Rebirth: the Ultimate Self-Love Development System

People in the world always think that self-love means living a perfect and dazzling life, defeating fate and controlling everything. But true and ultimate self-love is never about pursuing perfection, but about learning to reconcile with your imperfect self. This book takes the thirteen-level self-love practice system as its context and completely unfolds a rebirth practice from the outside to the inside. From the outward practice, we must guard the bottom line of personality, revere life and death, accept trauma, establish interpersonal boundaries, put aside grudges and entanglements, and protect ourselves from being crushed by the outside world in the wind and rain of the world; then enter the ultimate inward trial, let go of self-judgment, and say goodbye to long-term self-criticism and humble flattery. Clarify the boundary between self-love and selfishness: compassion can be limited, kindness does not need to be sacrificed; affection can bind, but self-sovereignty must never be lost. We do not advocate the isolation of escaping from the secular world, nor do we advocate the tolerance of blind compromise. After experiencing trauma, regret, gains and losses, we still accept our own weaknesses and mistakes, allow our lives to have shortcomings, and do not insist on rewriting the past, nor indulge in internal struggles. This is not a cool article that teaches people to become powerful and invincible, but a practice about self-salvation. Give up being humble and please, break away from the shackles of others' evaluation, keep the bones of establishing boundaries, and cultivate a self-consistent heart. Even though he is full of shortcomings, he is still gentle and firm, and lives his own perfection.