A Child's Grief

The author's writing style is exquisite, the language is simple, and the writing style is smooth. Because it is a realistic novel and the author's personal experience, it is not convenient to post too many comments in the text. I just want to read it silently and feel it in my heart. I will post a book review here first and continue reading...

I really admire the author for being able to write about his true past and face the obstacles in his heart, so keep going.

Read the latest chapter so far to understand the meaning of the novel. The author uses simple and unpretentious writing to write about the ordinary life he has personally experienced, but it reflects all kinds of extraordinary lives. Through these different characterizations, it reflects different experiences, pursuits of people from different cultural classes, and different attitudes towards things when they happen. They contain the inherent goodness of human nature and the evil of human beings. In fact, they are also the product of the economic wave in the general environment. The economy and society, the hardship of life, and the warmth of human relationships have caused many people to distort their hearts and become dazzled by money. This is unbelievable to outsiders. They ignore family ties and turn against each other for economic interests. For example, Jiamei's selfishness and Fang Hongfang's recognition of her relatives actually have their own reasons. It can only be said that society has taught them to put their own interests first. This is also the author's writing technique, which makes the characters' personality traits contrast sharply. I have been reading and supporting it. It is a work that I like very much. The simple language is like listening to a friend talking face to face. It is as calm as water, and it is also thought-provoking. Everyone is working hard to live and pursue a different life, and how should they maintain their proper nature and kindness.

I read some chapters of "Kiss" carefully, and some chapters I just glanced at. Sometimes I read it for a few minutes or ten minutes in my free time, sometimes I read it for a long time. I squeezed in some time several nights... I promised to write a review again, and I felt that I might be a little dishonest... By narrating many trivial matters between relatives and starting from a small perspective, the author reflects the efforts of many ordinary people to find living space in the city after the post-industrial era in our country. The author does not involve big figures or the upper-level and top-level design, but talks about the daily lives of ordinary people. From the beginning, he narrated the contradictions in life and the changes in emotions, which revealed that the market in the primary stage of the market economy was extremely immature and unstable, the new influx of people into the city were extremely unsuitable for the immature market economy, and the society could not bear the demands of rapid urbanization... Etc., Etc., All overflowed from the writing and were revealed between the lines... In fact, in any era, there will be words of the era. Novels such as "Dear Death" should belong to this era and record the imprint of the era, unlike those fantasy, science fiction, and time-traveling online novels... Which are empty and lose the foundation of life and social and humanistic significance... The direction of literature should develop in this direction. The environmental background in this article is Lu'an. Let me make a few digressions. I have passed by Lu'an many times but have never been there. Every time I pass through the Dabie Mountains... Tongling... I pass by Lu'an. I always hope to rush there quickly. This may be a kind of potential psychological resistance. No, in August last year, when I returned from Suzhou and Hangzhou, others made an appointment to go to Tianzhu Mountain in the old Nanyue Mountains. I went to Chibi alone and said that we would meet in Wuhan. Because of the weather, they stayed in Tianzhu Mountain for an extra day, and I went to Wuyuan alone... Mentally, I have made many plans to go to Lu'an or Huangshan... But it was difficult to make the trip. Hope to see more beautiful words from the author! Come on! Mutual encouragement!

The author's writing ability is really superb. He tells a short story about the daily life, and the psychological reasoning of the family is well-founded. As a person involved, he is also impartial in looking at the problem. All the scenes in the book are played out one by one in front of my eyes, allowing readers to immerse themselves in it. This is the author's ability. It is a great book. This book is a representative of the works that record the real living conditions of our contemporary era. The author is willing and able to write about the worries and worries that belong to millions of contemporary families, which is also a blessing for us book friends. Because some things must be expressed and recorded by people with knowledge and writing skills. The impact of this is long-lasting, and things have to be looked at in the long run.

