I Thought It Was a Girls' Love Story

"She" and "Him", Love, Gender Identity and Misogyny In fact, when I first read this article, I fell into deep thought for a long time about the title, the type of the article, and the popular science at the end of the text. I have no opinion on Fu She, and because I read gb, I personally always feel that Fu She is actually considered a female, so she should be classified in Lily? But out of curiosity how the author would explain Fu Ta's love affair with a normal girl, I clicked in and read... Well, I picked the right book! I read the book from the afternoon till 10pm. In fact, regarding the surgery in the chapter title and the person being referred to as "he", there was always a panic of "No way such a cute little girl can undergo surgery to turn herself into a boy." But after reading the last chapter, I finally felt relieved. Personally, I think the difference between futa and bisexuality lies in self-awareness. And the identity generally expressed to the outside world, and in the end Zhou Mi clearly stated that his identity is male, okay, then I think it is okay to classify romance... But so many previous chapters have always existed in the form of Lily in terms of social background and cognitive level of the heroine, so I think it is also okay to classify it as Lily... But I actually thought about it for a long time, and I feel that the classification of romance or lily is not very accurate. If I insist on classifying it, I will classify it in the "diversity" category. I blame Jinjiang for not doing a good job in diversity. This meme is really fragrant and delicious. I read it all in one row and I am very satisfied. Thank you, the author, for classifying such a small niche. I think it is great that you dare to write about it! Thanks you! Sorry for talking so much nonsense... But it is true that the subject matter has a certain threshold, but I think the chaos and complexity of this threshold itself also constitute the reason why this article is so fragrant... Let's discuss it in detail below! Regarding the beginning, it is a very relaxed and pleasant beginning, and it also made me quickly sympathize with Yuri... Loneliness actually exists in everyone's heart forever, and in order to overcome the huge lack in the heart, people will always seek solace to fill the hole. And the image of Youli looking for friends at the beginning made me think that she was only influenced by her aunt and class teacher in high school, so she couldn't make close friends in high school, and she was troubled by being in a dormitory alone, so she actively looked for roommates as a companion for comfort. But the fact is that I am narrow-minded. The complexity of her life experience has shaped her deeper psychological motivations. The lack of parental affection that should be a natural attribute makes her desperately seeking sincere emotions, friendship or love in addition to the love of her aunt... The characterization at the beginning really made Yuri appear to be very smart and capable. The part where she analyzed how she could be popular among the freshmen and how she delved into things like campus marking buildings, mobile services, and canteens, and how she was able to quickly establish rapport with counselors and student union members really made me fall in love with her quickly... Maybe it was because I couldn't be so capable, so enthusiastic and positive, and open up situations in adversity? But people also long for people like the little sun... And from the second chapter I will say that I got it! A girl who is shy and afraid of strangers, a girl who is as delicate as a doll, will carefully drink water from a plastic water cup and wipe the corners of her mouth like a kitten... Are there any super cute ones? Beautiful, fragrant, innocent and charming, I have to say that the description of her appearance, movements, and expressions made me fall in love with her right away (everyone loves beauty!) And the description of her charming appearance in many subsequent chapters made me really love her... In addition, the fragrant and soft tenderness between girls was also described as very sweet and delicious... I really like it... Let's talk about the gender identity part. In order to write a book review, I started reading from the front. In fact, everything was foreshadowed. As early as the end of Chapter 3, Zhou Mi had an inner drama of "If you think so, then I am a girl" when Yu Li said "You are the best girl in the world in my eyes". In the article, Zhou Mi also silently deepened his identity as a woman by repeating "Yes, if you say so, I am a girl" many times. Because he loves Yuri, and because he is aware of Yuri's androphobia (since this article was written