
My Narcissistic Life
我和我的自恋生活
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 262k Words
- Genre
- Urban
- Updated
- 3y ago
- English
- Request a translation
Synopsis
Stats
All-time: Clicks, Favorites, Likes.
Honours
In booklists 17
Completed Pure-Love Gender-Bender Romance I Really Like
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Top-Tier Completed Gender-Bender Novels (2026.1)
Please note that this collection includes most completed gender-bender novels, including gender-bender solo romance, gender-bender yuri, and gender-bender romance with a male lead. This list will be updated regularly. I've bought 47 complete gender-bender novels. If I recommend more than 30 books in the future, the ones beyond that limit will be listed in the description.
Fresh and Original Gender-Bender Romance Recommendations
Based on my own reading and impressions, I've picked some shorter and completed novels. I'll introduce what makes each one special.
What I Love to Read
Dedicated to myself.
Interesting Stories I've Read on Bilibili Comics
This list consists of my personal recommendations for books I've read on Bilibili Comics, so it's quite subjective. Most are female-protagonist stories, and I read quite a lot of both yuri and gender-bender stories.
Stories I Personally Enjoyed
A mixed bag with all kinds of genres. Most are completed.
Arcadia
I prefer free stories. With a little effort and a bit of luck, you can come across an interesting novel. Praise the authors. (I like mature women.)
Gender-Bender Stories for Personal Use
Personal collection. They're all gender-bender stories, and the writing is pretty good across the board~
Recommended Gender-Bender Gems!
I'll write a review and add tags for every book. I'll recommend some more obscure titles. Mostly, I'll recommend books with great plots or writing, and try not to recommend fluffy moe stories. I'm not very good at sorting tags, so go easy on me if I get one wrong.)
My Personal Collection
Helping lesser-known books with substance find readers, and helping readers with nothing to read find books with substance. A wide variety of content, mostly gender-bender romance.
High-Quality Reads
A collection of high-quality novels. I don't recommend huge hits, and mainly feature free works.
Great Works
You'll know a good story when you read one. Note: A wide variety of genres.
A Veteran Reader's Picks: No Mindless Fluff, Lots of Gender-Bender Stories
I can't find any good books. This is driving me crazy.
Top-Tier Novel List
Only includes what I consider the very best stories on SF. This is also for readers who like quality fiction and want to find hidden gems. Feel free to suggest more.
A Fun List of Self-Marriage Stories
Self-marriage stories are a unique branch of gender-bender fiction. Their special appeal has kept countless gender-bender fans hooked. Here are some self-marriage stories I've read over the past few years. If you like them, don't forget to bookmark this list!
Gender-Bender, Sort Of.
Cross-dressing and gender-bender-to-male novels I’ve read, with good or at least decent writing and logic. I’ll die if I don’t cross-dress; The Creator, a Cross-Dresser Who Fell in Love, Decides to Give Up Struggling; My Disciple Looks Way Too Good in Women’s Clothes; Fallen to the Dark Side, No Romance; The Prank of a False God; A Person in Tokyo; Skin Draw; The Cross-Dressing Holmes Won’t Live Off a Woman; The Entertainment World Without Cross-Dressing; The Warlock’s Temptation; Bro, Don’t Wea
A Pervert's Favorites
Some yuri, some gender-bender-to-male. What matters most is how spicy they are.
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Happy 5th Anniversary!
I regret it so much, I really regret it...
As the title suggests, I deeply regret encountering such a wonderful book when I still felt young. From now on, I'll find it difficult to read most reverse marriage novels the same way. Even ordinary novels can offer some enjoyment. But having already tasted the exquisite flavors of morning dew, evening glow, and the crescent moon at night, how can I possibly put that tasteless, yet ultimately unpalatable, novel into my mouth? Currently, reverse marriage novels, especially, have undoubtedly veered off into countless detours. The reason for this lies in the crooked and misguided path they took from the very beginning. Those readers whose worldviews were shattered by the three great "evil books" yet still captivated by their magic will surely never forget that feeling. The novelty and the unfamiliarity, the new...
The 18,287-word update will be released in batches throughout the day.
How to eat a pear
When I read the comments, my first reaction was, "Huh? What happened?" Was my phone broken? The blank cover was really unsettling. I only relaxed after seeing the commentary cover below. Then, after reading the comments and the synopsis, holy crap! How is this thing still alive?! Although the language isn't very respectful, that was definitely my first reaction. No wonder I didn't study Chinese well. This shows that it's definitely a good book. Because the last time I read this book, I was only in middle school! (メ`[]´)/ It's so memorable and leaves a lasting impression...
It's almost over, wait for me, it'll be here soon.
Slice of life, narrator, Xiaoye
Spoilers ahead, please read with caution. This is my humble opinion, and my comments may be biased; please forgive me. Before discussing the novel, I'd like to share my personal feelings about it. From childhood, I've been obsessed with fantasy and neglected my studies. One afternoon (let's assume this is true), I opened a newly downloaded light novel app and randomly picked a novel titled "Me and My Narcissistic Life." "What happens when you meet yourself of the opposite sex?" This is the story. I spent nearly two days reading it. Reading this book was truly a visual treat. I abandoned my skimming method and instead adopted a word-by-word approach...
A book that must be read from the protagonist's perspective.
To be honest, due to numerous busy schedules and my slow reading speed, I haven't finished this book yet, only reading the first tens of thousands of words. But I'm already overwhelmed with emotion, and with nowhere to vent it, writing a book review is the only way I can find peace. Of course, the following only represents my personal opinion; if there are any misinterpretations, please point them out. In my view, to truly understand this book, one must put oneself in the protagonist's shoes. Of course, I'm referring to the female protagonist (obvious). The story begins by roughly describing the protagonist as a so-called "differentiated one"...
I currently have 12,000 words saved up, and it's not finished yet. I'll release it in one update once it's complete.
Thoughts on "The Narcissistic Life"!
I spent two days reading *Narcissism* and have some thoughts I need to share. To be honest, as Sister Pear (just kidding) said, book reviews are indeed difficult to write. I've been sick since childhood, and although I was respected in school, only those who have experienced it truly understand the discrimination I faced after entering society. My liking for transmigration stories or self-marriage stems from a deep longing for a partner of the opposite sex who understands me. Perhaps this is the ideal for most boys, including myself. But I wonder, if I were a girl, would I still love my former self? Obviously not. If I knew my former self loved me, I would marry myself. I think it's not that I'm gay...
No updates for the fifth anniversary? Scratches 🍐.