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1. 51 这 This Guy Is a Bit of a Rascal 这个家伙有点坏 E Fo Ge鄂佛歌Urban1.3M WordsCompleted [No formulaic plot][Not a wish-fulfillment story][No cheat abilities][Traditional][Realistic][Period][Countryside][Hardship] A boy who is both bad and good, a family made up of people with no blood ties, a difficult yet sweet golden age, and a story full of humor and warmth... Beginning in the 1980s, this novel spans forty years and strives to recreate the changes of the times, telling the story of one person's growth. Above all, this is a realistic story, with both sweetness and heartbreak. Rea 69kReads9.3Score7k14d adds
2. 52 炒 A Family's Journey Through the Stock Market 炒股养家记 Fifty-Six Flowers, One Family五十六朵花是一家Urban1.2M WordsOngoing The Underlying Logic of the Stock Market Human Immortality and Resurrection Understanding the Nature of the Universe Searching for the Meaning of Life [Help humanity stop turning on itself, find its soul, and achieve immortality and resurrection, so that life can flourish throughout the universe and we can live happily with our families forever.] [Life is one great dream. In the face of death, dreams and reality are no different. Write about, witness, and imagine every beautiful thing in this w —Reads—Score—14d adds

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   "Understanding the Essence of the Universe, Finding the Meaning of Life" [To stop humanity's internal strife and achieve a community of shared future for mankind: finding the soul, achieving human immortality and resurrection, will allow us to live endlessly in the universe, forever living happily with our families.] [Life is a grand dream; in the face of death, there is no difference between dream and reality; writing about, seeing, and contemplating all the beauty in the world makes life worthwhile.] [The goal of Tomato's free novel "Stock Trading to Support the Family" is to write about all the beauty in the world, incorporating my own values ​​into this book. Criticism and guidance are welcome.] The greatest happiness for humanity lies in enjoying family life, genuine human affection, and the richness of human civilization, such as songs... The greatest pain for humanity is facing the separation of life and death, the departure of loved ones; the living suffer the most... If one only knows how to eat, drink, and be merry, but cannot enjoy family life, genuine human affection, and human civilization, then one is living like an animal, wasting the opportunity to be human: it would be better to be an animal, eating and sleeping all day, unaware of birth, aging, sickness, and death, and even more unaware of the excruciating pain of separation and death—how blissful... Money is merely an external thing; you can't take it with you when you die. It's enough to meet your daily needs. If you cannot achieve immortality and resurrection, no amount of wealth is anything but fleeting. If wealth cannot bring physical and mental health and longevity to the whole family, then those enormous numbers are just symbols jumping in a bank account, utterly meaningless. In life, don't dwell on those who treat you badly; just stay away from them. This way, your life will be free of negative energy. Conversely, always try your best to repay those who are kind to you; this will fill your life with positive energy. When you are kind to others, they will be kind to you in return—it's a virtuous cycle. Living in such an atmosphere filled with genuine affection is the best kind of life. [In human civilization, songs and science and technology are the most beloved. Life is often filled with disappointments, and in times of pain, we listen to songs like "I Am Your Gesang Flower," "Standing and Waiting for You for Three Thousand Years," "So You Were Here Too," "Childhood Hometown," and "White Fox" over and over again. Science and technology are the driving force of life, so we must study hard, work hard, and live well: to use science and technology to find the mysteries of the soul, to achieve human immortality and resurrection, so that we can live happily with our families forever...] From "Stock Trading to Support the Family: Financial Freedom" to "The Future Has Arrived: Immortality and Resurrection" to "Mom's Words: Where is Happiness?" (Lin Yang's colleague's story) to "Looking Back: True Love is Invincible" (Sister Su Yao's story) to "Sunrise: Let Nature Take Its Course" (Sister Lin Yang's story) to "Family Feuds: Interplay of Light and Shadow" (Lin Yang's classmate's story) to "Turning Points: A Thousand-Mile Marriage" (Lin Yang's parents' story) to "The Meaning of Life: Immortality and Resurrection" (Lin Yang's sister's story) to "Past Life and Present Life: A Daughter is Her Father's Lover from a Past Life"... [I remember when I first started junior high, my dad bought me an advanced mathematics book. During the college entrance exam, I did very well, but my dad still wanted me to apply to a third-tier university near home, saying I could come home anytime... After starting school, I missed home every day, and only then did I understand my dad's heart... They say a daughter is her father's lover from a past life, and it's true...] [This world is so wondrous. I want to know what the beginning of the universe was, whether the universe has an end, and most importantly, where the souls go... My dream is to find the soul, achieve human immortality and a great resurrection, and continue to thrive in the universe... What about you...? Several mass extinctions have already occurred on Earth. How can humanity avoid the fate of the dinosaurs...? I hope humanity stops its internal strife, works together to develop high technology, finds the soul, and completes humanity's greatest evolution: achieving immortality and a great resurrection; In this way, we can continue to thrive in the universe, living happily with our families forever...] [The greatest truths are simple. What I like most is simplicity, simplifying everything, and understanding the essence.] I plan to write only this one book, to gather all my life experiences and everything I want to write about, and keep writing until it reaches tens of millions, tens of millions, tens of millions of words... My goal is to create a masterpiece that will be passed down through the universe... This book is an encyclopedia of life, reflecting on the universe, and incorporating all my observations, feelings, insights, and gains from my life journey, along with my worldview, into written form. My teacher said that with a good book, each reading brings different experiences and different gains, and some books can only be truly understood through personal experience. If you like this book, be sure to add it to your bookshelf. It's like a vibrant living entity, constantly growing, enriching, and refining itself, iterating and upgrading step by step. Each reading, whether stemming from the evolution of the book itself or the accumulation of personal experience, will spark new insights and resonate with your soul. If you enjoy my work, please patiently accompany its slow transformation and gradual completion! Your support is my greatest motivation! Creation is a long journey of self-cultivation, requiring one to calm the mind, allow memories and thoughts to settle, and systematically organize the chaotic thoughts in one's mind, expressing the delicate insights from the heart word by word. Thank you again for your companionship and support. Let us accompany this work as it grows and improves, embarking together on this reading journey that transcends time and space!

