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I can't understand my grandma's behavior. I can't understand the heroine's behavior towards her mother either. 1. My grandma has been through the war years and has experienced a lot of hardships. It is understandable that she is frugal by nature. But she can accept everything from eating grass roots and grains to eating white flour rice and steamed buns. Why can't she accept everything from white flour steamed buns to eggs and pork...? Life is getting better and better. From the heroine giving her 1,000 when she came home, to the hero giving her another 1,000, the money is more than I have ever seen in my life. Is it really necessary to reach that outrageous level? If you eat a meal of meat, do you have to eat a week's worth of steamed buns and pickles to make up for it? 2. The grandmother clearly cares and loves her eldest daughter. The accident to her younger son in the previous life was because Ning Ning wanted to make money to find the heroine. The reason why the grandma agreed was not only to save money for studying, but also because she hoped that her son could support her daughter, for fear that she would be bullied outside without knowing... And she was afraid that the heroine's status in the husband's family would be low, and her younger brothers and sisters would not be allowed to go to her for help, which would drag her down. When the heroine first returned, the grandmother also missed her and was worried about her. For such a mother, even if Grandet is a bit tougher and tougher, there is no reason why she should have no contact with the daughter she has been worried about for half her life, and she should not care about her four children... How small is the possibility that such a rural woman can not have four children, and will not take the initiative to come to them, and would rather not see them for the rest of her life? 3. The heroine never sees her mother again, and Ning Ning does the same. I can't understand it either. Ning Ning didn't know anything. There were two conflicts between him and his grandma, the search and the search for money from his pillow. It's understandable to be angry. Grandmother's behavior is really annoying and excessive. But because of these two things, it is really unbelievable to deny all the contributions that grandma has made to her children, and to have no contact with her until death. How much hatred and resentment... 4. The heroine, if Ning Ning was angry with her sister because she ignored her subsequent childbirth, she no longer wanted to pay attention to her. That heroine, I really don't understand. Regardless of whether it was in her previous life or this life, Grandmother was more or less sorry for the three children, but she was not sorry for the heroine at all. I was worried that she wouldn't be able to help, and I tried my best not to hold her back. The heroine kept saying that she did not feel sorry for her grandma because she had raised her three children well. Is she worthy of the kindness of raising her? No, are you raising three younger siblings for your grandma? Isn't it because you are their sister? How could it be right to have all the younger brothers and sisters leave home, and the grandma would hardly be able to be reunited with her children for the rest of her life? 5. If the heroine did this because of what happened to her younger brothers and sisters in her previous life, but I want to say, is the problem of Father Lin, who has always silently acquiesced to his grandson's mother's behavior, smaller than that of his grandson's mother? Why is it that when a child has a problem, the mother always takes the blame? Is your father dead? Grandmother has been poor for most of her life, and the heroine is too impatient to guide her properly or give her too much time. She moved out in less than half a year and cut off all contact with her... She has been holding chopsticks with her right hand for most of her life. You force her to hold it with her left hand and don't give her time to adapt. Are you going to do it step by step? I say this not because I think what Sun Mu did was right, but I also don't agree with the heroine's approach to Sun Mu. In the entire novel, the only person who stands on the opposite side of the heroine is Sun's mother. But, I really don't understand, how big of a deal does it need to be? Grandma's savings have reached an unbearable level, but she saves money not only because of habit, but also because she thinks about her two sons who are not married and having children, and because she is thinking about the old couple's posthumous problems. She saves money and does not give it to outsiders or subsidize her family. At first, she would nag her children for failing to pass the exam, or ask them to give up on further education if they failed to pass the exam. But most people in the village thought so. Some people even didn't even go to elementary school, but Sun's mother even let her two daughters go to junior high school... What kind of heinous thing did the grandma do to end up like this? The news of her death is not worthy of being known to her younger son. None of the children were sad at the funeral. In the previous life, the ex-husband who cheated on the marriage and tortured the heroine all her life was not so miserable. Even if the heroine hadn't married far away because of him, the younger siblings in the family would not have ended up like that in the previous life. But in this life, the mistress didn't say anything and let her ex-husband go, but she came back to make her grandma live such a miserable life for the rest of her life.

Ning Ning is like a son to the heroine. In her previous life, Ning Ning died. In this life, the heroine also gave her mother several opportunities. The old village chief also said that she would force her. As a result, several uncles came to beat the heroine. Ning Ning did not come to high school or college, and the heroine did not come to give birth to children. People pay attention to each other. If mother and daughter can't get along, then they don't want to get along. I think the heroine's attitude towards her mother is right, but she didn't notify Ning Ning when her mother died. I think it's wrong. Whether he can come or not, if he can come, at least let him know. If he can't, there's nothing he can do. At least he won't let Ning Ning regret it, right? There is no notification or contact, and Ning Ning has no memory of the previous life, and she has not been in contact with each other since old age. Is it because the author did not handle it well? Apart from this, everything else is very good. I still want to read it. Why don't you continue writing?

The chase was over, but in the end the Sun family died without informing Ning Ning. It was really uncomfortable to watch here. No matter how they didn't forgive each other, but their mother was dead. As a son, he had the right to know, and he should come to pay her respects. What grudges can't be resolved after a person dies? The heroine is not Ning Ning, so why should she help him decide, and Ning Ning doesn't know that he died early in his previous life. In this life, his mother rummaged through his things and wronged him, but he hasn't been back for so many years, so it's even. But if you die, you should at least go back to see her off and show her kindness.

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Finished watching it, it's great. But regarding Lin Ningning and her mother, I think Lin Heping should be angry. After all, it was combined with some things from the previous life, but for Lin Ningning, it was her mother who wronged her when she was young, and she shouldn't remember it for so many years. Moreover, their mother was also terribly stubborn and had become enemies with her children. I can understand that the uncles got involved at the beginning, but I don't quite understand that they have been involved all the time, because even if they are the uncles who have always been with the Sun family, the aunts should be able to see the situation clearly and not go against Lin Heping. They will want to repair the relationship or please Lin Heping. I think it's a little unreasonable for them to insist on their own attitude for so many years.

Ding~Business fluid blessing update is stress-free!

Not bad~I've finished reading another book

Sun's end is indeed a bit chilling, alas.

Did Dada Xinwen change his name? Why can't I find it? It's not in the column.

The ending is very well written.