I Am Serious About Being a Good Husband

After reading the beginning, I understand what the author wants to express, and I can also think of the plot changes later on. However, purely from the perspective of writing a book, the beginning is really not suitable for clumsy writing, especially if it is too disconnected. If it could be more decisive and give readers a breaking point, that would be okay.

The reason for the breakup of the relationship was that the man's life skills were at full level, but his career was ruined. He had been raising a child for three years, was unwilling to make progress, was addicted to games, and was unable to shoulder family responsibilities (not making money). The woman had been patient for three years and saw no hope. At the same time, the woman is obsessed with her career and her life is ruined. The man's efforts are not understood and supported, and he is frustrated. So both parties are eager to get relief through divorce. However, when the man took over the association, his social status changed, and external pressure forced him to work hard to grow up, start to quit gaming, and focus on his career. In addition, the daughter cared about her father, so the woman gradually understood his hard work, recognized his changes, and was forced to contribute in life and housework. This also forced the woman to grow up. Therefore, the biggest conflict in the marriage was resolved and the marriage became possible. However, the changes on both sides are not thorough enough. The man's social status has improved, but his personal earning power has not improved significantly. Although the woman has made concessions, her sense of responsibility for returning to the family is not clear. This kind of repetition and conflict will cause the entanglement and pull between the two parties in the marriage, and their love for their children also makes them reluctant to let go easily. Moreover, both parties also have feelings. In the early stage, each other refused to grow. Without friction, there was no running-in. In the later stage, constant friction made each other slowly realize their own problems and began to work together. This process of running-in is what everyone sees, the conflicts and pulls in the plot. Thank you for your message. What I want to write is also the story of a middle-aged man's prodigal return and growth in adversity. Therefore, he will not only grow in his career, but also gradually gain understanding and respect in his marriage life, and eventually become a successful man in the social sense, that is, a good husband who can live in an IKEA home. At the same time, the heroine's strong ambition also needs to gradually take into account her wife's attributes. Marriage requires compromise and sacrifice, and also requires mutual growth. This book is about the meaning of career to men, as well as the difficulties and pain points in the marriage of urban men and women. Therefore, the pace cannot be very fast, and it can also be exciting and sad. I hope everyone will like and support this book.

I hate the main character playing games and I'm going to get divorced. The protagonist also threw his wife and children into the scenic spot and went back to play games for 10,000 yuan. No matter how much I write later, I can't stand it anymore.

Reasonable discussion How should I put it? The author wants to talk about something serious, but it is obvious that what the author wants to express is different from the values ​​​​of today's young (unmarried) people. Part of it is the impact of Western cultural values. On the other hand, the level of education has generally increased, traditional family concepts have weakened, and people have become more rational. In other words, people generally love themselves more. As a result, many single book friends do not understand the male protagonist's thoughts, and it is difficult for the younger generation who are already married to understand their thoughts. Mainly, I don't know why the author would set up grandparents to do nothing, unless they are elderly people in very remote areas who want to continue the family lineage. I don't know about those born in 2000, but most of those born in the 70s, 80s, and 90s who came from rural areas should have been brought up by their grandparents.

