Back then, your boyfriend eventually broke up with you because you were fat;
Now that you've lost weight, your boyfriend is asking to break up with you.
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Warning: This includes some body-shaming and other outrageous content the author would rather not spoil. Readers who find that upsetting, let's part ways here.
Message: Don't give others the power to judge you.
The author really made me feel the charm of the second person! In this article, the narrative of "you" allows me, as a reader, to deeply understand what is wrong and uncomfortable about this matter. I think if it is just an ordinary third person, there is no way to subjectively feel the other party's malice from the first perspective. Moreover, I can completely substitute the thinking logic of the heroine, who is between me and others, but my own feelings overlap with hers, so when I understand her, I also feel my own emotional fluctuations - pain, struggle, anger, grievance, and then it becomes - refreshing and enlightened! It's amazing, I love it so much, the ending is great, the choice of the heroine is really great, I love it! When the theme that seemed to explore mainstream aesthetic values narrowed down to intimacy, its meaning also took a turn. The heroine's two love affairs seem to be the aesthetic opposition between fatness and thinness, but in essence they have the same core - about control and self-subjectivity. The love between the two boyfriends does not respect the heroine as an independent subject, but an object that satisfies their own desires and value projections. It's just that one of them used straightforward and clumsy methods to force her to change with words full of humiliation, while the other packaged his dirty purpose in the frame of "for your own good" and said such high-sounding love words as "I love you just the way you are", inducing self-doubt in the other party and making it difficult to identify. I really want to shout about this, God, I really want more people to read this article! Look at what these scum do, kids, keep your eyes open!! What touched me most about this article was that the heroine finally chose to face her true heart honestly and started living for herself. It was really great. In fact, I also have a please-please personality. I often subconsciously make responses against my will. I toss and turn in self-loathing at night, thinking about when can I be stronger and be myself? Perhaps this is where the heroine struck me the most. So why can't we be more honest and follow our hearts? Don't care about other people's opinions, simply do what you feel comfortable and right, and make choices to make yourself happier, not to please anyone. I hope everyone can love themselves, their bodies, their souls, respect themselves more, and then run towards their own freedom! Thank you very much to the author for writing this story, I love you so much! ❤️❤️
How hypocritical, the two men are actually the same
Don't change yourself because of other people's aesthetics. Just like yourself. People's aesthetics are always changing. Every girl just needs to be herself. If she wants to be fat, she can be fat. If she wants to be thin, she can be thin, oi! The writing is really good
Nice! The joy of becoming mainstream, a very subtle angle
I saw a man who really knew what he wanted and that was enough