This book tells the author's personal experience. On October 4, 2023, my 72-year-old mother suffered a sudden acute myocardial infarction and was rushed to the hospital for cardiac stent surgery. After three stents were placed in the operating room, he seemed to be in good condition, but his condition took a turn for the worse right after he was transferred to the ICU, and he had to undergo a second rescue operation. Half an hour later, a doctor came out and said that his heartbeat had stopped, but his pupils had not dilated. After another two hours, another doctor came out and said that he was temporarily stable. Then he stayed in the ICU until he was transferred to the general ward on the 23rd. From October 23rd to November 3rd, the two siblings took turns taking care of her, my sister during the day and I at night. But until she was discharged from the hospital on the 3rd, my mother was still almost paralyzed because she stayed in the ICU for too long, took sedatives for many days, slept most of the time, and her muscles were severely degenerated. When I was discharged from the hospital, I asked the doctor how long it would take for my mother to stand up and walk. The doctor said three months. I asked the doctor, can my mother leave in three months? The doctor said he would be up and walking within three months, or he would never be able to stand again. After being discharged from the hospital, in order to help my mother stand up as soon as possible, I exercised with her every day and continued to improve the training methods based on her recovery. As a result, my mother was able to walk on the 14th day... However, when my mother was staying in the ICU, accompanying her in the general ward, and after she was discharged from the hospital, there were many conflicts between my sister Yu Jiamei and me. It can be said that we turned against each other. I can't figure it out, I can't understand... In fact, I can understand Yu Jiamei's behavior. In addition to the fact that my brother Yu Jiajin suffered from Chinese paralysis, Yu Jiamei and I saw the complete process from calf numbness to total paralysis and death. Yu Jiamei's mother-in-law also experienced such a process, and the process was longer. Yu Jiamei was frightened. But my brother Yu Jiajin is taken care of by his father and mother, and my mother-in-law Yu Jiamei is always taken care of by my father-in-law Yu Jiamei.

Personal Sorrow, Yu Jiacheng's own experience carefully written. The author writes brilliantly. The plot is true. Because personal experiences and thoughts can resonate best with readers. Those born in the 1980s are older and younger. Life is not easy. I hope we can follow the author's feelings and insights, practice them and cherish them! A great book, worth reading. The story is not over yet, I will keep following it!

The novel is very well written! The author has the same name as the protagonist. It is from such an omniscient perspective that the novel describes daily life in detail, making the novel seem more authentic and credible, and it is worth reading by everyone.

Although I usually like to write a few sentences when I have nothing to do, I was a little nervous when I heard that I was going to write a book review. After reading more than half of this book, I should be able to say a few words that are not very insightful. The Yu Jiacheng described by the author is as honest and kind as his name suggests. The plum blossom written by the author, Yu Jiamei, lives up to her name. How should I put it? The plum blossom is a flower of bitter cold. The cold air strikes people, but there is also fragrance hidden in the flower. Yu Jiamei is mean, selfish, and unreasonable on the surface. In fact, she hoped that Yu Jiacheng could stand upright and protect her. She loves Yu Jiacheng deep down. It is difficult for an upright official to deal with household affairs, so I won't go into details, just see for yourself.

The protagonist's mother suffered a sudden acute myocardial infarction and was sent to the hospital for stent surgery. She stayed in the intensive care unit for 20 days and was transferred to the general ward for another ten days, for a total of 31 days in the hospital. While in the hospital, for some unknown reason, the protagonist's sister began to provoke conflicts many times, pointing the finger at her younger brother, the protagonist. When my mother was discharged from the hospital, because she had been lying in the hospital for too long and had used a large amount of sedatives in the early stage, her muscles were severely atrophied, her body was in a state of total paralysis, and her mind was a little unclear. In the process of helping their mother recover, the conflict between the two siblings further intensified, and they finally took action. My sister got married early, and her two daughters and one son have grown up. When the conflict intensified, the elder sister encouraged her children to join the fight, intending to kill her younger brother. Because my brother is a sensitive person, easily agitated and prone to extremes. If the younger brother does something stupid, the older sister does not need to take responsibility. So the sister's three children took turns to deal with their uncle. The uncle was extremely heartbroken, but he calmed down and did not do anything stupid. Instead, he first exposed the face of his sister's family to his relatives, and finally wrote all the experiences into this novel.