First of all, congratulations on being put on the shelves. First order support I really admire the author for his willingness to write a book that is purely about life. This kind of book is basically a thin line between serious literature and it is very difficult to write. Without Goldfinger, what is missing is not only the excitement, but also the imagination of the novel. And if someone really wants to create some emotion about reality from the novel, there are "Ordinary World", "Golden Age" and other gems in front of them, especially the beginning is somewhat poisonous, so it is really not easy to unfold. Actually, at first I thought it was a structure similar to Yu Huanshui. The male protagonist is decadent and glib. When the male and female protagonists first met, the male protagonist had a better financial situation. The female protagonist had requirements for the quality of life. Although her parents' family had half the conditions, they were sarcastic towards the male protagonist. The female protagonist was involved in her own family and dignity. But Yu Huanshui is even more absurd, and Qin Xiong has to start from scratch. I am still looking forward to how Qin Xiong will change. I also want to talk to you about some of my own points, which cannot be said to be suggestions, but just my personal subjective understanding of this book The first point The plot of the heroine Tang Qingya is so small that it is still difficult to stand up to the image of this character after a hundred chapters. I'm not blaming the heroine's behavior, I mean, It's hard for me to figure out the motivation behind some of the heroine's actions... In chronological order, the logic of the heroine's behavior is: Divorce (family is more important) treatment The male protagonist's job (money is more important) and family members borrowing money (family ties are more important). When the male protagonist's economic situation improves, he chooses to go to Pengcheng (himself is more important) Among the several choices made by the female protagonist, the criteria for making decisions have been changing, and they are changing by leaps and bounds. What is even more striking is that none of these choices puts the children first, but in this book the reason why Tang Qingya does not divorce Qin Xiong is for the sake of the children This is very disconnected to me, because I did not see how much role the children played in Tang Qingya's transformation from determined to divorce to not wanting to divorce. The most puzzling thing for me is that the heroine still chooses to go to Pengcheng when her husband already has good financial ability, even if this will cause her daughter who is not close to her to be without her mother's company when she is 3 years old... And the heroine did not consider her daughter in the process of making the decision. What description I really can't see how my daughter maintains this broken marriage After all, the woman has always been the one who is more eager for divorce I think the main reason is that there is too little description of the heroine, especially the profile description is close to 0. The heroine is an outstanding working woman who has reached middle-level management at a young age and has been promoted to the head office in the provincial capital. She should have a firm heart and excellent decision-making power. But the author, you have not shown us the heroine's working status. I have never even met the heroine's friends (if you don't count the restaurant owner who brought the heroine wine)... For example, have you discussed the heroine's thoughts on being responsible for the family finances alone with her friends? For example, has the heroine ever tried to communicate with the hero about work, games, children, etc.? For example, does the heroine think more when she works overtime alone until late at night? Wait, wait... I didn't see any of this, and the result of not seeing it is that, as mentioned above, I can't even figure out the reason why the heroine doesn't want a divorce... The logic of the hero's behavior is very clear because there are many descriptions: Don't want a divorce (the family is more Important) going out to work (family is more important) quarrels with his wife, persecution from his natal family, writing (family goes hand in hand with him) wife goes to Pengcheng (his own improvement is more important) The male protagonist's behavioral logic and motivation behind it are smooth and progressive, so that they will not appear to be separated at all. We can draw a line: the initial action was to save the family, but under a lot of pressure and contempt, the self began to emerge. After meeting the wife's initial request, the wife still decided to live in a different place, and began to value herself Qin Xiong is more like a person I can imagine, and the heroine is more like a tool person, saying different things and doing different things to advance the plot Second point The male protagonist To be honest, in my opinion, the struggle part is basically a golden finger. When he needed to work, someone used his own money to let Qin Xiong parachute the secretary-general to participate in government projects. Even though he lost his will by taking care of his children and indulging in games all year round, after re-opening the new book, he made tens of thousands a month... And I didn't even see the author describing the problems the male protagonist encountered in writing. The only crisis I remember the male protagonist encountered was that the male protagonist wrote a female supporting character to death, so that he lost a handful of subscriptions. If I remember correctly, this is the only crisis that this useless male protagonist encountered in the writing process... And this part is exactly the part where I think you, the author, can best perform as an online writer, but you have skipped it with just a few strokes. So the male protagonist is like the internet writer male protagonist in the rebirth novel. He quickly solved the biggest "main task" of the book and has good financial ability by writing online articles. The third point And in the recent update, I thought that the male and female protagonists would have more quarrels, more collisions, and more exchanges due to the sudden start of living in different places. After all, the female protagonist has gone to a completely unfamiliar working environment, and at this moment the male protagonist is also in a state of "My wife went to a new city but didn't consider me at all. This is no longer a home, so I decided to improve myself." There will obviously be conflicts. It was sudden, but suddenly a few months passed... To be honest, I didn't know what I was watching anymore. This kind of jump in the plot gave me a sense of instant vision: the male protagonist is about to start Long Aotian's writer's village to make a lot of money, while he and his wife are laughing and chatting, but they are still together. In the kneeling keyboard accident caused by Yueying, the male protagonist had already decided to leave the house, and then the female protagonist lied and her daughter cried and vomited to get the male protagonist to come back... I originally thought there would be a catalyst for half of the plot to unfold, but what happened... The result was that the female protagonist kissed the male protagonist, and the two ended up in a big fight? Then I didn't even see the two people thinking about this matter The reason why I think this plot is a very important conflict is because in this section, the male protagonist shouted that I want a divorce for the first time! And what method does the heroine use to bring the hero home? By deception. Just like the title of your chapter is "Exchange of Strength and Weakness", the relationship between husband and wife will undergo further changes due to this conflict. But one night passed and nothing changed. The bed affair between this couple is as efficient as the flash of the man in black. And this is not the first time that couples have used this matter to resolve conflicts Really not everything can be resolved through this kind of marital affair. Fiction is different from reality. In reality, there may be people who have suffered losses a hundred times and still have not made any progress. But in novels, when a dramatic conflict occurs, especially a severe dramatic conflict, the characters should change To be honest... I really feel a little uneasy as I write it, as if I have swallowed a few more bottles of poison in my memories. However, what I didn't expect was that the final straw fell on this chapter before it was put on the shelves. Being helpful is not a problem, but sure enough, the mother of the little girl who was rescued is indeed a rich man. This is really a strange cycle of urban novels. You writers really can't help but write about rich people who fall from the sky. I can't understand at all why this mother must drive a Porsche Cayenne... Is it just to suddenly arrange a house for the hero and heroine? What's wrong with just renting a house like a normal person? The separation of the male and female protagonists for several months is not described, the heroine's new living environment is not described, the daughter's kindergarten life is not described, and what happened between the hero and the daughter's acquaintance and the breakup of their relationship is not described, but the mother of the little girl whom the hero accidentally helped must drive a Porsche Cayenne. Well, Guo Jingming is truly a literary giant of the generation I hope you will continue your efforts. I will definitely support the first order. I believe you can also see that I have been reading your novel very seriously. This is also an explanation for myself. I'll take a look at it later. I really don't have the confidence to support you all the time. The dancing in these recent chapters is a bit too much for me It seems that you are indeed a well-educated person and your financial situation is also good. Maybe you wrote this book just for fun. If this is the most valuable advice I can give you, it is recommended that you write a biography for the character in advance, so that the character's behavioral motivations will be clearer. I wish you a happy life and smooth writing

