The Shackles That Cannot Be Thrown Off

There are three shackles in life that cannot be shaken off. Although they are shackles, they limit you, but they also achieve you. A family relationship, that is, a family birth, how high you can fly and how far you can see depends largely on the latitude of your family of origin. People can always see further by standing on the shoulders of giants. Of course, some native families are like a trap, and it takes almost half a lifetime to climb out. Second, the body, a good body can allow you to spend more time than others, and a good brain can save you more time than others, so the body represents time. Three interpersonal relationships, from classmates and teachers in school to colleagues and bosses after work. The friend you stay up all night with or the lover you sleep with. The network formed by these people will eventually limit the distance you can travel, but it will also help you resist the invasion of the outside world. Maybe your life and mine are similar, we are never completely free, there are shackles, constraints, and fetters. But a kite without strings is helpless. If you want to fly higher, you don't have to break free from the strings. Think long-term and slowly stretch the kite string. Or it doesn't matter whether you fly high or not, there is no good view at any height. What limits us is not the shackles of life, but the desire to compare that we can't get rid of.