Have You Set Yourself Up for Failure Today?

I have been reading novels for more than ten years, and I feel really ashamed. I read them from junior high school to high school, and then I reread them. I was still reading them when I was rereading them, and I couldn't control myself. Then I went to college for four years, and then I started working, and I am still reading them now. The novel really influenced me a lot. It takes 10 years, from a teenager to the age of 3 now, which is really a long time. Time goes by really fast. It seems to have become a habit. Actually it's really not good. After reading this novel, I saw the protagonist's counterattack, which was really desperate. Taking the postgraduate entrance examination and getting into Peking University is a dream for many people. I remember when I was a child, I was confused between Peking University and Tsinghua University. Later I went to a third-tier school, which was a bit disappointing to my parents' expectations. During the preparation period, it lasted for three months, which was really impressive and I admire you very much. His level of guitar playing is beyond that of most people, and he has reached a level where he can sell his songs and so on. We all know that this is the author's plot setting, and there is a hook. But his life was really great. I want to replace it. The vast majority of people in reality are ordinary people. I comfort myself in this way. They earn an ordinary salary, have an ordinary face, have not too high emotional intelligence and communication skills, have the intelligence of ordinary people, and are mostly in a passive state of internal friction at work. Then let's get to know someone who is almost the same. When a girl falls in love, collects a down payment, gets married and has children, under financial pressure, there is a high probability that she will quarrel, because the poor and humble couple will suffer for a long time, and the lack of material and financial resources will cause conflicts between the two, because there always needs to be someone who takes the blame and takes the blame, but who will take the initiative to admit their mistakes? Thinking of this, it's really scary. Our pursuit of a better future is gone and we will regret it because we have not worked hard or fought for our dreams. This is the reason for our pain. Because we have struggled and failed, we can free ourselves, at least we have tried hard. It's like falling in love with a girl in adolescence, and you bluntly confessed to her. Although she rejected you, it was very uncomfortable at the time, but looking back now, you will smile knowingly, which is also a sense of satisfaction. It is a tribute to your courage at the time and love for your young self. What we love most is ourselves. All actions are based on oneself. But the point is, many people are not brave enough to speak out. Although as time goes by and we meet other girls, we will heal quickly, but it is still a pity after all. And many people still haven't gotten out of this vicious circle. Just like me, I have been stuck in the trap of reading novels in high school and not studying hard, and I can't get out of it. Regret it. It's really hard to change yourself, just like *Si's counterattack, it's really hard. Because those bad things and bad habits are the flesh of your own body. It's really painful to cut. It's like you've seen the emperor kill himself? It is really difficult to change yourself, but life is even harder. After thinking about my situation, I found that it was actually not bad. My father was still working to make money. My family bought me a house and paid a down payment. In the past few years, I paid monthly for the family. My current monthly income is about 5,6k, and it has been 3 or 4 years since I graduated. Compared with others, it is small, but the basic living standard is still enough in a second-tier city. Now that I am single, there is no emotional pressure. After all, when you are in love, you have to be responsible for others. A scumbag cannot do that because he is not handsome and has no money, so he can only be a good person. I am about to enter my third grade now, and my parents are both about to reach their sixth grade. My parents got married at my age and gave birth to me the next year. In fact, Mom really wanted to hold a grandson, but she didn't force me very much. She just expressed her thoughts many times. Parents' feelings for their children are really pure. I feel very sorry for my parents. After all, other people's children have taken over the burden of the family, but I am still gnawing at the old age. I feel ashamed. What I feel ashamed of is that because of my inaction, they still have to bear the pressure and need to care about me. I feel ashamed that I am immature and stable, so I cannot take care of myself and need them to worry about me. It is difficult to change yourself, but you should also try to change yourself. I still want to break through myself a little more, get an academic qualification, take a certificate or something. Do yourself a good job first, do not consume yourself internally, cultivate yourself first, and then you can manage your family. While you can still have fun and fight, improve yourself more, and fight more while you don't have too much pressure and financial pressure. Although there is not much time, there are still opportunities. There are really not many opportunities in life, so why wait until you have to dance in shackles. I would like to encourage you all.

The protagonist of this article is really real and very immersive. Yes, I am one of those lazy, late-stage cancer patients with procrastination. Every time I talk about working hard, I can't persist for a few days. I always put off doing things until the end, such as catching up on homework in the last few days of vacation... I also have courage. I am introverted and dare not express myself. I finally mustered up the courage to sign up for a competition, but I couldn't help but flinch in front of everyone. Three minutes of heat and three seconds of courage. Knowing that I am inadequate, knowing that I am already lazy and lacking self-control and perseverance, I want to change but I cannot persist. For example, if you want to lose weight, you have been stuck at home in the past year. I want to exercise to lose weight but can't stick to it. I don't have enough self-control when dieting. I can't help but eat high-calorie food. It's called eating to have the strength to lose weight. Actually, I just know that I am too useless, too useless, and have no control. I can't control my mouth and can't move my legs. I deserve to gain weight! But like the male protagonist in the article before he got the system, I made many plans to change myself, but finally gave up after only a few days. It's really hard and tiring to work hard, but it's really comfortable to lie down if you don't work hard, it's just uncomfortable╯╰

No matter how long, no matter when, as long as you work hard, you will not be worse off than you are now. As long as you work hard, don't be afraid of failure. Work hard little by little, and God will send gifts to you. ——I only gradually understood it in my senior year of high school. Although I wasted too much time, I also wanted to see the scenery ahead. The author hopes that we can work together in this world. In June next year, no matter what, I will come back and tell everyone what gifts I received.

My proposal to her was successful, and I will marry her after this.

Come on, I like this book very much, donate 9 votes every day, keep it up! I am 25 years old and have just awakened this year. I still have to push myself when there are more people.

I'll stop masturbating from today. If I can't, I'll just forget it.

I also want a face-slapping system!!! 😭

Update it well, your book is a book that can give people strength.

Come on, author, you write well. I updated 5 chapters today, but I still hope for more!

This adjusted point may distract some readers. After all, I am also very unhappy... The author should pay attention to it. Next time a similar plot appears, there will probably be more readers.