This Is Not the Last Straw

Come to Yuewen's website to read my update. This is a story about psychological healing for children and parents. It is worth reading by all parents and children. The last straw that broke the camel's back and the last straw that saved the child met magically in this world. People are different. Vygotsky said that people must be trapped in a bunch of meanings in order to communicate with others. This is true. Our relationship with the world is maintained by the words in our brains. The meanings of words in your mind define your thinking patterns and thus your behavior; but you naively think that the meanings of words in your children's minds are the same as yours. So, conflicts, compromises, entanglements, quarrels, tears, complaints... Finally, the last straw inevitably comes, crushing the child and crushing you. Maybe you have difficulty understanding the above sentence, so you need to read this column carefully. There are countless traps on the way children grow up: physical, peer, social, family... Among all the traps, psychological traps are the least obvious, but the most subtle and dangerous. They are affected by the outside world every day and are unpredictable. Yesterday your child was ambitious and focused on distant places, but today he is shrinking into his own little universe and unable to get out! The human brain is extremely fragile, extremely unreliable, extremely creative, and extremely harmful. The stories in this column are fictional, but the psychological damage and healing are extremely real. It comes from the author's teaching observations, interactions, visits, psychological consultations, and personal experiences in mental hospitals. More works!