Allow You to Be You

Defined by labels, scrutinized by standards, and disciplined by the world... Have you ever felt that you are living in the most unfamiliar way to yourself? Lin Ye fled to Chengdu with the devastation and self-doubt left behind in first-tier cities. Here, no one pays any attention to the girls who go shopping in Hanfu, and the old men in the teahouses talk freely and calmly. For the first time, he discovered that "weirdness" was not a shortcoming, but a characteristic. From tightness to relaxation, from inferiority to self-consistency. This is not a story about escape, but a journey about "return" - returning to one's true self and accepting one's own self that may not be perfect but is unique. This book will tell you: Real strength is not to live as someone else's standard answer, but to be at ease and allow you to be you in this noisy world.