Deceiving the Gods

In the romance stories, a girl only has to bare her shoulders, and her lover will be utterly bewitched.

Too bad Ali isn't my lover. By modern human standards, he's my guardian. He's raised me, protected me, and cared for me ever since more than thirteen hundred years ago. So he won't go crazy for me or be swept away by desire. He'll just toss me some clothes and tell me to get dressed before I see him.

[First-person short story, one-on-one romance, both are sexually inexperienced, happy ending]

Would this count as switching roles? The heroine takes the lead the first time they sleep together, and after that they take turns.

Theme: Be honest, don't deceive others.