You're My Wife, Don't You Dare Deny It!

Teacher Wang Defeng, dean of Fudan School of Philosophy, said when teaching students that when we are in love, we are looking for an ideal husband or ideal wife in our minds. This desire is that we form an entity in our hearts. A man pursues a woman with the desire to "find an ideal wife", and a woman will pursue a man with the desire to "find an ideal husband." But "entity" does not exist. Which woman is the natural wife? Which man is the natural husband? The husband is made by the wife, and the wife is made by the husband. This kind of relationship is called "reciprocal relationship". If one party is missing, the other party is missing, this kind of relationship is called "fate". So Mr. Lu Xun said well, "Women do not have wifely nature." Wifelike nature is not nature, motherly nature and daughterly nature are nature. This is how we should understand the "fate" between husband and wife or lovers. Motherhood and daughterhood allow women to possess wifehood due to fate. The moment Shen Jie knew about Shen Tianyun's existence, Shen Jie also clearly felt that Shen Tianyun had given birth to her as a mother. Don't simply think that you just have a child, right? The child also gives birth to a father or a mother. How can a man be a natural father or a natural husband? Which woman is a natural mother or a natural wife? Neither exists. If the author as the creator gives Xiao Yao a glimpse into the future (combined with Shen Jie and has Shen Tianyun), the preference given to Yu Luying is symbiosis with her sweetheart, and the preference given to Shen Tianyun is a return to the past To change the regret (what child doesn't want his parents to be harmonious and loving forever and have a harmonious family), then what it gives Shen Jie is the most ordinary but most extraordinary gift - the excellent qualities of a great woman (motherhood, daughterhood, wifehood). Shen Jie, a young woman, has endless charm, which has nothing to do with status, wealth, knowledge, insights, appearance, and figure. It is determined by these bright qualities. There are "three meanings" in the "Diamond Sutra". The Buddha said that the world is not the world, so it is called the world. The Tathagata said that there is a world, but it is not a world, so it is called a world. This is the surface meaning of the three sentences. The emptiness of dependent origination is the first principle of Buddhism. All things have no physical existence, but are made up of various causes and conditions. When conditions meet, they come into being, and when conditions separate, they perish. This is the case for everything. Integrate this Buddhist concept to understand the meaning of the three sentences. The first sentence is to say that the world is a dependent origin. You must admit that dependent origin is real; the second sentence is to deny that it is an entity and is not a world; the third sentence is to say that the world is a series of dependent origins. So how should Xiao Yao and Shen Jie understand the profound meaning of the three sentences? Xiao Yao and Shen Jie are lucky. This has nothing to do with their family background. No one can predict whether their future life will be happy or not. It can only be said to be the preference of fate and fate. When they were fifteen or sixteen years old, they knew their future significant other early, knew each other who would be with them for life, and met the children who made them mothers and fathers, which enabled them to awaken in advance the great qualities of motherhood and fatherhood. Shen Jie is faster and Xiao Yao is slower because Xiao Yao is stupid. The long-term relationship allowed Xiao Yao and Shen Jie to adapt to each other, become each other's life shape, and become each other's support. The Tathagata says that you are husband and wife, but you are not husband and wife, so you are husband and wife. Xiao Yao and Shen Jie met and got married by chance, and Tathagata also admitted it; they were about to start their married life, and the first stage of marriage must be the running-in period. Xiao Yao and Shen Jie were lucky enough to enter this stage. Maybe Xiao Yao and Shen Jie You will find that the ideal husband or ideal wife in your mind does not meet the original ideal or does not have a clear concept. At this time, the second sentence may come, they are not a couple; but don't stop at the second sentence, so they are a couple, that is called fate. It's like this, Xiao Yao is very bad, simple-minded, underdeveloped limbs, and a little unwilling to make progress, he is completely a naughty child. But he loved Shen Jie from the bottom of his heart. Maybe Xiao Yao didn't fully understand what love was, but he had experienced the agony of death when he thought Shen Jie would die forever. He understood that if Shen Jie died one day, at that moment, he would not be able to live alone. Xiao Yao loves and protects Shen Jie in a clumsy way. Although he is not smart, he is simple because he has not grown up enough. But that's not important. Xiao Yao's heart was accepted by Shen Jie. This kind of constant companionship and encouragement from the other half of his life was Xiao Yao's most precious and priceless wealth. Shen Jie also loves Xiao Yao. When Westerners express love, they say I love you. Chinese people often say now that there is nothing wrong with it. But in the past, this was not how Chinese people expressed love. The Chinese people used to express their love by saying, "You are a beautiful enemy" and "You are a killer with a thousand cuts." The love between me and you is not simply "I love you" or "You love me". Many times I am reluctant to leave you, but I hate you at the same time. The truth of love is this, how can you be happy every day? Just now they were holding hands in front of flowers and under the moon, and then they had another quarrel, and both of them were very sad. Waiting until the next day, I couldn't wait for the other party to send me a WeChat message to convince me. I waited and couldn't wait, and I felt so hateful in my heart. As soon as WeChat came, this hatred disappeared immediately. So this is called enemies. When you get married, love undergoes an important change and moves towards its opposite - marriage. This also involves a Taoist point of view "the opposite is the movement of Tao", that is, everything will go to its opposite. Marriage means the transformation of love into family affection, but strictly speaking, this family affection is not called family affection because there is no blood relationship as the basis. Family love without blood relations is great, but there are no words to express this feeling in European languages. How can we express it in China? Love. Love is about reciprocal relationships, and a husband and wife are loving each other for a hundred days. This kind of kindness is from both sides. It is a kind of kindness that is connected with love. It is not the kind of kindness between parents and children. Xiao Yao and Shen Jie are lucky. Maybe they don't know it, but they are already in the midst of this change. The gentle Shen Jie releases her motherly and wifely nature, and accepts the clumsy Xiao Yao with the greatest kindness and compassion. She knows that Xiao Yao is clumsy but stubborn, lacking a string but simple, and ignorant but has an innocent heart... Most importantly, Shen Jie knows that Xiao Yaoyi loves herself without hesitation, which makes this considerate and kind-hearted woman get closer to Xiao Yao and fall a little bit. Shen Jie has undergone great changes. She gradually regards Xiao Yao as her support, takes off those decent disguises, and reveals her daughter's sexual and true side to him. You and I don't need any burden or hiding. Shen Jie will not be indecisive and let fate dictate. After she met her future child and got to know Xiao Yao, the decision was made in Shen Jie's heart. Although she is a young high school sophomore, the greatness of motherhood and wifehood shines the most dazzling light in her, which has nothing to do with wealth and status. This perseverance, persistence, bravery, intelligence and compassion and kindness burst out with a steady stream of power, attracting Xiao Yao, protecting Xiao Yao, loving Shen Tianyun, and at the same time touching us in front of the screen. Every woman contains such power, which is passed down from generation to generation in the blood of our Chinese nation. The only difference is whether she is awakened or not. Teacher Mo Yan wrote in "Wealth, Poverty and Desire" that the power of motherhood enables her to eliminate all external pressure and makes her very strong and brave. The power of men is not as strong as that of motherhood. Of course, there is also father's love, but the weight of father's love and mother's love is different. Of course, fathers can also protect their children in critical moments, but it does not seem to come entirely from nature, but more from acquired education. The acquired education requires men to shoulder heavy responsibilities and protect women and their children. The power of motherhood is more primitive and instinctive. Shen Jie is gentle, kind, smart and strong. She clearly knows what she wants. She may be confused for a short time, but Shen Jie will not be confused by worldly appearances. She firmly protects and changes the weak Xiao Yao and never gives up. Xiao Yao's weaknesses are also weaknesses hidden in the deepest parts of our souls. With such a wife who will never leave her, who can not cherish her? What more could a husband ask for? Shen Jie found his happiness. Whether it's consistency or resistance, it doesn't matter in her eyes. She has her own opinion, and the moment she decides to do it, her destiny is in her hands. After the death of Shen Jie's biological mother, Shen Jie once again found his destination and home. Love is transforming into family affection every moment, and eventually it becomes me in you and you in me. Xiao Yao is the closest person to Shen Jie (Except Tian Yun), so when Shen Jie found out that Xiao Yao was hiding the symbiosis, you can imagine the feeling of being more sad than heartbroken, but the kind and strong Shen Jie would still considerately forgive Xiao Yao. She understood Xiao Yao's immature thoughts, and she tolerated him. This is the tolerance of a wife to her husband, the consideration between relatives whose blood is thicker than water, and the forgiveness of a mother who is ignorant of her husband. This is love. What a wonderful Shen Jie.