3. 53 官 The Official’s Path: A Dragon Soaring to the Heavens 官途之飞龙在天 Old Deep-Sea Monster深海老怪Urban1.7M WordsCompleted Why become an official? For power or money? After graduating from university, Song Qing couldn't find a job. Unexpectedly, the county Party secretary arranged for him to join the civil service through a special recruitment program. Starting as a low-ranking clerk, he devoted himself to serving the people and rose step by step. Only in the end did he discover a shocking secret! 6.9kReads8.9Score69814d adds

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   I recommend this book. It doesn't have any grand pronouncements. The protagonist graduates from university and gradually rises to the top. Some of his experiences in developing the economy, engaging in politics, and interacting with other people are worth learning from.

4. 54 人 A Treasury of Life Wisdom 人生智慧宝典 Yulong豫龙257k WordsOngoing This is a lesson in wisdom that no one in Chinese education has dared to teach to this day. This is a guide that can make everyone around you an open book. This is a treasury of wisdom that emperors in ancient times were required to study, that modern-day bosses ought to study, and that has never been shared with outsiders. 16Reads—Score—14d adds

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   I regretted it after watching it; I regretted seeing it so late. If only I had learned it 30 years earlier…

5. 55 白 The Meaning of the White Tiger 白虎通义 Ban Gu班固Historical53k WordsCompleted The Baihutong, also known as the White Tiger Discussions or the White Tiger Treatise on Virtue, is a collection of proceedings from an officially convened meeting on Confucian studies during the Eastern Han dynasty, as well as an imperially sanctioned work interpreting the Confucian classics. It holds an exceptionally important place in the history of Confucian thought and Han political thought. In 79 CE, the fourth year of Emperor Zhang of Han’s Jianchu era, the emperor personally convened a la 28Reads8.6Score—14d adds

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   Cultivate oneself, regulate one's family, govern the state, and bring peace to the world! [Under pressure][Under pressure][Under pressure]

6. 56 琉 Memoirs of the Glazed World 琉璃世界回忆录 Huahua Juanjuan花花卷卷Urban166k WordsCompleted [An ensemble story about real life, not a wish-fulfillment story, not a romance, no golden finger, and no absolute main character] Some people are born into privilege, while others are born to toil. The world of Liuli has three parallel layers, each with clearly divided levels of wealth and living conditions. When a mysterious virus that makes no distinction between people strikes, what will become of humanity in these different environments? In terms of economic cost, treating one critically i —Reads—Score—14d adds

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   It doesn't specifically focus on interpersonal relationships, yet they are present throughout the story. It's a realistic portrayal of a group of people, neither a wish-fulfillment story nor a romance novel, and it doesn't feature any cheat codes.

7. 57 云 Yunluo Weiguang: A Winding Career Path 云落薇光：职场逆旅 Yun Luo Wei云落薇Modern Romance314k WordsCompleted [Career comeback + women's growth + face-slapping wish fulfillment + power struggles + romance] Yun Luowei is focused on making money when her company ruthlessly fires her for her outstanding performance and withholds the bonus she is owed! Injustice at work drives her to the brink, but it also ignites her fury, and she resolutely takes up the law as her weapon. This is not only her fight against injustice, but the beginning of her transformation. How does the pushover who was once at the mercy 20Reads8.8Score—14d adds

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   To learn about workplace dynamics and interpersonal relationships, you can follow the female protagonist's experiences to gain insights and lessons for navigating social interactions.

8. 58 重 Reborn in 1975: From the Start, I Tore Up the Order to Return to the City 重生1975：开局撕毁回城调令 Great Cangyue大沧月Urban4.0M WordsCompleted Zhou Yang, an unrivaled patriot who devoted his whole life to his country, was reborn and returned to the remote mountain village where he had been sent down to work in 1975! Looking at the transfer order in his hand, this time he didn't hesitate. He tore it to shreds! In his previous life, he'd been blinded by greed and abandoned his wife and daughter to return to the city, watching helplessly as Li Youwei and her daughter met tragic deaths. Reborn, all Zhou Yang wanted was a warm home with his 163.2kReads9.5Score18.2k14d adds

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   💥You can learn a lot about political maneuvering and interpersonal skills, which is worthwhile. It's a high-IQ showdown where you can turn the tide in desperate situations. Not recommended for those who aren't smart.

9. 59 南 Farming Amid the Chaos of the Northern and Southern Dynasties 南北乱世我种田 The Gods Want to Go Wild神想出去浪Historical1.2M WordsCompleted Transmigration, power struggles, war, farming The chaotic Northern and Southern Dynasties era is impossible to survive in! Then let's fight! A mysterious, stunningly beautiful shaman? I'll make her my wife. The Baiyue tribes in the Ten Thousand Demon Mountains? They're one of us, so don't panic! A refugee-army general with a mysterious background? A good brother, let's make our way together! The lofty aristocratic clans? I can't kill you all… The Two Jin dynasties and the Northern and Southern D 1.9kReads8.9Score20314d adds
10. 60 重 Reborn in 1993: Dark Sea 重生1993，暗海 The Gods Want to Go Wild神想出去浪Urban1.9M WordsCompleted The physical edition of Wrathful Sea, Calm the Abyss is now available. Presales officially begin at 19:00 on October 11. [Reborn] [Mystery] [Undercover Agent] [Revenge] [Anti-Drug Operations] [Counterespionage] The golden finger is extremely weak, and he relies on his own abilities. This is a battle of wits between highly intelligent opponents, so you need to keep your brain switched on. There is no showing off and face-slapping! Ideal for veteran readers. If you understand it, you'll find it ve 259.5kReads9.6Score30.9k14d adds
11. 61 熬 Surviving the Ordeal 熬过劫难 Tian Geng 17685田庚17685Urban925k WordsOngoing First, be certain that you can reach the summit. Then believe this book can rewrite your fate, and believe in the power of belief. By the time you read this book, the identity you have now will already have begun to loosen its grip. The moment you choose to begin, you have already left mediocrity behind. Can my story help you find your own path to salvation? May words reveal the power they truly hold. 63.7kReads9.2Score13.3k14d adds

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    From elementary school to university, the most essential survival skills, interpersonal relationships, and how to make money are never taught! Not recommending this would be a disservice to the author!

