The Differential Theorem of Married Life

I really want to ask about the character Zhi Qiu, the pimp! I have a really good relationship with my first love. I know everything and help with everything. I didn't agree to pursue my first love back then, but now I'm divorced. There's no good, so I'm going to have to look back. ⁽˙³˙⁾◟(๑•́ ₃ •̀๑)◞⁽˙³˙⁾ My first love is not a simple person. The heroine deserves better👌The author writes really well.

Xu is indeed indulging Hu. It is conceivable that Xu is the giver in the relationship between the two parties. Maybe it is because he does not go out to work and does not have social recognition, but in front of Hu, he does not have the confidence given by society; maybe it is the cowardice of the original family, who will always be the party responsible for the problem but dare not and cannot get out of the predicament. Hu seems to be a native The savior of the ecological family does not have the confidence given by the family in front of Hu; perhaps it is more that Xu herself has problems. She knows clearly that there is no one in the original family who can stand up and support her, but she is unwilling to stand up. Even if she takes out the money, she will use Hu's name, hoping that Hu will support her and make Hu look good. She is obviously educated and has a skill, but she has not actively asked to join the society. She has no colleagues or friends. She can live like this for so many years. It can only be said that people who are too arrogant do not care about many things and have no pursuit. They can listen to her husband telling the history of love calmly. I am surprised whether she loves Hu or not. Isn't she possessive of Hu? I am surprised whether she loves herself. Doesn't she know that Hu is slapping herself in the face by talking about the history of love like that? Although she can get a good salary, she is still unsure of her ability, mainly because of her perception of painting. The society has always believed that children with poor grades only take the artistic route. Many children also think that they are not good at it, so subconsciously they are not sure about art. However, in the process of having to continue, they will give face to their own behavior of learning art, which is commonly known as increasing self-cultivation and cultivating sentiments. Under the psychological suggestion of contradictory desires, some art students really tell themselves that they do not make a living through art, but only It is to show my artistic sentiment. I paint when I have spare time to show that I am an elegant person. In fact, how can I put it this way? This kind of self-advocacy can really make art realize dreams, because art requires deep accumulation and precipitation, but it takes too long. When many people succeed in art, they don't know it themselves and think they are still pretending. So Xu has achieved certain achievements. Hu is a person who is self-disciplined but has no other discipline. Those who can achieve certain achievements are definitely those who can discipline themselves, but they cannot withstand the gentle trap of a long time and a loose environment. Without the alienation from his parents, Hu's mother presented the image of not being a troublemaker, not living together, being knowledgeable and courteous, and also very humorous. She has always been the image of helping her daughter-in-law Xu. I don't know how many daughters-in-law envied her, but such a mother can't control her son. Don't say that when you grow up, I can't control you anymore. Right is right, and wrong is wrong, She The old lady is so old, but she can still beat her erring children with a stick. This is called the majesty of parents and the protection of family tradition. Hu's mother can only humorously tease Hu. The real problem has not been solved, making Hu more and more old. This is also the abnormal development of today's families. The education of love is only all-encompassing and loses the seriousness of education. There is no alienation from the wife, no participation in housework, no control over friends, no rules for traveling, no control over finances, and the purity of love cannot be demanded by the wife with confidence, not even the brother-in-law and brother-in-law, let alone the pressure from the woman. How can such a weak family bully him? There is no heteronomy from the child, the child does not want him, the child does not make demands for him, and there is no love without giving. The bond between the child and him is too little, and his sense of responsibility for the child is getting weaker and weaker. He does not care about the prospect of the child receiving a better education. He only cares about whether he can use his money to buy a house in the south. He does not care about the child's food, clothing, housing, and transportation. He only cares about his own food, drink, and fun. He does not care about whether there is a teacher who disrespects the child and makes it difficult for the child. He only cares about whether his dignity is challenged. As he mixes in the society, and is pursued by his friends, he will become more and more confused. He will be smooth-talking, act like a fool, and take his peace of mind for granted. As soon as he comes into being, he will feel aggrieved. It has always been like that. You he-laws just do what you say. Have you considered the baby's feelings?

After reading Chapter 10, I want them to divorce. I understand the helplessness of life, the heroine thinks a lot, and the author writes very realistically

At first I thought the writing was good, but the more I read, the more confused I became. What on earth did the author want to express? The male protagonist has obviously cheated on her mentally. Does she still have to catch him in bed? The heroine has the ability and ideas, but she still compromises everywhere. Is the form of marriage so important? Do you still want to write it as a prodigal son who can never change his fortune? I really don't see anything outstanding about this man that makes the heroine hesitate. If in reality, such a marriage would have broken up long ago, and if it continues like this, I will suspect that the author is just trying to make up the word count.

The heroine is 33 years old, her daughter is 6 years old, her husband is 43 years old, and her old lover is 45 years old. I feel that the heroine is the kind of traditional virtuous wife who is loyal to the end. She is capable but not confident. She is willing to play a sacrificial and dedicated role in marriage and family. Her family of origin cannot help and is a burden. I don't know what the heroine is pursuing in marriage. How come a full-time housewife who earns 20,000 yuan a month can't live without a man? She said it was for the sake of the children, and she still loved the man. However, the husband did not have to do housework and did not accompany his daughter after get off work. He casually invested 500,000 yuan rather than buy a house in the south to give his daughter a better education. He would rather lend money to his old lover to buy a villa than lend money to his wife's family to buy a house. Such a man, no matter how rich he is, can't spend anything on you, and still wants you to be a nanny and maid to take care of your daily life. Picture what?

Until now, every time I read this novel, every updated chapter makes me feel depressed and extremely frustrated😒😒

Mr. Hu started to compare 😒😒😒 He really deserves a beating, he is used to it. Mr. Hu's first love is already this old, and he still dresses in white every day🙃🤨🤨He drinks alcohol and is a female man (′～`;) and wears white lotus clothes

It feels like Zhiqiu and Mai Tong are working together to deceive the male protagonist.

After the new year, I looked to see if I had divorced, but it turned out that I still haven't divorced.

It's really frustrating to read. I don't even know what the author wants to write. Updates are so slow now.