After My Ex's White Moonlight Proposed to Me

Rewatching it again, I suddenly saw a new character - Dad Xie. I once saw that Ning Ning was in pain and that Ms. Xia was very ill. In the name of love, she almost forced her own child to death. After a few years, when I read this story again, I found that the father was even more vicious than the mother, who had a difficult heart and was seriously ill. Because all the mother's actions have a logical bottom line, she thinks she is doing good to her children. I have seen such a mother. Regardless of whether this good thing is accepted by others, whether it is an excuse for self-hypnosis or inappropriate paranoia, in short, the bottom line of her logic is "good". As for this father, he is actually a healthy person, has his own judgment and execution ability, has a certain social status and knowledge level, and is a successful person in a certain sense. The informal psychiatrist may be authoritative in his mother's eyes, but not in his eyes. He can completely judge what kind of "doctor" this is and what kind of "summer camp" this is. He knew everything, but he chose silence and laissez-faire. Son? A son is not as important as a wife. Doesn't he know that his wife is sick? He knows. However, he didn't think that he needed to go to the hospital for this heart disease, and it was also because it was much easier to follow her than to take her for treatment. Low risk, high return. Anyway, my son will not die. His wife is already in so much pain because of the past, and his son should understand her, follow her, and make her happy. Since he didn't do it, he had to accept his mother's "love education". Who asked him to make his mother sad? After sending his son for treatment, his wife felt better and he was very happy. It's a pity that the son still hasn't changed, otherwise his wife would be better off. What? Are you saying that homosexuality cannot be changed? Can't he be considerate of his mother and just pretend? I heard that my son committed suicide. Doesn't that mean he is still alive? That was his mother, how could he not be considerate? ——He is not a good father, nor a good husband. He is not a good father, that much is obvious and needs no elaboration. However, he is not a good husband either. His wife, under his connivance, has been miserable. She's paranoid, morbid, and unhappy. She was forcing her son over and over again, and recalling the tragedy of the past over and over again. She should have gone to the hospital, but her husband did not take her there or try to correct her perception. He even helped her suppress and persecute her children. Maybe he didn't mean it. He may not have thought that his wife would still be in pain without treatment, or he may not have realized that his wife needed treatment at all. But essentially, he chose the path that was best for him. He stands on his wife's side, so his wife will always rely on him and love him without any estrangement from him. He doesn't need to think about how to speak to his wife and point out her mistakes - he only needs to agree with his wife and nothing else. As for the son, can the son leave his parents? Suppressing the weak is a secret to bringing harmony to the family, and he does it very well, even if the weak is his son. He loves his son, but he loves his wife even more. He loves his wife, but he loves himself even more. In the end, his son left, and he and his wife were alone again. He has never lost because his choice is his wife and his son is irrelevant. But, his wife lost. Because she didn't want her son to leave, what she wanted was actually his happiness (if anyone could guide her at the beginning, she would not have gone to the point where she almost forced her son to death. By then, she was already crazy, and her purpose changed from avoiding tragedy to making her son obedient) After her son committed suicide, she was frightened. At this time, her father did not provide reasonable guidance and did not take her to the hospital. Therefore, this fear is gradually worn away, and when it is worn away, she will continue her previous behavior. At this time, my father did not appear. He remained silent and even tried to get his son to forgive his mother because his wife was unhappy. As a son, Ningning had to let go of his parents. This was a painful and cruel process. He succeeded and survived, but it also meant that he lost completely and withdrew from the battlefield. From beginning to end, only he won. Everyone else is a loser. It's no wonder that the old man wants to give his shares to Ning Ning - he is compensating his grandson. This son is too selfish. He was afraid that his grandson would be controlled throughout his life, so he took action to give him financial strength.

As far as the Xie family is concerned, I think the most unforgivable person is Xie's father. Of course, that's not to say that Xie Ning's mother should be forgiven. It's just that she is really sick. But Xie's father is a normal person, but he can watch Xie Ning being tortured, from Little Taiyang to suicide. Even in the end, he still wants Xie Ning to forgive his mother. He never thought that he was wrong and should ask for forgiveness. Does he think Xie Ning just blames her mother for not having anything to do with him and hating him? ! !

Father Ning's words are so high-sounding. Isn't he right? He knew that his wife had a problem, but he indulged her, forcing his son to have psychological problems. He really failed as a human being. He is not a good father or a good husband. Although he is very good to his wife, is it good to just indulge blindly? He should have taken his wife to see a psychiatrist long ago.

If the harm that the mother brought to Xie Ning was like the obvious butcher knife of violent storms and hysterics, hanging brightly over the child's head, completely cutting off the child's deep love for the mother, the father's silence and connivance were like tiny streams of silent ice water, freezing Xie Ning's desire for his parents little by little every night after revealing his sex. Forcing him to grow a layer of barriers after being scarred to resist the harm from his loved ones. Rather than the mother's behavior making people angry, the father's silence and ignorance during the child's growth should be criticized even more. I don't believe that as a CEO, there is no way to make the family harmonious even by separating the children from the mother. At the very least, after the wife hurts the child again and again, not to mention defending her in person, she can at least tell the child in private where the mother's heart is, and teach him how to avoid the minefield and how to effectively deal with the harm from the mother. But he did nothing, only tried to persuade her a few times, blindly allowed his wife to commit mental violence on the child, watched indifferently as his wife sent the child to hell, and was obsessed with the child for a long time. In the end, he didn't know whether he was sincere or hypocritical and told the child's partner that I have no objection to this marriage. For such a father, you say he doesn't love his children. He provides his children with sufficient material conditions. You say he loves his children, but he doesn't treat his children as independent individuals. He doesn't understand the children's spiritual world, let alone support him. The hurt of his closest relatives in the first half of his life was like a damp rain hanging over Xie Ning's head. Fortunately, Xie Ning still had people who loved him and relatives and friends who cared about him. The warmth and love he received were enough to bid farewell to the nightmare of youth and welcome a new life.

It is said to be the main and receiver perspective, but it feels more like dual perspective. It's a very heart-warming fairy tale

There are so many heterosexuals dating promiscuous people, so it has nothing to do with sexual orientation, it has to do with being a scumbag, okay? Absolutely, after all, they are from a high-tech company, don't you understand this?

I just want to say that she is not worthy of being a mother [smile] Why does her heart disease cause Ning Ning to experience this [continue smiling]

There is a saying that I think is very appropriate here. In fact, it is the same as for all people who make mistakes and commit crimes: "I don't want to know what her difficulties are, I just want to know when she will die."

Just like Zhuang Zhuang said, no matter what her reasons are, she cannot forgive everything she did to Ning Ning.

After reloading it n times, I am still very sad! I really, really hate people like Xie Ning's mother. I was hurt when I was a child and I still can't let it go... It's not that children don't understand, so parents don't have to take into account the children's psychology. Even thinking about the extreme remarks and beatings and scoldings still makes me feel cold and makes me cry. To put it bluntly, she ruined this family. . . I may never be able to forgive such a person.