slowly change and get rid of the name of a good guy. Try to find your niche.
After reading this book, I feel the power of rejection. I can say no to things I don't want to do. I also realize that good people need to set inner boundaries and move forward little by little.
It's very interesting and points out many workplace rules that I haven't noticed before. It's good-looking, practical, and thought-provoking. It's especially suitable for friends who have no workplace experience, and it's also suitable for a good old working person like me. I've read it three times, but it's not enough to make me remember it deeply and change my behavior. I haven't read it enough. After all, changing oneself cannot be achieved overnight. I hope the author will update it earlier, so that I, a working old person, can achieve a self-breakthrough as soon as possible...
The analysis is very real
Come check it out, it's so beautiful!
Most of us may be in a state of moral and ethical kidnapping, doing many things against our will, often neglecting ourselves, and eventually becoming full of negative energy, or even suffering from depression or abnormal behavior. Therefore, I believe that only by considering your own feelings while you are alive can you achieve mental health.
Feel the strength to give yourself spiritual strength, let yourself learn to slowly establish your own boundaries, and be brave to say anything that makes you uncomfortable or wrongs you!