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I have read Chapter 41. This is a novel that suits my taste very well, even without a male protagonist. Judging from the content before Chapter 41 of the novel, the male protagonist is a fool, and calling him a fool is flattering him. High school student, 15 years old. People are divided into three, six or nine levels. The male protagonist is an ordinary person, but among ordinary people, as far as 15 years old is concerned, his sense of maturity of thinking is also the lowest, not to mention the highly educated people in the life of the female protagonist. Judging from the important conversations that the second female lead's mother and the first female lead had with him on the phone, the male protagonist only responded to two of them. The first is that as long as there is love, there is no problem. The second is to show one's "freedom" when one's confession is rejected, and the temptation to retreat is to advance, shabi. He didn't understand anything else that could be understood from the two conversations. He didn't even listen. He was only thinking about the above two things at the time. The reason outlined by the author for the male protagonist's general behavior is that he is young. A 15-year-old shouldn't act so stupid. But just because the author wrote about him, he is also the male protagonist who is so stupid. My evaluation is not as good as Zhang, a rich second generation, at least his father is the district chief. If the male protagonist hadn't told the female protagonist that he had a daughter coming from the future when they first met, the female protagonist would not have treated him as well as she did to Zhang Erdai. Don't blame me for reconnecting with the second female lead until the end of the phone call when the male protagonist said it. His disgust reached its peak. The summary is that the world seems to surround me and misery is by my side. For this male protagonist before Chapter 41, the author simply wrote an ntr later. One day, for some reason, the girl went to do a paternity test with her daughter. The daughter was hers, but she accidentally discovered that the daughter was not the male protagonist's, but the male protagonist's gay friend. Unfortunately, the gay friend discovered it, but the female protagonist loved the male protagonist very much at this time, so the gay friend picked up the dangerous female protagonist and directly made the male protagonist the mistress. The male protagonist is only qualified to be the master of suffering, and the treatment like Brother Cheng who has lost his head and body is good. Even if the male protagonist is worthy in the future, he will be a 30-year-old male protagonist, not the loser he is now. My confession was rejected and I showed my tragic experience, but I don't know why. Just like the heroine said, if you knew that your future partner was a fat, smelly, black pig that weighed several hundred pounds, would you still be like this now? I gave the heroine a five-yuan amulet to express my support for the author and my sympathy for the heroine, but I will never see you again. I forgive me for not being able to stand it.