12. 62 妖 Monster Codes: Journey to the West 妖怪密码：西游记 Bai Ze白泽Eastern Fantasy333k WordsCompleted How many demons are there in Journey to the West? The White Bone Spirit, Tiger Vanguard, the Red-Rumped Macaque, Red Boy... Only after enduring the Eighty-One Tribulations can one look upon the world's fortunes with a smile. What are their true forms? What becomes of them? Is there a connection between demons and natural phenomena? Here, I'll reveal the answers to all these questions, one by one. 168Reads9.3Score3014d adds

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    Interpreting classic works from another perspective [Note][Note][Note]

13. 63 一 The Three Kingdoms: History So Addictive, You Can’t Put It Down 一读就上瘾的三国史 SpikeHistorical191k WordsCompleted The Three Kingdoms era was marked by endless warfare and rival warlords, and is now familiar to everyone thanks to Romance of the Three Kingdoms. But the novel isn't history, and some of the famous stories we all know never actually happened! Did Zhuge Liang really borrow arrows with straw boats? Why is Zhang He known as “the Three Kingdoms strength tester”? How did Fei Yi live a life worthy of the title “master of pacing”? Did Cao Zhi really love his sister-in-law? Why is Cao Cao's life said to 1.1kReads9.5Score10014d adds
14. 64 庸 Beware the Mediocre 庸人小心 Yin Mu殷木Urban370k WordsCompleted Realistic fiction · Unrequited love with a bad ending · Small-town life · Ordinary people · Coming-of-age · No golden finger Based on the true experiences of friends, this story is told from a male first-person perspective and follows Jiang Xin through the ups and downs of his youth in a small southern county town from 2005 to 2014. He was once an elementary-school prodigy admired by everyone. But from the moment he started middle school, his life quietly began to veer off course. As a boy, he 201Reads—Score10714d adds

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    "Ordinary People Beware" avoids lengthy didacticism but is rich in realistic insights. Set in a southern county town between 2005 and 2016, the story unfolds from a male perspective, witnessing the rise and fall of those around him. The regret for Lin Qiyu is only one aspect; the focus is more on seeing the coldness and warmth of human relationships, recognizing one's own ordinariness, and ultimately, reflecting on one's own path after finishing the book.

15. 65 这 This Three Kingdoms Has No Transmigration 这个三国不穿越 Marquis of Xiangping, Defender of the East镇东襄平侯Historical700k WordsCompleted There are fewer and fewer novels about the Three Kingdoms that stick to the official history. This one presents a complete picture of the era, with the schemes and calculations of great figures, the helplessness and laments of ordinary people, incisive analysis, historical figures weighing their decisions, and examinations of the historical context. It features vivid depictions of military strategy and warfare, as well as the complexities of human relationships at every turn. All these elements 215Reads8.8Score—14d adds

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    This is a vivid historical account of the Three Kingdoms period, offering insights into historical events and figures, revealing the strategies, power struggles, interests, and human relationships behind them. It focuses on the geography, military affairs, powerful families, personnel, and intrigues of the Three Kingdoms era. The account maintains a fair and impartial perspective, avoiding bias or prejudice.

16. 66 零 Zero-Degree Intimacy 零度暧昧 Lan Sheng澜笙Modern Romance335k WordsCompleted [The print edition goes on sale across all platforms on August 1] [Short drama now streaming] Previously titled: Zero-Degree Intimacy [One-on-one romance + both leads’ first love + happy ending + secret marriage + sweet romance ♥ Double-layer milk foam, 70% sugar!] (Rich, sharp-tongued, scheming investor Jian Yuchen VS money-loving, mischievous young designer Wen Ni) In a nutshell: She married her nemesis. In physics, zero degrees is the point where ice and water coexist. Zero-degree intimacy is 79.1kReads9.5Score9.6k14d adds

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    These three classic novels—one set in the workplace, one set in a wealthy family, and one set in history—are increasingly captivating, with vividly and lively character portrayals.

17. 67 向 Us in Xiangyang Lane 向阳里的我们 The Rabbit No Longer Keeps Silent兔子不再沉默Urban606k WordsCompleted [#Real life, #warm neighborhood stories, #healing family bonds, #raising a child and turning life around] Delivery worker Wang Xiaojun had a pain he couldn't put into words: his six-year-old son Xiaobao lived in his own world, like a star. One moment of carelessness nearly resulted in Xiaobao getting lost, sending the entire Xingfuli residential community into chaos. The incident tore open the cracks in Wang Xiaojun and his wife Li Xiujuan's strained marriage, while also revealing the troubles 7Reads—Score—14d adds

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    Life is a mess, but there are always people who find sweetness in the chaos. This isn't a fairy tale; it's a true story that happens around us. Delivery drivers, taxi drivers, pancake vendors, retired workers… in the old neighborhood called "Happiness Lane," a group of ordinary people, battered and bruised by life, cry, argue, grit their teeth, but never let go of each other's hands. They show you with kindness and resilience: even in the mud, the warmest flowers can bloom. Open "Us in the Sunshine" and witness the most extraordinary epic of ordinary people.

18. 68 教 Learn to Unlock Your Brain with Ease 教你轻松掌握大脑开窍术 Eight Hundred Miles of Wind and Clouds风云八百里737k WordsCompleted Do you keep getting stuck on problems with social relationships, making money, or changing your fate? This book, Teach Yourself to Unlock Your Brain, lays bare the unwritten rules of society. From “you need to understand the Way of Heaven to protect your wealth” to “get benefactors on your side by aligning your interests,” from “steer clear of a weak mindset to hold on to good fortune” to “even swatting a mosquito can teach you how to handle people,” it breaks down practical advice on social tie 1.2kReads—Score21014d adds
19. 69 权 Vortex of Power and Desire 权欲之涡 Misty Isle Beneath the Starry River烟屿落星河Urban2.4M WordsOngoing A career in government is like a bottomless abyss: one wrong step, and you’re shattered to pieces. Wu Liangyou has barely entered the political arena and hasn’t even tasted power when he’s already caught in the mire. Should he bow his head and bide his time, or risk his life in a desperate fight? The abyss cannot crush a ruthless man daring enough to change his fate. Watch Wu Liangyou break out of a hopeless situation, escape death, and rise to the top over a trail of blood. 99Reads6.1Score10614d adds

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    If you want to succeed in officialdom, you need to know this.