After reading Chapter 75, I felt aggrieved. The author wrote it very well and was very realistic, but the readers were too tired. I feel that this style of writing is more suitable for physical books. For online writing, this style should be difficult to become popular. It's so depressing.

After reading a few chapters, the male protagonist has to endure it. I feel like he has to endure being cuckolded by this woman. This woman has such a strong character that she looks down on the protagonist. How many more chapters should I read?

To be honest, no one likes a protagonist like this

After reading the first two chapters, I was so disgusted that I couldn't stand it anymore. I thought it was very toxic, but I really couldn't stand it. It was too toxic. I just wanted to ask why the male protagonist didn't leave. He was so out of touch with the reality around me. I can't understand why there are millions of rewards for this book. It's outrageous that this book is so popular.

Hurry up and get divorced, the heroine's impression is that my career is the most important thing. Child? Crawl away, family? Stay away, realizing your own self-worth is the most important thing. Just extremely selfish. After reading that the author wrote that the male protagonist had an income, I thought that the female protagonist would be more inclined to return to the family. It turns out that I thought too much and those were all false. Realize self-worth yyds! ! ! To be honest, isn't Yueying fragrant? It has to be a strong woman who realizes her self-worth.

I felt relieved when I saw the comments in the comment section were all being scolded. They are really poisonous.

At first I thought he was the wise husband of the overbearing female CEO or the wise husband of the empress, and the male protagonist was the man behind the success of the female protagonist. But I thought wrong... It was just a constant tug-of-war between the male and female protagonists getting divorced and remarried, and it was so abusive all the time. It was really boring to watch. 😂

The early stage is too discouraging. Even if the book is put on our bookshelf, we may not continue to read it. How can the male protagonist be shaped like this? Even if he will grow up in the later stage, not many people will be able to see it by that time... How about the author changing it a little bit? Don't spend ten thousand dollars in vain.

The comments made by those who are not married are very radical, while those who are married basically make all kinds of compromises and struggles.

Is it really good to stay in this kind of marriage?

There are too few male hosts like this. They are so disgusting. We should divorce you soon. This book is so outrageous that the heavens cannot tolerate it.

Shouldn't this kind of romance (abuse) stories about family and family issues be released on female videos? ? Isn't it too poisonous to play male videos? !

After that, I read the comment section and expressed my opinions. I felt like I was reading the book without thinking. I wanted to comment but couldn't say anything. I have been reading novels for eleven years and I am used to the kind of Goldfinger, time travel and so on. Now looking at this kind of slow-paced urban life, it is quite good, a breath of fresh air, I can only say that it is quite interesting.

It's really too toxic. Life is already very tiring. Reading novels is to relax, not to be abused. You can accept abuse, but you can't keep feeling aggrieved from beginning to end.

Wuhu, finally divorced! Everyone is celebrating, but the author has written out the reluctance of the protagonist and his wife, which is quite interesting. The heroine in today's chapter still doesn't understand where she went wrong? It's simply outrageous. If she doesn't want to be a husband and raise children, then she shouldn't pursue the male protagonist. After getting married, she will leave her children to the male protagonist and despise him for having no career. The male protagonist has achieved some success in his career, but he has to work hard for himself, pursue a better one, and live separately in two places. No normal man can bear it. The male protagonist is not allowed to like other girls. This is simply a serious illness.

The writing was heart-breaking and useless, and it made me realize that I was really useless and could only find a sense of superiority overlooking everything in novels. As for poison, maybe it's because it's so heart-wrenching.

Madam, please respect yourself🤔It doesn't have to be the original match

First of all, I read Chapter 74 of this book, and I have some thoughts. The protagonist is very good, but the heroine described is really not worth it.

The breath of life is rich, potential work!

Come on! The last two chapters have been good.

It's okay, I'm finally letting it go Since you don't care about your career, there is no need for marriage.

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It's really beautiful. I hope it will maintain this level in the future. Once it's on the shelves, I'll definitely give it a full order.

Thank you to the author. It is a book that is very close to life. It has some flaws, but the flaws are not hidden. I like it very much!

What can you say about this book? I read it well in the early stages, but after reading the latest updates, I found it a bit boring. The plot of the book is not exciting. Come on!