Love at First Sight

When I saw the sisters finishing the story, I thought that my wife would continue to write about those years in a side story. Thinking about the whole paragraph, I am looking forward to it. Thank you for your hard work, thank you for your hard work. I like what my wife said very much. Personal history is like a grain of sand lost in the years. Countless women of the past gather together to form a tower and understand their history and spirit. This is the beginning of progress. Even though a person is insignificant, a sentence or a page can turn over countless people's lives, but as long as we are willing and follow these clues, we can always pursue them like a magnifying glass, and we will always find different surprises. Just like the documentary I saw about Li Qingzhao, a lay practitioner of Yi'an, some time ago, it subverted my previous superficial understanding of her miserable and depressed image. After her first husband Zhao Mingcheng passed away, a despicable and wretched man took the opportunity to give her warmth and coax her into getting married. In fact, he wanted to defraud her of the cultural relics in his hands. One time, she caught that scumbag stealing something and he violently raped her. Li Qingzhao decisively reported the scumbag and firmly announced the divorce. She threw away all the foot bindings of a well-known woman with a good reputation, and even had to be tied up and imprisoned. Not only was this a shocking move in society at the time, but now we see how many women who have been victims of domestic violence choose to stand up bravely instead of swallowing their anger. After the divorce, she lived a quite comfortable life, with a wide range of interests, no one looked after her when she was drunk, and she never lost in horse racing. However, the history books only mentioned that she was lonely and cold in her later years, but did not say anything else. There are many independent and self-reliant women in history, but history books selectively ignore their existence. Not to mention, there are countless heroic deeds by women in modern history, but even though we are famous female figures, when it comes to their lives, we actually don't necessarily know much about them. Whether it is due to incomplete records or intentional concealment in propaganda, the stories behind such a large group of women are a treasure worth digging. They are representatives of female power. The power of role models should not be underestimated. Just like a pebble thrown on a calm lake, it will always stir up ripples in circles. This is a great influence. When spread layer by layer, it will lead more women to re-understand themselves and society. Looking at now, those who work hard for women's education, those who speak up for women on the web, those who write for women in Lily Circle... More and more female energy is gathering together, but the shortcoming is that these forces mainly come from the private sector and lack the support of official forces with the right to speak. Every time a major government meeting is held, you can see the overwhelming difficulties at a glance. If the senior female generals who had already entered important leadership positions had not been forced to give up their power, would things be even more different now? Time, space, people are changing, and thoughts are also changing. Although the current situation is generally seen as there are too many worries and endless cuts, and the ideal is not known. We on the boat have been crossing the river but can't find the direction to the other side, but we are always on the road. Fuzzy rightness is far better than precise wrongness. These small flames that are groped and fumbled slowly grow stronger, and they will always turn into guiding lights in a certain time and space, bringing us closer to the other side than before.

If "Far, Near, High and Low" is a portrait of love that unfolds along the ups and downs of Yu Ren's life for more than 20 years, then "Love at First Sight" is a cross-section of the current situation, showing us the life situations and world conditions of several generations. The former focuses on the thinking and understanding of love, while the latter focuses more on how lovers find the answers to life. Urban and rural transformation, correctional institutions, the trend of postgraduate entrance examinations, the sluggish employment situation, the rumors in small towns and suspicions at work faced by sexual minorities, the migration to the south to work in the 1990s, and the history of suffering in the last century interspersed with the stories of the sixth aunt. The three generations written by the author are all women who have personally experienced ups and downs in history. The two sixth aunts experienced love and hate in the last century, and their stories were heard by the next generation of women a hundred years later. Yan Hua Hexi fell in love several times and separated several times in the first half of his life, and finally caught the lover in Liedel's poem on the five-hole bridge in his middle age. Yan Long and Wang Yanyan met each other again when they were frustrated in life, and then chose to hold on tightly and never let go. Tao Wan and Han Xiangling calmly let go of their love that ended in vain and turned to exploring new knowledge of life. The story stops here, unexpectedly and reasonably. Nowadays, they cherish their hard-won love, resist the indifference and rudeness of their native families, and endure the turbulent social environment, but they still hold on to hope. They have tasted the taste of happiness at first sight, and then they understand that the answer to life is a mixture of bitterness and joy.

