A Zhaodi Reborn

Although I don't agree with some of the author's views, it doesn't matter. Overall, this is undoubtedly an excellent group portrait growth article. The author's writing style is exquisite, and the female characters he depicts are diverse. What makes me more satisfied is the vivid description of the era of the 1990s. The ideological conception is even more profound and lofty. I think it is very suitable for the screen.

Damn, it's very well written. This group of girls is really true, especially when my parents were urging me to get married. My mother said that I shouldn't have been allowed to study for a master's degree at that time. I should have been allowed to study in a vocational high school or work after high school, so that I couldn't find much money and could rely on men to get married and have children early, so that I wouldn't be embarrassed by not getting married like I am now! The father remained silent, but he probably agreed with the mother. I hope I can work early, get married and have children. For example, my neighbor sister who has given birth to three children is very politically correct and better than me. No matter that this sister has been married three times and is now with a domestically violent man. I never knew my parents could be so vicious. When I heard that, I just wanted to run away from home and never see you again! This novel is so well written! !

This book resonates particularly with me. So much so that I was very angry when I saw some comments, especially those saying why the heroine can't have a man so that she can have a good harvest in love and career. I find it quite boring, and I agree with an expression in it: Marriage is not a scam, love is. People will deteriorate, and so will love. The eternally beautiful love of the happy prince and princess written in the novel is all fake. Life is just a place of trivialities and compromises. I don't want to see compromise in a novel like this. What I want to see is: There are really women who can regard love as one journey, one memory, one experience after another. Rather than the necessities of life.

Much of the description of women's plight in the article resonated with me, a pain that men will never understand. In fact, many times I don't want to think about the many problems I encountered since I was a girl. The more I think about it, the more I resent this society. I often wish that there was a button that could destroy the earth, and that I could be the sword-holder. Among these problems, family preference for boys over girls is only secondary. The most powerful one is the omnipresent sexual harassment that society transmits to women the idea of ​​being weak and objectifying women. Women should really learn to be selfish, shameless and indifferent. Virtue and kindness are really ridiculous words.

Reading this article often brings tears to my eyes, the plight of women arises at every age. This last excerpt touched me deeply because I have also faced these choices. When I was studying liberal arts in high school, everyone advised me to study liberal arts—it wouldn't be that hard for girls to study liberal arts. I argued with my parents for three days at home and insisted on choosing science for one week. In my opinion at that time, if I didn't learn science knowledge in high school, I would never have the opportunity to study it systematically. However, I could learn many things on my own in liberal arts. I don't regret my choice, nor did I give up my love for words. I got a pretty good score in the college entrance examination, so I could go to the lowest-tier 211 program in other provinces, but my parents forced me to choose Shuangfei Normal University in this province and study a major I didn't like. Those words again - we are worried about girls running so far away - girls studying normal school will be stable and dignified as teachers in the future. With some rebellious heart, I also made some wrong choices. I started skipping classes and failing classes in college. Fortunately, I graduated successfully. We fell in love in college, but we never met each other during the epidemic the year we graduated. When my family urged us to break up, I pretended not to hear. In the first year after graduation, I failed the postgraduate entrance examination again. There was no better choice under the epidemic, so I chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination. In the second year, I had a rare chance to work as a high school teacher in a foreign city. I was relieved to leave home, but I always felt that this job was like a dream to me, as if I would be able to leave here one day. I was unwilling to give up and wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but my body collapsed in the first half year of work. This school has a great reputation. As long as I get good grades, I don't care about anything else. The high-intensity work caused my resistance to decline rapidly, and pneumonia and myocarditis swept through me. Fortunately, I had a good relationship with my colleagues. The relationship I was in was ended on my own initiative. I didn't need an electronic boyfriend to occupy my time. My family started urging me to get married, and my colleagues often asked, "Thanks to my height advantage, it's not so easy to get matched." I didn't want to get married, and I didn't like children. My mother began to persuade me that life without marriage and children would be imperfect. I didn't respond to her and tried to influence her subtly, but she seemed to think that I had such thoughts because I haven't grown up yet. Similarly, in an environment like school, unmarried female teachers in their thirties will always be criticized, and students will ask, "Teacher, why don't you have a boyfriend?" I don't know if I will have a strong heart when I am in my thirties, and if I can insist on not being coerced into making choices I don't want. During the Chinese New Year, I thought about the same question as Qiufeng: Since I don't plan to get married, why should I feel anxious about my age? Why is the influence of the outside world so obvious on me? I don't have an answer. It is really difficult for a woman to get rid of the identities of someone else's wife and mother and just live with her own identity. Thank you very much to the author for writing this story. I started thinking about my life again.

At first I thought it was an ordinary rebirth article, but I didn't expect that the author's writing became more and more exciting, and the more I read it, the more interesting it became. Until the last extra chapters, it was like watching the complete life of each woman. Although the situation varies from place to place, and not all girls will encounter the situation in the article, many of the plots are so real. If you look around, you can see the same situation as in the article, including the attitudes of parents, the attitudes of people around them, the situation of women, and the people and things they encounter at various stages. After all, there are still only a few women who can insist on being single. Those who can have money and insist on being single will be happier. No matter what, women who take control of their own lives are amazing, support them!

I bought the full subscription and came to read the story. I accidentally saw the last extra chapter and was filled with emotion. The author's writing is very detailed, and you can see all his experiences between the lines. You can also see that the author opened his eyes to female compatriots step by step, and provided him with the advantage of time difference. Hard work is really important, and hard work has its ceiling. We are now in the final extra stage, and I seem to have personally experienced the transition between Song Zhaodi and Yu Zixin. It's just that I am using cultural capital and relying on my academic qualifications to find a place for myself. Does hard work work? It does. But is it useful to just work hard? No, it's not enough. In the process of improving systems, systems, and ideas, there are always people who have to go through labor pains. It's you and me. Although it is sad and powerless to touch the ceiling, if you don't work hard, if you don't use all the information and resources to fight and struggle, then there will be no place for you. Some will just look up to others, and some will just be sad and powerless. Whatever fate gives you, you can only carry on. Including the author's step-by-step instructions on how to make money, how to think, and how to protect yourself. Is this knowledge difficult? It's not that difficult. But with the oppression and coercion from the surrounding areas - "family, school, society", where does the startup capital come from? At what stage in life do you start making money? Have you saved up enough educational capital and social identity? Can I have enough to eat when starting a business? I understand, but I can't do it This is the sadness after hard work I hope that generations of Yu Zixins can take over and move forward.

This book is really well written and I hope the author can continue to write works of this caliber. I also wish the author a smooth life in real life and good physical and mental health.

Bless Yu Zixin Bless Song Shiyuan Bless Song Qiufeng bless us

It's not a bad idea to take the civil service exam and then be single.