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1. In the past two days, I was surfing on other apps and saw a complaint about the random naming of the heroines of some novels, which led to the author's preference for boys over girls in his characters, as well as various complaints. I unexpectedly saw someone mentioning the plot of this book, saying in a "sharing weird" tone that the heroine, who is already an empress, kneels down to her mother-in-law. First of all, the heroine has not proclaimed herself emperor at this time, not the queen. Secondly, the core point of the debate is not about kneeling to her mother-in-law, but about kneeling to the male protagonist's parents but not her own mother. However, the author has explained this very clearly. It is to bring out issues such as inheritance law and the reform of female households. Therefore, starting from the wedding, women kneel instead of men, instead of men kneeling on behalf of women, releasing a political signal for reform. This is clearly reflected in both the revised article and the content before the revision. Although I felt that the details of the content before the change were a bit inappropriate, the overall logic is understandable. There is no such thing as a "loving wife" mentality or "preferring boys over girls". I feel that some people do not read the book seriously or at all, and they criticize every point they make, just to satisfy their desire to complain and criticize. On another note, I personally feel that the term "mother-in-law" is really inconsistent in this article. It feels like a petty family and an absurd feeling of being dragged into a family ethics drama. When I read the article, I didn't have any idea that the princess is the heroine's mother-in-law. It's not that they don't exist. In this kind of relationship, I would not have thought of this description. If I wanted to refer to her, I would usually say the male protagonist's mother or just call her the princess. I always felt that the mother-in-law's statement was very inconsistent. Of course, I didn't mean to offend her, but it just felt weird, so we chatted together. 2. In addition, regarding this matter, I also saw some people saying that the heroine is a spoiled wife because of this. I think this is a very one-sided judgment, very unfair, and very unobjective. It is like a girl who has worked hard to get to the forefront of the industry and has become a very important figure, but you say that she is a spoiled wife because she can do housework and take care of the children at home. This is really unfair and not objective. The example may not be appropriate, but this is probably the meaning. Looking at a person, how can one easily judge just because of how well she does something or whether a certain detail is appropriate? 3. Except for the wedding event, the heroine started from a small place to carve out territory as a king and govern herself. She relied on her wisdom, strategy and force to conquer the world step by step. She started to expand from Xiping, promulgated policies to stabilize the people, attract refugees, expand the army, build cities, recruit political talents and technical talents, and step by step reach the top. At the top, her character is very three-dimensional and full. From her every word, deed, and every move, you can see her acumen and shrewdness in dealing with people in the political arena, her stability and persistence in governing the people and the country, her sympathy, compassion and sincerity for the people and the bottom in troubled times, her mind and pattern in dealing with people, and her silent and firm support for the world. In troubled times, people are like nothing. She initially just wanted to build a shelter for herself and her family, but she saw the misery of countless people everywhere she looked, so she wanted to do something for the world from the bottom of her heart. Being able to protect one more person is a blessing. , She used her actions to provide shelter for countless people and bring hope to a world that has been suffering. If you really read the full text, why can't you see her radiance and only remember that her behavior in sending signals during the reform of etiquette was not appropriate? She saved batches of people who were about to starve to death with the food she saved. She fought hard on the battlefield to provide a stable place for the people under her rule. She held recruitment examinations to provide opportunities for low-level scholars who could not get ahead. She promoted education so that both male and female students of the right age can enter school. She reformed the system so that women have the right to inherit property. She promoted women through meritocracy. After entering the dynasty as an official, she rebuilt a new dynasty full of hope in this decayed and barren land. She brought change and vitality to the world. She saved countless people with her actions. Such a wise, well-organized, ambitious, and compassionate person, why couldn't he see her shining soul and only see her kneeling to the male protagonist's parents, so he could easily ridicule and criticize her, and even call her a spoiled wife? 4. I personally think that sensitivity is a good thing when it comes to women's rights, but it is one-sided to criticize on one point without looking at the whole. Even such a brave and ambitious person who can start an independent career can be called a "beautiful wife". Sometimes I really feel that this world is too magical. I hope everyone will not be too extreme on both ends. Sometimes I feel that some people's comments are that a woman must be completely disinterested in men or play with men and step on others to be a great heroine. Anyone who does not act like a "big heroine" will immediately be labeled as a "spoiled wife" and be severely criticized. This is indeed a blow to authors who write about independent heroines. Reasonable criticism can make people reflect on themselves and progress, but one-sided criticism can only dampen the enthusiasm of the creator. Alas.

