I Haven't Been a Boss for Many Years

Brother Bing: I have the final say here, and all breathing must be approved by me!

"The Godfather": Networking is not about the people who can help you, but the people you can help: When it comes to classics in the history of world cinema, the American gangster blockbuster "The Godfather" must be among the best. As soon as it was released, it became a hit all over the world and won the three most important Oscar awards in one fell swoop. In 2007, it was rated second in the "Top 100 Movies of the Century". The original work of the film is derived from the masterpiece "The Godfather" by American writer Mario Puzo, which has been praised as "the Bible of men". The endless plots and methods in the book, as well as the protagonist Vito Don Corleone's wisdom in dealing with people, have fascinated countless people. Corleone never deliberately clings to high-ranking officials, but tries his best to make friends with the people around him and do what he can. A series of seemingly ordinary things, under his creation, finally turned into a mafia empire. When I first read this book, I just felt that the godfather was too manipulative and cunning. But after experiencing many things, I slowly understood the true charm of the Godfather. It turns out that every achievement has cause and effect, and every social interaction has value. Only after I truly read "The Godfather" did I understand: Real connections are never those who can help you, but those who you can help. It's useless who you know, it's who you become. In order to avoid being pursued by his enemies, the young Corleone left Sicily and fled to New York City on the other side of the ocean. The place where he settled was a slum inhabited by Italian immigrants. Many people here are inextricably linked to the Mafia. Even Corleone, who just wanted to live a peaceful life, was forced by life and involuntarily embarked on the road of gangsters. In this neighborhood, the most prosperous person is not the wealthy businessman or high-ranking official, but the bully Fanucci. He wanders the streets every day, extorting money from his neighbors without restraint, and is domineering everywhere. No one dared to resist, because Fanucci said that he was protected by the most powerful gangster in New York, and he also had friendships with many police officers. Until one day, this man who was always arrogant was quietly killed at the door of his house. Many people believe that what will follow will be a bloody storm of revenge for Fanucci. What I didn't expect was that the police just dragged away his body like an ordinary homeless man. Even the gang leaders who claimed to be protecting him turned a deaf ear to his death. All Fanucci's efforts to cling to and boast about, in the end, is just a clown's farce. Contrary to him, the protagonist Corleone never took the initiative to please those big shots. He just followed his heart, did his own thing, and helped the people around him. He interceded with the landlord on behalf of the impoverished widow so that she could continue to have a place to stay. He adopts homeless children and helps them become talented and embark on their own ideal paths. He provides jobs to those who have lost their jobs during the economic crisis so that they can support their families. Gradually, more and more people are freed from the suffering they are experiencing because of Corleone's helping hand. They actually lived a decent life and gathered around the Redeemer willingly. When Corleone has the power to influence the results of regional elections, he naturally becomes the target of political big shots. The power held by these politicians has naturally become his business resources. Carnegie said that success comes from 85% personal connections and 15% professional knowledge. Everyone knows the value of connections, but not everyone you know can be called a connection. The essence of human connections is actually an exchange of equally matched interests. Your strength is the value that can be used for exchange. The circle you are in determines what kind of exchange partners you can meet. It is useless to know anyone who cannot provide benefits to others. Only if your value is inexhaustible, can you attract an endless stream of connections. You must give friendship before you can gain noble people After walking around the world for many years, Godfather Corleone's most commendable words are "I am willing to give friendship first." In order to protect his business, he spent a lot of money to make friends with noble people, even though many of them were strangers to him. The amount was so high that even the lawyer felt distressed, but the godfather never cared. With his generosity, the depth and breadth of the Corleone family's connections in New York's legal and political circles far exceed those of other families. So much so that when other powerful gangster families want to open up relations with the police, they can only ask the Corleone family to act as a bridge. However, even after Corleone gained great power, he never forgot any of his friends. On the day the godfather married his daughter, he received a special request. It turns out that after World War II, the New York government required all prisoners of war to return home. One of the prisoners of war named Enzo is already married and has a family, and his father-in-law is the godfather's former friend in the slums. In order to allow Enzo to stay and not be sent back to the country, the old friend came to ask the godfather for help. This matter requires opening up various connections, which is very difficult at first glance, but the godfather agreed and worked hard to get the matter done. Not long after, the godfather was stabbed and seriously injured, and was admitted to the hospital. The enemy tried to remove the guards and planned to sneak into the