20. 70 满 A Master of Social Skills, and You Call Me a Workplace Rookie? 满级人情世故，你管这叫职场新人 Wealth and Honor Are Here富贵在地Urban388k WordsCompleted Chu Qingyun transmigrates to a parallel world, where he becomes a college student on the verge of graduation. From the start, he grabs a defibrillator and saves Hu Li, the campus belle, after she collapses unconscious due to an irregular heartbeat. To repay him, Hu Li takes him straight to the hospital room of Gao Zhiwu, the province's third-most-powerful official. A copy of Fifteen Years of the Wanli Reign and a simple wish to study Ming history with his teacher earn Gao Zhiwu's favor! Just 250Reads8.3Score—14d adds

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    🔥These books all offer some learning opportunities, and since they're written in novel form, they're much more interesting and accessible than purely informative or motivational articles. [Thinking]

21. 71 销 The Legend of the Top Salesperson 销冠传奇 Mojie Impression摩吉印象Urban2.1M WordsCompleted No connections, only a shadow. But competition cannot be stopped. In an age when there are too many people chasing too few opportunities, you have to compete constantly to claim your share of the resources, with no end in sight... 1.2kReads8.9Score10714d adds
22. 72 回 Rewind: A Different Approach, One More Time 回档：换个姿势再来一次 Coffee with Garlic咖啡就蒜Urban10.6M WordsOngoing Because Bai Ershisan, a senior employee in the Netherworld’s Department of Soul Guidance, made a mistake, Li Le was kicked straight out of the cycle of reincarnation. The great science of quantum mechanics tells Li Le that time’s arrow points only toward the future. As for why he has gone back thirty years, if you can’t figure it out, asking him won’t help either. All Li Le can do is pull himself together and live through the script of his life once again. 82kReads9.3Score5.1k14d adds
23. 73 升 Climbing the Ranks and Proving the Way 升官证道 Bao Erri鲍尔日Urban2.1M WordsCompleted Synopsis: Lu Haoming's son-in-law said, “At government offices in the city, reaching director-general level is already the ceiling for people from farming families like us.” Lu Haoming refuses to believe it. The road to office is beset by countless obstacles. He's too handsome, attracting one beauty after another, and his outspoken nature brings him repeated setbacks. Watch how he breaks through and rises straight to the top. 90.2kReads9.5Score10.2k14d adds

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    To learn about interpersonal relationships and how to conduct oneself in society, these books are essential reading.

24. 74 官 Officialdom Is Like a Chess Game 官场如棋 Bao Erri鲍尔日Urban2.5M WordsCompleted There is no straight road through life, especially when it comes to being an official. Hao Xiaodong spent many years navigating the political arena before gradually understanding its many hidden rules. Now, following his novel The Way to Promotion, a new story is here for readers. Join us as we witness another kind of life in the world of officialdom. 34.1kReads9.2Score4.4k14d adds
25. 75 永 The Song of Enlightenment: A Timeless Masterpiece by Master Yongjia 永嘉大师千古神书之证道歌 The Cultivation Journey of a Strange Star Beyond the Heavens天外奇星的修行之旅253k WordsCompleted A divine book, a divine book! One that can sharpen your wisdom, open your mind to new possibilities, fill you with energy, awaken you to life, and make you unstoppable!!! A sensational new release, now available!!! The Path to Awakening and Growth The seven-year-old Dragon Girl became a Buddha in an instant, realizing her true mind upon hearing the true Dharma. She cast aside the thousand-year-old dragon pearl at once, and her greed and attachments vanished in an instant. With her mind opened an 947Reads7.0Score21214d adds

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    Amazing book! I highly recommend "The Book of Enlightenment." It can enhance your wisdom, open your mind, and give you a wealth of energy. It's incredibly exciting and thought-provoking!

26. 76 开 The Book of Enlightenment: A Guide to Beating the Game of Life 开悟神书，人生游戏通关指南 The Cultivation Journey of a Strange Star Beyond the Heavens天外奇星的修行之旅292k WordsCompleted A divine book, a divine book, one that can enhance your wisdom, unleash your imagination, fill you with energy, awaken you to life, and make you invincible with a cheat! Coming in hot! The Path to Awakening and Growth A seven-year-old Dragon Girl became a Buddha in an instant, realizing her true nature upon hearing the true Dharma. She immediately gave up her thousand-year dragon pearl, and her greed and attachment vanished in an instant. Her mind opened and grew clear, serene at last, and she g 503Reads8.7Score10014d adds
27. 77 妄 Contemplation on Returning to the Source 妄尽还源观 The Cultivation Journey of a Strange Star Beyond the Heavens天外奇星的修行之旅277k WordsCompleted A book that reveals the truth about the universe and life. This is a book that helps you know yourself, attain insight into yourself, realize your true nature, and awaken. It can help all those with the right karmic connections. The Path to Awakening and Growth The seven-year-old Dragon Girl became a Buddha in an instant, realizing her true mind upon hearing the true Dharma. She cast aside the thousand-year-old dragon pearl at once, and her greed and attachments vanished in an instant. With her 2.8kReads8.6Score33814d adds
28. 78 思 100 Great Academic Works That Teach Us to Think About the World, Volume One 思考世界的100部学术名著（上） Ge Dan Qian Shu戈丹 千舒120k WordsCompleted From ancient times to the present, countless works of scholarship have offered brilliant insights. But how many have truly reflected on the world and shaped the way we see it today? This book brings together one hundred Chinese and international scholarly works that examine the world. Their ideas ring out together in a magnificent profusion, allowing us to stand on the shoulders of those who came before and look ahead to a brilliant future! 37Reads8.7Score—14d adds
29. 79 一EN The Unconventional Path to Immortality 一本不正经的修仙感悟 A Wisp of Clamor一缕喧嚣1.9M WordsOngoing [Fantasy] [Xianxia] [Xuanhuan] [Comedy] [Urban] After three lifetimes, I finally attained the Dao, Roaming the mortal world, laughing at its vicissitudes. I ferry souls across the River of the Underworld, following fate, But whoever the hell dares lay a hand on my people, I’ll beat you to death, you little bastard... 1.7kReads9.2Score12014d adds

