When you're so sad your face goes blank, and all you want to do is give up on life.
Zhu Jingwen wondered, what was so great about being human?
She might as well be a dog, wagging its tail and begging for scraps. At least that would be a little cute.
"Who disappears from the city each day
And who is left behind?
I can't escape loneliness, so I might as well join the party
I can only occasionally pour my heart out to friends
Laugh a couple of times, then suddenly burst into tears"
- "City of One Night"
P.S.:
The story continues from where the first book left off, but can be read on its own.
Theme: Live well.
I don't think education is the wind. I still think education and environment can shape children. I wonder if Awen has watched "Marvin Collins: An Education"? , Marvin Collins is a legendary teacher. Her school only had one classroom at the beginning. The students in it were basically "others" in the eyes of others, lacking learning ability, unable to teach, hyperactive, and behaviorally disordered. She started teaching the most basic spelling, and after one year, the children went from knowing nothing at the beginning to becoming talented, reaching a reading level that is almost that of a high school student. She became a legend and was interviewed by reporters who asked her what her secret was. "I believe in my children," she said. "If a teacher thinks her students can't learn, then her students won't learn. If the teacher thinks it's impossible for kids from lower-class families to achieve anything, then those kids won't achieve anything. On the contrary, if you create a positive environment for students, you'll see magic happen. If you tell students they are smart and knowledgeable winners, they will act like smart and knowledgeable winners." My childhood experience and the books I have read tell me that education is tempered. The student can feel whether the teacher cares about her and loves her, and the teacher's care will encourage her to do better. I also met many teachers who helped me. Under their education, I gradually developed the ability to think independently, the courage not to be afraid of failure, and the interest in literature. It was a wonderful time. Maybe Awen is a little discouraged due to fatigue, pressure and family burden, and doubts himself. I hope Awen can take good care of himself. To love others is to love yourself first. We seem to live on a highway. The outside world has many demands and orders us to be perfect. However, when living here, we are often easily exhausted. It is important to learn to "manually shift gears" for ourselves and let ourselves go. I think Awen has a bit of a perfectionist tendency and wants to be perfect for everyone. But humans are humans, not gods. It's normal to be powerless, and it's normal to make mistakes. You need to let yourself go. Some people think perfectionism is a good virtue, but although perfectionism will allow us to make fewer mistakes in a short period of time, in the long run it will reduce our initiative. If we dare not make mistakes, we will not grow, and may even lead to self-isolation. It is normal for idealists to have their faith shattered and self-doubt when they encounter setbacks. Take a good rest, take care of yourself, look back on why you started doing this, look back on the good times and moments, and then regroup and move on! (My little opinion 🤗 [touch head]
It's late. Put your left hand on your right hand to give yourself unknown comfort. Good at writing 55555
I always wanted to write everything I wanted to say in one comment, and I didn't want to add a zero-point comment to the teacher, but I couldn't help it. The teacher's writing is so gentle! After reading this chapter, I closed my eyes and thought about solving small things immediately and working hard to solve big things. I couldn't help but shed tears silently. Maybe it's because I've been under a lot of pressure these days and I'm feeling extra sentimental, so I can't say anything, but I'm really grateful for the teacher's words! 😭 [Let me be healthy] 🐶🌹
It was delayed for three months, happy ending! When do you plan to release the next book?
Is it over????? Shock. I went home recently and had so much fun that I didn't go to Jinjiang. In addition, I felt that Awen's career path was too tortuous and made me feel a little uncomfortable, so I didn't go to Jinjiang. Then I finished reading it in one sitting 😭 😭 😭 It's really realistic 😭 I didn't expect this ending It's unexpected and reasonable [covering face and laughing]
Awen is so gentle... Oh, I was deeply moved.
The look of this mother is too expressive...
Reading this article really made me deeply feel that it is not easy to be a teacher
Claw. Life is a subject that can never be avoided...
It's really sad. Without the ability (materially and psychologically), you end up being at the mercy of others.