ward to assassinate him again. At the critical moment, thanks to Enzo who was passing by, he stepped forward and assisted the godfather's youngest son in frightening the enemy, and the crisis was resolved. A small helping hand ended up saving the godfather's own life. It seems like a fluke, but it is actually a necessity of fate. Guan Zhong once said: "Those who are kind to others will also be kind to others." Your attitude towards people is how others treat you. If you can hold an umbrella to protect others from the rain today, only then will someone be willing to shovel the snow for you to clear the road for you tomorrow. Today, many people help people build bridges. In Japan, people will help to carry stones to pave the way. The more enthusiasm you have for the people around you, the more good connections you will have. Perhaps one day, a favor can make your difficulties melt away, and a return of all your efforts can lift your life into the blue clouds. The essence of long-term relationships is mutual reciprocity There is an old saying in China: "A favor is given without expecting repayment, and a favor is not given expecting repayment." A godfather who can hold great power, every time he provides help to others Every time, he would say something first: "At that time, I may also ask you to do some small things." It may seem stingy and philistine, but the godfather deeply understands that once the favor is too great to repay, it becomes a bone in the throat, a thorn in the back, and a burden in the heart. But if there is hope of repayment, this favor will not be unbearable. The godfather has his own principles as to what kind of reward he should ask for. He once helped a funeral parlor owner vent his anger and seriously injured the playboy who bullied his daughter. But after the anger passed, the funeral home owner began to regret it. He worries every day that his godfather will ask him to deal with the consequences of his criminal behavior and bring himself to jail. But in the end, the godfather just asked him to use his professional skills to do a trivial thing, which was completely legal and legal. Another person who received great favor from the Godfather was Johnny Fontane. When Fang Tan was young, his godfather always taught him. When he grew up, he provided him with resources along the way and helped him become a superstar. During this process, Godfather also saw the potential of the film and television industry and planned to move to the entertainment industry in the future. But he did not stand on a moral high ground and force Fang Tan to contribute resources to the family. Instead, he patiently communicated with her fully. The family did not start to implement the plan until it was confirmed that entering the film and television industry would benefit both parties. A few years later, Fang Tan achieved great success and became one of the most powerful people in Hollywood. The Corleone family has also gradually moved away from shady profit-making methods such as gambling and violence, and has successfully turned to legal industries such as movies and tourism. The wishes of each party are taken into account and the interests of each party are safeguarded. This is the godfather's consistent code of conduct, and it is also the only way for him to always win allies and grow stronger in the expansion of his family. The essence of this society is actually the relationship between people. No one can possess all the resources, so there is a need to exchange what is available. No one is omniscient and omnipotent, so we need to support each other. When asking for help, don't be annoying by asking for it. When you need something in return, don't use your kindness and self-respect to force others to do something difficult for you. In the final analysis, only by being willing to put yourself in each other's shoes can long-lasting relationships be achieved; only by allowing stakeholders to achieve mutual benefit and win-win results can cooperation be sustainable. People are like a network, and you and I are indispensable connections on the Internet. Do a good job and make connections smooth, so that your network can become wider and wider. In the gangster world created in the book "The Godfather", there are countless powerful and powerful bosses. But only the Godfather can still have the influence to convene the National Gang Conference despite the absolute disadvantage of being jointly suppressed by several major gangs in New York. At the meeting, many foreign bosses came forward to support the godfather, and the opponents were forced to agree to sign an armistice agreement, which gave the Corleone family a valuable opportunity to recuperate. The reason why he has such outstanding popularity is that among this group of profit-seeking gangsters, only Corleone is willing to put friendship and cooperation before interests. As time goes by, he makes more and more friends and becomes more energetic, which in turn attracts more people to actively cooperate with him. So the godfather never deliberately clings to noble people. When he needed it, someone happened to appear and help him through the difficulties. This is the blessing of fate, and it is also the accumulation of one's own strength. In this world, only by becoming a tiger can you make friends with a lion. Only if you have value can you attract resources. Instead of being sad and helpless at the bottom, it is better to concentrate on growing up. When you climb to the top, you will meet better fellow travelers. Instead of complaining that human relationships are like paper and hitting a wall everywhere, it is better to open your mind from now on, sow more kindness, and wait for the good fruits to come. In the long world of mortals, a person's most solid connection is always himself. Strive to improve your abilities and embrace others with your heart.

