The Breeze Blows

White hair cannot be replaced by snow, it is already a sign of good fortune when you meet it.

Please write a review for Chapter 14. I don't know if it counts as a long review. What is revealed in the text is Wei Wenbin's almost unconditional love and partiality for his son as a father. As a bystander, I felt very uncomfortable, not to mention Feng Yin, who was Wei Wenbin's biological daughter. In the past, Feng Yin was a little girl who grew up wrapped in love. Due to the birth of her younger brother, her parents' reduced attention to her caused her to feel a sense of gap and loss. It is normal, and I think this is also human nature. Even if she is an only child, she will feel a little unhappy if her parents pay too much attention to pets. Although she also likes pets (this is using myself as an example, it is relatively one-sided and has no reference), she still has a strong affection and expectation for her younger brother. This is the closeness to her relatives that is engraved in her bones and blood as a sister. However, this closeness was worn away by Wei Wenbin himself, or in other words, due to unconditional favoritism over the long years, Feng Yin was disappointed again and again, and these family ties gradually disappeared. Not to mention that his younger brother's personality was so pampered by his father. It can be said that there is a sharp contrast with Feng Yin, which makes Feng Yin feel even more disparate. Children who have experienced great changes in their families will be more sensible and sensitive than children who have not experienced these things. They have a keen insight into small changes in the things around them, and they can also clearly perceive whether the people around them are kind or malicious towards them. Wei Wenbin's behavior made the sensitive Feng Yin clearly feel "biased", and even in my subjective opinion, it was a typical patriarchal mentality. Most families always look forward to having a son, and the world is always more tolerant of boys than girls. This is unfair to us girls, but not many people stand up and point it out. Because their mothers and grandmothers, these women who dote on boys, have had their edges smoothed out over their long lives, compromising and bowing to the world's inertial thinking, and thinking that this is right. The so-called "excuses" the world gives to boys seem to be positive and positive, but what they give us are always a few understatements. Children are very cute, but if they are manipulated by their parents without any limits, and they develop bad habits over time, it is abominable. Maybe my thoughts here are a bit too strong, but I do encounter many such children who are spoiled by their families, and I don't like them at all. Let's continue talking about Wei Wenbin's preference for his son. This kind of preference, in Feng Yin's eyes, would make her feel abandoned. This kind of preference will also make Feng Yin feel that he is not noticed at home and is not important. Girls at this age have very wide-ranging thinking and can easily be led astray and into dead ends, trapping themselves. The imbalance of parents' attention, which is often said to be "a bowl of water balanced", will make Feng Yin feel even more uncomfortable. This is also an unavoidable conflict and problem for multiple-child families. People in the world always think that the oldest child needs to be mature and stable and take care of the younger siblings, but they may have forgotten that before the younger siblings arrive, they are also the most cherished children of their parents. This sudden gap always takes time for them to adjust and figure it out. And their parents' biased bias will only make them get out of their mindset slower and slower. The current social environment no longer favors boys over girls, but the influence of "boys over girls" has never disappeared: the most important thing is for girls to get married and have children, and leave their careers to men; girls are definitely not as smart as boys, and they can't compare to boys in science; girls are definitely not as strong as boys, and their bodies are definitely not as good as boys... It seems that all girls are trapped in a template by the inertial thinking of society, and their own personalities and personalities have been denied and reshaped. Similarly, society always thinks that boys are more useful than girls. The definition of useful is very vague in my understanding, and I can't explain it clearly today, but what I want to say is that society's prejudice and look down on girls seems to have never stopped. Female teachers in school often show preference for boys, and elders at home will excuse boys' naughty behavior. In the final analysis, this society does not truly recognize equality between men and women. Maybe it's too serious to say it's too serious, but this is indeed my true feeling after reading this chapter. The suffocating feeling in the text wrapped around me like a snake, and the haze of patriarchal preference shrouded countless families. But this is the "tragedy" that is happening in countless families. There are countless fathers like Wei Wenbin in the world (but I think Wei Wenbin, as a father, can be considered a good father now.) There are countless Wei Fengyin, and there are countless Weiming (I suddenly thought of the meaning of their names, and my personal understanding is as follows: Fengyin is the kind of quiet and peaceful feeling of the years, while Weiming has unlimited wishes). That's all for now, maybe my mind is unclear at night and there is no logic at all.

Finished spreading flowers! Xql99+, Wei Fengyin, you are very good and you should always be happy! [Spread flowers]

Wei Fengyin, you are a very good girl yourself, smart, delicate, and independent-minded. You can get things done with just a few clicks. Now that you have a direction, feel free to move forward boldly! I would like to say that I basically don't read romance novels. Even if I do, if I read one in a year, it means it is really good, and it should be a well-known one. Come on Xiaoqi! [Like]

In fact, I don't particularly like to go shopping like a special soldier every time I go out. If I travel, if I have enough time, I might choose a place that I am more interested in, and then walk around slowly to understand and feel the local culture 🐶🌹 I wonder if there is anyone like me?

Ok, ok, I encountered another advanced writing method 🍉

I hope that everyone can be as tough as cattails, weather the wind and rain, and grow wantonly 🐶🌹

[Orange Candy] It's so pretty when you try it, hahahahahaha

Is it number one? 🤓 The official cp name has appeared!!! Wei Ran Cheng Feng 99😋

Oh oh oh! First!!! Tianqi has updated another sweet episode😋