in 2016, the term that is more suitable for the current context should be androphobia?), He will want to hide his male identity to prevent Yuri from finding out and hurting her. For this reason, he is willing to undergo surgery to hurt himself - but many behavioral details such as private use of bath soap, wigs, and keeping men's clothes are in line with the author's "him", "she", "girl" and other meanings. It can be seen from the long personal description with quotation marks that he still identifies with his male identity (because he was raised as a male since he was a child). He longs to make Yuli fall in love with himself as a male, but he is not confident in Yuli and wants to hide it. However, if he undergoes surgery, his identity with himself will still be fragmented and incomplete, which means that he is still injured and will doubt whether he has deceived his partner. How to put it, I think the situation at the end is very good, and it is what we often like to say, to accept your truest self, and when your lover is tolerant of you in any form and loves you as you are, I think it is truly pure love... Let's talk about misogyny again (out of personal selfishness). The article actually creates some bridges to reveal the more nuanced psychology of the characters. I personally think that there is also some selfishness (compliment) of the author hidden in it. The good thing is that these expressions are all to the point, without lengthy preaching, but they are some very daily and sensitive points... In short, it is a very pleasant look and feel. Yuri's campaign for class president is an interesting one. She is very good and is good at communicating with her classmates and is good at socializing. However, she is the only girl in the class, and the "men, men, all men" group naturally rejects her. Regarding the campaign line of the classmate who ran for class president with a "sunny appearance and completely stood in the male group", "connect with the male students in the class and sell the only girl in the class." What a classic speech, sales, who wants you to sell? People are not commodities. Who gives you the right to promote others? The class teacher's speech: It's not tiring to work with men and women. "It's rare to have a female classmate who is so outstanding." Being the deputy class president, haha... I remembered the time in junior high school. The class went on a trip to a resort or something like that. I was the class monitor at the time. The host asked the class leader to come on stage and say a few words. Then when he saw it was me, he said, "Ah, it's a female class president, so the male class leader also came out to say a few words." Why did he classify men and women for the same position without any foreshadowing? It still feels ridiculous. The head teacher in the article loves to educate You Li, and Lu Chen, another male character with a good image but also loves to educate others, was distracted during dance training with You Li and showed off to Zhou Mi, which can only be said to be dian. In addition, there is the aspect of "girl helping girl". The league secretary of another class believes in her ability, hopes that she will work harder, and even offers to revise her speech... They are all very good girls. Of course, there are also positive male characters and the inspirational Aunt Yuli in the article, so I won't go into details here. One scene that has been described many times is that when Zhou Mi appears, the male characters will stare at her. This kind of gaze makes her uncomfortable and frightened, which makes her more sympathetic to Yu Li. Zhou Mi, whose gender identity is male, is regarded as a "second gender" object from a social perspective. This also makes her understand Yu Li better from a heart perspective, right? I think this mutual understanding is a very valuable thing in a romantic relationship. In addition, as for the character of Li Anan, some of the previous descriptions of her actually made me afraid that she would gradually degenerate - but in the end it was good to end abruptly after the section about "adult's microphone" between her and Yuri. Too heavy a topic would destroy the beauty of the story itself... But I really like the criticism hidden behind the topic. I read this article in one sitting. It is also the first time I have written such a long analytical review. Please forgive me if I have any misunderstandings. But this article, to be honest, has aroused my enthusiasm for finding good-looking articles on Lily Channel, and once again realized that I am really an evil omnivore who will eat anything as long as it is good-looking... As long as love is beautiful, then no matter what the subject matter is, it is extremely delicious.