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    Directly seeing through the laws of human nature and one's own life

30. 80 时 The Enlightened Seeker of Time 时光悟道者 A Wisp of Clamor一缕喧嚣Urban157k WordsCompleted [A Record of a Mortal's Journey to Immortality] [Growth] [Awakening] [Salvation] There's not much to say about it, really. This is just a short memoir of a life gone by. Those who read it can take it as a bit of fun. 229Reads8.0Score—14d adds
31. 81 高 The Art of the Perfect Reply: Win People Over with Every Word 高情商回话术开口就让人喜欢 An Utterly Ordinary Person普普通通普通人180k WordsCompleted High-EQ responses are an art of communication centered on wisdom and empathy. They are not simply a pile of clever lines, but a way of reading someone’s emotions and needs, then conveying sincerity with tactful words to ease awkwardness and foster understanding. Respond to praise with humility to bring people closer; face criticism with self-reflection to show perspective; handle disagreements with empathetic words to find common ground. High-EQ responses respect others’ feelings while expressin 60Reads6.5Score—14d adds

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32. 82 会 People Who Know How to Speak Win from the Moment They Open Their Mouths 会说话的人，一开口就赢了 An Utterly Ordinary Person普普通通普通人295k WordsCompleted This book explores the importance of emotional intelligence and good communication skills in everyday life, and the positive impact they can have. It explains that emotional intelligence helps us sense other people's feelings, understand their perspectives, and manage our own emotions effectively, creating harmonious relationships. Good communication skills help us express our thoughts clearly, accurately, and vividly, making conversations smoother at work, in social settings, and with family. T 115Reads—Score—14d adds
33. 83 读 Reading and Conduct: The Twofold Discipline of Life 读书与做人，人生的双重修炼 An Utterly Ordinary Person普普通通普通人168k WordsCompleted My new work is here! You’re welcome to read it on Tomato Novel. I hope you’ll enjoy it. Your support motivates me to write, and I’ll do my best to tell every story well! 18Reads—Score—14d adds
34. 84 谁 Who Says the Emperor's Uncle Can't Have Children? She's Already on Her Second! 谁说皇叔不能生？她都二胎了！ A Thought of Books一念书Ancient Romance1.0M WordsCompleted (Short drama: A Fragrant Remedy to Win My Lord) [Farming + sweet romance + bickering couple + devoted to each other + HE] Regent Xiao Xingyan led his troops against the enemy for three years and won a great victory, but was ambushed by the enemy and suffered damage to his ability to have heirs. The imperial physician diagnosed him with a serious difficulty in fathering children in the future. The Grand Empress Dowager worried herself sick over it, and everyone in the court was deeply concerned, 17.5kReads8.9Score2.1k14d adds

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    "I remember you once said something to me that I agree with: although you are now the Queen, everything you have is royal property." "Although these things are registered in your name, they are subject to the Emperor's decree. You can't keep them." "Only what you own is truly reliable. A woman cannot rely entirely on a man." "I've figured it out now. It's better to manage your own assets than to spend your time and energy managing shops and estates given to you by others."

35. 85 龙 Dragon Head 龙头 Xun Fei寻飞Urban3.1M WordsCompleted For the sake of the goddess, I crossed the big shot in the county. To stay alive, I fought my way up, one step at a time, until I became the boss... One day, the hidden dragon will find the rain it needs. With a single roar, it will shift the mountains and rivers and move the Big Dipper. Stories of the underdog rising to the top will always set the blood racing. 27.2kReads9.0Score2.7k14d adds

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    I've been following this author for six years, and I've read every single one of their books. They've taught me so much; their books aren't just funny, exciting, and touching, but also full of wisdom.

36. 86 重 Reborn in 2000: My Childhood Sweetheart, the School Belle, Is 18 重生2000，青梅校花18岁 Hardworking Old Jiu奋斗老九Urban1.4M WordsCompleted [Reborn + Childhood Friend and School Beauty + Everyday Romance + Sweet Couple Moments + One Heroine] Yi Feng, who is terminally ill, is reborn in the year 2000. That year, his childhood friend and school beauty, Gu Muxi, is eighteen. “Yi Feng, lend me a pen!” “...Didn’t you borrow one yesterday?” “Yesterday was yesterday, today is today. Things have changed, get it?” “...You win. Fine, here.” “Yi Feng, tear off a sheet of paper for me!” “...Why tear mine? Don’t you have your own?” “I do, but I 49kReads9.5Score6.2k14d adds

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    Don't let the name fool you; it's full of wisdom about human relationships and social dynamics.

37. 87 开EN From the Start, Immortal for Eternity, Laying Low Until the End of Time 开局长生万古，苟到天荒地老 Purple Spirit Wind and Snow紫灵风雪Eastern Fantasy6.1M WordsCompleted [Published in print] [Not a wish-fulfillment story + tranquil daily life + lighthearted humor + no female lead + no tragedy + survival expert] Enter with caution. A longevity story told from the perspective of an immortal, spanning several great eras of cultivation. It begins in an ordinary mountain village, moves into a small domain, and then enters the vast world of cultivation, passing through the eras of flourishing development, golden prosperity, the collapse of the rules, the great dark up 515.8kReads9.7Score69.9k14d adds
38. 88 反 Is the Villainous Stepmother Having a Headache Again Today? 反派继母今天又头疼了吗！ yoo Qingjinyoo青衿Ancient Romance1.0M WordsCompleted [Transmigrate into a Book, Adorable Kids, Lighthearted, Feel-Good] At a critical moment in a corporate acquisition, Ruan Tao, who had been working through the night for several days, suddenly died. When she opens her eyes, she finds she’s transmigrated into a book and become the vicious stepmother villain. In the end, she’ll turn into a stumbling block in the romance between the male and female leads, and successfully get herself killed! Ruan Tao lazily crosses her legs and leisurely flips throu 3.1kReads9.2Score30514d adds

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    Full of social etiquette and social skills, worth learning from.

