Breaking the Curse

Indeed, even couples must respect each other. Both men and women must give. If you just accept without giving, they will break up sooner or later. There will be a day when the licking dog can no longer lick.

It's really great. From this article I read about the awakening of female consciousness. As a girl who grew up in a traditional Chinese society, I have always felt in many ways the requirements that certain parts of this society place on women - to be docile and tamed. As I grew up, with the awakening of my self-awareness, I resisted these invisible frameworks all the time. I always warned myself not to be assimilated and not to be numb to it. But under the subtle influence of the overall environment, sometimes I can't tell whether some of my ideas are right or wrong, whether my ideas are a little extreme, or whether my heart is too sensitive and suspicious. After reading my wife's article, my thoughts became clearer, and my judgment in some aspects was strengthened. I saw something clearly - some poison wrapped in honey. Thank you madam and your article, it is also very interesting. Come on, madam (

It may take a long, long time for an author to conceive of a book, but it may only take a few hours for a reader to finish it. Before reading this article, I never thought that the sentence that impressed me most was "I will not be anyone's wife" and the sentence "Even anger is looked down upon, which is the greatest humiliation." The moment I saw Rainier shedding tears in her dress, what came to my mind was the opening sentence of Beauvoir's "The Second Sex": "Women are not born, they are made." As a result, at the end, "Misogyny" and "Patriarchy and Capitalism" by Chizuru Ueno appeared, and should I add "Feminism from Zero" (a really familiar book list, hahahahaha, at this point I suddenly forgot what app I had opened), but when I think of the character of Nana, it's not surprising. In addition, I really like Leith's attitude towards love. Love is not a game that requires you to always have the upper hand, nor does it mean you can keep your treasure by being stingy and giving like Grandet. It is sincere and magnanimous. The love scripture that Leith taught Lanier reminds me of the sentence "Become a cat, become a tiger, become a dog soaked in the rain." For a strong and gentle person like Elf, he needs to be treated as an evenly matched teammate, rather than a weakling to be protected and pitied. It would be better if he had the ability to protect a puppy that got wet in the rain.

Indeed, love and marriage are never synonymous. I felt like I was being lectured in the middle (probably because I am a boy), but the story was so attractive that I had no choice but to read on, hahaha

This article allows me to look at marriage from another perspective and the so-called perfect love in novels. And the novel is really good.

Wow wow wow, I like my wife's writing so much. This is the second one I've read, and I can feel the spirit of pursuing freedom and respect... The characters are also very cute, and they are not just perfect characters. The characters are closer to reality, but grow in the ideal direction (?▽`??)

Life is precious, but love is more valuable. If it is for freedom, both can be thrown away.

This novel is short and concise, telling a complete story. The supporting characters also have corresponding endings. The characters are very delicately drawn and there are no abrupt changes in personality. Looking forward to new works.

Yes! Love yourself first, then love others

I really like the beginning of this chapter, "Dreams seem to be as long as a lifetime." This sentence at the beginning is like a drumstick hitting my head like a bell or an ethereal drum, making a very ethereal tinkling sound. When I read the first chapter, I was amazed by the beautiful ending of the first chapter, but the subsequent plots - out of the need for foreshadowing, were dressed in cliche and boring clothes, just like those clichés that I have seen thousands of times, which made me feel inconsistent and slightly bored - my expectations were once again "failed". I almost left early because of the early pretense of this story and missed its sharp and bright side. Fortunately, I was so bored that I read the story until it lost its disguise. What I would like to give feedback to my wife is that the problem of "reasoning" still exists, and it may be related to the limitation of space. For example, in the later part of the story when the queen is playing in Leith and the queen is pregnant, my personal feeling is that "the character starts to make sense before the inner logic is completed." Why does he feel betrayed? Why do the protagonists think he will be shocked? I know that his love is sincere and passionate, and that people in love always want more and more. But our Maomao's performance in the previous article is clear and brave. He knows the identity of his so-called "lover", knows that they will have no status, and knows that the queen can love him and at the same time rationally suspect and take his life correctly. Of course, it doesn't mean that you won't be sad if you understand the truth, but I personally feel that there is a lack of psychological twist and foreshadowing here. Although there is no explanation as to why, all the characters have determined that "the cat will be affected" will be the result. My final feeling is that the "plot arrangement is to make sense" feels too obvious. I am actually a reader who "if I feel too clearly that the author is outputting ideas, the reading experience will be degraded." But this story didn't make me feel too unhappy. Maybe it's because I agree with what the author narrates. Maybe it's because, instead of "outputting ideas from above," Madam, you are discussing and thinking more equally. You expressed yourself, but very gently. I think you left space for the readers. I personally think that the space left is very important. So, thank you for insisting on writing such works, thank you for bravely pouring your sincerity into your works, and bravely writing what you want to write. While reading, I was so moved that I wanted to cry many times.