This is the first time I have published a book review in 8 years of reading. It is all about my personal feelings that I want to share with you This book is about Jianghu, but I don't know why I felt a little moved when I saw some of the plots. Maybe it's because I am a bit angry. A digression here. I saw a joke before. During the Republic of China, we were called patriots. After liberation, we were called nationalists. Now we are called angry youth. Here I want to say that I am called the angry youth. Back to the plot is the recent episode about selling drugs. When I saw this, I didn't know why I had the urge to shed tears. I don't know if anyone has such thoughts, but it really moved me. The above words may not be gorgeous enough and the language may not be profound enough, but I still want to write this book review, thank you!

To be honest, everything else is pretty good, but the Cantonese aspect is really uncomfortable. I just don't know how to pretend to understand. It's a mess.

After reading Chapter 435, let me share my thoughts. Sometimes the protagonist is too deliberate about whitewashing, and does not take advantage of the conditions he has. How can a black person be spotless, and dozens of brothers just say it is over? No expression at all? How can the company survive if the younger guys just pass by? Not to mention various measures, Bai Bai should at least have them, right? There are also typos that I really can't complain about.

Does it smell good?

Personally, I feel that this book has a larger format than the author's previous two books. It highlights patriotism and is not unrealistic. Like other Hong Kong TV series, it is ridiculous that a bad boy can whitewash his career and become a businessman. If he becomes a dwarf mule, it is impossible to whitewash his life and he can only become a gray one. This book is very well written. I think the only bad thing about it is that it is a little soft on other societies and only acts cruelly when there is no other way. I don't like this, so I just complain about it. Overall, it is very good. Also, I hope the author is not limited to Hong Kong. It would be great to occupy Southeast Asia before returning to China.

Please transfer to the genuine version to support it. The author should hurry up and give it a try.

I have always felt that there is something wrong with this book, that is, the background worldview is not complete enough. There is always a particularly contradictory point in this book. Sometimes the rules are very strict, and sometimes the table can be turned over casually without following the rules. But there has always been a contradiction between following the rules and flipping the table. Since people know that you may flip the table at any time, it is impossible for them to sit down with you and tell you the rules. This is a world of guns and cannons. It doesn't matter who you are, whether you are a big boss or a rich man, as long as you don't care about them, then everyone's fate will be equal, and the probability of everyone overturning is very high. Okay, I do wonder sometimes. Sometimes he rushes in with a machete to chop, sometimes he points a gun at someone, and what's even more outrageous is that sometimes he uses a knife to attack someone with a gun

I am also fully subscribed, so it shouldn't be a problem to say a few words, right? When did it start? There is a little red dot for update reminder, but I am not very willing to click it! Starting from getting higher and higher, I originally wanted to see something different, but it turned out to be more and more boring, and there was a risk of stepping on the wrong side. It is a good setting to jump out of the country, but... Forget it, readers are also customers. People are right, if you like it, read it, and if you don't like it, leave it! ! !