It's not interesting enough. The foreshadowing laid before has not been filled in. Li An'an and the surgery have not been explained.

It is really a very, very beautiful article, just like a lingering kiss between lovers under the summer moonlight. Wuwuwuwuwu. It's over. Thank you for accompanying me! !

Long live her! ! ! ! ! Wow, oh, damn, I saw it in Xiaolujiang! ! ! Please, madam, please make some extra money somewhere else during your free time. I want to look at the car.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh, finished reading! ! ! I also like it, it feels like it has opened up a new XP (face covering)

The senior is also quite nice, a refreshing man! He doesn't have any of the common bad habits of stinky men!

My wife is back to write extras and Che Che Ya! Woo woo woo

#This is a long review# On a sunny afternoon, I opened a certain software, and the homepage pushed me a short joke, or a little idea, about "helping her". So, having never read this type of subject matter, I started searching for keywords and finally found a book I wanted to read. On the second sunny afternoon, I lay in bed and read the novel from beginning to end in one sitting. I originally wanted to just write a final rating (I'm used to it), but during the reading process, I paid attention to the composition. Cao said a few years ago that he "wanted a long review" (Thanks to me for having the virtue of reading the composition. Cao's random thoughts are very interesting). It was like he sent me an invitation letter across time and space, so I started writing a long review—— The part about the campus in the article is really well written and resonates with the students of this university. When I was reporting as a freshman, I arrived early and none of my roommates showed up. I was also lonely, weak and helpless. I had two hands in my bag and planned to walk around the campus, but there was no one I could talk to. I could only take pictures with Ka Ka Ka. I kept praying in my heart, "Please give me some roommates who can get along peacefully." So I can sympathize with Li Li's uneasiness at that time. Of course, maybe there are family reasons. Another example is when I participated in the class committee election, I lost a few votes due to the ratio of men to women in the class... Although it was a bit regretful, it was very real. When I saw this plot, I couldn't help complaining, "Which class needs a deputy monitor?" "People are really profit-oriented." But such a situation may indeed exist. Life is like this. You have to stumble in trivial things, face setbacks, stand up again and again, constantly recognize yourself, and develop yourself into what you expect. It is an experience. Let's talk about the emotional line again. At the beginning, Cao Cao's psychological description of Yu Li was very good, and he completely wrote about the beauty of girls. I even thought that Li Li had a clear understanding of her sexual orientation. She liked girls, but I didn't expect that she didn't know either. But she is very determined. She only likes Zhou Mi In this novel, Li Li has no possibility of being a male partner. Even though his family is broken, Li Li still loves life and works hard to live like a little sun, healing himself and illuminating Zhou Mi at the same time. Immediately after seeing Zhou Mi appear, I sighed, "This name is quite neutral." Mi is very beautiful, but Mi himself is very aggressive and proactive, yet very shy and even very sensitive and delicate because of his "difference". It completely breaks through the boundaries of reality and makes me feel like a boy who is not so boyish... It's both real and incredible, because it's almost impossible to find such people in reality. When I meet a boy I hate, I just hold my nose and stay away. Let's talk about the other supporting characters Li Li's aunt is very nice, and so are Mi's grandfather and younger brother. Everyone is trying to understand and help the people they love in their own way. The part where the younger brother wears women's clothing is really great. It not only shows his love for his brother, but is also the key to pushing Mi to accept himself and deepening the relationship between Mi and Li Li. Compared with reality, combined with the overall theme of this article, I will be moved by such small and rare emotions countless times. Perhaps this is the meaning of the existence of novels and paper people. The only thing I don't understand very well is probably Li An'an's line. I feel that I tried my best to pave the way for it. At the end, it was understated. It didn't help the main line and the protagonist's emotional development. What kind of position Li Li is for Li Li is not clear enough. It's the first time I've read a novel of this kind. It's also the first time I've read a novel on a multi-channel channel (I usually don't even click on it because it's too hard to find, and many of them I don't read). After reading this novel, I can only say, "Being on the multi-channel channel is absolutely correct." Life is a process of constantly digging into one's core and understanding oneself from birth to death. Just like the boys and girls in adolescence in the article, they will always be confused, helpless, and even unable to accept themselves. They hate a part of themselves. But even so, we still hope that others can fully accept themselves and find resonance... Through this book, maybe I will learn more about my own preferences and rethink my own orientation. Maybe I will read other articles by Cao and other articles from the Diversity Channel in the future. Even though I'm a few years late, I still have to say—— Finished spreading flowers! Thank you for the story created by grass (bow)

Oh my god, it's so beautiful! My heart feels warm after reading this

It looks great, I love it, and the ending is great. I feel like only the two of them can be together. It just feels like they fit together.