A Bowl of Noodles

There are a lot of details and foreshadowings about the love between the male and female protagonists. They only got together at the end, but I always feel that they have been in love for a long time. You may think this is just an ordinary story, but it really made me cry uncontrollably. They met because of a heavy rain and a bowl of hot pickled fish noodle soup. Maybe Ying Nian really fell in love at first sight. She gave up working in her own company and applied for Zhao Shining's company. Zhao Shining is a very considerate and gentle person, but his gentleness is also accompanied by an alienation that is difficult to ignore. He won't embarrass people, but he won't let others get too close to him. His seriousness and responsibility at work, his outstanding professional abilities and his irresistible charm all attract Ying Nianzhen like a whirlpool. However, Zhao Shining's native family and growing environment were complicated, and he had almost no experience of what love was. Being ignored, excluded, and used, in order to relieve this pain or to adapt to this emotion. He began to "self-abuse", and this self-abuse was mental. The more painful things make him feel, the more he appreciates them and the less he lets them go. But when it comes to things that make him feel warm, he is timid, afraid that they will disappear in the blink of an eye. So I didn't dare to hold the rose, I just wanted to be pricked by the thorns. He can only experience pain through repeated endurance to raise his threshold, so that he can accept every injury seemingly calmly, but he does not dare to have the slightest delusion that he can hold happiness. (I feel really bad when I write this.) He subconsciously felt that he was unworthy, but his pride kept him silent. He doesn't say anything, he just looks like a man of elite career. His love for Sherman was three steps forward and two steps back. Sherman was a beam of light to him when he was a child. Zhao Shining's love is more of the embodiment of his pursuit of happiness. I don't really think he likes Xue Man, but he feels that the closer he gets to Xue Man, the closer he gets to the light, and the closer he gets to happiness. And because of his "masochistic" way of thinking, he only takes three steps forward and two steps back. This was him at the beginning, and he had a psychological problem. Ying Nian really met him at this time, the best and worst time. I even think she can see through Zhao Shining's disguise at a glance. I don't think pursuing love is a "privilege" for men. Women can also persistently and firmly choose the person they want. This is not licking. As mentioned in the article, men's active pursuit is affectionate, why is women's pursuit inferior? Do you overestimate men or underestimate women? Love is just a part. In addition to love, there is career and life. Liking someone is joyful, and the feeling that makes you feel beautiful when you think about it is pure. It doesn't even require feedback to get a sweet and refreshing feeling of satisfaction. Don't put so much weight on all your feelings. Whether Ying Nianzhen applied for Zhengrong or later started a business with Zhao Shining, love was only a part of it. It was her growth in these experiences that brought her career to new heights. Ying Nian is really gentle and considerate, willing to help others but worried that her requests will embarrass others. She is tolerant and firm, and she has a sense of strength. This sense of power is not sharp and aggressive, but quiet and gentle, like water. She has a kind of chivalry, a firmness that wants to stand by his side to share risks with him and fight side by side without going overboard. She can lie dormant quietly or attack boldly. During the extraordinary period, Zhao Shining was the leader and Ying Nianzhen was just an intern. But because of that hint of love and the hope that he would be happy, she would work overtime so that she might be able to go home with him; she would want him to have a good meal and invite her to eat together; she would linger on the road to his house and set off fireworks together by chance... Habits are terrible. When Zhao Shining was unaware, Ying Nianzhen had been by his side like a sponge absorbing water for a long time. During the days when the two started their own business together, the two of them were finally not so wary anymore, or in other words, Zhao Shining was no longer so wary. Ying Nianzhen liked him from the beginning, and she just wanted to make him happy and good. She couldn't bear to see him always tormented by troubles, and she always thought that if she was nice to him, maybe he would be better. They started to get along like friends, cooking together and talking about business together. Zhao Shining would tell her about family matters that he was ashamed to talk about, and she would sincerely suggest that he go to "see a doctor." She knew, from the beginning, that he was sick. Ying Nianzhen would always let him sleep in her car in order to let him have a good rest. Unknowingly, Zhao Shining also habitually wanted to fall asleep as soon as he was in her car. He rarely smoked cigarettes and could not help but pay attention to her activities. They were really close and it was time that brought them together. Ying Nian is really like a clam, grinding gravel into his own pearls. He himself was "unaware" of Zhao Shining's changes. He had lost the courage and ability to love, and he didn't even know it. If Sherman's appearance is a troublemaker, on the contrary, I am more inclined to think that she is an opportunity. An opportunity when Ying Nianzhen made up his mind to leave and Zhao Shining finally found his own problem and wanted to be treated. Xue Man was "emotionally injured" and went to Zhao Shining's company to propose a relationship with him. This was of course naked use. Zhao Shining knew that he was taking advantage of him, but he had a psychological problem, and he couldn't bear to refuse something that made him miserable. The light of his childhood also broke at this time and became unrecognizable. He did not like Sherman. But he didn't know that he liked Ying Nianzhen. Later, I felt better. Ying Nianzhen had a small car accident. When he went to visit the doctor, he suddenly realized what Ying Nianzhen meant to him (I was so happy!!!!), But he hesitated and ran away. He began to review his memories. What role did Ying Nianzhen play in his life? Because he missed the last invitation, he was furious at his eldest brother and Xue Man (the two of them were a couple), whoever saw it would understand! I'm really happy! Ying Nian is really a person who can take things and let them go. She just likes him, and this like is just the output of her own emotions. Zhao Shining has found a home and seems to have gotten what she wanted, so it's time for her to let go. Ying Nianzhen and the second male lead went abroad, and Zhao Shining began to treat the disease. I was so happy watching this episode, it scratched my heart and I couldn't control my tears. I like Zhao Shining very much, whether it is his strong and restrained appearance, his cowardly heart, or his gentle and considerate nature, I like him very much. He wanted to get closer but was afraid of disturbing Ying Nianzhen. Looking at it from a distance, he felt like he was being healed. Hesitant but unable to help chasing, unable to restrain his heartache and concern. I hope I can recover and give her a fairy tale life. He finally started to be brave. The plot at the end is a bit dramatic, but it changes the emotional line in a logical way. I still like it very much. Whether it was Ying Nian's true pursuit and healing in the early stage, or Zhao Shining's bravery and frankness later on, I saw how their love blossomed and how they grew. Not only love, but also how Ying Nianzhen transformed from a young college student to a sole shareholder, how Zhao Shining was cured and how he learned to grow in courage and love. Everyone deserves to be loved, and everyone has the right to love someone bravely.

I really like this kind of polite and gentle male protagonist! Emotions have the feeling of a steady stream

Ahhh, I really liked it, so I watched it again. I was wondering if anyone knows the author's new pen name?

The writing is very good, both the emotional and career lines are written very delicately. I like the heroine's behavior very much. If I like that you don't make me happy anymore, then it's time to change.

At the beginning, I thought it was an ordinary story, but it gradually penetrated into my brain. Now that I have finished reading it, I found that it has great stamina [Spread Flowers]

I like this novel very much. It is a very novel reading experience. It is much more interesting than other industrial sweeteners. Although it is true that as other readers have said, the content of discussing psychology and life insights is a bit long in some places, but I think it is acceptable. I don't know what the other vest is. I hope I can read 🌈 if I have the chance.

Has anyone found a new account?

I recently discovered that an author's writing style is similar to that of DaDa. There is a feeling that he is DaDa, but he dare not say it rashly for fear that it will be bad for both parties. It is a four-letter pen name, Wuwuwu Dadai. I said it right and you just blink.

It's so well written. Even the title of the book matches the author's name: Eat a bowl of noodles and see white hair

I like this story so much