The heroine is considering whether the Zhao family or the Fu family should be the main clan, which I personally cannot understand. If the royal family's surname is Fu, then the child who inherits the throne must be surnamed Fu, otherwise the emperor's and the royal family's surnames will be different. In this way, wouldn't the empire built by the heroine become the empire of the Fu family? And the Zhao family has supported the heroine all the way, starting from the time she returned home with her coffin. Along the way, a glass shop must be opened for craftsmen to donate money and grain. Profit is part of it, but there is also true love in it. Especially the Fifth Uncle Ancestor and others, who supported Zhao Hanzhang in his early days to proclaim himself emperor, were risking the disapproval of the world and risking the annihilation of their clan. When the rebels came in, Zhao Ming even planned to die with the little emperor. In terms of emotion, reason, and blood relationship, the Zhao family should be the royal family. But the Fu family has never given anything from the beginning to the end. There is only one male protagonist, and the male protagonist cannot represent his family. Fu Zhongshu has always strongly opposed Zhao Hanzhang's dominance. If the heroine marries the hero, the Fu family can become a royal family. No matter what the heroine's purpose is, in the eyes of outsiders, it seems that the heroine did not support her own family and chose her husband's family. Wouldn't the Zhao family and other families be dissatisfied? And the royal family can be passed down, but relatives can only live for one day. If the Zhao family becomes a foreign relative, and Zhao Hanzhang's child succeeds to the throne in the future, the Zhao family will no longer be a foreign relative, and there will be a new foreign relative. It's hard to convince people that the Zhao family's achievements have not been adequately rewarded. The meritorious officials were not rewarded, but the husband's family was rewarded. Will we still support women to compete in the Central Plains in the future? To prevent the Zhao family from becoming dominant, it is understandable to support the Fu family, but if the Fu family becomes a royal family, it is not support. Just like no emperor would let the queen's family have the national surname in order to prevent the royal family from becoming too powerful. To prevent the Zhao family from harming the imperial power, it can also cultivate lonely ministers. Those children who came out of the school have entered the court. Although their surname is Zhao, they are actually only loyal to Zhao Hanzhang. It can also become a force to contain Zhao. There are other aristocratic families, the Wang family, the Wei family... I don't think the empress must have a harem, and the hero must have a wife. The empress can also choose to be a couple for the rest of her life. Respecting the man can actually combine equally and form an independent small family, regardless of marriage, just like in modern times. In a feudal society where imperial power was supreme, doing this was actually giving up one's power. But if the heroine reaches the stage of being an empress, she still has to marry, become a member of her husband's family, and accept the management of her husband's family. Then the woman's ascendance to the throne will be meaningless. When you marry into your husband's family, you respect the man, but if you don't have a woman, you're still at a disadvantage. Are women respected? Even if she becomes an empress, she is still not equal to men in marriage. And the people below may not object to equal marriage between Zhao Hanzhang and the male protagonist. First of all, the Zhao family was the first to support Zhao Hanzhang's marriage. In ancient times, it was unclear whether Zhao Hanzhang was from the Zhao family or the Fu family. The children of the Zhao family are now in various positions and have become a huge force. Ji Yuan and the others should also support it. People who followed Zhu Yuanzhang in the early stage would hope that Zhu Yuanzhang would marry Ma's family or marry Queen Ma? In order to ascend to the throne in the future, I will support equal marriage instead of marrying into my husband's family. If you follow a woman to conquer the world, do you still care about whether she follows the etiquette and laws and marries into her husband's family? In the future, will the king guide his subjects, or will the husband guide his wife? There are still people who want to marry Zhao Hanzhang. Zhao Hanzhang is now one step away from the throne. Marriage is always an important step to consolidate status. Compared with marrying into the Fu family, it is more likely that Zhao Hanzhang will marry Zhao Hanzhang after they get married as equals. All military power is in the hands of the heroine alone, and there is no possibility of being shaken. For other aristocratic families, the Wang family has the support of the Wang sisters, the Wei family has the Wei rank... Zhao Hanzhang still has the support of the people...

Zhao Hanzhang and Professor Fu finally meet, spread flowers! The costumes are not based on research, they are drawn randomly, please ignore ←_← Please like and comment!

It's a big joke in female videos. When an empress marries a man, she worships her parents-in-law. I admire you whenever you add a warning to your copywriting.

