Baoyu's Struggle

There are so many Red Mansions articles, this is the only one that brushes aside Sister Lin and doesn't even write the ending.

Don't apply modern people's standards to the lives of ancient people. It's meaningless. Same-wife marriage is something that only exists in modern times. On the same ideological level and in the same era, the reason for betrayal of marriage is not because of having a second wife, but because of abnormal sexual orientation. For women, this is more self-esteem-breaking than a second wife. In ancient times, women's status was low, and they could easily get lunch at any slightest sign. Survival issues were more important than anything else, and self-esteem was out of the question. They were so different from men that unequal relationships could not be considered betrayal. The two people in this story can't be said to be in love, but at least it's not love in our modern sense of the word. This Baoyu lived a very sober life. He worked hard to save many characters in Red Mansions that we are all familiar with, but he was not emotionally satisfactory. He silently accepted the ancient marriage and love relationship, so it is not a story of love but a story of struggle. It probably has something to do with the fact that Roujun is a woman. If a male writer were to write it, it would be a pure harem story, and even cousins ​​and little lolita might not be able to escape it.

Uh... I've been waiting for the couple to break up or for them to divorce their wives. In the end, it feels like they're not divorced. Isn't this just a divorce... Hey

Many people don't understand it, and it's annoying to read the comments. It's a very real and helpless story. Some people say why writing novels should be so realistic. Why don't you ask Mr. Cao about this? The reason why the author can't do whatever he wants is because this is a fanfic of Red Mansion. He is really imagining the story of how a man can break through the game when he enters the Red Mansion, but cannot break the game in the end. The so-called limitations are the annotations of the Red Mansion

Alas, this is the complete experience of an aristocratic gay man in ancient times. It is quite realistic. Without those whimsical endings, it is a very complete story.

Uh... I've been waiting for the couple to break up or for them to divorce their wives. In the end, it feels like they're not divorced. Isn't this just a divorce... Hey

Tu Xin is really selfish. He seduces Baoyu even though he knows there will be no result. After seducing him, he still marries the princess. After the two of them get married, they still don't let it go...

Gongju is already a little tempted. Shitou is a good man and will not let down the princess. 16 Seeking benevolence is enough, but now he fully understands Shitou's sadness. That sentence, Your Highness, I guess he felt the pain of an ice pick in his heart. The ice has melted and the sharp weapon is gone, but the wound remains forever. They should be friends with a tacit understanding, maybe they are still lovers, but Shitou should be loyal to the marriage. He and his soul must choose one to be loyal to his wife. So 16 is really miserable. I am tempted first. Being abandoned first (the stone widens the distance in the heart) is really the difference between ancient times and modern times. But I have to say that the stone is too good. You must know that there are many scumbags in modern times. It is actually quite uncomfortable after reading it. I have already n brushed it. This Baoyu is the one that makes me the most comfortable among all the writers.

It's very real and helpless... If Baoyu wants to change the fate of the family, he has to leave the daughter country. There must not be too much involvement with the female relatives. The length of Sister Lin, Sister Bao, and the other girls must be greatly shortened. Isn't it because the whereabouts of Sister Lin are not mentioned...

I feel that Shiliu is a contradictory person. I don't know why he thinks that a person who has married a wife and has children can still be entangled with another person with peace of mind. Doesn't he feel psychologically incompatible? From Baoyu's rejection of Mrs. Wang's choice of wife after knowing his feelings, it can be seen that he has the intention to choose not to marry for this relationship. All he needs is Shiliu's attitude. Unfortunately, the choice of this relationship is never in his hands, and Shiliu is too rational. I don't know whether his reason is because he loves Baoyu too much, or because his love is too shallow.