Unrecognized Person

It took Su Qingya three volumes to explain clearly those words that she had been holding back for too long. She said "I don't want to give gifts to your mother", she said "I don't understand her enough", she said "don't say you are doing it for my own good". She showed her three-year-old scar to the man who never knew it, and was pushed away. The dog walked around under the date tree for the last time and left without waiting for the person who had never really been with it. Su Qingya didn't wait any longer. From the desire to be recognized, to seeing that she does not need to be recognized, to confirming that she does not need to be recognized - she has walked this road for too long. But what about after "no need"? Where is she going? She walked into a coffee shop. After the end of "The Unrecognized Person", Su Qingya's story continues in "Another Kind of Seeing". This time, she wasn't trying to win anyone's approval. She was going to raise herself again. Store manager Zhou Jiming told the rider that "there's no point in urging her" when she was in a hurry. When she pulled out the heart independently for the first time, she silently looked at the surveillance screen. When she wanted to handle all the steps by herself, he said, "Don't move, let them get it." Lu Jinhuai was the first person to let her know what it felt like to be "treated seriously". But that feeling wasn't just for him - it had always existed in the world, it was just that she had met the wrong people before. In the coffee shop, she was treated patiently, protected without asking any reason, and allowed to grow slowly. She is not learning latte art, she is learning how to stop putting all the weight on herself. "The Unrecognized" is about pain. "Another Kind of Seeing" is about healing. It's not about being healed by a perfect partner, it's about being healed by yourself - she finally learns to recognize what is good, she finally no longer treats hurt as a daily routine that needs to be digested, and she finally confirms that she deserves to be treated seriously. The dog used the last lap to tell her what belonging was. The coffee shop told her with latte after latte: You can be here without having to prove yourself first. From "not being seen" to "being seen", from "being scrutinized" to "being trusted". Su Qingya's next cup of coffee has just started to be brewed.