Reborn to Remarry

Suddenly I want to talk about how I got out of depression. In fact, depression is largely due to the inability to let go of oneself, and the game between oneself and oneself. While knowing that one's condition is not good and unwillingly wanting to change, one cannot do anything right, and cannot synchronize with the thinking logic of normal people. During that time, I had a cold war with my deskmate for inexplicable reasons. In high school, my deskmate was basically the closest person to me, and the rest of my classmates were not close to me because of my personal reasons. So basically for the whole year, I was an island, but not completely closed. I just didn't need to cater to me, and I didn't need to rack my brains to pretend to be a normal person, which meant I stopped most of the internal friction. In this kind of life, I became a spectator of the crowd, I observed (my deskmates became the main target), I thought (that is, friends who are still depressed can consider meditation), and then slowly came out. I don't know the specific day, but I deeply remember that the sun shone on my face at noon one day, and I woke up from my dream with a smile. Now in college, I have a group of very good roommates. They are really nice and nice people. They have completely changed my personality (I can't even imagine that I have become so good now and the change has been so complete. I used to be so cool, really). They have solved the remaining problems of the depression period and are still in contact with my classmates. I'm really glad I didn't miss out on such a good girl.

Although it is a comment expressing emotion, I still hope to see it. When I saw Shen Rong's depression, it was hard for me to describe my feelings. I am very grateful to the author for describing it so vividly, because I have had a similar experience, but I couldn't find anyone who understood me. Just like Shen Rong and Qiao Yu, even though Qiao Yu loves Shen Rong so much, she still can't feel a trace of Shen Rong's inner feelings. For me, the emotions that need to be overcome by myself, the dilemma of knowing the cause but feeling powerless, the feeling of being alone in the heart, the pretense of not wanting to worry those who care about me, the burden, the feeling of being unmotivated, the indifference to everything, the desire to be left alone and do nothing, are indeed the same as Shen Rong. This feeling is indescribable and indescribable. It is really amazing and well written. The further we go, the more I look forward to Shen Rong's successful treatment, hoping to gain something. However, Shen Rong's treatment seems not to have been mentioned in depth. I think maybe everyone has their own way of getting out. I can understand Shen Rong very well. Because when I think back on how I got rid of my depression, it's so baffling that it doesn't feel like it's real. Thank you again, and thank you for caring about me in the past.

This article is really touching. What is love? What is life? What he writes is too real, so many people don't like to read it. This is completely non-mainstream work, and it is different from most of Jinjiang's sticky works. This article has distance, collision, and running-in. Two completely different people talk about love. This is too realistic, so many people don't like it, and many people can't bear it. In reality This is a sad fact. The harder you try to get closer to someone, the more likely it will lead to a result that you would never expect. The ideal reality is too far away from the real reality. I like stories that are so sweet that it makes people collapse, and I also like stories that are so sad that they make people collapse. Because extreme reality and extreme unreality will give people a sense of distance. After reading this article, you should all be convinced. The author understands very well the consequences of duplicity, keeping secrets, answering questions that are not asked, avoiding topics, and avoiding questions. This article is really well written, but if you like mindless sweetness, don't come in. Life is already so sad, so just seek comfort in Wu Nao Tian. If you really want to see what love is and how dramatic and ridiculous life can be, just come and take a look. The above is only my personal opinion. It is a pity that this article was published in Jinjiang now.

I think the last sentence of the extra chapter represents the meaning of the entire novel. The relationship between Shen Rong and Qiao Yu is not even a bad relationship. From the beginning, it was Qiao Yu's unilateral insistence, unknowing love, and paranoid pursuit. In fact, I think Shen Rong's rebirth was handled very well. His previous life had worn away all his expectations and emotions, and when he woke up again, only the fear of Qiao Yu remained. At first, he habitually wanted to please Qiao Yu and avoid family ruin, but soon the psychological problems masked by the pressure of survival broke out. I think this logic is very reasonable. Rebirth cannot change a person's nature. Shen Rong was originally such a sensitive person who lived in his own world with ideals. It was Qiao Yu who violently broke all this and forced Shen Rong to face reality. As for the relationship between the two, how should I put it? All marriages before love are equally subtle. Because I invested time and energy in the other person, I slowly developed feelings for him or her first, and then gradually invested in him. I can't explain this clearly.

Rong Zai is like a big cat. After his tail is stepped on, he runs away and ignores people for a few days. When people are particularly depressed, he comes back and "cat" around his feet. So cute

After reading it, I felt sad and cried several times. The relationship between the two of them is so complicated.

It's really well written. Although I couldn't understand the behavior of their previous life at first, I couldn't agree with Gong's actions during the period of his rebirth, and he felt a little resentful. I feel that no matter how it develops or what is done, it will be unfair to both parties. Different personalities can complement each other, and different living habits can accommodate each other. Regardless of gender, the incompatibility of three views is the most fatal factor in their relationship. They always feel that "making do" and "torturing each other" are their daily interactions. Indeed, they are both changing, creating a possibility for the future for both parties. This kind of running-in is incredible to me. The price is too high. Both sides are on the verge of collapse. They will fall off the cliff if they are just one step away. When I saw the middle and later stages, I even thought that the final outcome would be a tragedy. But no, they ended up together, but I didn't find it too abrupt. They worked hard to come up with answers to every question on the road leading to he, which may not be perfect. When encountering an unsolvable problem, one must abandon one of his own things in order to skip the question and move on. When passing the level, what is left behind after the abandonment is the change made for the other party. In the end, they didn't become each other's favorites. They may have had edges and corners that collided with each other when they got along, but the rough surfaces and jagged places on both sides happened to overlap with each other at one point. Although it's not always sweet, isn't it still beautiful? (Ah... I was really moved after reading this, but the writing style is so confusing that I don't know how to express it)

I'm such a lunatic that I actually finished reading it. I couldn't bear to read it. Ten lines at a glance can no longer describe my speed. A hundred lines at a glance is about the same. To sum up, the central idea is that I will never see you again!

Finally finished reading. Let me tell you how I feel about this article. First of all, halfway through the movie, I lost control of my emotions because of my empathy for Shen Rong, and broke out of the door. Fortunately, I was luckier than Shen Rong. I was a child doted on by my parents and did not take the final step. Although the pressure in the years before this kind of doting was so great that it really threatened to drown me, today it gave me a hand and kept me from completely falling into the abyss. It is really difficult to get along with family members who have different views. If others can avoid and ignore it, what can family members do? Not communicating? Ignore? It will only deepen the contradiction. Communicate? But no one can convince the other to hurt each other. Between hurting someone and hurting yourself, the one with the deepest feelings is the one who is hurt the most and compromises first. In the end, both sides suffer. I persisted in reading the next half, but I was speechless. I felt as if Shen Rong had been penetrated. Did the author distort the character's personality for the sake of HE? Or for other reasons? I can't understand Shen Rong's behavior after returning to China (perhaps because Shen Rong has already landed and I am still in the water), so I will not comment. Please forgive me for being incoherent in this state. I am unable to give the author a clear rating. I am really sorry.

To be honest, the ending felt like it was Stockholm. If I hadn't been focusing on writing, this book would actually be quite scary.