Shen Jie

After reading it, I did find it a bit distorted. To put it bluntly, there are very few male protagonists with many flaws. The protagonists in novels including Qidian and major platforms are basically high in emotional intelligence, strategizing, or relying on others to embellish themselves. The male protagonist of this book has many flaws in the early stage. He is good at jealousy. He gets angry when others provoke him. When something happens, he immediately thinks it is someone else's problem. He is impulsive, lustful, and a bit scumbag. The advantage is that he has a clear distinction between love and hate, and he will remember those who treat him well (the boss of the first dungeon, Teacher Yao); the protagonist will pity the person who makes him angry if she is a pitiful person (Zhou Qi); he will not run away, and will try his best to help his friends when they are in danger (at that time, the cold war was going on and he took the initiative to look down on Shen Jie), and he will not flinch when encountering danger. I think it is normal for a fifteen-year-old boy to have these shortcomings, but not everyone has these advantages. Therefore, this is what the author has always wanted to describe, a story about a boy full of shortcomings in adolescence who has a dream of knight Don Quixote, and what happened by chance. From the moment I took the initiative to enter the palace, it became more and more interesting. At first, I thought it was a youth love story, and superpowers were just a youth disease that promoted the plot. It started to rise later on, becoming an interpretation of human nature and mutual salvation. In the process, there was a little trial and error and closeness between the male and female protagonists. It is very suitable for becoming a physical book. The audience is definitely very small in online books, but I still like it. After all, this is not a simple youth literature. After adding elements such as p5, it is quite interesting to watch.

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I've read Chapter 90 so far. Starting from Chapter 50, the male protagonist is barely a normal person. But still unattractive. But as a freshman in high school who gained superpowers. He actually didn't want to take risks as much as Shen Jie did. Improve your abilities. The reason why I can watch it is because Shen Jie is so charming. I estimate that the first 50 chapters have persuaded many people to quit. Although everyone says that this is what boys in the first year of high school are like. But this is a novel. The protagonist has no charisma. Did you watch the documentary? Can anyone tell me from which chapter the male protagonist starts liking me?

Shoulderless

The male protagonist is love-minded, naive and emotional. The heroine is mature, independent, and longs for freedom. They were not supposed to meet, but due to the tricks of fate (the author), they had to be tied together to fall in love. I have never seen anything like the character design of the protagonist. Compared with the invincible and upgrade styles of the protagonists in other romance novels, the protagonist of this novel is completely mainstream.