39. 89 她 She Knows How to Be Content 她知足常乐 Yan Ji颜祭Modern Romance101k WordsCompleted This story is entirely fictional. Any resemblance to actual events or people is purely coincidental. He called her name: “Luo!” Perhaps they had been just a little short of fate. If she had met Jiang Jingjia first, instead of Chi Jingwei, would things have ended differently? That year, what happened by the sea had never once crossed her mind, until he appeared. Then those memories came rushing back, like wave after wave sweeping toward her. 3Reads—Score—14d adds

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    A realistic and socially conscious novel – Three drinking parties reveal the diverse lives of people in the financial world – Chapters 40, 45, and 49 are highly recommended for focused reading.

40. 90 职 Workplace Temptation: The Ambitions of a Middle-Aged Man 职场诱惑：中年大叔的野望 Second Uncle Yi易家二叔Urban333k WordsCompleted [Ultimate Temptation + Push and Pull to the Limit + Workplace Intrigue + A Rookie’s Guide to Growth] After three years of marriage, Zhang Jun is once again sent to work in another city, leaving him and his wife together only once a month. Then she appears, and everything changes. The temptation is irresistible, and he falls in an instant... (The blurb may not do it justice, but the story is absolutely gripping.) This novel is grounded in reality. There is no System or supernatural power. It is e 22Reads7.0Score—14d adds

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    I highly recommend this book; it teaches you about workplace unspoken rules and interpersonal relationships.

41. 91 重 Back to the 1990s: A Political Science Graduate's Son-in-Law 重回90，从政法女婿开始 The Carousel That Runs Eight Days a Week一周上八天的旋转木马Mystery1.1M WordsCompleted No womanizing, no System, one female lead, a serious officialdom novel, a crime thriller set in a past era, and a fiercely protective wife. A slow-burn story, written simply to make you smile. During the urban transformation of the 1990s, crimes were rampant and restoring order was an urgent priority. Li Feng, once an experienced grassroots criminal investigator in the twenty-first century, was reborn by accident in 1996 as a young captain with a master's degree in criminal investigation. He w 2.9kReads8.2Score21214d adds

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    Thousands are studying, a tale of interpersonal relationships and worldly wisdom! 🔥 Reborn in the 1990s, he's a criminal investigation master's graduate and also the "son-in-law" of the political and legal system. Investigating cases relies on expertise, breaking through barriers on wisdom, and his father-in-law's scrutiny is harder to handle than the murderer's! Hardcore crime-solving combined with the complexities of human relationships—a period crime novel that readers within the system will find incredibly realistic. Tens of thousands are following Tomato (the author's pen name), with a steady pace and high-IQ plot. If you enjoy the clash between officialdom and crime, this is a must-read! #Rebirth #CriminalInvestigation #Officialdom

42. 92 雾 Fog City Sequence: My Shadow Devours 雾城序列：我的影子会吞噬 The Carousel That Runs Eight Days a Week一周上八天的旋转木马Urban248k WordsCompleted ( Lovecraftian urban fantasy, devouring evolution, pretending to be a good-for-nothing, ruins exploration ) On the night the fog rose, the rules turned upside down. Beneath a city where neon and shadows coexist, countless vertical abysses lie dormant, known as the Ancient Fogsource Ruins. Here, power comes from making a deal with the devil. The mainstream Super Martial Arts sequences build order, while the Reverse Spine Shadow grows mad through devouring. To grow stronger is to accumulate the ri 15Reads—Score—14d adds
43. 93 高 High-Level Thinking: The Truth Behind Social Mobility 高层思维：阶级跃升背后的真相 Soul Refiner炼魂的人508k WordsCompleted [Not a wish-fulfillment novel, but a practical guide to changing your mindset] If you’re looking for wish fulfillment, please go elsewhere. This book isn’t meant to entertain the masses. It’s for people who genuinely want to change their destiny and rise to a higher social class. I dropped out of high school in my first year and only have a middle school education. I went from working on a factory assembly line, to delivering food, to waiting tables, then got into business and sales. I caught t 647Reads8.4Score10214d adds
44. 94 穿 Transmigrated as a Treacherous Minister's Legitimate Daughter, She Plays the Part to Perfection 穿成奸臣嫡女，她本色出演 Garlic Bamboo Shoots蒜香竹笋Ancient Romance565k WordsCompleted [Transmigrate into a book + Career-focused early on + Sweet romance + One-on-one romance + Both leads are devoted to each other] [Two-faced, ruthless minister's daughter × Wild, formidable iron-faced general] The ruler of the business world transmigrates into a book overnight, becoming the daughter of the treacherous chancellor. She throws her weight around and commits every kind of evil, with the label “vicious supporting female character” practically branded onto her. She's madly pursuing the 86.4kReads9.6Score11.3k14d adds
45. 95 大 Echoes of a Great Dream 大梦遗音 Xiahou Cha夏侯茶Modern Romance1.2M WordsCompleted Whether god or human, love has never been everything in life, but it will always be the thing that most exposes your weaknesses and inspires your courage. [This book is a work of literature about philosophy, love, and psychology. Read with your brain switched on. Questions are welcome, and so is criticism of the academic knowledge and humanities content in the book.] [This is a fantasy story about the protagonists crossing species and time. There are no true villains in it. The author believes t 33Reads9.3Score—14d adds