After writing a thousand chapters, he is still a general. King Langya is still cowering in the south of the Yangtze River. The general has written seven or eight chapters from his appointment to his marriage. Later, he will use a few chapters to explain in detail how significant the impact of the wedding reform is. You, a woman, have done it to become a general in the feudal monarchy, and the former crown princess has also done it to become an official in the court. Women You've done all the work of joining the army, opening schools, and allowing girls to go to school, but after a thousand chapters you write about the empress getting married, and it's just a change from the girl kneeling to her parents and the boy not kneeling to the man kneeling and the girl not kneeling. The general who has taken power over the government and the public still has to marry into the man's house in a sedan chair, kneel down to worship his parents-in-law, live in the man's house, and even ask for permission from his mother-in-law not to use it the next day. Greetings, he said that his son will be the head of the family in the future, and finally used a chapter to summarize and explain the impact of changing the marriage system, and how much resistance it has received. He simply ignored the world and did nothing. The so-called change was to stop kneeling to the mother and kneel to the parents-in-law. God, in the eyes of the author, it is very difficult for the man to kneel to the woman's parents. Changes are not even as big as the shock and resistance caused by a woman becoming a general, a former princess becoming an official in the court, or a woman serving as a soldier and entering a school. That's why everyone can't stand this, because it doesn't make sense logically. It's like you've already smashed up the house before, but the shock caused by writing it again is not as big as the shock of breaking a plate! I don't see how much the male protagonist loves the female protagonist. If he really loves the female protagonist, he should take the initiative to marry her, or be willing to hide behind his back. They are both female emperors, and the other male protagonist is willing to hide behind her from beginning to end. He wants to push the female protagonist to a high position, works hard, and is even willing to sacrifice his son without any regrets. This is called love! It's a pity that a spoiled wife is a spoiled wife and will never understand what true love is! Why am I so excited? Because when you made it clear at the beginning that your empress was going to marry into her husband's family, I definitely wouldn't read it. Instead of being severely traumatized after reading so much, the readers' money is also money, and it is also hard-earned, right? The author, I really avoid lightning and will never read her articles again 😭😭😭

Let me first state that I haven't read Marriage yet. When I read more than 600 chapters of war, it was really uncomfortable to follow, so I started writing. Today I was lucky enough to see some arguments in the book circle, especially the author's huge statement. I really can't help but feel unhappy. First of all, as the lord of a powerful force, Zhao Hanzhang's marriage and how to do each step of the wedding have certain precedents in ancient times, and every behavior has a representative meaning. Therefore, in ancient times, royal weddings were hosted by the etiquette department within the system, not the wedding company. It was the wedding company that came up with it. The status of etiquette in ancient times was almost supreme. Secondly, whether to marry or not is also extremely important in ancient times. It basically means whether the woman belongs to the man's family or the man belongs to the woman's family. It means whether her children are members of the Zhao family or relatives of the Zhao family. Again, as a powerful lord, Zhao Hanzhang, even if she insists on getting married (I haven't seen that yet), in terms of her status, she should not kneel to anyone, because respect does not mean kneeling. Just like when a princess gets married in ancient times, the parents-in-law still have to kneel down to the princess. Personally, I think that in the matter of Zhao Fu's marriage, according to the ancient etiquette and law, there is only one outcome, only Fu marries Zhao. This has nothing to do with the gender of Zhao Fu, or whether Zhao Fu cares about this, but has to do with political requirements and the entire pattern. Zhao conquers the world, using people, money, and the team that started the business are all based on the Zhao family. The subordinates respect Zhao, not Fu. So Zhao can only be the royal family. How many generations can the royal family last, and how many generations can the descendants last? Needless to say? Not to mention that they are all Hanzhang's children, whether Zhao is a royal family or a descendant has the greatest influence on other clan members, including other descendants of Hanzhang who did not inherit the throne. So it's not whether Zhao Hanzhang cares or not. If Zhao Hanzhang doesn't care and doesn't consider the interests of the Zhao family, how about the Zhao family flipping the table every minute? If this article says that the Zhao family doesn't care, then the author can do whatever he wants. There is no need to discuss it. As some readers said, it is the author's business to write it in a big way. All comments that discuss gender are actually subconsciously sexist, either discriminating against men or women. The moment Zhao Hanzhang aspired to be emperor, she had to do things according to the emperor's principles. Even if she wanted to change anything in legislation in the future, she could not change the basis of etiquette and law, that is, respecting the emperor. Taking a step back, even in modern times, when a company is established, the Zhao family provides investment, people to work, and land and factories. The Zhao family has worked hard for decades. The shareholders are registered as the Fu family, and the owners are the Fu family. It is speechless.

