Since You Went Away

I saw this book again and found that it was last updated twelve years ago. I have been waiting for it to be published and for the final chapter to be released online. I am still curious about Meng Dong's final mood and transcript. My feelings were different when I read this book when I was in college and now that I am a wife and mother, but I still like the delicate inner descriptions. Now, as a 39-year-old middle-aged man, I have also experienced those nodes or stages where the system collapses and beliefs are destroyed. But life is not a novel, and there are no seniors or male versions to help us heal and recover. It is more about continuing to carry heavy loads and licking the wounds alone to speed up the healing. You are the wonderful support I have experienced and the rainbow in my memory

Why is it labeled as abuse? Where is the abuse? After suffering torture, you can find yourself again, reinvent yourself, find a clear goal and pursue life. It is very inspiring. No matter it is the heroine or Aunt Meng, the future is bright!

Alas, I really felt a lot after reading this article. It is very well written. The ending may be a bit rushed (the endings of all articles are quite difficult. I want all readers to be satisfied with this). But I love the first half of the book. The description of the heroine's self-reflection and the people around her has the cruelty of reality and the small warmth.

I feel that the ending is a bit sudden. Some of the supporting roles have not been explained clearly. How did Aunt Meng get divorced in the end? What happened to Deng Wenjie? I am still very curious.

It's really good, the story is well written, and the writing style is also my favorite type. The characters in the story have their own thoughts and persistence, and it really made me feel a lot. I like the author a lot ~

"I'm saying, if I love you can make you feel at ease, I can say it a hundred times a thousand times. But I think, before saying this, I need to understand what love is, what does the sentence I love you mean, what kind of responsibility does it bear, and can what it promises be accomplished? I am thinking about a woman, a woman like me, I have my own job, I am not bad at ability, I have a good brain, and my body is always healthy. A woman like me needs a man's support The words are not to ask him to support me, not to ask him to rely on me. For me, who is nearly thirty years old, saying love to a man is not as simple as one sentence. Saying love now and saying love when I was 18 or 19 years old are two completely different things." I let out a breath, looked at him, and said seriously, "I don't believe that I love you, but I think maybe I can put it another way, Fu Yirui, I can't stand the possibility of being separated from you." More heart-warming than my love for you

Came back to watch it a year later. I can't express how much I like it. I regret meeting you so late. My wife seems to have stopped writing articles.

That's right, because I used to read articles of this level all the time, and then I found that Jinjiang nowadays, except for a few old authors, can't stand it at all. I think I added Ah Shui's KouKou account and KouKou group back then, but now we don't log in to KouKou very much. Time flies so fast.

As a romance novel, "Since Farewell" has an original beginning. Zhang Xuran's childhood sweetheart fiancé and young and promising photographer Meng Dong was hit in the head by a stray bullet on the battlefield and died on the spot. But their love had ended before that. Meng Dong fell in love with a foreign girl. If he hadn't died, it might have been possible for the passion to cool down and return to the old love; but his sudden death sealed this unilateral relationship with no room for change. On the same day of Meng Dong's funeral, Zhang Xuran neglected his patients due to grief and suffered a medical accident. At the beginning of the story, the author puts the blows that a young woman can encounter, such as separation, death, and career failure, on the same person. Beliefs collapse, careers hit rock bottom, and even the objects of resentment or hatred disappear. The betrayal and death of her lover caused half of her heart to become rotten. Therefore, in the first half of the article, her heart was in danger repeatedly. First he was stabbed, and then he developed a "damn sensational disease" - "broken heart syndrome" caused by emotional injury. Zhang Xuran himself is a heart surgeon and is good at cutting open other people's chests and repairing their hearts. The arrangement of this profession obviously has its significance. This first-person article is like the heroine herself holding a scalpel, cutting open the layers of her heart and examining it repeatedly. Self-repair is like heart surgery. Open the chest, take out the heart, remove the lesion, sew it up, and wait for it to heal slowly. In the first half, the heroine is like searching for a disease, peeling off the cocoon to describe her life experience of the past twenty years and her relationship with Meng Dong. The second half is like healing and suturing, untying the knot in her heart, healing the trauma, turning from inferiority to peace, and from blame to understanding. This heartbroken doctor, according to the basic rules of romance novels, naturally needs a male protagonist in addition to the heroine. Although in my opinion, if the heroine alone was responsible for self-healing, it would be a good article, and perhaps it would be closer to reality and more profound; but in that case, it would not be a romance. It is not easy to describe such a process of pulling oneself out of the mud in a fascinating way. The outstanding thing about "Since Farewell" is that in addition to the many characters and rich stories, the author's descriptions are also like surgical operations, conveying thoughts rationally, calmly and accurately, and never being sloppy in laying out the turns. The article contains long paragraphs of descriptions of psychological activities, and is also the heroine's analysis of various relationships in her life. For example, Zhang Xuran's "system" collapsed when he received the shawl sent by Meng Dong before his death: "I am indispensable to him, but after the stage that belongs to me, the indispensable woman may be another one. I have never thought about it as thoroughly as I do today. I think about such a romantic and unique love, the friendship between childhood sweethearts, the loneliness and tacit understanding that we have witnessed together. If these cannot make love loyal, then what else can I give in exchange? "At that moment, I seemed to hear the rustling sound of the wind blowing through the vast expanse of withered grass. I had been wandering in such an endless prairie. The trees were dead, all the animals had run away, all that could run away. The rivers had dried up to the point where only the cracked surface was left. The skin and flesh of the animals that had died of thirst before they could move away were picked off by vultures, leaving only white skeletons hanging with debris. I was left there alone, with no supplies or transportation, and it was impossible to get out on foot. " It must be admitted that the author has a strong ability to control words. Watching Zhang Xuran struggling and mumbling to himself amidst the unexpressable emotions, as a reader, I felt sympathy. I have experienced this feeling too! Who has not loved and been loved and hurt? Reality is always crueler and more fragile than imagination! Who has never loved, been loved, been hurt, or been hurt. The supporting characters of the story are no exception. Deng Wenjie, Zhan Mingli, and Aunt Meng all have stories. The sequential staging of these stories is arranged by the author in an orderly manner. Changes in life always hurt people, and everyone needs spiritual salvation. The author is so generous, and the ending is a happy ending for both love and career. But in my opinion, this spiritual salvation is not, or not only, given by the love and companionship of the male protagonist. The heroine has a tough and powerful soul, and it is only a matter of time before she regains her confidence and courage in life. Oh yes, and the male protagonist. Fu Yirui is affectionate, dedicated, has a legitimate profession, knows how to be silent and wait long. If I have a criticism of the story, it's that the male lead is so good, so good, that he's so standard that it doesn't seem real. And for a novel whose main story is about healing emotional wounds, I think he is too ubiquitous to fully demonstrate the strength of the heroine. Of course, as a romance novel, the existence of the male protagonist is always 200% necessary. As a comforting story, it must be more fulfilling than real life.

If such a good article is not published, what does it mean that it is not targeted at young people? Are some CEO Wen Gong Dou Wen's travels through Wen Zhengwen Town so good? This article is so good. Did the publisher grow up watching stick dramas? But is this the end? It feels like there is still something to explain