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    Human relationships and social interactions—the first volume is about how ordinary people conduct themselves, the second about how wealthy people conduct themselves, and the third about how gods are human. You can check out the excerpts to see if you can understand it. This book is a work of philosophy, romance, and psychology. Reading requires critical thinking. The excerpts contain some viewpoints from the characters in the story, which you can refer to. First read for the "romance," second for the "plot," third for "life," and fourth for "the ultimate meaning." Content tags are as follows: #modern #romance #suspense #interdimensionaltravel #philosophy #interspeciesromurance #soultransmigration #hypnosis #mentaldisorder [This is a fantasy story about protagonists crossing species and timelines; there are no true villains. The author believes that people are neither inherently good nor bad, but simply have different perspectives and ways of thinking. Love interacts with the world in countless ways, like elementary particles, creating all things through different arrangements and combinations.] [This book is full of cosmic-scale science fiction and philosophical reflection, involving the intertwining of dreams and reality, the cycle of past and present lives, and the mysteries of the human spirit, etc.] This book explores themes such as love, destiny, the spiritual world, real and imaginary space, and the existence of higher-dimensional intelligent life. It touches upon quantum mechanics, the collective unconscious, and traditional, simple philosophical ideas of harmony between humanity and nature. [There are no mere plot devices in this book; each character possesses an independent personality, struggling and floundering on their own life trajectories while ultimately accepting their fate.] The text references classic texts such as: *Laozi*, *Zhuangzi*, *Taiyi Jinhua Zongzhi*, *Huiming Jing*, *Xiuzhen Tu*, *Liezi: Tang Wen*, *Ba Mai Jing*, *Xingming Guizhi*, *Huangting Neijing Jing*, and *Taiyi Shengshui*; ancient music includes: *Guguan Yushen*, *Wuye Wuqiu Feng*, and *Baji You*; concepts include: collective unconscious, interpretative illusion, left-handedness of neutrinos, parity non-conservation, full lotus posture, the eight extraordinary meridians, Gaia-Sausage-Enceladus (GSE), dual cultivation of nature and life, Qi, Yin Qiao Mai, Huangting, Lingfu Guixu, Xuwei acupoint, and Shenque. *Book excerpt: [1] "A book can be passed down from generation to generation in the long river of history, and it is probably because it gives readers certain knowledge, but the content that readers understand in the process of reading is far beyond the meaning of the words themselves. Such a book is like an intelligent body with free consciousness. It gives different people different spiritual images and experiences. Although everyone sees the same words, their understanding is different. Even the same person will have different feelings and experiences when reading the same book at different times. Diverse understanding and in-depth spiritual experience are the pleasures of reading a classic." - Chen Wanjun's answer to Qi Mo's question in Volume 1, Chapter 12 [2] Bai Zhihua, with his many years of medical experience, vaguely felt that the fate of mental patients is always controlled by some mysterious forces. It is as if there is only one road left in their world. If you do not continue to walk into another world, you will go crazy in this world. - Volume 1, Chapter 13 [3] Some people say that the beauty of West Lake is not in nature but in culture. Love stories begin and end here year after year, day after day, in a cycle. West Lake is a witness to romance. It has transformed the ethereal and intangible into a landscape that can be seen everywhere, changing from generation to generation. Here, couples come and go. When they come, they admire the scenery of West Lake. When they leave, they do not know that they were just one of the beautiful scenes of West Lake. — Volume 1, Chapter 16 [4] In specific dreams (or, when the individual subconscious is connected to the pool of the collective subconscious of mankind), the field space can amplify human desires. So it is understandable that when the level of human civilization has not yet reached the level of its technology (at least), it is a very, very dangerous thing to rashly tell mankind these psychological theories. To use a perhaps not-so-appropriate analogy: physics is studying the question of "why the world is the way it is". Generation after generation of scientists have continuously summarized and updated the principles of how the world works. Now, from Newtonian classical mechanics to Einstein's theory of relativity, and then to 20th-century quantum mechanics, mankind has experienced three major leaps in the field of physics. If the edifice of physics is as high as Mount Everest, then human psychology is still living in the Mariana Trench. Desire, simply put, is a strong craving or need. It can be spiritual or material, positive or negative. In psychology, desire is a major driving force for humanity, closely linked to motivation. From a religious perspective, it is the root of human suffering. But philosophically, it is the driving force of life. If a field can amplify human desire, does that mean it can also amplify all the positive and negative correlations mentioned above? For example, creativity? Imagination? Can we obtain a higher-level solution to the problems we encounter in real life by accessing the field? Although the subconscious is powerful and fundamental, it has a fatal flaw: it is uncontrollable and invisible. This is why humanity cannot study it in depth. Bai Zhihua deeply understands that this model only allows him to understand the operating principles of the field. Developing applications that can help advance human civilization and cognitive levels is what Bai Zhihua should do after obtaining this model. But he also feels fear. After all, human psychological research is still in a relatively early stage. If one is not careful, he will be the executioner who leads humanity astray and destroys human civilization. Desire is a double-edged sword, and he himself is also covered in wounds. ——Volume 1, Chapter 21 [5] People are different. The soul is very complex, with many constituent elements and many sources of elements. Its complexity is no less than that of the universe on a macroscopic scale. The consciousness and subconsciousness that modern textbooks talk about, in fact, people like me have been telling everyone about these things through writing books and other means throughout my lifetimes. Our spirit can be roughly divided into two parts: the consciousness and the primordial spirit. The consciousness is considered to be formed after birth and is responsible for cognizing the world and controlling the body. Consciousness can be seen as a part of it. The primordial spirit is composed of special particles and is a life form higher than the physical body. It can interact with the surrounding field space without the consciousness knowing. This interaction includes magnetic fields, force fields, domain fields, etc. The primordial spirit is the essence and true meaning of the soul's existence and is innate. The subconscious can be seen as a part of it, but only a very small part. Modern science has only scratched the surface of both. Even for Yin Chen, the road ahead is still long. Just because you've learned how to tamper with Earth doesn't mean you can perform surgery on the Milky Way. — Volume 2, Chapter 36 [6] Sometimes life is like this; it doesn't have to be sunny forever. What if it's rainy and misty? With love in your heart, everywhere is a beautiful sight; with aspirations, even a stumbling life is fun. — Volume 2, Chapter 37 Lu Yuhong's reflection on life [7] Hypnosis in a normal environment, although it may leave a shadow on a person's consciousness after waking up (for example, I would become a drowned rat, and when I woke up I would still feel that I was soaked), it is absolutely impossible to cause physical harm. What about in the spacetime domain? What if the spacetime domain can break down the barrier between the spiritual world and the physical world? — Volume 2, Chapter 40 Qi Mo's notes on hypnotic psychology [8] If we compare the field model to elementary particles, the spacetime field is the world produced by these elementary particles. He doesn't show it to you because even if he did, you wouldn't understand it, much less be able to use it. Even Yin Chen himself probably hasn't fully understood the domain field. However, just because people in our time can't understand it doesn't mean that future humans can't understand it. Just because people in our space can't understand it doesn't mean that intelligent life in other lands can't understand it. And the spacetime domain field is outside of time and space. That is to say, people in the past can obtain information about the future through the spacetime domain field, and people in the future can also obtain information about the past through the spacetime domain field. People here can go to other lands through the spacetime domain field, and people in other lands can come here through the spacetime domain field. Of course, I'm not referring to the physical, but the spiritual. However, these spirits are chaotic and discrete, and it takes a process of collection and decoding to restore them. Of course, these descriptions are just for your convenience; the actual model is more complex and profound. — Chapter 45 of Volume 2, Qi Mo answers Bai Zhihua's question [9] We may be fighting vertically on the timeline now. Or we may be floating aimlessly in the vast universe. My guess is that Guan Daoxuan has a part of his spirit from intelligent life in other lands. They should be looking for something that is very important to them. —Qi Mo answers Bai Zhihua's question in Volume 2, Chapter 45 [10] Just like the clouds in the sky, they won't choose not to rain just because it's going to disappear, and the flowing water won't stop flowing just because it's going to flow into rivers, lakes, and seas. Everything seems random, but it's actually carefully planned. Our fate seems to be in our own hands, but it has been observed, guided, and even arranged in the dark. But even so, everyone in the mortal world still tries so hard to live. Are all our actions really just for the ending? Actually, the ending is not important at all. What we care about is always the process. —Author's view on fate in Volume 2, Chapter 45 [11] Even if we know the truth, what then? The objective ending becomes bizarre and diverse in the spiritual world. The same ending looks like ten thousand different things in the eyes of ten thousand people. —Author's view on truth in Volume 2, Chapter 45 [12] Yin Chen sets up the spacetime domain, builds the domain courtyard, travels through spacetime, and so on. All these things require a special substance, which we call domain substance. Using this substance requires a special energy. The human subconscious pool constantly releases and collects this energy. This energy itself originates from the human spiritual power. We call it 'domain energy'. But not everyone has domain energy. Only when the cultivation of the primordial spirit is higher than that of the consciousness body of the conscious spirit can the individual's spiritual world become a container for domain energy. —— "Volume 2, Chapter 59" [13] Evidence can be forged, but intuition cannot be modified. I think intuition is more accurate. It is the conclusion that our brain draws after all the field waves interact. —— "Volume 2, Chapter 57" [14] Fu Li is the most difficult god to understand in the whole book. His actions seem cruel, but in fact, they are just a link in the laws of heaven and earth. The cycle of birth and death of all things is predetermined. And what he takes is also used to protect this world and to benefit all living beings here. To borrow a sentence from Xuan Ling: It's just that his way of doing things is different from ours. The benevolent see benevolence and the wise see wisdom. Fu Li always stands at the height of the universe. He is not benevolent, nor is he wise. He is the creator. The Creator holds the power of life and death over civilization at will; He does as He pleases, without considering the emotions of His creations, just as humans cannot understand why a tiger in a zoo might be sullen. — Book III, Chapter 156