I couldn't quite understand it. I thought it was because I had a reading comprehension problem. I followed the latest chapter and found that I still couldn't understand it. It was too difficult for me. Moreover, this book is extremely poisonous, so I don't recommend it to everyone. After reading it, you dreamed of being chased and chopped by Young and Dangerous with a knife at night. You were frightened to wake up for three days in a row, and I broke out in a cold sweat. Slipping away🙂🙂🙂

To be honest, your book is the only one I haven't read in pirated versions, and you've ordered all of it. Come on!

I know this is a male channel and most of the readers are men. But I was still speechless by a comment in the first few chapters. It's strange for a woman to demand fairness, but there are so many likes. Read more books, read more history books, the Song Dynasty is no longer there, it died early in the morning. Men farm and women weave, but the division of labor is different. Men and women are just born differently. In the previous land-based system, there were different divisions of labor because of the different strengths of men and women. Before the Song Dynasty, men and women were basically fair. The Song Dynasty was a country founded by military generals who usurped the throne, so its basic national policy was to suppress military power by culture. However, the literati in the Song Dynasty had basically lost all the six arts of the gentleman. The literati of the Song Dynasty themselves were weak, but they had the right to speak, so they could set the tone for men and women. Before the establishment of the Song Dynasty, there were the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms, all of which were in war, so there was not much population left. The literati who could serve as officials in the Song Dynasty all had a certain family background, and the infant mortality rate in ancient times was very high. So how to continue the family? That can only get more women to give him children. How can he get more women to bear children for him? Then they begin to misinterpret Confucianism and Taoism, saying that they obey their father at home, their husbands when they get married, and their sons after their husbands die. They objectify women and turn them into property attached to men. At this time, society has already acquiesced that women have no private property. If women want to survive, they can only rely on men. Because of the ancient productivity coupled with the land standard system, a complete imbalance between men and women was created. It's different now. After industrial development, the strength of men and women can basically be balanced by tools, so women can demand fairness. Now that industry is developed, if women don't want to starve to death, they can take various paths and no longer have to rely on men to survive. Today, as the industry has been able to balance the power of men and women, I would like to ask you what is something that men can do but women cannot. Why can men and women demand different rights when they can bear the same responsibilities? .

Changing and updating without authorization is unethical! Unreasonable! We strongly condemn this kind of behavior and do not rule out the use of force to intervene in the future. I sincerely hope to stop developing in the wrong direction and turn around.

In front of Brother Hao, the dirty words I have accumulated over more than ten years of reading are not enough.

Will this book get 404? It's quite interesting to watch. I hope it won't be harmed.

Horse King→Manage Jockey Club Yuanbao→Manage Jewelry Stones The next plot... Landlord→Manage Real Estate or Beautiful Sister→Manage Cosmetics

I have read dozens of chapters, and the plot is okay and quite interesting. However, the articles often appear a few years later, more than ten years later, and so on, which is a bit uncomfortable. In addition, the author is probably not too young, or due to my personal vision, I feel that the aesthetics are a little different, but this does not affect it. All in all, it should be regarded as an excellent comprehensive social novel.

Jianghu and Daxiong each have their own characteristics. The main complaint is that there are too many, otherwise it would be very exciting. I look forward to Mengjun's new book, Hong Kong variety yyds!

Jianghu and Daxiong each have their own characteristics. The main complaint is that there are too many, otherwise it would be very exciting. I look forward to Mengjun's new book, Hong Kong variety yyds!

Junzai is so brave, I'm afraid I won't be able to see you tomorrow 😆

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The update time is not fixed now?

Why does it always show that the chapter is not found and skip to the beginning every time I open it? Very poor reading experience

Thank you everyone, this is a great benefit for book friends!

I want Chapter 10 tomorrow, Silver Alliance, understand?

I like your theme and plot very much, but I don't like your update speed very much.

Arjun is married! The groom is not me!

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