Zhao Hanzhang's dowry convoy was stared at by a group of people when it left the city gate. That was a group of tomb robbers who were running around committing crimes, and they were among the best in the tomb robbing business. When the thieves heard that the things on the long motorcade were to be buried with others, countless pairs of eyes glowed green. The convoy rushed all the way to the west of the city. The thieves mixed in with the fleeing people and followed the convoy at a distance. The convoy arrived at a mountain pass in the western suburbs, and another pair of carriages and horses emerged from the mountain. There were a large number of people, all of whom were brave and strong men. There are less than twenty tomb robbers. Seeing that it is impossible to rob the tomb openly, the only solution is to wait until the things are buried in the cemetery before robbing the tomb. Originally, tomb robbing was what they were good at. However, I don't know who the person who died was buried with so many things. "When I was at the city gate, I heard that it seemed to be the motorcade going to Cai Bo Zhao's house." The boss said. "Uncle Cai of the Zhao family has indeed just disappeared." The second master suddenly realized. "Uncle Shang Cai's hometown is not in Luoyang. I'm afraid he will have to return to his hometown for burial." Several leaders of the tomb robbers gathered together to analyze and decided to divide their forces into two groups. Led by the eldest master, they followed the funeral convoy, and were led by the second master all the way back to the city to find out when Uncle Cai would be buried and where he would be buried near Zhao's house. After the troops were divided into two groups, there were fewer people, the target was smaller, and it was not easy to be discovered. The second head of the family returned to the city with a few brothers and wandered outside the Zhao family for two days. When Luoyang City was destroyed, they finally saw the Zhao family's motorcade carrying coffins. They came out of the mansion and headed all the way to the west gate. Several tomb robbers had already changed into the clothes of the refugees and made themselves dirty. They each carried their own baggage and followed the Zhao family's convoy to the west with panic on their faces. At the gate of the city, the second master saw Zhao Hanzhang's calmness, decisiveness and orderliness, and suddenly felt a huge pressure. After leaving the city, two quick little tomb robbers went to deliver a message to the big boss. The second master and his brothers followed the Zhao family's motorcade. The more they walked, the more they felt that Zhao Hanzhang was an amazing woman. In such a chaotic and war-torn time, a little girl could be so calm and composed. She was not inferior to the men. Why did she want to take her back and become her sister-in-law? When the Zhao family distributed the few dry rations left to the second master and his brothers who were pretending to be refugees, the second master was so moved that he almost cried. During this period, the head of the family sent someone to send back the news. The Zhao family's convoy dispersed several times, and they also dispersed. It would be inconvenient to send news on the road. But when the Zhao family reunited, they naturally also reunited. The second master mingled peacefully among the refugees and followed Zhao Hanzhang all the way to Shangcai. In front of the Zhao family manor, the second master sighed in his heart. This little girl is so majestic and the Zhao family manor is so big. After waiting for a few days in the village, the day of the funeral finally arrived. The second master quietly mingled in the crowd and saw the pitiful burial of Uncle Cai. He felt disappointed at first, and then frightened. This little girl named Zhao Hanzhang was not simple, not simple. Not only does he know how to divide his troops into two groups, but he also knows how to win people's hearts. He will show weakness in front of the family elders, but he will never let others bully him. He is really as good as his eldest brother. It's just that the man next to her seems to be her fiancé. It seems that there is no need to rob the tomb, but after they have been gone for so long, they can't return empty-handed, right? It's not too much to kidnap a little girl back to be a sister-in-law, right?

Some explanations about the new book: Food Man, my understanding of it is that no matter how tiring or difficult the work is, as long as the food is delicious enough, we will still have hope for life. This is an optimistic attitude. In this book, the protagonists live in troubled times, and the order is broken. It cannot get worse, but they are still full of hope for life and move forward optimistically. For book friends who have questions about the relationship between the characters, let me tell you, The first and second bedrooms are divided according to the generation of the heroine's grandfather. Grandfather Zhao Qiao (Zhao Changyu), father Zhao Zhi Uncle Zhao Yu (Zhao Zhongyu), cousin Zhao Ji

When the empress gets married, don't be too misogynistic. Don't touch the story about spoiled wives and fight for hegemony! Author, I advise you to change quickly. If you write a story with a female protagonist and arrange this kind of male-loving plot, don't be afraid of being backlashed.

Theme fraud, copywriting fraud, and after the deception is over, the victims who have been sent away will be blamed in a weird way. They are really good at it. What is the difference between this and reading a romance novel where the heroine suddenly flew to Thailand to have sex reassignment surgery and said she had gender cognitive disorder and was a man? If you object, you don't support gender freedom or love freedom, right? You are going to say that although the heroine conquers the world, the world must be surrendered to others. Although the heroine is an empress, she is cautious when marrying a minister and kneeling down to her mother-in-law. Do you think the readers of i Strong Women will still come in?