46. 96 神 The Gods Devour Earth 神噬地球 The Old Donkey Keeps Braying驴子老叫Sci-Fi & Apocalypse536k WordsOngoing [Ensemble Cast] [Anti-Cheat] [Political Intrigue] [Slow Burn, Not a Power Fantasy] [No Stereotypical Characters] [Mind Games] [A Mix of Classical and Vernacular Chinese Style, Not for Everyone] (Revised through Chapter 38 of Volume Two. Later chapters will be updated gradually.) Thermodynamics exists in this book. You cannot regenerate your mana forever. Any method of increasing one's power will gradually be discovered by others over time. The returns will diminish, and eventually fall to zero. 48.8kReads9.5Score8.7k14d adds

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    A random passerby brutally beats up a cheat-like character, an atheist outwits Cthulhu. A new genre, the anti-cheat style. The protagonist is highly intelligent and perceptive, adept at scheming against others; supporting characters are also intelligent. The intellectual battles are mind-bending, the early stages are slow-paced and require patience and strategic planning, thinking ten steps ahead for every one step, navigating between gods.

47. 97 韭 The Road to Becoming a Master Investor 韭菜进阶之路 Old Chive 75老韭菜75Urban637k WordsOngoing The author is writing from personal experience. I entered the market and opened an account in 1997, and over the years I've weathered countless ups and downs. I've endured all manner of struggles and hard lessons, and seen every sort of character the stock market has to offer. I'm now a professional investor, and occasionally write a little for fun. 152Reads—Score—14d adds
48. 98 十 Ten Socializing Techniques 十神社交术 Philosopher Cat哲学猫Urban130k WordsCompleted This is an unconventional guide to the art of social interaction, inspired by the author’s insights into “Daoist Eight Characters fortune-telling” and “Western pickup artistry.” It is completely different from the books on relationships you see in everyday life: not only is it easy to understand, it is also highly practical. Let’s look at the true nature of human beings in social interactions from a different perspective… 36Reads—Score—14d adds

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    Psychological and social studies, philosophical thinking—these are all excellent books!

49. 99 三 The Principles of Ternary Consciousness and Memory Mapping 三元意识与记忆映射原理 Philosopher Cat哲学猫Sci-Fi & Apocalypse102k WordsCompleted This book deciphers the secrets of human longevity through philosophical reasoning. Tomato's number one original philosophical masterpiece, The Threefold Consciousness and Memory Mapping Principle, explores ideology, human nature, the secrets of human longevity, the truth behind ancient history, the origin of the moon, the mystery of the Great Flood, reasoning about past-life memories, an analysis of homosexuality, depression, multidimensional worlds, the differences in how men and women are att 1.5kReads9.2Score47514d adds
50. 100 你 Not One of You Gets to Be Reborn 你们一个都别想重生 Hua Maobai花毛白Modern Romance1.5M WordsCompleted [Everyday school life + sunny heroine + no reincarnation or transmigration + warm and healing] [Special notice: The heroine won't have a romance. Other characters may have romantic storylines.] After narrowly escaping death, Gu Qinghuan partnered with the System and enrolled in Class Three, Year One, at a private high school. [Someday in the future, your classmates may be reborn.] [Before then, they will be deceived, hated, attacked, and destroyed,] [Your mission is to stop them from being rebor 26.1kReads9.5Score3.8k14d adds

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    The female lead is a ray of sunshine, dedicated to saving everyone in her class. Her interpersonal skills are practically next-level, and the values ​​presented in this story are so righteous they're almost sinister!

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