Every time I open any chapter of Yunbao's works, I will be quickly drawn into that world. Objectively speaking, it is a high degree of unity of ideological and artistic quality. I was so heartbroken for Rainbow Dash that I wanted to write a long review for the first time, but I realized how I felt when I fell in love for the first time after so many years. I liked her so much that I couldn't communicate freely. I wanted to please her but was afraid of saying the wrong thing. I wanted to cherish each other but couldn't express myself in words. In the end, it became a group with a submissive atmosphere that only said "Uh-huh, haha". Later, the other party couldn't bear it and asked, "Am I so scary? Why am I like this?" When we first met, I was very talkative! In the end, I ended up with a Qingluan dancing mirror. I couldn't help but make this mistake again. Rainbow Dash is really talented and very humble. It can be seen from her works that are full of affection for women that she is a wonderful person. When I first read "Far, Near, High and Low", I described it as a PhD-level "love textbook". I naively thought that if I had read this book in 16 years, I might have had another ending (but it is better to read it now). The wife's writing is so thorough, and her understanding of the development of the story, the shaping of the characters, and the emotions are both reasonable and reasonable, and she is like wielding a knife to cut into the hidden corners of people's hearts. My wife can indeed be called a feminist author, but she is by no means a preacher. She thinks and understands in life, and writes life stories with her genius handwriting. It is very interesting and profound, and allows people to develop inner strength from it. The story "Happy at First Sight" is very romantic. When I reviewed it from a God's perspective, I read it very slowly. Some details were like seeing them for the first time (obviously when I was following the series, I saw a few words and a line...). I really like the description of the big stream, plum trees, moon, awning boat, five-hole bridge, and rain. The words and sentences are so clever. I really should be included in the excerpts of beautiful essays for primary school students! Regarding the love of the youth group, this article is especially about two people who are helpless at work. How can a young man with no real career nourish love? One is working at home to take the public exam, and one is a former agency now working as an online ride-hailing driver. Under the harsh employment reality of ordinary young people, under the situation where the ceiling is only hanging a foot above the head, under the material comparison of house price and social status, and under the unique situation of sexual minorities, how to eliminate the insecurity, inferiority, and pressure that arise from it? But love is so heart-warming. When I was a little girl, when my soft-spoken counselor Yan Long was bullied by Yan Yan, it was so natural that he said, "You have to pick me up after school and go home with me." One of them took an hour's drive to arrive and said sorry timidly, while the other waited for an hour and said coldly and with frowns that you had good intentions. Hey, they were born together. Destiny allowed them to renew their relationship at the Five-Arch Bridge. A soft-tempered person on the outside gradually developed tenacity on the inside. How could a stone who was strong on the outside and could only resist everything on her own gain the stability to surrender herself to the gentle stream that enveloped her? "Baby, why am I crying more and more?" "Because your softness, sensitivity, and kindness have opened up to me." God knows, my heart trembled when I saw this conversation. No matter what kind of job, decent social status, academic qualifications, matching conditions, just like my aunt said, "There is no shame as long as you support yourself." Can you experience and cherish the most authentic face of love? Love means being able to reveal all the fragility and sensitivity to her. Love is the fundamental nature of a person. External conditions are constantly changing, and various labels of love can only reflect one or two things. The love of the middle-aged group is really lingering and pathos. Under the specific background of the times, in the torrent of time, in Liedel's poems, in the braised pork and bamboo shoots, poetry and reality are intertwined with a hopeless romance. They only love one person in their life, no matter whether they are by their side or not, no matter what kind of pain they have experienced, no matter how they go from joy to despair to peace. After watching the love story between Gu Gu and He Ju, it perfectly refutes the idea that a breakup must be caused by one party not loving enough. The undertone of love has never faded. On the Five-hole Bridge, "the fat, haggard, worldly, wrinkled He Xi suddenly overlapped with the thin, smiling, bookish, clean-faced and young He Xi." Not to mention that my aunt was stunned, I almost had tears in my eyes! When I was young, it was difficult to follow my heart due to various indescribable reasons. After menopause, I was finally able to marry my wife again. The old well was rejuvenated, so touching! Looking forward to the excitement of the elderly group. Why do I love Rainbow Dash's works so much? The first point is the intention, such as those one-sided thunder plots. I remember a reader said that if He Qiang was submitted to Baidu, he would be scolded a thousand times, haha. Others may indeed be stepping on the thunder, but Rainbow Dash can blow that thunder in your heart, and then you begin to understand that the world means helplessness, pressure, giving up and perseverance, full of variables, how people deal with themselves, and finally you hope that "bad people" can also be happy. "Look at the changes in life with the mentality of changing the game map" (insert a sentence that I am looking forward to the new article); The second point is that the writing is so good, hum, I have no doubt that she will win every Lu Xun Lily Literature Award! (It will happen one day~) One day when I was browsing Weibo, I saw a sentence: "Paper figures are fake, but love is not." I love every woman in my wife's writings.

It's so well written, so real and touching! Life in the city is only true if it is ordinary! Unlike many authors who write about lesbian novels, it is really unrealistic to write about a luxurious feast that is either rich or expensive! How can there be so many cold ladies, domineering female CEOs, female bosses, socialites and celebrities from wealthy families! They are all living beings, but they are just a drop in the ocean.

I say something, everyone listens to me, a loving father emerges from under the stick.

The contradictions of the three generations of women merge with each other and are liberated respectively, creating a lively scene with twists and turns. It not only sees women, but also respects different characteristics. It has both the persistence of faith and the exchange of ideas. It breaks the boundaries of boundaries, accepts the true face, fights against fate, and plays games with oneself. It is joy at first sight in the bitterness. It uses simple, smart and charming words to convey the serious core. I am honored to meet you.

Beijing Mingji is also a current issue, and the others are like Cave Man. A unified wheel, I think soy sauce meat is more delicious than most soy sauce beef : P The interaction between Tao Wan and Xiang Ling is very delicately written haha. I judge others by myself. Friends who are not thinking can naturally say that we will have dinner in the future without saying "when... We will come back for a barbecue"~~ I can open up communication and have deep mutual trust and confidence. Picking up and inheriting the golden sand is a spirit of achievement. It is my regret that I was late enough to be wise and did not have the opportunity to chat more with my grandmother, who is in her nineties. The joy at first sight they think of is the result of actively pursuing a direction that makes them happy. Sincerely, happy

When will you come back?

Only now do I know the origin of the name of the author's article. It's really the finishing touch. It reflects the origin and occurrence of all emotions very closely and truly. I have to say something very corny. Author, you are so talented.

It's still a pity that Sixth Aunt's wish has not been fulfilled. Even Luoying Cafe is gone. Life is really unpredictable. Where will these lovely women gather in the future?